 This international student is asking for advice on how he can date steered typical blonde women in college Let's try to answer his question. Hey guys, I'm an international student who moved to LA for college I am better at attracting indie alt and international student girls But I never get to attract those all among them But you know those typical basic girls in the sorority is it because they mainly go for Americans and whites? Is it because they like surfer and granola, you know, skate her boys I know they're normal girls, but they definitely have serpent certain type of guys. They date. How do I be one of them? dude, I Don't know if this is a serious question or not, but I got a lot of responses. So we're gonna add our two cents and Anyways, please hit that like button check out other episodes of the hot pot boys and check out smaller sauce calm It is for pre-orders shout out to the YouTube family that is going to click on that link below But David I will say this he has other posts. Why are most sorority girls boyfriend's white? Why does all-american blonde girl almost never end up with POC? Let's just pop up some photos of the blonde sorority girls. I'm sure he's in referencing whether we're talking about UCLA USC UC Santa Barbara UC Irvine, maybe UC Irvine might be too Asian anyway, et cetera, et cetera Here are the photos Andrew. Here are examples of white guys in France. What should he do? first of all This is kind of a stupid question But anyways, I'm just gonna go ahead and say no like being an Asian international student is really Not the type of guy that these typical all-american girls go for because typical all-american girls They want to go for somebody who is considered cool in America or part of America and as an international student You are exactly not that usually unless you nine out of ten times Possibly even more public probably 93 out of a hundred times statistically speaking. However, Andrew I just pulled a photo from USC From a fraternity called pikes pikes is considered one of the frattiest of fratty Houses in America. That's their reputation. Here's a photo at USC. There's so many Asians who go to USC Andrew There's a couple Asians in pikes with the blonde surfer dudes with the frosted tips. Yeah, could he be one of these guys? Yeah, no, no, by the way, I just because you're an international student that doesn't assume that like oh your English is heavily accented I know like it's 2024 right now. You got the bilingual schools overseas. Yeah, exactly Yeah, there's there's people who are a lot cooler nowadays, but I just think it's really goofy if things running to the internet for help But I would say why would you want to date these girls ask yourself? Why first cuz yeah, because that's like what I you know, I see at the tailgate I watch a national lampoon college trip. Are you at the tailgate? Are you acting like a bro? Have you become American eyes? Why would you want to date these women? And yeah, I think that his best bet Immediately if he's just upset, this is crazy thing if he's obsessed with blonde women get a Ukrainian or Eastern European girl Who's blonde and they just put her in some Abercrombie They're gonna be the Eastern European girls if you meet them They're a little bit more open to Asian guys and they pretty much look white, okay? If that's the vibe you're going for but even if you don't got the Riz like Remi Z here You don't even got a chance and even Remi Z is probably gonna be dating more like the Asian girls and sororities or an Asian sororities Do you think if he looks like Jackson Wang or Godfrey Gao does he have a chance? Oh my gosh, dude this guy I can already I don't have a picture of him But I can almost bet he doesn't look like one of them All right, I just came up with a plan for him First of all the first thing he needs to do Andrew is immerse himself in Americana Middle America frat sorority content follow all the frat Instagrams Andrew barstool Sports baseball pages hockey pages lacrosse pages anything that is considered white Even though these things are kind of becoming more like Japanese or a Korean over time a skating surfing You know, I mean like yeah, I guess be into the things That Ken Malibu Ken is into right? Yeah Also, he should probably just talk to them first because how are you gonna run to the internet for advice without even taking a shot? Yourself if you don't even can't even muster up the courage to talk to them in class and be like, hey You know, I don't know if you've ever had hot pot But I'd love to show you guys hot pot and just even see what they say that would be interesting Yo, that's pretty funny. Um Country music also was it last night? We let the liquor talk Yeah, yeah, but I would say LA if I had to say maybe the white people they still maybe like country But maybe less so maybe it's like Taylor Swift if you I don't know you'd have to like just talk dude I don't understand like if like for guys to get a girl of a certain culture, right? That is not exactly there is you kind of have to become that person that matches them That's why he's able to go on dates with the alternative American women because they are already more open-minded and edgy They're already like fringe outlier types. They're already not playing into the mainstream culture. Yeah, somebody did ask him What's wrong with the old indie weeaboo Korea boo streamer types, huh? What what do you want to try tuna casserole for so much? Why don't you get a girl who already wants to try hot pot and sushi and Korean barbecue? If you're not that person attracting that person is going to be very tough, right? You're saying if you're not Travis Kelsey, how are you gonna get Taylor Swift? People were saying that yeah, I did notice that I'm always Contacting a lot of like blue haired or like geek or like theater girls as an Asian American guy Like you said because they don't necessarily fit that all-american archetype somebody said This guy should just wait out wait it out and then go after the all-americans post college Because in college the sorority girls they're matched up with the fraternity guys So highly unlikely they're even gonna reach out of side of that system. Oh, you mean it's very clicky in college Yeah, especially in the fraternity scene. Yeah, I mean, I think that some people in college They use this like microcosm like micro world of what the campus is they use it to their advantage But depending on what you want to do it could actually be a disadvantage Because people are already paired up in clicks off the bat Yeah, why don't you learn the guitar and go sing some English songs over in the quads and then see if the sing some whites To sing a Taylor Swift's cover. Can you play the the guitar if you can't then? I don't know what you can offer body like a back row this ain't whatever Somebody said just try and see what happens But you might just end up with a girl that reminds you of all America Americana girl like an Asian girl. Yeah Don't you see people recreate like other archetypes from like other worlds, but within the Asian bubble? Yeah, I'm not even saying it's impossible I'm just saying like you got to get out there and start trying it takes a while for these things to little match up and for the stars to align So, yeah, there's a low probability thing right? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah Somebody said man if you go out and approach all of them You might get something if you just become a bartender when you turn 21 or you work at like some sort of Thing that they value like That you start cooking bows at the tailgate, bro, okay You start cooking Cha Cha Cha Siu at the tailgate barbecue and you give it away That would be interesting or or saying you would be automatically filtering for white girls at the tailgate We're open-minded. Yeah, because a lot of them are not even gonna want to come to your stand But the ones that want to come to your stand, maybe they were in a Mandarin immersion class in the Bay Area from a young age That's yeah a good pool Yeah, yeah, or or like some five spice chicken wings over at the tailgate or you go work at the local College bar you got a volunteer there be a bus boy So you get a lot of face time and a lot of repetitions in and talk to people What about the local Asian bar, but it's an Asian fusion bar that has a lot of you know, I mean like sorority girls Might go. Yeah, Asian Asian. Oh, yeah I get it you start working at the Asian restaurant or the Asian spots that catered towards white people But you're just like the and you take the minimum wage job Just so you can meet get in the system just so you can meet the non Asians who like some version of Asian food, right? Somebody said why would you want to drive walkable distance eat microwave pizza rolls and learn how to shoot guns? Obviously, this was a joke about what we view as Americana. This guy also Interestingly said what do you mean Americana means something different to everybody. Are you talking about surfer skater girls in California? Nice Christian midwestern chicks. Are you talking about southern bells? Are you talking about a ratchet Florida girl who dances to Kodak black? What even is an all-american girl in 2024? That's an interesting question Oh, they do love pizza on things though because TGIF sells those tater skins that with pizza on the top So I just know that that is true all Americana stuff is pizza-based things People were talking about the divorce race the divorce rates because this guy said hey Buddy, I'm a former Asian guy who loved blonde women I would talk to thousands of them until I found one that would marry me But then we got divorced just a few years later and someone said yeah This guy clearly was going for the look instead of personalities match. Yeah, listen I don't under I get when people have different preference of looks But to assume that you want to date an entire look of people is kind of stupid because people have different personalities Yeah, I know that there's certain like you're probably thinking Becky in tried Delta Gamma is probably like hey welcome to our Mixer whatever. Hey, young Jew. Thanks for coming You know me and the girls we put together some Kool-Aid and some Boba iced tea. Hopefully you got you want to try it you and your boys This guy said that it all comes down to looks you better have kind of Western features on your face And you better be tall and super super ripped and jacked Yes, if you are a super tall Asian guy, like let's say just even six feet And then you go after a white low body fat rip though. Yeah Yeah, you don't have to be like super good looking But if you're just tall and you got about six inches on the white girl that you're going after or more So if you say you date a white girl who is like five four then that gives you points as a man to her But you got to be Deficantly taller than her right go after the short Girl in tried else that's open-minded. It was in the Mandarin immersion class. That's my whole thing. Um, I'll Says just say this man. Here's my takeaway Andrew Like you said this is kind of like asking. Hey man. I just got a USC. How can I play on the basketball team? You can't you don't got a spot on the basketball team. I'm not saying it's super unlikely I don't know if you came from a basketball academy in China Maybe you do got a chance, but it's just unlikely. It's not impossible It's improbable and you'd have to do a lot of things to increase that probability No, you have to do a ton of stuff that you you have to be willing to do Those things to get that thing and then of course a lot of people are questioning Why do you even want that thing that much that thing that doesn't want you back? Why do you value it? So you know, I don't think it's like when we say it's hard to do it It's not because I think blonde women are better people Not at all, but I just think they are more outside of the general It's just more difficult. It's like, you know It's funny because UCLA that college actually has a fairly low admissions rate because a lot of people want to go there, right? Because a ton of people apply Even more people apply to UCLA than a lot of Ivy League schools because just there's more spots at UCLA and more people want To go to UCLA, but they accept an even lower percentage of people because already the Ivy League is already filtered out by people who only think they have a shot Anyways, so it's kind of like it's not necessarily that UCLA is a better school than the Ivy League But it is difficult to get into that's what I mean, right? So you're saying that getting with the blonde sorority girls It's like getting into yeah, it's not necessarily a better life It's not necessarily better people but it is an American life. They are accepted in America Would you agree define America they're the face of America? So that's why you better Be a face maybe not the face but a face of America. So if you like tall athletic good-looking dude Maybe you're international. Maybe you got an accent. That's okay But you got to make up for it somehow because it's all like a point distribution, right, right, right? I'll say this you just got to have a higher social IQ for whatever you whatever you want to achieve This goes the same for a guys who are like computer programmers Andrew But they want ABG's but they're really like into that hiking like hot pot like computer science look and Man, whatever you want in life. Just come up with a plan Execute on it, but you just got to know there's different things in life with different probabilities And you really got to look within yourself and be like why am I valuing this thing this much and then maybe the Guys like y'all because I feel like if I got that I can feel American because that's what I came here for But it's like there's other ways to feel American too and Yeah, anyway guys, let us know what you think in the comment section below What would be your advice for the OP the original poster who wants to come here as an international student and date blonde women? What are your own experiences? Let us know in the comment section below until next time we out. Peace