 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم الحمد لله يوضى العالمين الحمد لله الذي يجيب نحينه وناديه ويسترى علي كل عورة وناغصيه ويعظم النعمة علي فلا وجازيه نحمده ونسبكه ونقدسه على ألاه ونعمائه ونشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له إلها واحدا أحدا فردا وصمدا وفي يوما نوضى لكه بالأوروبيتي ونكره لكه بالأورودي من يحذي الله فهو المحتدي ومن يوضى فلم تجد له وليا المشنر ونشهد أن سيدا لحمد عبده ورسوله والصل علي الله وسلمة لله ونحاكم لذي ربه على الدين كله الله وصل وسلم وبارك وترحم على محمد وجال محمد كعوضا ووصليت ووصلنت وباركت وترحمت على إبواهِم وعالي إبواهِم في العالمين إنك حميدا بجيد وصل الله أمَّ على جميعô مبيعي والورسمين والأوصياء والصديقين عتوة نبيك ضيبين الظاهرين المعصومين ولا خيال من صحابتهم المنتجمين ومن تبيعهم لإحساننا وإيمان من يميقين عباد الله وصيكم وأصي نفسي بتقوى الله ورزوم أمره أعوذ بالله عشر ضان رجيم بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم وإذا سألك عباد عني فإني قريب وجيبوا دعوة الدعي إذا دعان وليستجيبوا لي وليقمنوا بي لعلهم يرشدون صدق الله العليه والعليه اللهم سنعلم حمد وعلي في الوصول الثلاثة وعليه يجب علينا أن نتكلم جميعنا ومساعدنا ومساعداتنا ومساعداتنا with الله سبحانه وتعالى في هذه الثلاثة يوجد ثلاثة عبادات يوجد ثلاثة عبادات يوجد مثل فعندو في الوصول الثلاثة وعليه وعليه وعليه وعليه في مكان واحد يوجد فعندو وعليه وعليه كل هذه ثلاثة عبادات يجب علينا أن نتكلم يجب علينا أن نتكلم ويجب علينا أن نتكلم أولا هو الوصول الثلاثة مع الله أين نتكلم؟ يجب علينا أن نتكلم في هذه الثلاثة عبادات أين نتكلم عن هذه الوصول ماذا is the distance between me and my Lord ونستطيع أن نتكلم نستطيع أن نشعر one of the ways of measuring the level of faith and commitment to God is at the time of sins if you want to know your relationship how is your relationship with God examine yourself at the time of sin if the power of resistance is great the power of resisting the sin is great then your distance is also great the distance is very close with Allah SWT so this is what we have to work at the relationship with Allah Allah SWT has to be the focal point of our life this is number one the Hadith says من أصلح فينا بينه وبين الله أصلح الله فيما بينه وبين الله if you take care of this relationship between you and God God is going to take care of your relationship with people أصلح أمر آخيرته أصلح الله له أمر دنيا if you take care of your affairs of the Akhir you are concerned about them you prepare for them أصلح الله له أمر دنيا the worldly affairs in this life Allah is going to take care of them Allah says put your focus like the father like the mother who say to their children you focus on your school on your studies we will take care of your life don't worry about your life don't worry about your expenses we want you to focus on your school on your future الله سبحانه وتعالى says focus on the Akhir I will take care of your dunya don't worry a lot about the dunya we always worry about the dunya our main concern in this dunya is the sustenance the risk how can I protect my family myself how can I make money how can I live longer these are our concerns Allah says don't put this as your concern I am there I will take care of you think about the Akhir this life is short lived this life is short lived you are going to pass it through this life don't make this life your focal point concentrate on the next chapter of your life on a chapter that has no end an endless chapter that one has to be your concern not this life do you want to be protected there is a good way of protecting yourself a protection by God that's the best type of protection when you keep reminding yourself وَمَنْ كَانَ لَهُمْ إِنْ اَفْسِيْدِ وَعِفْ we have to keep reminding ourselves we have to keep telling ourselves what is right and what is wrong we have to keep advising ourselves if we advise ourselves then Allah is going to protect us against deviations against dangers that is the first part of this relationship the second part is yourself I mentioned last night is that the most important thing in this universe is yourself your soul to work on your soul to train your soul your nerves to control yourself the reason why we fast for 30 days is mentioned in Surat Al-Baqar is mentioned why do we fast there is a goal there is an objective for that there should be some result لعلكم تتقون عليكم الصيام كما كتب على الذين من قبلكم لعلكم تتقون تتتقون here the meaning of تتتقون is self-control you attain self-control you are able to watch what you say what you do your behavior your relationship this is the second area where we have to work on our relationship ourselves and then أمير المؤمنين علي صراك والصناب says بنتسالا يوماه فهوم اقون do not let your two days be equal equal in achievement don't every day is an opportunity for us every day is a day of growth and development and maturity philosophers say in this universe there is the microcosm and macrocosm microcosm is me and you human beings but the macrocosm is this universe this universe is developing growing day by day hour by hour this universe is growing and expanding we have to do the same also the human being also have to grow we are growing we are becoming older day by day and we have to grow also spiritually and mentally and religiously and ethically we have to grow when you look at your age there should be a difference between this year and last year this year in terms of contact in terms of أخلاق manners relationship has to be better than last year and next year has to be better than this year when تساوى يوماه فهوم اقون if your two days are equal then you had you had done nothing to yourself وَمَنْكَانَ أَمْسُرُهُ أَفْضَلَ مِنْ يَوْمِهِ فَهُمَنْعُونَ if if your yesterday was better than today last year was better than this year then you are a real loser وَنْعُونَ is someone who did not receive God's mercy and God's blessing that's the second area the first area is not Subhan Allah the second is ourselves and third is the people around us we are fathers we are mothers we are family members every Muslim I say to those who fast those who don't want to fast don't want to pray they don't know God I can't address them I have no access to them but those who fast those who recite the Qur'an some of you recite the Qur'an once whole cycle during the month of Ramadan some of you twice some of you three times those who read the du'a during the nights of Ramadan they have to realize that they have a bigger responsibility than others a believer has a bigger responsibility in this life than non-believers why? because you are connected to Allah you are connected to the source of guidance you are connected to the source of love to the source of compassion to the source of forgiveness therefore you have to be the jewel in your family if you are ten people in your family ten brothers and sisters you have to be the best of them the best does not mean that you are the most handsome although Alhamdulillah all of you are handsome I don't mean economically you are the best I mean morally and ethically and Islamically and religious and social you are the best in the family the mu'min is the one who is the jewel of his family the jewel of his family and his family so you have to be the bridge builder bridge builder in your family if two people in your family they don't talk to each other you have to be the ambassador ambassador of peace reach out to them don't say I'm busy with my life this is none of my business let someone else do that you are doing the du'a you are doing the pu'an you are performing the salat the fasting so we have to see the result in your life in your practical life what's the point of all those to head to the du'a if my life is the same or similar to someone who does not know God what's the point so you have to reach to others your family should be the strongest family in the community the healthiest family in the community your children should be the best your husband should be the best your wife should be the best because of you you can make a difference my friends we are the ones who can make a difference in this life not these buildings we the humans when you carry human heart there is nothing similar to your heart nothing similar nothing more sacred more important in the eyes of Allah than your heart لا تسعني أرضي وسمائي ولكن يسعني قنب عبدية المؤمن somewhere that God chose to live in your heart is living in your heart so that heart has to be a functioning heart a heart that reaches out to others and build peace and compassion and forgiveness how many times we asked Allah last night during the nights of Qadr and also the last 10 days of Ramadan to forgive us oh Allah forgive me I did this I did that please forgive me shouldn't I be a forgiving person too I have to forgive also but if I keep the grudge in my heart and the hate against this person and that person and that person and this family then God is not going to listen God says listen to me I will listen to you you need my forgiveness you need my forgiveness I will give you my forgiveness you have to be forgiving too you have to be forgiving too these three relationships we have to work on that we have another other nights of Qadr coming the night of it could be the 23rd which is Saturday the 25th the 27th the odd nights in the month of Ramadan the last 10 days of Ramadan anyone of them could be later to Qadr the night of destiny the night that determines our destiny our fate our journey our happiness in this life let's go back to our Allah let's go back to our Allah these 10 nights don't miss out on these 10 nights there are a lot of grants and blessings Allah will offer so you have to be smart you have to be smart to be able to get them to receive them it depends on you it depends on your effort on your sincere effort what is required here two main things our intentions has to be true and honest and the heart has to be cleansed and clean and you ask Allah سبحانه وتعالى بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والأصلي إلا الذين أملوا أملوا الصالحات وتواصلوا بالحق وتواصلوا بالصب وصفوا الله وسلم على سيدها محمد وأهل بيجتها الطيبين اقفاهرين