 Sup guys Isaac checkin in and today. I'm going to discuss the question. How can you keep a conversation going on forever? It's a question. I get asked often actually and it's a question that I feel Obligated to answer because so many guys have problems with it and I'm someone who's quite proficient at conversational skills So why would you want to keep conversation going on forever? Anyway? Well, you have to understand that your conversational skills Your ability to communicate with people is one of the most important skills you're going to develop in your life The reason being is you don't walk through this life by yourself You don't walk around on earth by yourself. You have to communicate with other people You're gonna have to persuade people influence people negotiate with people talk to people when people over it's a life skill that you must master and So many people struggle with it. Why? Because they were never taught it never had the opportunity to actually develop it, right? So I'm gonna slow down or cut the learning curve for you and give you the jewels, right? So How to talk forever? First of all, it's a paradigm shift, right? Because so many people have this idea that in order to talk forever, they're going to have to come up with some elaborate stories some cool shit to say and All this stuff in reality Being able to talk forever is more about your listening abilities than your speaking abilities It's more about how well you can listen than what you're saying Let me explain When you're in the conversation with someone Well, a lot of people don't understand is that if you listen to someone And if you listen well, they drop off plenty of hints that can help you navigate a conversation It's like a thread when you're talking to someone they might mention something here They might mention something else over here something else over here something else over here It's like a thread, right or the Columbus key breaks off And if you've got listening skills, you're able to pick up on each individual topic and navigate the conversation in whatever direction you want Okay I'll give you an example. Let's say. I'm at the bus stop, right? It's a young man. I'm at the bus stop and a beautiful young girl sits next to me. I'm like, oh damn She's looking cute. I want to talk to her. I might say something like Damn Are these buses always late? Then she might reply. Yes. The other day I was waiting 20 minutes for a bus You hear that the other day I was wearing 20 minutes for a bus. It's the first thing you have much to work with there But that's one thing. She's wearing 20 minutes for the bus. Okay, 20 minutes Then you can say, oh, where were you headed? See you took that one thing you Went with it you rolled with it And she might say oh, I was headed to the library He said oh the library. Okay. She's head to the library. So she's going to library. Why she going to library? She could be a student. She's obviously returned books. Maybe she's born books. Maybe she's a writer for things you can roll off Okay, you head to library your student There she goes. Yes, I'm studying psychology at the University of Amsterdam or whatever the fuck, right? There she goes. She's studying psychology at the University of Amsterdam and this is where you can shine, baby Ask open-ended questions, especially when they drop something big like that like I'm studying psychology when they say that I work at The council or something you guys are do you enjoy that degree or what do you enjoy about it? Or what inspired you to take up that degree? See what I mean? If you have the listening ear You can take the conversation and roll with it, right? You can talk to anyone and People will love you for it. I've been in so many conversations in the past where I'll just be there chilling Other person's talking and I'll be putting in remarks every now and then asking open-ended questions and they just keep talking and talking and talking and At the end of the conversation like wow, you're a really great guy, you know, that was a great conversation But what about and they want to get to know me, right? Well, I didn't do much. All I did was listen and just go off the threads It's a skill that many people don't have how many times have you been in the conversation with someone and They were just cutting you off They went late and you say something you want to say something, but they just cut you off gone off tangent bring up random shit It's not the best feeling is it? How many times have you had a conversation with someone where they just listened? Listened and gave you all their attention It's pretty rare. So if you can do that if you can have that skill of people if you can listen and be able to Be interested in the conversations asking that open-ended questions people will love you for it I've been the situations where I've been talking to grandmas grandpas Random people that I would sometimes have no interest in or no connection as in like they'll whatever they do in life It's completely different to what I do in life And I'll still be able to communicate or still be able to vibe with them and connect with them Because of that one paradigm should be able to listen and then navigate the conversation through the threads that they drop So that's a very important skill for you to have take it practice it roll with it and Fucking I don't know what else you can do with it till next time guys Like comment subscribe like this stuff. I'll be seeing peace