 it literally outlines, it reverse engineers how to create a healthy happy relationship with one another. See most of us don't have role models, most of us don't have a blueprint of how to integrate lives together. And this book, amongst the many others I recommend, and again the book is listed below the seven principles for making a marriage work, gives you a blueprint of how to establish a relationship together. This book right here, Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg and I Hear You by Michael Sorensen, because these two books give you a better understanding of how to communicate with one another. See many of you think of communication like this blah blah blah blah or more so like this blah blah blah blah. Remember that from Charlie Brown?