 Hi, she was seven. I'm back. Okay, so I had some topics that I was supposed to cover and Y'all hold on one second. Let me go look at my notes because I forgot the topic. So I'll be right back Okay, so I remember it now How do you get to the point where a man wants to introduce you to his family? How do you get him to introduce you to his family when he hasn't mentioned it or if you just want to meet them? Okay, I don't know how old y'all are depends on your age if you're all if y'all are still young like in your 20s A lot of guys in their 20s are not really going to introduce who they're dating Now if y'all are exclusive if y'all are girlfriend boyfriend He probably will introduce you, but if y'all are just dating and you'll have it, you know Said this, you know, I'm your girlfriend. You're my boyfriend It's probably not gonna happen unless it's by accident or He's one of those people that bring home girls all the time and it's no big deal because guys don't bring home Women to meet their parents unless they're serious about them. Okay so if you're a girlfriend and you've been dating somebody for a long time and If their parents probably won't approve you, they're not gonna introduce you to them And they might be serious about you, but they know that their parents want to prove you So they'll try to avoid the subject Now I'm gonna tell you like if you know that their parents would approve of you And they just don't want to introduce you to them. Here are some techniques you can kind of do to help Hurry it along if you were like want to meet their parents Because sometimes it's not you it's their parents Sometimes they're embarrassed of their own parents and they don't want you to see their parents and a lot of times Women are like, oh, he doesn't want me to be his mom because he doesn't think I'm getting them and then sometimes it's the other way around y'all sometimes They don't want you to meet their parents for a certain reason. Okay. What they might be? Alcoholics they might be severely overweight. They might you know be Crazy they might act strange they might have a crazy house. They might be a hoarder You don't know the reason so to get emotionally upset about not being in the parents It's kind of strange because you don't know why he has introduced you to them yet so You need to get more information out of him like start talking about his childhood start asking him About his family, you know, and once he opens up to you, you know, he'll start telling his stories He'll start mentioning things and you'll kind of get a clue as to why He probably has not introduced you yet or if there's something wrong on the family side. Okay, because like I I Didn't meet my husband's family until last year y'all and we've been married forever Why there was a lot of complications there that I thought it was me for the longest time and it wasn't me at all It was them he Grew up in the country on the country country country country and I think he was embarrassed of The way that they were or something like that because he thought I was like all this and all that You know snooty and you know You know But I wasn't he just you know, he didn't think that I would approve of his family So after years after we had kids Then he felt comfortable enough to invite them over and also I don't know if they had some issues as well like You know because he's very successful and I don't know if they like always used to ask him for money I'm not sure. I didn't like of course. He's not gonna tell me because that's his private family business And who wants to talk about their own mom? All right So a family met them last year than our kids and sometimes it's not you it's them It's the family that they don't want you to witness So and if it's not the family and you know that they're decent people and that there's nothing to be embarrassed about then you need to introduce him to your parents and Before you arrive to meet your parents You need to tell your parents to kind of help you out in this department and tell them Hey, ask about his mom ask about his dad ask when they're gonna introduce me Ask me we can all get together for dinner one night as a whole like like put all your two sits in and make make it Seem like that. He's lacking and falling behind and he's not being a gentleman by not introducing me Just y'all know how moms do our dads do they like they talk too much and It's not really inappropriate because you're in their house. Anyway, so Help have your mom help you out. Okay, for example, you bring your guy over to meet your parents Or your mom and she says, oh, how are you? Oh, okay. My name is dad. So So, um, yeah, so meeting the family, huh a big step, huh? Have you introduced her to your family yet? You know, you know moms will just say stuff Okay. Well, maybe next week And maybe then we can all get together and you know have dinner You know, and I would really like to meet your your folks too, you know, if they put it out there like That was my computer. So if they put it out there like that, he'll be more Pressured to introduce you Because now he wants to impress your mom and if he doesn't do that then You're gonna go back and tell your mom that he's she's not gonna like him as much And then he loses points, you know, if he's really wanting to be with you, okay? So and then you can use it as an excuse when you met my parents I'm ready to meet yours. What's wrong with me? You know, is it your and then like you can play the reverse psychology role, too It's like, well, is it your family? Are you embarrassed or something? You know, I don't care about any of that You know, we can do Skype we could beat on Skype whatever whatever you need to do I just want I just need to know that you take me seriously enough to introduce me to your family Otherwise, you know, you know, it's just going to be something that I'm always gonna be thinking about in the back of my head And might resent you for it, you know, so make sure you put that in there And if that never if that doesn't work and you're down to your last straw when he wants to get intimate You hold back and he's like, you know what? I don't you know, I don't even think we should be doing certain things anymore I mean, I'm not good enough to your family So, you know, that's just I'm not in the mood right now. I just don't feel it right now I'm sorry and kind of bummed out because you know play the victim role y'all So until he introduces you to his family, you know, cut him off sexually if if you have to Take that step in order to meet the parents, you know, it's very and they believe in that will work He will either introduce you to him or break up. Okay. That's gonna work And like don't always like aim for the family like the main family first go for like the cousins and the brothers and after you meet The cousins the brothers and the sisters Then gradually go to the mom and the dad So if he's introducing you to his cousins and his brothers and his sisters, that's cool When he finally introduces you to his mother, it's after they give their approval of you as siblings So you'll kind of have to wait on that type of stuff I know it's crazy and it's rules and all this stuff, but you got to play the game. You only got to play the game Okay, so a lot of people I've been saying, okay Well, you making all these videos about this this net and how you should hold out for the many Me and your dreams or minutes that can take care of you or You know blah blah blah blah and you haven't showed us any proof that you have any of this So today I'm gonna show y'all some proof y'all Okay, people have been asking me for pictures. So basically my friend took these pictures This is our wedding that's me my husband and we were married on a yacht Yeah, yeah, that's me my friend y'all she's from Bangladesh She's the one that took these pictures They did not have HD back then Okay If they did we didn't have it on our phones, I mean on our cameras, okay, so this is me my husband and mix pro on a cruise and This is This is us on the beach and This is us in the cab ride From the airport to the hope to the resort So, yeah, we just you know we've traveled we've done a lot of fun stuff you've gone out to eat eat and scram So, yeah, yeah, man, that's our feet and no in the water see how clear it is. Oh, okay. This is when This is when I was we were at the beach. I was pregnant here y'all That's him and y'all gonna laugh but he brings he brought a briefcase to the beach y'all That's how serious he is by his business y'all business Okay, get you a fitness man Y'all might y'all he might bring a briefcase to the beach But believe me If he's always working, then that's that's when I was pregnant. He's reading books. He's always working. That's a good sign for you, right? Work to the beach. That's a good sign for you Because at least y'all are out and having fun and he's still making his money. Okay. This is my mom y'all This is my mommy She was a little tipsy there Okay So that's pretty much it. This is my dress I Have my wedding album too, but I don't want to like get it out Just show y'all This is my wedding album And see if I can get a decent picture Here's some So I thought I would share this with y'all This just you got me on a boat on a yacht This is the yacht But we got married kind of hard doing like she'll kill Yeah, that was pretty much it. Oh And at our reception It was on the deck of the yacht when he's taken off the garter. We had DJ and everything They actually we had made our own wedding CD And so the garter song to take off the garter was called digger by Kanye West So we played that it was hilarious Because you know what a lot of people will try to give you labels and names and will you only marry for this reason and that reason And I'll try to make you feel bad for your choices and what you want out of life And if you listen to those people and let them make you feel bad for having higher standards then You know, it's only because they know they can't get it Okay, they it's only because they've been brainwashed to tell themselves that they don't deserve that every woman deserves that Okay, young every woman deserves their Night and shining armor every woman deserves that People have made it so bad now that they brainwash women into thinking that they don't deserve it And they're supposed to be a hard worker for the rest of their lives and take whatever it's given to them But it's just not true. It's just not true When you make your mind up here the rest follows, okay If you've made your mind up here, you don't deserve such things in that You have to work hard to earn your living for the rest of your life And you have to struggle and that you have to pay 50% of everything living with a grown man If you made it up in your mind here, that's what you want to do Then that's what you're gonna do. I mean women can contribute here and there they can do little work on the side They can do part-time jobs. They can come in the relationship having things already but to have to have to You know Be a slave to society To have to go out there and bust your butt to come home and struggle with the grown person Who's supposed to be your provider and protector? It's a very much of a turnoff and a lot of men Wonder why women are never in the mood when they're just not feeling it anymore They're not no longer attracted to them And this you know, it's it's mental, you know, women aren't built to go out and work hard like I mean Our bodies aren't built to go out work hard like a man hustle like I mean our bodies aren't built for that Our bodies are for nurturing Pleasures childbirth, you know Being feminine and soft it's not Created to go out and do what a man is supposed to do if it were we would look just like them We wouldn't have boobs. We wouldn't have curves. We wouldn't be smaller in stature And you know We would be able to do the exact lift the exact same weight We would be able to have the upper body strength that is needed to actually put in work We would have to have a more logical mind to solve certain issues According to certain types of work We would have to be less emotional to deal with certain stresses out there And we're just not built that way and that is science that is human nature and to force us into that Is brainwashing, okay, so I'll see y'all later