 Suzanne says, should I wait for him to ring me first? I find it hard to ring him. You know, it's interesting. My girlfriend and I, there's a picture of her. You know, we're in a long distance relationship. She lived two hours ahead of me. And for the most part, she was the one who sent the first text message every morning, not actually, I actually got up earlier than her on average, but she was the first one. I liked that she made that effort because I appreciated she made that effort. Now I always reciprocated the effort and the mutual investment between the two of us, but I liked it. Men like to feel that we're wanted in desire too. So, you know, but I'm also, and by the way, we took, we take turns. For example, this morning, she's in Chicago visiting her children and grandchildren. So I shot her the text message first. It's just, it's okay to do that. Ring him, text him.