 what's going on guys welcome back to another video so life has been pretty crazy lately very non-stop we've been super busy very very very busy but productive which is a good thing yeah it gets overwhelming at times but we feel like we haven't been uploading as much as we used to on youtube so um we asked you guys on instagram to ask us any questions that you guys might want to know you guys want to be you know updated on or kept in the loop so i will go first i don't have as many as she does she has like almost twice as many followers than me so get my followers up go and follow us right now on instagram right here but yeah you ready are we gonna be moving in 2024 2024 i would say our goal is to definitely buy a house i guess we can tell you this now that it didn't happen but we were actually supposed to close on a house earlier this year and for numerous reasons we just weren't able to but we just took it as like as a sign like it just wasn't our time yet and crazy to find out afterwards when we didn't close on the house jenice wasn't even in love with the house so i was like why were you why were we gonna buy it if you didn't love it i was just like i mean if it's something that it's like a good price or whatever like i everyone says like your first home is it gonna be like the home you're obsessed with so i was like whatever but i went into it like i was just like not feeling it honestly so everything happens for a reason so hopefully the next time well the next time will be better yeah we're definitely gonna get a house hopefully fingers crossed in 2024 and hopefully this one that we you know one that we both love yes guys did your mom give birth yet oh my god i gave an update maybe like a couple of months ago that yes my mom already gave birth my brother's one year birthday party is actually gonna be in january yeah two months so yeah that's that she gave birth almost a year ago guys yeah have you sent out wedding invitations yet invitations know however you guys as well as other people know when the date is because we announced it i believe on our we actually announced it on youtube but we also um announced it first i think on tiktok so yeah um invitations not yet however the date is set yeah we did send out save the dates yeah um but that's not necessarily invitations so invitations are soon to follow are we gonna be doing vlogmas this year i'm not gonna lie guys i'm i really do not want to do vlogmas this year i don't i really don't how do you feel uh i think vlogmas has changed a lot since i don't know you how youtube has changed since like five years ago yeah so i think that vlogmas at this plane is just posting every single day it doesn't really pertain 100 to christmas and we did vlogmas last year and honestly i just feel like we're both in the same boat we kind of aren't feeling vlogmas until we have kids it'll probably be different different ballgame yeah it's gonna be great right there that type of stuff right there but as of right now no we are not doing vlogmas this year yeah no sorry guys we're gonna be doing christmas content so you know stay tuned for that but we just don't want to do the whole 25 days straight it gets very tiring it's very overwhelming it's not as easy as you guys this one is very ironic it's been a while since we saw the bends did you sell it i will let i will let you answer this and you can go as detailed or not as you want no i did not sell the bends i still have oh well it's ironic that this question was asked all i'm gonna say is if you guys like i said if you guys really want to know us and our real real lives go to our vlog channel there will be an update with that type of stuff coming up really really soon yeah let's just say for right now i didn't sell the bends but it the bends is not here though gone yeah the bends isn't here it's not sold but it's not here and it's no longer mine they're like what the hell do you mean by that it's not sold i just don't have the bends anymore go to the vlog channel there's gonna be a video dropping pretty pretty soon about that like really soon so yeah do you guys plan on buying your home in jersey or florida i am not buying a home in new jersey if i'm not gonna lie if i was like rich rich yes i would i would have a home in cali jersey florida new york but nah i'm i'm sticking to florida yeah i mean hopefully down the line we would be able to have two homes and that would be great but right now no just florida we're sticking with florida the weather's nice people are nicer too uh when are we having a child hopefully no promises hopefully after the wedding yes and that's just keeping it real so it could happen a month after it could happen six months after you will find out just like we will it might even happen before all right i did not expect that i'm with that i'm excited for that one let's go as a can we have a car channel please i think it's also ironic that someone says that because my what did i tell you this morning with my car oh i was gonna say that's not really ironic because you're making it seem like you're gonna make a car channel so i'm in the works with my car right now i'm not gonna say exactly what i'm trying to do however there's things going on with my car just like there's things going on with her car things are definitely changing yes vlog channel go to our vlog channel i'm telling you you're gonna find the answers there what is the future of the channel and what's coming i like that that's a good question that's a really good question that's a good question future of the channel honestly we're keeping it pretty chill here same old type of content i feel like what we're really trying to get into is our vlog channel and really take that serious and build that up because i feel like there we're gonna be able to be ourselves and just be more transparent with you guys with like life events things going on personally with us i just feel like you guys are really get to know like the real us on that channel so i know i've said it already but seriously vlog channel go subscribe any collab videos soon how do you feel about collab videos now i just don't uh because we used to do collabs it's a hard question i just want to just be a hundred percent open and honest i just feel like collabs back then we're just to say that you've collabed with someone and i feel like with us that was never our intention with collabs it was kind of just like we wanted to make friends and then we i don't know realize that it's just more business than anything yeah like and it doesn't feel genuine so i just feel like uh us and i feel like a lot of our friends feel the same um it's just like collages aren't a thing anymore it's just not something like that we care for honestly uh isai and i speaking for us we just rather just make friends and uh leave the content to us and that's it my last question is what are some of your 2024 goals me personally my 2024 goal my ultimate one is to 100 buy house because i feel like we were super freaking close on getting it this year but for numerous reasons we just couldn't and now it's like i want it not that we couldn't we just didn't we could have made it happen it just wouldn't have been to our liking yeah let's put it like that but yeah it's gonna be mine is to get a house that is like my ultimate goal well honestly i'm kind of thinking about a personal goal my personal goal is to just really take uh my fitness and health very seriously and that's pretty much all that i'm like really trying to lock in with same which is why you guys see me recently and like you know cut off t-shirts or whatever we've been taking our fitness journey a little more serious so yeah yeah your questions all right onto my questions let's see majority of my questions are pertaining to our wedding any theme ideas for your wedding um we can't really say there's not a specific theme because i know a lot of people do like winter theme or like fall theme just know it's going to be we don't have a theme though do yeah no it's really just what we like the colors and stuff that we just know it's gonna be very beautiful and that's all i'm saying i can't wait for our wedding it's gonna be so fun it is it's gonna be freaking crazy i can't wait to get my ring too oh yeah i want a nice i want a nice one all right okay i want all that with yours go all out well yeah i'm not wearing my ring right now because somebody's probably gonna comment about that i just realized that now i am offended babe you just cleaned all of our jewelry you don't even have your earrings on oh shoot i feel naked so i say is i don't have my chain oh my god yeah i don't have my chain on either i said just clean all of our jewelry so it's drying right now whoops sorry yeah i'm like bro you just clean our stuff why are you offended what do you guys want for the first baby a boy or a girl i know this is very cliche to say ultimately team healthy baby however i would love a boy first um i feel like every guy would say that but for my reason i would want a boy first because then if we do have a girl he can protect his little sister yeah i just feel like it's i don't know security wise it's better like that whatever happens happens obviously you can't choose i'm actually in the same boat like i feel like something i feel like i'm just giving boy mom like i helped raise a lot of girls and i just feel like it'd be cool to experience like raising a boy a lot of people we talk to they think we're gonna have a boy as well just like based off our like personalities i guess but yeah we'll see yeah we'll see what makes you pick hazel to be your maid of honor i love the choice by the way love you both we love you too i've been getting a lot of questions about that and i just feel like to make a long story short hazel's been a very very good friend to me from the beginning i've had a lot of like tough relationships friendships not to get too personal but i just feel like she's just such a genuine person she has such a good heart and i just i have so much love for her like her mylo are literally the most genuine people that we've ever met and they're just people who at this point have turned into family and i would literally do anything for them so that's why i chose hazel to be my maid of honor oh my goodness guys all of you are like is the baby coming in 2024 like that's just all i see it might it might he or she might he or she might someone said would you ever consider doing a makeup brand i'm not i can't see you doing that no i'm not i'm not like like if you would have asked like 2015 me i would have absolutely said yes but i'm not really into makeup anymore like i used to be you've got some stuff in the works like what you want to do obviously i'm not going to buy she's she's working on stuff numerous things i am working on numerous things it's it's oh my gosh do it already i can't even share it because it's just so nerve-wracking to like just do it already just come out with it not like that no not now i'm just saying like everything that you've been working on just start like you know show the world eventually eventually everything will come to light but i am working on things but it's not in the makeup world at all will you guys be filming the wedding and posting it on youtube of course bro we already got as far as like the wedding stuff everything's not everything a majority of the stuff is pretty much finalized like we already got our photographer we got a videographer we got our dj the venue event planner like it's literally the small little things that are left wait until the wedding guys i'm telling it's gonna be so freaking fire i can't wait somebody said what contraceptives have you been using to prevent pregnancy pull out nah nah um as you guys know she has endometriosis if you guys don't know now you know um but she takes a medication called my fembry which is basically to control her endometriosis and unfortunately when you're on that medication you cannot pregnant it is possible but it's not going to be a good pregnancy at all um it could be a fatal pregnancy so we kind of just bore mindful of that yeah we like to take precautions yeah like i said pull out what are the honeymoon plans i don't want to say that no i don't want to say that we're going out of the country i will say that out of the country for sure but we're not going to say where we're going we will say though that we will say though that it has a volcano we'll say that and no it's not hawaii hawaii is part of the country it's part of the 50 states it's not hawaii yeah it's not hawaii it's literally out of the country like out there and it has volcanoes yeah so it's going to be a vibe give me one more solid one let's get one last good one in will you guys be having a big or small wedding i feel like we answered this didn't we not really big or small wedding the guest list is going to be pretty small yeah it's not going to be anything too crazy on the guest list as far as the wedding itself is it going to be big i don't want to say it's going to be big i don't want to say it's going to be small though but i think i can describe it i think it's just me personally it's just gonna be beautiful with like intimate people okay so and we're getting lit yeah i as far as the invitation list like asia said it's not going to be a big invitation list meaning uh we didn't decide we decided no plus ones or anything like that because we feel as though the people that love us the most and the people that were there and supported our relationship 100 from the beginning deserve to be there and i personally never liked the idea of having strangers at my party or at a big life event like that i understand like plus ones are like oh like i want to feel comfortable but we made it a thing where everybody has somebody that they know that they won't be uncomfortable with so it's going to be like you know my group of friends and then you know like her group of friends and my family her family kind of thing so you know everybody is pretty much going to know each other yeah so and as far as like the venue i'll just say this it's not really a venue i freaking i i love the place we picked i just freaking love it so much the view everything it's isolated it's private we're gonna have security there so don't nobody try to pull up exactly they're gonna be armed at that arm security yeah but yeah it's gonna like i just love everything about our wedding that's why i can't wait for it like it was stressful in the beginning like starting to plan it but now everything's like finalized and you start to see the vision it's gonna be freaking crazy it's gonna be amazing and i still am getting questions of like who's in your bridal party again i said this on instagram i have not asked everyone i still have two more people that i have to ask um so and yeah that's all i have to say once i once i tell them and ask them then you guys will know yeah that was the last question so if you guys ever want to see like a part two of the q&a make sure you guys let us know the amazon instagram comment down below any questions you guys might have we'll probably be doing these i don't know maybe like once a month or something like that but yeah what all that being said guys we hope you guys enjoyed today's video we hope it was informative we wanted to keep you guys updated in the loop but with all that being said we'll see you guys in the next video