 F manual ngaade laja mata kake wa z 유튜�ban kukubibanana hallp胰unita Που mechanics Ate gandava ngaina Mata ngaade Lina ngaia nga Mata ngaida nga Mata nguna In real life saawa Atawewe wana jafizuri saama Opiniu na shubu media You are watching Friends Vibes All feelings are represented SS Come to yet another episode of Friends Vibes This is SPM buzz And I'm joined by two people We're going to introduce themselves Dipigeni intro My name is Kalundu Musimi The great Eddie Boutito My name is Miski Finchi And today's topic of discussion We'll see what's going on The topic of discussion is Just a note We'll see what's going on We'll see what's going on Red and green We'll see Which people? People who are close to each other It could be two opinions come in different ways This one could be on social media And another one could be in real life The people you interact with closely So whichever opinion I think it depends We don't have X1 We don't have X1 We don't have X1 But this is the public I feel like it's a trap For example, in social media What people say about your relationship Could be in a trap So you stop thinking independently Every time you want to think What you want to say What you want to say Then you say it's a single Then you say it's a relationship So I feel like It should not matter But it is influencing a lot of relationships Currently I am saying yes and no Because for social media It does not matter What people say I am dating someone who looks like you I don't care But imagine In a relationship We portray the cute couples Maldives We take care of them We laugh We laugh It is your problem What people say We don't care We don't care But most of the time We are suffering in silence I am young I want to say That is in real life Social media In real life I don't care I don't want to say That you are okay And you are not The thing is The opinion That is given on social media Where is the rule out here So sometimes They say love is blind Yeah There are things people can see So doctor media Not necessarily kuna tu na postia On YouTube channel Especially pranks Pranks reveals the real self You know kituine You can take up one of the real How couples relate in the house Watch their pranks Don't watch what they plan to do Watch their pranks You will see the side you have never seen And people will have opinions Palechi But that's not on couples Yeah But Diana Diana, Bahati, the kid So there's a way a mogan Behaved Disrespect Diana So comments Mogan is disrespecting you Na ya li kwa na jibu watu na nambia It's never that serious But they did another video Nya wali address na wakambia mogan So ono na ili opinion watu wali peyana pale Ili affect kituawa kwa naona Ju watu wengine But most of the time People see these things I mean they do for sure But sometimes you might ignore I mean I'm speaking at a point of The fear of Closing down your YouTube channel today Because you are couples And you are doing a show That's so cool And now it's done So you'd rather continue suffering in that relationship So that you don't stand as Piki kutukana, piki seba Wali kwa gana YouTube channel Wali kwa gana nene ni Mesa fisham tu migu Mika beku intelisa fisha So kifiki ria So kifiki ria So kifiki ria Nene ni , here So, where factor Oh guys, think when you get a new address Wa ok So the fact that Do you have any ideas Mandehwa na kutasima ni ni Keshop Ioni nidizis kupuga na kai Me I guarantee They're not even happy Are you like ituawa ni kumbe izo vitu zuna happen gani ile ya ile ya nda pikni kalapu wa kari enak how couples on YouTube do things wa kwa sawa on camera iki zimo tuivi we kwa enda tisha wei fana kitu na we we mendo ni me kuwe kapa domana utu wana fujua ni mimi these things are there to me they do happen because we are now acting on a stage we are now performing in theater and the audience is watching so it's about impressing the audience not one another so me and my person would rather be bad gums but the people are happy because you want to impress and it happens even on a video level kwa we na mabestizako mabestizako anapu ya na kwa ni ya vitu wana wacha na labda na mtu ako alafu na kwa kuru dia na mtu ako labda jubesti wako wata unge asema jina e imjinga kwa ni kwa biha reni ngonbe kwa wata unge asema jina e imjinga wana na reni ngonbe kwa wata unge asema jina e imjinga so these things happen the opinion on kwa inje is not influenced maybe because the society has changed relationship is no longer at two people thing and having labda labda pasia ma kancula mene ma famongeleshe mi me kwa ni ekina mtu weo kisha kwa wana kwa wata unge ase mabutsi waka ma banshu dost opinion really matter mi personali vene me sama i think the social media kwa wana biy don't matter at all but real life umu jy umu na ami e ujama ni ujama ni kwa wana umu jy umu na ami e ujama ni umu na ami e ujama ni umu na ami e umu na ami e umu ama kwa biha ibu yah ita affect Ata ni nisha 2 details to anya Kus one say, ame pa nga nga wum say Ama me tuwa na famoja In real life Ano na tu, kuna 2 details ana ona na feel Eh, uni that party ana cheki iwi Nikwa like, where red flags Sometimes jealousy Can be packaged in a creative way And appear like a constructive And sometimes you might ignore red flags Iku ange sinili kusho Sinili kusho In mafe po Awa, leta bad domain Ani one that shows it the problem And give you a solution It's very genuine that a person is telling you Toka, enda Toka Nya Tuna mademi kia jambaka onapu jahatu say Nya waza waku Kupak One week later One week later, ame hudi na jakwa niya So you as a grown up person You are taking another Your friend, like other lady Kwa ke Kumambia, wekai Pak, pak, 20 Pak, pak, pak Anapu mischana Anapu paka naishia Anapu mischana ana feeling Yata bitre yubeste ake Ano na nga tabitre yubeste ake Ano na nga tabitre yubeste ake Ano manzea ni misa ni apu Pak, to toke Akiski anima, enda manzea siyata ni darau Iko si personal Yekilam tu Na kifika kwa family Family? Kus family ni mse monyo rambia Ujama, kalondu ujama chana e Family is very Christian It happened, there are people who have been Ame pandam say la kini familia ite Namkata But me one thing I should say Famili ako na kuperezons Nena kuperezons Ame ipe ni tum tu ako Maybe I am paying your life term To move in You are the person of disaster But what do you do in such a situation Kus you see if your relatives Or your parents don't like someone Will you go ahead and settle down With them na wajaku Perezons, I am paying the two For misimawu u Atumoni the jury But they don't have a reason Perezons perezons Perezons perezons Perezons perezons Kuntresik ujama kwa senewa perezons Kansili kana e vivaya ni muli Kwa ni ni wapa perezons Kuna jo anafrika nzel Kuna na zamombiki tu kama eyo Isi, sometimes emotions will never sound something Ma dea kwa kizusha Awa mbo yako Pio zushe Mna shindi aako Akinu kiki ka fiaw Mnyaremu kwa angalia Inna Mo civilized way in Pue Na dekorab Mna zanzaku na maliliu kwa ziko Kuna tu Yes, tretresi lula kichuki Ok, inadawad Itul na ruki dauniliu Na intuzions Kwa senginu aneza kwa mbimtu ni mbae Nani impo ako ako Kwa senginu aneza kwa mbimtu ni impo ako Siwa tu traftiwa di ma waifu na maabuana Jufa mini enadani wakosao Anafu na kanae wiki moja na zakomba eyo Nani Una rudi unandu ni weni mbae Seza utansapiski eyo Na senginu na biya kuna intuzions Mada kwa na kwa mbia e Manze kuna tukitu Na usiju ni nene kuna tukitu Na usiju ni nene wacha nodyo You just leave it Amma wat you do Kwa mbata kwa na kwa mbili kuna tukitu Kuna kitu tunasiju ni nene Bata kuna tukitu abo tukitu Eyo nani kama amtaki amtaki Laki ni piyo ondo kuna amtuneza leta chalimonye labda Because finances is a big issue In every setting Kwa kwa masikini kuna tukitu Kuna kitu yo wanbili ni nene Laki ni usye pata una leta mkimoni ako na pesa Umeanza kwa abused kule nyumbani But they tell you to bumili ita isha Just because they are benefiting from your husband And that's bad And it narrows down To you Any at the end of the day it is you So are you going to massage your ego And continue hurting to the bia Or are you going to work out Because at the end of the day when you go out If you work out Kama uko jenimu Bini aizu kwa mbili I imagine if you are a people pleaser You have so much problem Because now you will feel your disappointing people You are not thinking about yourself You don't want to Disappoint that one Will you choose a spouse Because you don't want to disappoint people But may I wish The couples that you know Ok, so may kama kabiwa jiza Okina bahati Kapa loga ni ingere Oko eni I wish the lab sessions The ugly sides And how they solve Because now That creating a perfect picture Inapa nangatwe One of the people you like So many expectations So we have expectations We have expectations We have expectations We have expectations We have expectations So we need both sides To do it Iki tu na kwa gani Ni double edge this one So ingini pia na ono Ingini ono na kwa saka kukama utu kusema Oh it's crazy Juhia kenye Wase wene wa tawa ona Na piya circumstances For example Uyu Gospell Artist Wa Nigeria Una cheiki Mini Gospell Artist Wase watasema Am I leading people to divorce Kwa mbiya divorce is good I do not know the right thing for her to come out And speak about it and condemn that thing Because this is how namadi But that was entirely the fear of What will people say What will people say What will people say should not be determined Your decision making Especially when it comes to your happiness Mi pasunali I don't think I'm really controlled by people's opinion Because at the end of the day It is me, myself and I Wase watasema Wase watasema Nandana relationship Nandana relationship Nandana relationship Nandana relationship Waste generation And then when people Say for example Influential people Gospell minister Waki toka out of marriage Una nabene wana wana semwa So inki na kiyona Iwa wakon like jeez Umi siya ni semwaivi Mi na ugopa Nama I don't know why in a marriage Insema ni wakama utu kukundem Ngi na naka nda nda Ina kaka gamba ya Kuhila Kama ude nblabdange Umenza kukuna fesa nabda Umenza kukuka buna ya Kusi jwi ni ni So isi seleksamon like Dadia when He came out and you know spoke about it And he took confident Of what will people say You still continue to spread the gospel When you know your marriage is not working It sets a lot of confidence by the way And even I also remember a video By Tewa Savage When she came out and said I can't this and this This and this has been happening She's not alone right now She got back to the heart No, she's alone No, she went back She went back But now she's done But she really took a very bold step Ya, but did you see the trolls? Yes, a lot Ya, was a lot of trolls Do you know there were so many Na poeta atran na kusi apia liri Kreatio decision Now that's what's affecting people But I hope she did She was not affected Kitwatu na saya mam But what when I cut the video Ya Sometime mind about people Well before you post something Okay guys Please let us know what do you think Does people's opinion matter The decision you make The spouse you choose for yourself Let us know down on the comment section Thank you for watching Friends Vibe Until next time, keep it SPM Bad You are watching Friends Vibe All feelings are represented S S S S S S S S S S S