 How to deal with criticism? Naturally when you start on this journey of personal development when you start perhaps work on yourself a Little bit more than other people When you decide that you're worth it And that this is what you're gonna do that you want more for yourself than What society? Things you deserve when you gain the courage to say fuck you to the Dream American dream of Australian dream on Canadian dream the societal dream the two kids The fans the house the mortgage all that shit when you decide To go on your own journey You're gonna face criticism Of course, this is natural because People Don't like people that are not in the herd Especially people that make them feel insecure When you are accomplishing things when you're actually getting better as a person the people that are around you Although they might claim to love you What to be your best friends? They will feel something. It's just human nature They will feel insecure about themselves Especially when you start to become successful they'll start thinking How come he can do it or she can do it but I can't do it and Naturally what happens they'll resent you for that because Your existence highlights their flaws highlights their inability to produce results so How are you gonna deal with this? How are you gonna deal with people I Give you criticism some criticism is warranted If you're doing something stupid, perhaps you're crossing the road and you're drunk and your friend says hey, you shouldn't do that That's a warranted advice That's good criticism because it's helping you Or perhaps Constructive criticism someone sees something you're doing and tells you perhaps is a better way and There's Mary and what they're saying. That's good criticism You should look out for that type of criticism and you should implement that advice that they're giving you However, some other types of advice are a bit different When you want to move cities or something and your friends are telling you hey, man, you shouldn't go there Or you want to change your job and they're telling you hey, I don't think you should change that job But they're not providing you with evidence concrete evidence to do it That's when you turn around and you say Fuck you. You need have courage. You have courage to go your own path Because naturally the herd is gonna go the other way They're gonna try and get you by all means they're gonna try and pull you back Perhaps you don't want to drink anymore and you go to parties Watch and see how many of your friends are gonna try and get you a drink Perhaps you don't want to smoke Watch and see how they're gonna resent you when you don't smoke perhaps instead of Watching the game You have to spend a few hours reading books are gonna benefit you or go into seminars or training in the gym Watch and see in how they watch and see how they're act. It's just human nature. Have you ever been to a party and There was the one guy that was Dancing perhaps he wasn't even dancing that well. He was just laying loose having a good time And you'll see people some people will be laughing some people be clapping I Guaranteed those people are laughing Something inside them Desperately wishes that they could be like that person that was dancing Desperately wishes that they could let loose and not give a fuck about anyone else's opinion That's the same with you when you're on this path They're gonna look at you and they're gonna have that feeling as a feeling that makes them feel uneasy So back to the topic. How do you deal with this criticism? Well, you deal with this criticism the same way that you deal with a dog When you walk past a house and dog is barking at you you get angry Would you pay it no heed? Of course you pay no heed you keep walking If you have a son or a daughter, that's a total of three years old or four years old and a soul to you You take it personally Of course, you don't take it personally because the person was insulting you is a kid What what does they have nothing to say to you it doesn't shouldn't affect you They don't understand your world That's how you should Approach these people that give you criticism unwarranted criticism that's not beneficial You just don't acknowledge it Once again, I'm not saying you should acknowledge all advice Just the advice of naysayers or people that try to put you down and bring you to their level The same way that dogs barking and you don't give a fuck. That's how you're gonna approach their advice So that's the video for today guys Hope you got something out of it. If you like to give a thumbs up subscribe Subscribed and all that good stuff more to come more candle videos