 This is why the narcissist stalks you. Yes that is what we're going to be talking about in this video. I have done a lot of videos on stalking and how the narcissist will watch you as you may already know but in this one I'm going to be giving some different information a new concept which I haven't spoken about before but yes the reality is it's not what you think it is you may think that they're just stalking you because they found a weakness or vulnerability or something that they can exploit and while at times yes that may be the reason but you've got to think about it like this when a predator wants to kill its prey it's just going to go after it it's just going to take it down it doesn't need to stalk it's only stalking if it's waiting for something if it's trying to find a weakness or a vulnerability that is why a predator stalks because it feels threatened or intimidated it fears that it may be attacked so this video is meant for you to realize your strength because think about it if they are stalking you if they are still watching you it's because they haven't got enough on you already to destroy you to ruin your life because if they already had everything that they needed to do that they would have done that a long time ago which is why they are still monitoring you they're still waiting and watching because they're just waiting for an opportunity they're waiting for you to slip up for you to take a fall so that they can get you at the right moment and then they're hoping that there will be no way for you to get out of it because when you're dealing with a narcissist although they may seem very sly and sneaky and covert at times they are still trying to destroy you they still want to take you down once you've caused that narcissistic injury and you've rejected or abandoned them or you've tried to expose them it is all over for you after that there is no going back there is nothing that you can do to change or fix it even if they do come back and they try to manipulate you they try to love bomb you again that doesn't change anything they're still going to have that bitterness and resentment and fear of that and no there is nothing that you can do to change it they will hold a grudge against you for life that is never going to go away and there is nothing that you can do about it it's all in their emotions they are very emotional they're very paranoid and hyper-vigilant they always feel threatened and of course that is the reason why you're always walking on eggshells around them it's like whenever you're around the narcissist but if you fear that they're stalking or watching you they're monitoring you it's like you just feel tensed up all the time like you can't move and you may get this feeling in your solar plexus and your throat may become tight you'll experience all of these sensations because what they're doing is not right it's not natural especially those of you if you were dealing with a man a male narcissist that is very weird very creepy for a man to be doing that at least with women sometimes I can understand as we know female narcissists they do want validation but with male narcissists it is very unusual a man should be secure and confident in himself he shouldn't be dependent on other people's validation but this is just how it goes with narcissists because male or female they are very insecure and a lot of times yes they are stalking you for validation for your attention and energy because those of you who are watching this right now you must be very powerful people and a lot of you may not realize it because of course as we know they like to downplay it they devalue you, they put you down they make you feel small they make you feel like you're nobody because the opposite is true but they don't want you to know that because their entire life is a lie they have this false character and they created an illusion so they're very afraid of anything that threatens that when the reality gets it is the actual illusion and the false character that is destroying them so they may not actually see it in that way but they look at it like you are getting in the way of them destroying themselves that is how they see it and yes any time that you try to be yourself around them you threaten to expose the illusion you threaten to bring them down and they didn't like that it may have traumatized them because they're all about their false self and their ego and anything you say they're hypersensitive you can't say anything right when you're around them you can't do anything without them hyperanalyzing it and assuming some interpretation or meaning to it which is why yes it is very easy to cause a narcissistic injury it's very easy to set them off and then they end up trauma bonded to you or they are seeking validation from you but of course it is very difficult for them to do that if you want nothing to do with them so of course what they have to do then is they have to try to get you dependent on them for validation and the way that they will normally do that is by traumatizing you and then coming in as this hero or saviour and getting you to depend on them for validation which doesn't really make any sense because of course the very person who hurt you is not going to be the one who saves you it doesn't work like that it will work like if you spend some time on your own to heal to self-reflect but they're never going to be able to do that for you if they cause the problem they are not going to be able to give you a solution they're only going to make things worse because if they cause that problem then obviously something is wrong with them if they traumatized you I mean it's one thing as I've said why they stalk you to come across as threatening or intimidating and that's very easy to do with these weak and secure narcissists the very fragile people but with them they are deliberately going out and seeking to harm you and that is a very different thing they do that because they're very weak and insecure which is why you do need to be on guard you do need to protect yourself you do need to be very cautious when you are around them strong people are not dangerous they will not go out seeking to harm you that is something that weak, insecure people will do strong people will desire for other people to feel strong they will desire to lift you up narcissists are weak so all they can do is weaken you but yes as I said this is why they stalk you because for whatever reason you come across as threatening or intimidating that's why they're constantly over your shoulder they're constantly on your case because there is something very special about you and a lot of times yes that is the reason why they devalue you because it felt threatening to them and of course that doesn't mean that you are a threatening person you have to remember that you are dealing with very weak people they're so weak that they have to create this false character and an illusion just think about that you've got to be weak to do that it takes strength to come forward and to be yourself and of course they don't like that they feel intimidated by it if you come forward and you do that of course they're going to want to keep you down because they're demonstrating your power you're demonstrating that you are better than them you're up here and they're down there so of course they've got to try and pull you down that's just how it works and it will always be that way because they have a void within them which is why they don't self-reflect the last thing they want to do is self-reflect and their weaknesses and insecurities they'd rather be more outwardly focused so that they can harness your energy and power and pull that out of you because that's what keeps them going that's how they survive, they are bottom feeders they feed off powerful and successful people people who are going somewhere and that's why they feel drawn to you, attracted to you like a moth to the flame it's your light but a lot of times you don't see it until someone like myself comes along and validates your experience just as someone did for me before they reveal to you that yes you do have power you do have strength but of course the narcissist wants to mislead you and make you believe that there is strength in numbers with all of their idiot flying monkeys and enablers the reality is that a lot of times no, there actually isn't strength in numbers not if all you've got is a bunch of unintelligent people who are all just out for themselves and they're not working together towards a common goal that just puts them at an even bigger disadvantage that's all that bad does it doesn't help them in any way of course they will never realise that they'll just keep doing the same things again and again expecting different results because many of them are borderline crazy but this is why I have to get on here every day and do this this is why I have to do that because I am empowering your individuality yes there is strength in being your individual self rather than being in a group with a large number of people there's nothing more powerful than standing alone with your own ideals and virtues with your own beliefs because by doing that you are validating yourself and your reality and that is where your power is as you can see it's something that they can't do they find strength in numbers in their flying monkeys and deep down yes they do know that that makes them weak of course they realise that that's why they try to trauma bond you and leave you dependent on them for validation when sometimes you just got to look back and realise that where did that ever get you listening to these narcissists believing in their lies and their stories did that ever do anything good for you did that put you in a better place of course not it never does and it never will but what will put you in a better place and it is what worked for me as well is taking some time to yourself taking some time to self reflect and heal because when you do that you will feel more powerful you will feel strong when you spend some time away from them because all they can do when they're around you is bring you down devalue you and make you lose touch with yourself but that's just it because it doesn't matter how strong you are how strong minded it doesn't matter when you get around a narcissist because they are crazy and if you're around crazy it will make you crazy it doesn't matter how strong you are in the mind just as being around normal healthy people will make you feel more normal and healthy it all depends on the people that you are surrounded by so choose your company wisely don't spend too much time around the wrong people they will only bring you down in the end you need to spend time around people that you trust and confide in people who will lift you up not people who will manipulate and deceive you people who will confuse and gas like you because yes that is all they're going to do and no you're not going to get a different result from that I can promise you that it will always be that way it is never going to change and when you finally take some time to heal and move on you will wonder what you ever saw in them you will wonder what you were ever doing around them around people who only bring you down they don't make you feel good they don't make you feel happy at the end of the day no you always feel drained and lifeless you feel like you've lost a part of yourself because you've just been mentally raped they've raped the life and soul out of you out of your body and mind so of course you're going to feel weak because you've been around weak people of course they're going to bring you down because as I said they feel threatened and intimidated by you that is why they stalk you because they sense your energy your power and they don't like it it irritates them because it makes them feel insecure inside even though you may mean well you may have even been trying to help them but a lot of times they can't even see it because they're so paranoid they believe that people are out to get them because they know the things they've done wrong they know what they've did to you so they're anticipating that you're going to take revenge on them deep down yes they do know that you're a good person of course they do recognise that that's why they talk to you because of your innocence and your good qualities but they also desire to take that away from you they want to strip you of everything that is good about you so of course in the end they are fearing and anticipating that you're going to come back to get them that you're going to expose them and of course they don't want you to do that they want to be the ones who start the smear campaign and expose you but they don't want the shoe to be on the other foot because if that were to happen you would completely destroy them you would annihilate them and after that they wouldn't even have a leg to stand on so of course nope they don't want you to do that that's why everything tends to be covert and they stalk, they watch, they monitor they're just creeping lurking around behind the scenes behind closed doors and a lot of times you may never even see them but sometimes they will play peek-a-boo you might see them following you on social media like in one of your posts you may even see them creeping in the bushes in front of your house because yes they do sense your power, your energy and they do desire to strip that away from you and they are also seeking validation as well but if they can catch you at the right moment if they can catch you off guard remember it's all about the moment to them they don't think about the bigger picture or anything long term but if they can catch you in the moment and they get you off guard they get you to react and in that moment you are given your energy and power away to them because they just tricked you they manipulated your emotions in the moment and then it makes them feel powerful it makes them feel like they're just sprouted wings and they're flying away that's the feeling they get from it this two second high it makes them feel alive and of course how could they ever feel alive when they created a false character they created this illusion which is why of course they will be heavily dependent on you for validation for your energy and your power of course they will be heavily dependent on you for that which is why yes you do need to be very cautious you do need to protect yourself you do need to be very wary of them because a lot of times when you are dealing with weak spineless people honestly you never know what they're going to do next you think they've done one thing and that's as bad as it gets but they always find a new low they get worse and worse with time because it's something to do with your energy and power no matter what you give it's never enough for them it never fills the void it never fills this black hole inside of them they always need more and at the same time it's just distracting them from doing the work in themselves and becoming better so of course with time they only become more and more set more and more crazy more and more delusional to where they don't even know which way is up anymore but that isn't your fault you try to get away from them many of you even try to warn them so there really is nothing you can do you can't reach them there is nothing you can tell them all you can do is move on and protect yourself and let them pick it out on their own but yes that's it this is why they stalk you and I am very sorry for anyone who is going through that right now I know it's not nice it's not fair you should not be stalked you shouldn't have someone on your case all of the time you do deserve some peace and time to yourself we should all have free will it's a gift given to us by gods but of course these demons will try to strip that away from you which is why you do need to keep watching my videos educate yourself on this and it will help you, it will educate you it will give you the tools that you need to protect yourself so yes that is all that you need to do anyway I'd just like to thank you all for watching another Nark Survivor Live video out here at the beach today the sun's just gone down let's throw a party okay thank you all for watching if it was helpful you can give it a thumbs up down below share and subscribe and I will talk to you in another one as always very soon