 Hi, I'm Matthew Kost, head dating coach and founder at commitmentconnection.com and in this video today We're going to talk about how to attract men who are on the same energetic and emotional level as you But before we talk about that if you're struggling to attract the right man into a committed lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website and take my quiz So today's question comes from a woman in our community and she's asking How do I attract men who are on the same energetic and emotional level as I am and so you know, this is kind of a trick question here in Some ways because you always attract men who are on the same energetic level as you are If you're having a problem with the energetic level of men that you're dating You may want to reconsider What energetic level you're on? You know, it's it's always interesting to me because everybody thinks that they're on a higher energetic level than you know, the opposite sex and You know women always are like, oh, you know, I'm trying to find evolved, you know, mature men You know and men are like, oh, I'm trying to find you know Evolved mature women and and you know when when I was coaching men It was the every everybody thinks that the opposite sex is is less put together than they are and so Yeah, you know, you might want to reconsider what energetic level you're on right now and and figure out how to raise your vibrational level and you know, you may end up attracting men that aren't quite up there yet, but if you're you know at that level and you're coming from a space of being on a high vibrational frequency and you're you know going out to where Other types of men like you know other types of people like that Especially men are going to be then you're gonna attract one of those guys and if you're not You may want to rethink You being on a higher energetic level than they are And as far as an emotional level is concerned You're unlikely to attract a man who's on the same emotional level as you are You know, I hear that from women a lot like where are all these, you know, super emotionally mature men, you know And and really most of them don't exist and a lot of the guys that are kind of on that higher emotional level are You know kind of feminine type of guys and and you know once in a while you'll have a really mature Emotionally, you know put together guy, but You know he's probably never gonna be on the same emotional level that you're on It's like trying to find a man trying to attract a woman who's as rational as he is You know, I've met women that are rational like that, but most of my wouldn't want to date and so Yeah, you know, it's not that you're not gonna attract a guy like that It's that you're probably not gonna want to date a guy who's like that because he's not gonna be very attractive to you So if you can find in a guy who's incredibly emotionally aware and masculine at the same time You know, hopefully you're on those levels as well So that you can attract him and if I were you that's what I'd focus on and I would focus on going out to places where Mature masculine men would be and there's you know groups and you know communities, especially personal growth communities a lot of Guys will go out to and be a part of those types of things But you know, you can find guys all over the place that you know It's I get women all the time. They're like, where do I find the right guy? And it's like, you know, they're the right guys are everywhere and the right guys are nowhere and you know, it There's no one magical place that you can go. So that's it for this video if you're if you are If you'd like more information on what's stopping you from attracting Mr. Wright into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon