 There's two types of people. I know a lot of people say there's many other types of people. I'm gonna keep it very simple, black and white for this video. There's two types of people. There's winners and losers. And I know a lot of you don't like to hear that, but the reality is there are people who make it, who are fucking winners, and there are people who are losers. Now what's the difference between winners and losers? It's quite fundamental, and it's a massive difference. It doesn't matter the money. It doesn't matter how you look. None of that matters. It's the mindset that matters, because the mindset can dictate everything else. The winner's mindset is not what happened to me, it's what happened for me. The loser mindset is what happened to me, victimhood. Oh, I can't do anything. Oh, it's everyone else's fault. Oh, shuck my thumb. Oh, fuck, I hate that attitude. Oh, don't get me started. I fucking hate that attitude. I can't stand people bitching, moaning, complaining, don't do nothing about it. Don't slap them in their fucking face, man. Most of society's like that. Look around society. There's a really good test you can do, and the test is when people are giving you advice, I'm like, how's that really working out for you? People's like, well, I think you should do this. All right, buds, how's that really working out for you? Well, I think you should do this in a relationship. Well, you're fucking divorced. How's that working out for you? Well, I think you should invest. Well, how the fuck is that working out for you? These are the loser mindset. They want to grab you down. They want the tall poppy syndrome, the crabs in the bucket. They don't want you to succeed because if you succeed, then they question themselves. It's shattering their ego. And as Jocko Wilkins talks about, it is about extreme ownership. Winners are ruthless. Not ruthless in an evil way, where it's like, oh, I'm gonna fucking kill you, or I'm gonna sabotage, no. Ruthless in a way is no matter the obstacles that go in front of them, they view this as a lesson. Life's about falling down and getting back up. The word fail, first attempt in learning. It's failure is only failure when you give up. But if you take it as a teacher, where it's like, what did I learn from this? If you audit the experience that you've gone through, there's many lessons that you can gain from this. So these are two fundamental differences between a winner and a loser. Winner views life as a game. It views as at how can I level myself up? No different than a fucking video game like Mario eating that goddamn mushroom, getting hide of his mind and busting shit up. That's how life is, a fucking video game with psychedelics. And so the winner focuses on, these are the things happening for me. How do I use this to my advantage? What do I learn from this? How do I make myself better? And then how do I keep on going? Like a fucking, how do I level up? How do I get more points? How do I achieve this? How do I get that? By loser is, well, this happened and I can't do nothing about it. And I'm just gonna sit here and I want people to feel sorry for me because I'm the fucking victim, whoo-hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo. And it's a plague right now, massive plague. 95% of society's victimhood mindset. So I keep on suggesting, read a book, Victor Frankel, Man's Search for Meaning, he talks about this. The only thing that you can control in life is your response to the external stimulus, the little buffer he talks about. And everybody around you playing victim. Look at the day, look at the day. Everyone's asking for handouts. There's people right now that rather get paid $2,000 a month than work. That tells you everything. That tells you everything. Substitute the money for just food on the table and shelter over your head. That tells you the mindset that people are in. They don't wanna better themselves. They don't wanna learn new skills. They don't wanna do anything. They are contempt with their mediocre existence in this life and they want nothing else. They are literally a commodity, a number that's useless. And I know since you're watching this video, you're not like that. You're the very select, you're one of the one percenters who wanna be the winner, who have the mindset this happened for me. What are the lessons can I learn from this? Like example today, with the recession that we're in, with the COVID virus, the coronavirus or the Surveysal virus, what can I learn from this? You may have been let go of your job. You may be struggling in your business like many businesses are. And everyone's going through turmoil right now. But as opposed to being in this fear mongering state where you're looking at the news every day and you're like, oh my God, the world's fucking coming to an, yo, chill the fuck out, man. We've gone through way worse. World War II, World War I, Korean War. Like fuck, man. Like this is a walk in a park, fucking easy. This is peanuts, man, fucking peanuts. And so instead of focusing on all that shit, you should be focusing on, okay, I'm giving this time right now. Cause everybody has time. I don't give a fuck where you are. Every, the whole world's on quarantine. You have time. So I'm giving this time. What can I do with my time? This is that silver lining, right? This is what happened for me. This is what happened to me. What can I gain from this? Well, how do I better myself? What's the opportunities in front of me? Life is about adaptability. It's not about being smart. It's not about being strong. Like I said, those do matter. But what matters the most is being adaptable and winners are adaptable because that's the anti-fragility mindset because I can take you and I can put you in any country in the world with that mindset you're gonna adapt. You're gonna learn the local language. You're gonna learn the lingual. You're gonna learn the hustle. You're gonna learn the counter-market. You're gonna learn everything. And you're gonna do that little grind over there as opposed to the victimhood, the loser will just cry and accept a status quo and do this all day. And that's the big difference between winners and losers. It doesn't matter how older you are. It doesn't matter your race. It doesn't matter your gender. It doesn't matter how rich you are. What really does matter is how you are reprogramming your mind. And it's up to you to figure out how you're gonna reprogram your mind. There's many different ways you can reprogram your mind but it's up to you to figure out how you're gonna do it. Whether that is through psychedelics, whether that's through psychotherapy, whether that is through reading, whether that's through experience. I'm a big believer in experience. The best things in life can't be taught. I don't know who said that but it's a great saying. And so you just have to do more things in life. You have to go out there and challenge yourself. Most people are scared and this is a loser mindset, right? Scarcity. Oh, what are they gonna think of me? Oh my God, my friend's gonna say I'm a failure. What the fuck were your friends think? Get the fuck out of here. You only live once, you blink and you die. You're gonna worry about what your friends and family think? Come on, man. Literally you're gonna blink. I'm 30 fucking five this year. Next thing I know I'm gonna be 45. I'm like, do I wanna have regrets? I don't give a fuck. Fuck that, man. And so you gotta figure out how you can reprogram your mind. There's so many modalities out there. But you gotta do it. You gotta do it. Time is so short. Time is so short. It's the only natural resource that's non-renewable and people give it out, especially now in the quarantine. Oh my God, I hear people talking on board. You're bored, motherfucker. What the fuck? I should come through this screen and slap you. You're bored. Bored? Bored? Oh my God. Bored. I hate that word bored. I fucking hate it. Don't get me wrong, you know? Relaxing and taking time off is very healthy for the mind. But bored, that word itself is a cancerous word, you know? That means you have no ambition. That means you have no hobbies. That means you're the regular commodity that have fucking numbered. They do the nine to five and that's the rest of your life as long as you live. Bored. Bored is mediocrity. Bored is the worst word I've ever heard. No. Don't even get me started on board. You need to decide, ladies and gentlemen, you need to decide who you are, whether you're a winner or loser. Two different mindsets, two different trajectories. You need to be really cognitive of where you are when this camp and how you are in taking information and how you're responding, right? I said the word respond, not react. React is automatic, response is thinking, using logic. Understanding what you're reading, understanding what you're feeling, understanding the emotions. And hopefully, hopefully, you learn from, we're all students, man. We're gonna make fucking mistakes for the rest of your lives. And it's normal to feel, you know, depression. It's normal to feel like you're lost. But what it's not normal, what it's not part of the human condition is to hide. You know, we're homo sapiens, man. Oh my God, the things that we've gone through in our past from hunting and gathering and facing the most insane turmoil possible. Like we're, you know, we should give ourselves a round of applause. Like we're survivors. But we've been, how do you call it? We've been domesticated by modern luxuries, by the government. And everybody right now is like a little child. I call it a man child syndrome. Look it up from Carl Jung. And that's the major difference is this, my friends. Has this happened for me, the winners, versus has this happened to me? And I'll leave it at that. If you guys have any questions, leave a comment below this video. Hit the subscribe button and I'll talk to you guys soon. Peace out.