 About being a leader and I teach a lot about this. It's about leading. It's what women want. That's what everybody responds to Really, I think the whole world including a lot of even leaders are actually kind of sheep They're always looking for something who's a little bit more certain. How certain did he sound at that last one? All right, so let's bring in the cool Add to positivity. I want to like you man Hey, what's up guys? How you doing tonight? I'm Sean. Good to meet you, man Mmm, what's up, dude? All right, what you guys think? It wasn't bad it wasn't bad Maybe come in a little bit more attention around the bat and add more positivity. Okay smile smile a little bit more Yeah, you know animations are fantastic for two. Hey, what's up guys? How you doing over here? Hold on one second like I don't even want to look I just want to respond emotionally to it So when you come when you show up? Command my attention and command attention is like like kind of we said like hey, I Remember as Orlando last time I spoke at the the convention in 2009. I had three students and this was on Sunday and we're out in the middle of the street and One of the things about you know if you're doing like street game or talking girls in the street is that you you're your greatest Tool in your arsenal is your voice whether it be the club or in the street This is why it's very similar. They were very purposeful. They're going somewhere So I was like with the guys are like hey, excuse me girl 30 minutes way I mean 30 30 feet away. She's walking the street. I guess there's like a geno's pizza or something like that and Girls like she's just walking this girl. She's like, huh? And she runs over to me. That's the power of the voice same thing if you can command the attention And I've got a whole fantastic opener for this just like start off on the right foot if you can command the attention then instead of you know approaching 10 girls and One of them like allows you to talk to them You know you can open 10 out of 10 times every time But you have to command the attention first Pettably see it my favorite thing just like, you know first is your voice your eye contact And a tap those are probably your three best like in a club But your voice is absolutely the most important and it's like babies girls are in clubs like talking to babies like I'm in I'm in Brazil I mean, you know Iceland, Sweden, Switzerland, whatever, whatever country on my band They don't speak my language. They respond to my tonality. They're at least, you know that No one story is like resin Florence many years before I even got into all this like yeah The girl I just kept on telling I was like I'm from Texas I'm on Texas like like the TV show Dallas. She's like, oh Dallas and that's all she knows I was doing my shitty Spanish at the time and Yeah, and they're poking up with her just didn't speak any any any language But we spoke the same language of desire and the tonality is like I would just you know talking in this masculine and acting as masculine is what I call being a man talking in the Feminine is what I call being weird. So some guys have seen some videos and I there and it's like don't be weird It's not about like don't be your unique self and like express yourself. It's about what's weird is what we've already experienced guys acting not like men sometimes you just remove the weirdness and Then all of a sudden you just got a really solid dude and girls like that We're only making it more complicated. It really is Every single one of you guys come from a long line of closers just to be sitting in your seats right now We're behind the camera millions of years of closers Like you guys at your core I Have to believe and everybody has to believe that you know what you you got to do Sometimes about giving that permission sometimes about leading you to being who you are. There's a lot of bad conditioning There's good conditioning back condition We all have a lot of bad condition married parents or dad wasn't a pimp or whatever. There's also bad conditioning You know if I just get a guy in program who's just like who's just like, you know, I just Saw this site online and I was like, I'm gonna sign up for boot camp You know, I just broke up my girlfriend or I just got a call I just got a high school or or you know, I'm just fed up with what results I've got in my life usually people come to me in times of change usually breakups post college social circles gone You know, maybe post high school or post high school or they're just sick of the frustrations Sorry Cool, I'm on. Okay, so let's just bring oh Just conditioning Conditioning there's good and bad conditioning good conditioning is about getting a good game plan That's going to actually keep taking you forward keep building confidence If you're not getting good game plan you should not keep building confidence You're not getting a good game plan. There's things I called bad conditioning It's not just from your parents if it was just social conditioning is a problem My job would be infinitely easier anymore some of my the for a long time some of the biggest problems that I've had is like what I call like my bad pickup conditioning and it's Man David Gingel said I need to be stick my cock out and do this and girls are gonna look at my cock No All right, you know so much like how many guys go out to clubs And it's like I've got to approach 30 girls if I hang out with my buddies I have to be talking to girls at all the time so much bad conditioning, you know, like you know Come sometimes just removing the weird. It's understandable. You have to practice you want to practice and you want to work on some stuff a lot of guys like You know that marketing they just make it their identity and I Make it very simple So bring the cool Show you who you are good Hey We're all the ladies tonight man. This place is usually we're possibly smile smile smile. Yeah Like it's gonna come off. It's good. It's everybody's gonna know Hey guys, where are all the ladies at time man? This place is dead. It's usually pop tables or chairs Whatever dude much better. That's small made a huge difference with you You guys do you guys feel the emotion? Yeah, you guys are not even you can't even see what I see But you guys feel the emotion. I can't see So you guys can feel it people respond to emotion and then you that's exactly what you guys are responding to You know the difference you guys are not stupid girls aren't stupid so many people think like girls are stupid I'm gonna technique. I'm gonna do this girls are so smart Man so intuitive. They're so smart. They're not dumb Like a lot of people think I'm gonna pull this move in tactic. They know exactly what it means in fact You're approaching You know anything less than just you know, they know exactly what's about I think Chris rock out of great ones like It's like just right I want sacks, you know, whatever was He's like, oh, would you like some dick? Hi, would you like some dick? Chris I got some great stuff friend zone So okay, that was fantastic. Thanks both you guys. I appreciate Thanks Now one thing that's really common too, and if we are staying at my seat and going back to this there is a symbiotic relationship here Okay, usually if I am like Hey, what's up guys? Your natural emotional response is gonna be is to be like To move back into the masculine It's going is a symbolic relationship Right here. So if I'm trying if I'm trying to gain rapport with you, which is what feminine is You are putting a girl in a bar in a club into what? The masculine You are making her be the man to be a man to feel like a man. 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