 Okay, number three, even if you're right for each other, the timing might be off. So there's a lot of reasons why two people might not, it might not work. Even if things are, you feel like you guys are perfect for each other, if the timing isn't right, it might not work out, right? I know a lot of people that have been in situations like this where they found somebody and they had really, everything was really great, but there was something that ended up happening. One person was like, I have to move to the other side of the country or to another country. I have to move to this other country and it's something that I absolutely have to do. And the other person's like, well, I can't move there with you, right? And so the timing was just off. Or for instance, sometimes guys will be in really bad financial situations and he's perfect if he could be there present for you in your relationship, but he can't be because the timing is off and his financial stuff is messed up. And for men, most men feel like they need to have their financial stuff situated because it's a part of being a man, having kind of your financial things and being able to take care of things and being able to be a provider and all that kind of stuff. And so sometimes if things aren't right, it seems like everything's perfect between you two, but if the timing's off, it just might, it might not happen. And my suggestion is to continue dating if this happens and be open to someone who is right and the time is right. And so because for that guy, it might never come back where the timing's right or it might, and you just have no idea and you don't want to be just waiting for that to happen. And so stick to the plan, stick to the plan. That's, that's what you should do is stick to the plan. I mean, if there's something else that's going on and you don't need to stick to the plan and it's better to not stick to plan, don't stick to the plan. But my suggestion is that when in doubt stick to the plan, stick to the plan. Does everybody hear that stick to the plan? Okay.