 Black boy tell me how you really feel. I just want to build with you black girl. Tell me how you really feel I just want to keep it real with you. I want to live better eat better. I want to love better sleep better I want to feel so alive It's a blind one time for the state of mind two times for elevated Why do women gravitate towards Projects and they complain about the project being a project instead of The guy saved his dominoes in your phone. You know is ready to give you the world, but you don't really want to so like why do Black women tend to have a preference for the project Over the good dude Yeah And again, you can answer this as yourself you can answer this from perspective of like conversation You've had rather women you're you're in, you know, the dick of things more than me as a nigga So I can only go off of speculation, but you know what it is. Yeah, I mean, I think that a lot of women out here Including myself at one point are very broken and Good relationships as far as being able to accept a Person that's just good to you and you know, they're good for you And they might not be able to check all the boxes, but you're like, okay I see this person and they're really good for me. Let's go ahead and settle it down That comes from like a deep sense of just like a healed individual So like if you're just like broken, I feel like you're always groveling for something You know so women want that man that's like They don't exactly treat me the way that I want to be treated like we know Then they get on treat you right But if you're not healed enough to understand How someone is supposed to treat you then none of it really matters And we weren't really Okay, I can't say we gonna say The people that I come to have come in contact with We weren't like given step-by-step instructions one like this is exactly how things should go it was just kind of like Going with the flow type of thing and when you do that and you have so many like external influences like Friends in high school college education system all of the things it's easy to get Side rail does easy to be influenced So if we're not healed our parents aren't healed and our grandparents aren't healed and it's just like a whole cycle of things So yeah, that's my answer to that question So They've done like surveys were like let's say a male influencer or I'm actually about to combine two questions a male influencer or Stylus for instance, we'll put on a suit and that type of swag and You know go out and carry out a survey with women like and Then he would go out again in street style and carry the survey and survey was like which style do you prefer? The overwhelming majority of women voted street style over the suits and when I say shoot like these are Taylor James Bond looking niggas So The first question is why is that? The second half of that question that kind of ties into the first half is you know Roger Conner is He's a male model He has the the wife or the girlfriend that's chocolate kind of yeah Yeah, good looking dude handsome dude, right? Absolutely. They did a They did a social experiment with him as well where they put him In a bar setting this was staged obviously and they recorded him with two different demeanors And then they showed the recordings to a group of women the first demeanor was more of a so in both clips He was sitting at the bar trying to get the attention of some woman The other side of the room, right? And the first one he was more like stoic more somber almost like you know You know what I'm saying? What was he wearing? Same thing both. Yeah, the closer the closer in consequential. This is just a look, right? Okay, and then in the second one He was more so like happy and goofy like he's smiling. Hey, you know and the overwhelming majority of women voted for them You know I'm saying Serious stoic somber bad enigma guy, right? So the first question is why Are we more attracted to the street style versus the soup style and why are we more attracted to the more stoic serious guy bad boy versus the smiley happy guy Because it's kind of opposite, right? Okay, so I Would say This is just my theory Sometimes not for me But some women and I will say the majority of women aren't used to men that dress in a certain type of way as far as suited and booted Pocket thing like You know all of the things That someone will they'll like that'll turn them on but some women are intimidated by that So they see the guy that's you know in the Nike joggers or whatever and they're like, okay, I Can bag this nigga or that I can talk to this nigga easy But a nigga that might be suited and booted might be I know just a little bit more intimidating They might come off in conversation As far as like I couldn't keep up with this person a Lot of people no matter the race don't really dress like that They don't like on an everyday basis unless maybe you're like in Wall Street or something They don't dress, you know suited and booted most people kind of chill especially because of the pandemic like you You're really probably not gonna run into somebody. That's like all dressed up, you know however attraction more than likely that woman is attracted to the guy that's like suited Because when I think of going to your question when I think of a guy that suited I do think come, you know, obviously depending on the person I do think of somebody that will be a lot more stoic and a lot more aware of His demeanors and like the way he carries himself Then maybe somebody that's just more lax and I know this is just a you know, there could be someone stoic that's wearing joggers, but mystery and stoicism in silence Is very intriguing to women We'll take it back to primal times like I love to do. I Don't trust the goofy nigga to Protect my my kids because the goofy nigga is over here having side conversations Why the nigga that really runs shit is probably not talking much It's probably in conversation. That's more about business so not to say This is kind of probably very much off track We don't know people the goofy nigga could be the stoic one behind closed doors. Who fucking knows but I am I think that women are more Attracted to First impression observe observant men That are not as talkative It's an attraction thing and women are also very talkative and they're very outgoing this and that so it's like We're just more probably more attracted to the one that's Opposite That's opposite not to say that the one that's not You know stoic Isn't the nigga running shit this and that we're just women are just more inclined to find the one that Is in more control and a goofy nigga laughing and doing all the things it's like All right calm down You know not as much trust So yeah Why are y'all in such a rush to get married? No, okay Because of biology Naturally because of biology But like societally Because of biology if you think about it too You only have but so many years so it's like Biology says that you need to Get her done The society also like use that and was like, okay Let's hurry up and get it done. I guess you could say so that's a pretty simple one Because of biology Yeah, okay I mean to elaborate on that just so we can make it a little bit more like Personal not so much logical black. No black because that's what this is about black people. Yes Why are you in such a rush to get married at the detriment or Disregarding what the guy is ready for what where the guy is mentally Well, I mean, I guess like that would assume that The person that you are rushing it for is Indeed not ready. There's a lot of men that are out there that women don't choose And the woman might you know be you trying to rush it But they're trying to rush it with the person that they want quote unquote So it's like I Don't know We know that we Biology says That we want to have a kids. So that's the number one thing marriage is just the protection that comes with you know Making sure that if I were to have these children, it's just not Me out here in the world Because in the past you're like, okay, my grandparents weren't out here in the world My grandmother wasn't out here in the world just by herself So I think that we don't choose very well, right and we Have options to settle down Every woman has an option to settle down like tomorrow for sure every woman can settle down Yeah Everyone I don't care what you look like Everyone has a nigger that they Okay, everyone has a nigger that they know If you come to them, you're like, all right, let's get it. They'd be like bet Let's do it. But the those usually aren't the ones that the women like So that's my answer to that question