 George Bruno with the 21 report. We are at the 21 summit in Orlando, Florida The year is 2020. This is a big year And I'm having a talk with coach Greg Adams. Welcome to the show. Thank you very much George appreciate it. Absolutely Your first time at the 21 convention. Tell me what you think. Well, it's good to see it in person I'm just glad I got to see it in person. I've heard about it for about three or four years and I always had an idea of what it was Until I got here and saw it and you can see the people in the audience You see the men that are here committed to listening to other content creators give their message You get to see them relate to you. Hey, I watch you on YouTube and you see the man behind the screen I mean, it's just changed my idea of what the conference is the professionalism the staff the way everything is organized It's giving me a different perspective about this particular idea and I'm ready to put some more fire into it Yeah, yeah, it didn't take very long for you to just be one of the guys here like Yeah, you are now One of the guys right one of the team here and the way that I know that is I'm looking at how the Attendees are responding to you. Yeah, you can't even walk out there without being surrounded Right by guys, right. That means your message is important Sometimes you don't get it, you know, you're looking at numbers half the time. Oh, I got this many comments this many subscribers So that's how you're evaluating your message If you have a book you're looking at how many they sold but not until you meet somebody in person that says I know you and I watch you and they can recognize you just walking down the hallway it gives you a different perspective on The value you're presenting to these to the people and not only that I look at even the content creators Even the people that have big personalities Even if you don't agree a hundred percent with what they say there's a mutual respect across the board for everyone And that's important everyone understands what we're doing why we're doing it So you put all of that behind you and you don't bring any of that up No one's kind of confronting each other or arguing and saying I'm right about this Everybody has a mutual respect for the next man. So that's encouraging and it encourages you to keep going and doing what you do What would you say your main message is this weekend, right? Well, I had an opportunity to talk twice so far and I'm gonna talk one more time to the to the ladies tomorrow That's right. You're on three stages three stages. Well, so it's been a lot of work I do all of this we do the dinners and then I stay up until it's midnight here Where we are, but it's early nighttime in California time, but The first two messages I got to talk about the free agent lifestyle So that is basically the encompassing message of what I talk about That's the book that I wrote and I got to describe it of how I got there Not necessarily what's in the book But why I wrote the book and a lot of guys can relate either been divorced you had bad breakups You're dealing with children and a lot of guys can relate to that So I got to introduce some of that and then the next talk was directly to father So that was the patriarch and the idea was that there's a system that is designed to remove the masculine Man from the home. All right. What are the consequences of that? So you're talking to a dynamic group of men divorce divorce fathers men who want to have kids and There were people in the audience that I was trying to relate that message to and that could understand it on that level so Amazing opportunity to be able to talk to these people about it and a lot of people gave me great feedback from it. It's great Typically your message is for men. Yeah, that's pretty much who your audience is but you're gonna be speaking to women right soon What do you have in store for the ladies? Well, I'm gonna talk about the femininity the lack of femininity and The presence of femininity and men Okay, we're gonna talk about how they deal with femininity because in our society now Femininity and men is celebrated and for femininity and women they don't want it So the roles are actually switching a little bit and we're gonna talk about the confusion and chaos That's created from that and why we are now most there's more single women than ever There's less married people. There's the birth rates declining So I'm gonna try to put a context on that and talk about how we're basically causing confusion But the reason why we're doing it is for our own selfish needs of resources here So I'm gonna put that message into play. I'm also going to talk about the book that I wrote about feminism And we're gonna talk about why we got here. It's it's interesting to me to tell you the truth There's a group of women here that are looking For a message and they're coming to these particular groups of men forward I think that's phenomenal for them to take that step and they're willing to be open-minded and listen and Take something from it. I don't know what they'll take from it, but they'll take something I think you're gonna get a few amens in there to be honest with you right a lot of men say There's no good women out there, but from a woman's perspective When a woman looks at Her prospects in the men's community, right? The fact that you said that many men are being feminine when that's being celebrated that's got to grieve a woman They don't want that. I mean you would think they would want that. That's what the media is pushing politicians are pushing The great narrative is that they want men to show their feminine side, you know They want them to be emotional express themselves. Yeah, that might work once or twice, but that's not what they need They need a rock Most women are looking for rocks. They were looking for strong men after a while You keep presenting that presence that feminine presence to her She's gonna lose respect for you and this is the dilemma overall That women have unfortunately though. It's kind of like playing both sides of the coin They're getting the benefits of Men's femininity, right? You're okay. You don't want to be competitive in the workplace We'll take those jobs and they'll step it up for those resources. So we're at a really critical crossroads and in gender dynamics However, this group of women are saying got figured us out and they're willing to listen. Yeah, yeah You have a couple books. The first one is free agent lifestyle. Yep And you have a recent book called the evolution the evolution tell us about that basically the America's reverse engineering of American women. All right, so what feminism is is basically the reverse engineering of American women There's a lot of celebration of feminism and of course Women are in the workplace now. They're competing. They're making more money They now make up the vast the majority of the employed workers in the United States by 51% But the reality is there's been a scoreboard of feminism that they're not revealing. Okay, there's been a lot of things that have come Basically not good results from it But you're not gonna hear it unless people dig out that information and that's been a great amount of that book digging out That information and presenting it a lot of people don't like to accept the information and that's a critical word They don't want to accept that that's a byproduct of feminism, but I believe in cause and effect I believe in an equal and opposite reaction to everything. Mm-hmm. So whatever positives you got You certainly are gonna gonna get negatives people just have to accept those negatives If you don't want to accept the negatives and place blame on other things. Well, then you're not accepting the fool You know weight of feminism. So I that's the that's what the books about What is the price that come the community right has to pay for that? The community at large in the world. Yeah, there's a critical price because you got to say, you know You remove both parents from the household. There's gonna be a result that I mean I think the kids gonna the kids are suffering as a result of The gains that are made and then not only that men get disenfranchised just a bit in the workplace those job Listen when you bring in additional workers, there's not additional jobs. You just brought in additional workers, right? So if women feel jobs, that means men lost some jobs now, there's a balance You got to accept the balance and then as a result you're gonna say where we're all the good men Well, a couple of them got disenfranchised or displaced Okay, not only that you look at the family structure as a result of both people leaving the homes Kids suffered a little bit. The grades are down performances are down kids are more obese. They're less productive How do we deal with that? Who's gonna deal with it? We obviously the school is not dealing with it Well, are the parents willing to take on that responsibility or we can just point fingers right now. We're pointing fingers Men aren't strong enough women are too aggressive and we can't meet in the middle until we until we really take responsibility for The cause and effect the good parts of feminism in the negative parts. We're not gonna get anywhere Do you think you're gonna end up with some female followers after this weekend? We could I met a couple on the hallway that said they've been following me for a long time And it was like, you know one of those would have thought yeah, it was kind of like yeah, you know Yeah, sometimes I look at the analytics and I say well, there's females following me You know a good six to ten percent of the audience, but there were women who knew me they knew video titles they said I commented on this video and I'm like It's incredible to think that they're engaging with you along with the men that are engaging with you and They're contributing and they're investing in you. So when you think about that, you know You don't want to really cater the message to them, but they like the message where it is So they're saying we agree with it. Let's continue forward in this. Maybe they want to change I love it. I love it. If people want to find out more information, where can they go first thing to go? YouTube is the biggest platform if they go to my YouTube channel in the description box There's a lot of places where I to send people but if they have some problems They can go to my website Greg Adams one dot com and they'll be able to find everything there They can direct me to direct to the books. They can direct to all the YouTube channels apparel and all of that stuff I know the title coach Greg Adams Originally started with you being a coach literally a sports coach. Yep. Are you a coach now? Do you coach men one-to-one? I do coach men one-to-one. So people do reach out to me I have a place where they can reach out to me They usually do that through my YouTube and what happens is you know I was a basketball coach before that and I coach women all right I coached them for 16 years now. I'm coaching men and I'm directing them using the information that I learned being around women like Almost 24-7 and now I'm saying well, this is how I can help y'all Maybe I can change the direction of your life for providing you one bit of detail that you might not be thinking about It's a beautiful thing man. I like that. What does 2021 have in store for coach Greg Adams? What do you think well? Hopefully we can get back to moving around the country a little bit and maybe we're moving around the world And that is basically the free agent lifestyle. It's not sitting at home. You know, I want to get out move Fortunately, I've been able to make some good connections with people like you Anthony that wasn't available to me early in 2020 and now we have that hopefully we can build on that Maybe I might write a third book who knows all right, but I want to continue building the audience that I am the numbers are Going up daily. So I say they they're here for a reason. I'll keep giving them confidence I'm watching you grow and I'm watching your social media Just get deeper and wider on a daily basis and you are a lean mean Content machine you just you're I just look at my phone and like there's another video It's like how in the world do you go at this pace? It's amazing. It's crazy. I think what happens is I've learned how to do Scheduling very well. So I use these schedulers and then I spend half of two or three days recording and Then I schedule the post. So there's a lot of things going on and now I'm at the point now I have to hire someone. All right, so I've been doing this for two years and the audience has grown So crazy that I now have to bring someone in to manage just a little bit. Yeah. Yeah, yeah Well, this is completely amazing. I'm glad that we met face-to-face Absolutely, man, and I'm happy to call you a friend absolutely sir. Yep. Thanks. Thank you George coach Greg Adams known for the free agent lifestyle At the 21 summit, this is George Bruno