 Maybe you left the narcissist or maybe the narcissist discarded you and then They do the same thing all narcissists do They move on maybe they find someone else. They do things that they never did with you Things that you wanted them to do it's like they move on and They start living this better life without you as though You were just holding them back You were the cause of all of their problems Makes you feel like you were bad You were wrong because if the narcissist was the problem, how can they move on? And just do better without you, but the real fact is in most situations the narcissist is Struggling without you and if they're not struggling now they will be narcissists are miserable people they're never happy about anything and You should know that you should be aware of it If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist for a few years even a few months You should know that They can never be satisfied with anything No matter what you do they're never happy and If you were a good source of supply they may have stayed with you for At least one year Maybe a few years So that means you must have been a Source of something good for the narcissist, but then they move on and it's like They're doing so much better without you. Well, at least that's how it seems because you need to remember that When they love bombed you When they targeted you in the beginning They portrayed this false image to you as though They were these Perfect charming and charismatic people who were there for you They were there to help and support you But then you later find out That it wasn't real because then they begin devaluing you and then they discard you Or if you leave them They act like They don't care about you They don't want to fix anything They don't want to try to resolve the situation And that's how you should know that even when the narcissist gets involved in a new situation It's just the same thing again. They just love bombing the new supply. It's a trick But this trick now Or maybe it did before as well it has two separate audiences and one audience the new supply is meant to find this pleasurable it's meant to be good for them While it's designed to hurt you You see it serves two purposes, but it really is Just an illusion and it will only seem real As long as you choose To believe in it and you choose to believe in it because you didn't get any answers from the narcissist You didn't get closure So now you're looking for answers You're going on their social media you've seen these pictures and videos of them with of them with a new supply and And You think okay There's my answer right there when that's exactly What they want you to think only it isn't real It's designed to confuse you It's designed to upset you and it gives some supply Because they know you're looking for answers. They know you're gonna be on there. So Just trust me on this just remember Everything you did for them everything you went through with them And then you should know They're always miserable and never happy so you can be sure that they are struggling without you Even if they've managed to become successful somehow Financially Emotionally they will never Be successful in that area And that's a guarantee No narcissist will ever be happy because happiness requires accountability and That's something you'll never get from a narcissist So by default they are destined To struggle emotionally they are destined to Be miserable So I hope this video helped Give it a give it a thumbs up if it did and as always share your thoughts in the comment section and You all have a good day. I'll talk to you in another video very soon