 Do this To make the narcissist Chase you You may have decided to click on this video Because the narcissist isn't paying you much attention Maybe they're off with their other supplies They're not focusing much on you and you're wondering why You're wondering what made them lose interest in you You're wondering why they're not around Personally, I advise avoiding narcissists and not getting involved with them as They usually just bring a lot of trouble to your life So there's really nothing in it for you You may just be in a trauma bond where you were chasing their validation And that's all that it really is You're chasing after a false character Because that's not who they really are So that's my advice to avoid the narcissist And if they're not chasing after you that's great, but I understand that some of you You may want the narcissist to chase after you and Of course, that is why you decided to watch this video So it wouldn't be right it wouldn't be fair if I didn't continue with this advice of How you can get the narcissist to chase you Even if it's just so you can then Discard or reject them. So this is it This is what you need to do And it will be very effective to get the narcissist to chase you You just need to take your attention away from them Because how it works with narcissists is They want to control you They want to possess you But then it's like as soon as they think that they own you and that you belong to them Then they instantly lose interest in you That is when they begin to devalue you and that is when they start seeking other supplies So you need to be hot and cold Give them some positive attention, but then be distant as well Don't be all in with them Because that is the quickest way to make them lose interest in you if you want them to chase you Put your attention on other things in your life Things that should be more important to you instead of constantly focusing on them and Worried about what they're doing or who they're with Because as long as you're doing that they know that they've got you They know you're not going anywhere. And another thing you can do is If you're at a restaurant a party or some event Let them see you interacting with someone of the opposite sex It could just be an innocent conversation But if the narcissist sees that Because they're often entertaining other supplies and they may be cheating on you They are very paranoid and hyper vigilant They're actually very jealous and insecure So if they see you talking to someone They're going to be creating these stories in their mind They're going to get very jealous And then they're going to chase after you So this is it. This is what you really have to do If you do want the narcissist to chase you you just have to be more distant Don't always be there when they need you Don't be afraid to talk to other people Because if they're not chasing you it's because they feel like they've already got you They feel like they've seen everything they need to see They figure you out, they know what you're about And that's all there is to it So you need to show them That there is more than meets the guy You need to show them that you have other things going on in your life And then you will attract their attention They will be focusing more on you Because they want to know what's going on They want to know what you're doing, who you're with, where you're going But as long as you're just staying stuck in the same place And you're not doing anything or you're very predictable You're doing the same things every day But they're just not going to wonder about you Because they already know what you're going to be doing Where you're going to be Which then allows them to just go off And entertain other supplies Because they assume that they've already got you They don't need to worry about you You're not going anywhere So you need to provoke a bit of anxiety and fear in them Where they feel like you're slipping away Where they feel like they're losing their control over you You need to make them feel insecure about the relationship And then they will become a bit more controlling They will put their attention more on you And that is how you will get them to chase you So that's really all there is to it Quite a simple video for this one It's really all you need to do But be aware that some narcissists If they are very arrogant and delusional Maybe they have a lot of other options They may not tolerate this type of behaviour from you If you give them a hot and cold behaviour As soon as you start acting cold, distant or playing hard to get They might just cut you off immediately And run off to another supply Not all narcissists will do this This tends to be more the player type The ones who have tons of options They're likely to not tolerate anything like that They want you to be completely submissive and under their control But other narcissists Who maybe They can be quite insecure, they don't have too many options Once you start acting cold and distant They will chase after you That is what tends to happen with most narcissists So that's it, that's how you can get the narcissists to chase you If this video was helpful for you You can give it a thumbs up down below Which will help to support our community You can also let me know your thoughts in the comments as well Share the video and subscribe For one-on-one coaching sessions you can book on my website It is NarcSurviver.co.uk And you can check out my Instagram as well It is NarcSurvive YouTube and Instagram I do have new pictures and videos of my travels Which I post every day on there So that's it for this one Thank you all for watching And as always I will talk to you in another one very soon