 If he were to pat you on the back, you would list it on your resume. Both sides of his pillow are cool. When in Rome, they do as he does. In a past life, he was himself. If opportunity knocks, and he's not home, opportunity waits. He gave his father the talk. He is the life of parties he has never attended. If he were to punch you in the face, he would have to fight off the strong urge to thank him. Sharks have a week dedicated to him. He wouldn't be afraid to show his feminine side if he had one. At museums, he's allowed to touch the art. He once received a standing ovation from a juror's box. His thank you cards have prompted your welcome cards. He once ran a marathon because it was on his way. Sasquatch has taken a photograph of him. He wants parallel park to train. Therapists open up to him. He skips the first date. He once gave a pep talk so compelling, both teams won. Your guess is as good as his. On second thought, no it's not. When he whispers to a horse, it whispers back. He is the most interesting man in the world. Okay, so now I already know up front I am going to offend a few people. And I think though that if, if what I'm going to say I had said 20 years ago, maybe 40 years ago, certainly 100 years ago, wouldn't be that much offense. As a matter of fact, everyone would say, well, yeah, that makes sense. We understand this because what has happened is the times have changed. And yeah, women have changed, but more to the point men have changed. I'm going to say, well, what about the women? Corey, you never deal with the women like you, like you should. And there's a good reason because it's not on them. Yeah, I said it. Some of you guys are bothered. As a matter of fact, I'm going to tell you why you're bothered right now. It's because you're worrying about, as we say, you're worrying about the wrong thing. It's because you're too focused on the outside instead of worrying about the inside. I'll get to women a little bit in a second. Oh, by the way, oh, by the way, if you happen to be single, I'm going to also have what I think is a bit of a nugget for every single person, male or female. I'm going to get to single people in just a little bit. But have you noticed though? Yeah, women are a bit different. Women wear things that they probably ought not wear. As a matter of fact, they wear things that if they, if what the women wear today now, the majority of women have women, wherever they wear today, what they wore back, if they wore that back, I don't know, 20 years ago when they were in high school, what would they be called? Even without knowing their character, even without knowing anything about them. If they wore what they wear today, then it'd be called a lot of different things. A lot of different things. But truth be told, if some of the men wore what we wear today, not we, because I haven't gotten there yet. You know what? I'll be out of step. But men would also have a title too. And I want to just make this plain and clear. As a matter of fact, let me go ahead and just deal with it now. The reason why I don't spend a lot of time with women and what's wrong with women is because the biggest problem with women is men, in my opinion. Remember back in the Bible. Y'all, y'all, y'all do recall the Bible. Y'all do remember in the Bible when something happened, Eve was the first to bite the fruit. She gave it to her husband. They hear God. And what do they do? They run and hide. Uh oh, we're in trouble. And did you notice what God did? He came looking for Adam and Eve. Did he not? He did not. He came looking for Adam. And it's not in the generic sense of, hey, mankind, because the word Adam can mean the man or it can mean all of mankind. But I'm going to show you how it was only to be taken as just that man. Let's go to it in Genesis 3.8. And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool. On the day and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord among the trees of the garden. But the Lord called to, look, here it is, the man. Ha Adam. He called to the man and he said to him, where are you? And he said, not they said, he said, I heard the sound of you in the garden and I was afraid because I was naked and I hid myself. Who told you were naked? Matter of fact, why are you hiding? Now for us, the important thing is he called to Adam. Guys, let me just say this upfront. You're going to be bothered with me, but I don't care. Get bothered with me. Get bothered with God. Get bothered with yourself. You are, if you are the head of a household, you are responsible. As a matter of fact, you are accountable. How do I know? Because that's just what God did and showed and treated Adam. Yes, there might be some blame to go around with the woman. There might be some fault on her part, but overall, you are held accountable. Don't like it with him. That's what goes with being a man. Let me say it plain and simply. She was to, she was to bear some fault and some blame for her part. As a matter of fact, what did God do? God stated as he has all of them. Matter of fact, let's go there. Let's go there. Let's go where God has them lined up. He says verse 11, who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you not to eat? Then the man said, the woman whom you have gave to be with me, she gave me the fruit of the tree and I ate. So what do we do? Oftentimes it's me and we'll see this. We like to place the blame somewhere else. And so just like a good leader, we're going to have someone following in our steps. And in this case, the man has someone to follow after him, which is the woman. She learns real quickly. He places the blame on someone else on God and on the woman. So what does she do? Well, she does likewise. She says when God turns to her in verse 13 says, what is it that you have done? And the woman said, the serpent deceived me and I ate. So she picks up real quickly. So the woman also learns how to place blame. Poor devil, poor serpent, poor Satan. He's just, God gets to him, has no one to turn him blame. I don't know God. It's just, it's just my nature. And so he pronounces punishment for both and both represent what's going to happen going throughout history between male and female, how that she is going to strive after and it's going to be always this constant friction. She's going to desire for him. And after the things that he has and so forth, but he is going to have a rulership over her. That's not going to change until God finally puts things back or put things in the place that he wants them to be new heaven, new earth, all those things. But in the meantime, we see the problem that we have. By the way, this issue with women wanting to maybe use her authority or this issue of feminism, so forth. This isn't brand new. Feminism began, guys, if you believe it or not back in the 1800s and depending on who you're listening to, the early 1800s and mid 1800s. This isn't, this is not a new phenomenon. The problem was though, it was kind of hard for it to show its head as much as possible. Why? Well, for the same reason that men couldn't sit and just talk about women all the time. And for some reason, men sit and have these conversations about women as often as women do. It used to be that women would sit in the salons or the beauty shops and they would sit and talk about all kinds of things that ladies talk about. No problem. That's fine. And men would talk about all kinds of stuff, but they would talk about some cars, they'd talk about fighting, boxing, football, so forth. But now you see men, if all you had was a transcript to read and you didn't know who was saying what, you would think when you read this transcript that men are having amongst themselves that these are women having these conversations, but it's not. You see men watching shows that are geared towards women. You see them watching the housewives or whatever, the love and what have you. The demographic, the target demographic for these shows are ladies from ages 1835 and you see men watch them and then giving commentary about it. Did you see what she said? Oh, she this and that or whatever. We gossip as much as women do. It used to be, it was kind of the stereotype that women gossip. Now men tend to gossip. Matter of fact, not 10 do gossip just as much. The feminization of men isn't women making men like women. It's men doing so voluntarily. Men have always been a target of the devil. That's always been the case without question. But now what's happening is that we have begun to complain. And what we do now, we have this thing where we sit and have these conversations between men and women, the problem with men, this is, it's unheard of any time if you go back in history, this is unheard of. What's a high value woman? A woman who knows her worth and knows she can do better than that because there are men out there that aren't going to want to see a whole bunch of women at one time. What determines a woman's worth? I think a woman determines her own value. See, that's the difference between men and women. Like a man can't just determine their value. The world dictates how valuable you are. The marketplace. Right. A woman can just make up how valuable she is in her head and then just assume that the world should follow that. But we can't operate like that. Who is this soft man complaining about this? We've got a bunch of men that complain about women. It used to be, think about it guys, especially if you have any sort of age or new, it used to be that women would complain about men. Now we've got men complaining about women. What has happened? You know what? I take full responsibility. I take full responsibility. When I went to prison, it wasn't as bad. I came back and now it's like this. So I'm back now. I don't know what happened. I don't know what has happened with men. First of all, guys, let me say this. If you ever have to say this statement, you're not it. If you ever have to, I'll say the statement in a second, but if you ever make these words come out of your mouth, if you say this statement, these words, you're not it what you're claiming to be. If you ever have to tell somebody, either another woman or a man, if you have to tell them that I'm a man, you're probably not. Who tells somebody who reminds them of what they are? I don't go around my house and I'm a man. I don't tell other men that I'm a man. I'm a grown man. Well, why'd you tell me that? Well, in case you didn't know. Well, I guess I didn't know because a grown man, it should be evident. And a woman who sees a grown man knows what a grown man looks like. It might be the reason why you have to keep reminding folks or telling folks that you are a grown man because she doesn't see it. And so if, because let me just say this to all the single people. I was gonna hold this to the end, but let me just say this to all you single ladies, all you single men. As a matter of fact, if you've got a channel and you talk about being single, stop. Stop telling people you're single. First of all, we already know. If you're a man or a woman, you don't have a ring on your finger and you ain't got your boo beside you. Well, then we know. We know you're single. So stop telling. Stop being single, Frank, and just be frank. Stop being single, Mary, and just be Mary. Just be Sheila. You know why? Because if you conduct yourself like a woman or like a man, then someone else who's single is gonna have an eye for you. You know why? Because you're gonna stick out. Do you wanna go someplace and stick out? Stick out. I used to tell the guys, and I know what I'm speaking of, guys, because I did this in prison speaking to men who just trying to get their lives back together. If you wanna stick out, first of all, in prison, it's easy to stick out. It's easy. You've got some of the lowest of the low, and so it's not hard to shine in mud. It really is not. The same thing happens when it comes to us out here in the world of godly people. So if ladies, if you're looking for a godly man, well, then be godly. I promise you, you'll shine in mud. That's all you got around you. A whole bunch of women trying to dress scantily, trying to have the shortest, the lowest hanging top, the shortest skirt, the tightest whatever. Well, if you go modestly dressed and you conduct yourself properly, you ain't got all the shining stuff or what have you and you're not trying to make a spectacle of yourself, guys will notice that. They will. There's something different about it. She doesn't look like all of the other souped up Chevy's with big, big shiny rims. She looks different and they'll take notice. Same thing with you guys. They've got this thing called and I'm still trying to figure this out called the Manasphere. When did it occur? Y'all have to help me out. Tell me the exact year. So when I build my time machine, I'm gonna try to build a time machine. I'm gonna ask the Lord with the help of all these prophets out here and these apostles to kind of give me some Holy Ghost power to have the idea of the brain power to put together a time machine. I'm going back to that year and destroy the Manasphere when it started. That's what I wanna do. When did it start that men wanted to come together and figure out how to be better men? How to be high value men? Who said that? You keep following young men or men that don't even have a wife who don't know what it's like to be a man themselves and listen to these people. The people like the, what's the guy? The Kevin Sanyos that's the way. You wanna emulate him? Or now the guy that everyone is listening to is Andrew Tate. How is Andrew Tate? He's not very old, first of all. Secondly, Andrew Tate needs to take care of his legal concerns now. He's got bigger fish to fry. But even more than that, you wanna emulate him? What he represents to a lot of men is, okay, the guy's athletic, young, he's built, I don't know if people think that he's sexy, he's living the way that a lot of guys wanna live with a lot of women just sitting and so forth and they think that is cool. First of all, guys, how long do you think that's gonna last? All you gotta do is look back because he's not the first guy like this. He's not the first playboy out there. How did it end for them? Not too well. But I wanna listen to something that he said and listen, there's a lot of things that he says that it resonates, it makes sense. Men live in a world which is extremely competitive. I know you girls think it's competitive on Instagram and filters and all that, but it's much harder in the mail. Yeah, because you're all trying to compete for how you look, right? But for men, it's far more competitive in many other ways. We have to compete not only on how we look, but it's also competing on things we can't even help. You're born short. Think of all the things you just asked for. You want a guy who's intelligent, a guy who can hold a conversation, a guy who's wise, a guy who's dominant, a guy who provides safety. You need a guy who's brave, a guy who's capable. So men are competing in many different realms. It's extremely difficult to be a man. Okay. It's difficult being a man. When was it not difficult? When was it a point to where, man, this is just, all of a sudden it got hard. When did that happen? Now Andrew Tate just got here on the planet, but still. When did it get hard? It's always, it's, listen, it's hard being a man just like it's hard being a woman. There's still only two genders. Hard being a woman, hard being a man. Oh, by the way, it's hard being a human being. That's life. That is life. That is life. But now we got men complaining about how it's unfair being a man. We know we need, we need, we used to have back in the day, women's lives. Now we need men's lives. Is that, is that what it is? We need guys coming together. Well, first of all, again, if you're single, you're not dating the whole world. You're not married, you can only marry one person. And so ladies, you don't have to worry about how the rest of the men are. Men, you don't have to worry about how the rest of the ladies are. You're only marrying one person if you get married. But if you listen to these people, you won't get married. You will not. You placing your, you place your faith or your, your eyes on the wrong person. These people don't know better. As a matter of fact, especially if you are a Christian, especially if you are, now he says some things that do resonate. There are a lot of women that is out of pocket. There are, but there's a lot of men that are out of pocket too. I can promise you this. If you had more men who stayed in their lane, who did with the more responsible men, men, men talk about, I know there's a lot of things that we can complain about, but in the end, there are fall. Listen, I remember sitting in on the conversation. This guy got mad. It got upset. He got irate at me because he said that one of his baby mamas was putting him on a more child support, a higher payment. And I thought, okay, all right. That's, that's, he said, well, I sent her this. I sent her that. I sent her this. I sent her that. And he said that it ain't, it ain't right. Well, you know what? Maybe it ain't right, but who's fault is that? But you mean who's fault is it? You're the one that slept with her. You're the one that got her pregnant. Now you want to complain about how it comes back. You should have married her. You should have listened to the Beyonce song. If you like it, then you should have put a ring on. That's what you should have did. That's what you should have did. But now you're complaining. Wah, wah, wah. Next time do better, buddy. Cause I know, I notice you weren't in court trying to get, trying to get custody of the child. You didn't want that. And so I'm not, yeah, I, I know that the, that the child support system is tilted and unfair towards the man. Oh well, you shouldn't, you shouldn't have sinned in the first place. You do realize guys, there are consequences for sinning. And do not look for the course to bail you out. Disagree all you want, but God is going to say the same thing to you. Yeah, they might be heavy and hard on, but you don't have the right to come back and say what the punishment should be. If it's a result of your sin. When I went to prison, they said 20 years. I thought that was rough, but I could not come back and say, wait a second, I don't deserve to be here. No, I would like to get some leniency. I would, I'll fight to get a little bit of it. But if I don't, you know what, I got what I got coming. Men don't do that anymore. We, I have never, we are at an all time high when it comes to complaining. And the, Cory, what about the women? I'm going to say to the guys, listen, in Jesus name, shut up. If you're a guy, if you are a man worrying about women, that's your problem. There's your problem right there. There is, you're worried about the wrong thing. You're going to be the same guy. I'm a wrong man. These women, they tripping. Okay. They haven't found a rent. You know what they haven't, they don't treat you like a man because they don't see you like a man. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. But, and then you find, allegiance, you find company, you find comfort, you find solace with the Andrew Tates of the world with the Kevin Sanyos and men like that, men who sit and talk about women and how they're, they've done you wrong and so forth. Come on, y'all. Let's, let's hug it out. Let's, next thing you know, you and your, and your buddies, your homeboys, you'll get to go to the bathroom and never go to the bathroom with you like the ladies do. Hey guys, I'm going to the bathroom. I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to the toilet. You might want to go with me. That's what you're going to do next. Might as well. You're wearing skinny jeans. You're putting on foundation. You got more hair products than the woman. Might as well. Go full board. Do that. So, if you think that he is the kind of person that you are, because I mean, listen, he is it right now. He's one of the highest search, if not the most searched person on the planet. But I want to post a tweet from him. This Andrew tape that everyone's looking at. This particular guy, let's look what he says. He says, Genghis Khan had endless women and 200 children as reward for conquest. I am the most searched man on the planet. I have conquered earth. I am the highest status male on the planet. Females do not expect loyal to me from me. He says, they only expect that of lesser men. That's who everyone is looking at. Let's put it back on the screen. I want y'all to see this. He says, I am the most searched man on the planet. I have conquered earth. Let me just say this about a man. There are three dangerous type of men. These three men are dangerous, especially if all three are present. And one of them leads to the other two. A man who is desperate. A man who is frustrated. And then a man who is insecure. Now the insecure man, if he's insecure long enough, well then that insecurity is going to turn into frustration. That frustration is going to turn into desperation. You do not want that combination. An insecure man is going to tell you what he has. He's going to tell you what he thinks. He's going to tell you what he thinks you want. He's going to tell you what he thinks you think he ought to be thinking. He's going to say things like, I don't care what you think, well then why'd you tell us? Because he does care what you think. He's afraid that you might have the wrong idea about him. He cares about his appearance, whether it be inward or outward. That's the insecure man. Let's put up some more of what he says. I am the highest status male on the planet. Think about that. He is the highest status male on the planet. That's a great man, huh? Listen, he's insecure and so he only cares about himself. He's boastful how great I am. It's not like our song, how we sing how great thou art. He sings how great I art. Did I say that right? How great I art? You know the hood way, how great I is? That's him. That's him. How great I am. I am the highest status male on the planet. He's boastful, but you know what he really is? He really is lonely and a liar. He's a lonely liar and men like that are easily disrespected. Men like that are easily disrespected. Now I'm not saying I'm this high level, but I wanted to get to a point to where you could say what you want to say about me and it didn't move me. Why should I be moved based on what you think what comes out of your mouth? You mean tell me my entire disposition is going to change because you had a thought? Because you had a thought, you formulated a thought and it came out of your mouth and now my whole world has changed. Think about that for a second. Ladies and gentlemen, let that sink in. When someone says something and it changes you, your whole mood, it changes your day, you're now fixated on what they said. So now you can't make the claim that I don't care what they say when we, it's clear. What they said moved you and moved you mildly as though their words at that moment became your God. And so the issue isn't women. The issue is you internally. A lesser man seeks to defend himself at every cost. There are times where you have to defend yourself without question. But there are also times where you can show who you are by walking away. I don't know if y'all have seen lately. Dana White, who is the president of UFC had a bit of a scuffle a few days ago. Got into it, had a bit of a dust up. This is happening more and more. He had a bit of a dust up and this ain't the kind of dust up that you want. That is his wife. She slaps him. He slaps her back. Now, the reports are or said that she was drunk or what have you. So here's the question. Do you all think that it was justified? She slaps him first. Let's put it back on the screen. So what do y'all think? No matter of fact, matter of fact, no. There's a huge difference in his size and her size. Y'all know me. I have two things that bother me. Two things that bother me. If you mess with it, if an adult harms a child. If you mess with a child, not just my child, but any child, if you hurt a child, don't let me be around. Now, I'm going to be the one that's going to show compassion afterwards, but I think that's despicable. I also think it's pretty on the same level of a man hitting a woman. I think there's only a few reasons why a man should ever touch her. He should touch her if he's moving her to get out of the way, if he's restraining her, she's hitting him, or obviously to protect himself so that he doesn't get killed. If she's going to be a danger to him, or to herself, or to someone else. But if she slaps you and you slap her back, I think you're weak for that. That's just me. Now, this was a no-brainer 20, 30, 40... I wouldn't say 20 years ago, no. Maybe 40 years ago, 30 years ago. My daddy told my sisters. Now, someone should say... I had a conversation that... and I don't have a problem with the statement that a woman who hits a man should not expect that that man would not hit her. It used to be that was the case. So, no, she shouldn't hit her man. But when I'm speaking about the woman, we're speaking about you, man. You can't take it. I've been slapped. I've been punched by a woman, been scratched. I did not hit the woman. By the way, can we keep it real? Can we keep it one, as they say, 100 or 100? Can we keep it real? Let's just be honest. Some of you men wouldn't hit another man back depending upon who the man is. Some of you guys will say, yes, I would. Okay, let's just say the man is Shaq in his prime. The 25-year-old Shaq who's 7'1, 300 pounds, he slaps you with all his muscles. What are you going to do? Hey, Shaq, man, what's going on? Listen, I don't know what I did, brother, but I don't know what you guys did. Now, if you find yourself in a relationship like that, again, there are consequences. And so it makes you wonder, it's got likely this didn't just occur. She didn't just all of a sudden go from being nice and sweet and dainty to snapping and bam, I'm hitting them. That didn't just happen. And I'm supposed to say, yeah, men get abused. They do. They do. But again, one, the picking process is vitally important. How you pick a woman is vitally important. Again, she did. She did not just get that way. Are there some rare occasions where something might happen with her mentally or what have, you know, emotionally? Yeah, but let's be clear, guys, that is not the norm. And so a woman can find herself going from here to here and maybe it took five years or 10 years. All I do know is this. This man is six something, six, four, six, five. Does used to cage fight. He's older. This little woman hits him. He can't take it. Or y'all remember back with Ray Rice. He slid his wife across the elevator. He gets tackled by six foot three, two and 45 pound muscle bound linebackers. He couldn't take her. Yeah. Listen, sometimes this is why the. Yeah, it's hard being a man. Would you rather be a woman? You can't take it. If you can't take that, it makes me wonder what else can you not take? I think this, if you're in a situation, and this is not the main point, but this is emblematic of an issue. But if a woman hits you as a man, you can't get away. Which, okay, well, if you can't get away with it, then guess what? That means your life is in danger. Okay, fine. You can do. You don't have to be. I want to say man be abused. But the videos we're talking about, this is the man just simply retaliating. If that's what you're going to retaliate. That's what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about a woman who was abusing your guys. So I don't want to conflate the two. Abuse is one thing. We're talking about a man retaliating because he was disrespected. He didn't like that, but I can promise you there are some people that can slap him that he ain't slapping back. It is what it is. It is not me. Okay. And if you have that kind of attitude, not me, well, then you're lying. You're lying. David doesn't have his, his, his stones and his slingshot. I don't know what he's going to do to say, or do to, to go live. Don't know what he's going to do. So I get, I get being defensive. I get that protecting yourself. The problem is though, it's what has happened in the man. If you start off with this, I've got a zero tolerance for this, then it would be hard to get you to do what he just did. This is his wife. This wasn't some random check out third on the street. This was his wife, but you see other men doing the same thing. You see the same thing. And I'm sorry, you getting no, I don't care. Listen, I'm going to call you out. I'm going to make you feel bad about yourself. If you think that you're going to, if you're going to get some sympathy from me, I'm not saying she, she, she stabbing you. That's different. I'm talking about retaliation. And we see that. Well, she hit him. She got, she got, and women are going for that. Well, the reason why they're going for that, because they think that men are about that. But if men, if men by and large said, no, we ain't going to tolerate that. You hit a woman around me. I'm coming back. I'm going to hit her. I'm going to hit you for her. And I don't, listen, I don't care. That is an absolute no, no, that is a bar. We do not do that, man. We are men. It should not be that God expects this out of you. And you say, no, God, don't expect that much from me. It's not like God expects a whole lot from you anyway, but no, God don't. Y'all do realize when the Bible says husbands, love your wives. Again, the word for husband and man is the same thing. Word for woman and wife are the same thing. So men love your women. Now I was talking about marriage wise. It says love. What does the word love mean? And everyone's trying to figure out the definition. Be committed and think about whatever commitment means to you. That's what love is. Be committed to your wives for her best, for her good. That means I'm not going to retaliate with, if she's having a bad day, what do you think is meant by the weaker? Do you think it's just physical? Do you think in some regards? Y'all listen, I don't know if y'all realize this, but y'all do realize that women and men are different. Men and women are different. They're built different. They think different. They feel different. They operate and move different. That's what we are. Men, newsflash in case some of y'all didn't know this, men and women are different. She's shaped like me, but different. So where she's different at? Everyone counts. Praise the Lord. There are similarities between male and female. But Joshua, we different. Somebody said, somebody said, Cory, I'm sure nobody's afraid of you. Cory, well listen, I don't cast a long shadow. I'm not after anybody being afraid of me, but I think when I walk in the room, I think I get enough respect. At least I feel that way. Which means, which means Tampa Supreme, guess what I don't have to do? I don't have to project any sort of aggression on anybody. I don't have to act like you need to be afraid of me. That's what being a man is. I'm going to take care of my business and do what I have to do. And if the time comes where I need to help somebody, protect somebody, defend somebody, even if that puts me in danger, that's what men do. That's what men do. What the ballhead guy said, ladies, please teach women not to put their hands on anyone, especially a man. That's fine. That's fine. But the issue is, what if they do? We're in the imperfect world. What if they do? If they do, who is the person that should have? Again, we're talking about our responsibility. If my wife has a bad day and she hits me. Or, you know what? Let's put the striking aside. Let's say if she doesn't do what she should do at the house. She might be to blame, but I'm still responsible. This is I am to manage my household. I am to deal with the physical protection of her and the growth of her. I am to provide for, listen, a man is supposed to provide and protect that means physically provide and protect. That means emotionally provide and protect. And even more so spiritually provide and protect. The reason why a lot of men aren't doing so is because they can't even provide and protect themselves spiritually, physically, emotionally. Are you with me? And so if women saw that, again, I promise you guys, if not all cases, this is a fallen world. But if women saw it in a man, they'll treat you like what they see. Can I get a witness from the ladies? A woman will treat you like she sees you. If she sees something to love, to respect, and so forth, she'll do that. Even, and you've seen women, they'll do it to their detriment. They'll do it if it means, if they think you're special, even if you've seen guys who are worthless, who are absolute trash, but a woman will treat them that way because she's still holding out hope for a baby. He'll get it right even though he's sleeping around doing this and that or whatever. Y'all've seen women do that. Maybe one day they end up clicking and she realizes he's some trash or maybe she'll start treating that way. But if she thinks he's something special, she's going to treat him that way. If she thinks he's somebody to respect, she's going to respect him. If she thinks he's strong, listen, we don't have, let's dispel the rumor. We don't have knee-jerk responses. We do not. How do I know? Again, again, let the right person hit you and you turn around and your face is right at his chest. Some, some big old, oh, hey, brother, I'm sorry, that was that my apology. You don't do it to the judge. You don't do it to the police officer, especially when they got their buddies and they got their hand on the gun. Hold up, officer, wait a second. No, we don't, we can think. We can think quick enough. Let's just, let's tell the truth, shame the devil. Tell the truth, shame the devil. Now, if you're speaking about some woman who is out of pocket and won't get right, well, she ain't the one for you anyway. So what are we talking about? What are we talking about? We're talking about men being men, which also includes you choosing. If you're a godly man, you conduct yourself in a godly fashion. You're gonna get a lot of things attracted to you. You're gonna get the flies and you're gonna get the good looking ones. You're gonna get the bad ones. You're gonna get the good ones. You're gonna get the wives and you're gonna get the clubbies. You get all those things. But because you're a man, not just outwardly, you really are a man. And you, and since this is a smart Christian channel, we're talking about Christian men and Christian women, because this applies. And so you're just doing you. You are living your life. By the way, guys, I'm sorry. I've been on a roll. I have not been noting the Super Chat. Thank you guys for the Super Chat. Let's see what Damon says. He says the standard of masculinity has destroyed manhood. What makes a man is the pursuit of God's heart. Most men haven't been after God for a long time. So a standard treatment is I agree. I agree. You know, we used to have, we used to have men that have, because see the biggest problem with men in America, isn't women, it's a man, another man, either a man that should have been there, but it's absent or a man that was there who did not show them the right way, show them how to be a man. My father, Jimmy Minor, was he as godly as he could have been? No, he didn't become godly until his, until he got ready to die. He placed his faith in Christ. He was one of the fortunate ones who was not living for the Lord, but then came around before he died. I thank God for that. I thank God for that. God brought him down and broke him so that he could place his faith in Christ. I thank God for that. But prior to that, Jimmy Minor didn't take any excuses. No, no, no, you're going to be a man, you're going to act like a man. I was telling, I told this matter of fact, this story twice yesterday, where my brother, who got himself in a bit of a pickle, in Indiana, at least it was back then, that if you got a ticket, you didn't get a traffic warrant like you do in Texas. If you get a seatbelt violation, you got a warrant if you don't pay that thing. In Indiana, it takes a few tickets, five or 10, I'm not sure how many, and then they'll issue an arrest warrant. My brother called Collette to my daddy. First time my daddy heard that my brother was calling Collette from jail, he hung up on her. The second time he got the call, he said, yeah, I'll take it, I'll take it. Yeah, what? And so he holds the phone and said, yeah, the little blankly blank got himself in jail. He said, what? And so my brother asked, my brother asked my father, could he come and bail him out? My father said, no, blank you and hung up. Now I thought, daddy, that's cold. He said, no, it's not. No, he's a grown man out there running around, taking those traffic tickets and just putting them in the glove compartment, not paying. And so he's going to make, he made us stand on our own two feet, whether it hurt or not, but it would develop us. He did not want us to make excuses. He, now my father told me before he, you know, my father never did. We never said and had a conversation about women. Not once, not once. Not once. We never said and said, these women are this and that. We might have, you may make a statement, but we never said, hey, you know what's wrong with these women nowadays. No, no. He did talk about what might be wrong with some of these men and me telling me to grow up to be a man. He wanted me more than anything else to be a man. He said, I don't care if you're a rich man or a poor man, I just want you to grow up and be a man. I want you to take care of yourself. I want you, if I die, if I'm gone, that I want to be able to know that when, when I'm gone, you don't need anybody. You can stand on your own two feet. That's what we should hope for from a man, spiritually, physically, and emotionally. And so the Bible says this as far as men are concerned. In 1st Corinthians, 1613 says, be watchful, stand firm in the faith. Be watchful, stand firm in the faith. Let me say it again. Be watchful, stand firm in the faith. Act like men. Be strong. And let all that you do be done in love. Did you hear what I just said? Let me read it again. Let me read it again. Be watchful. Stand firm. Act like men. Be strong. Let all you do, let all that you do be done in love. Can I tell you, because the question is going to be, well, what does a godly man look like? Well, Paul said, imitate me or follow me, depending on your translations, imitate me as I imitate Christ. Christ, Jesus was a man's man. Listen, let me just say, in case you didn't know, Jesus was no punk. He was a man's man. Remember, he drove people out of the synagogue for defiling the synagogue for turning into a den of thieves. That's not some weak man. He did that. Now, there were times where he was compassionate. Jesus knew obviously he's God, but he would speak like a lamb at the right time and behave that way, loving and compassionate. And then other times he would be a lion. That was Jesus. Now, we are never going to be that perfect. There are going to be times we mess up, but we own it. And we realize that as men, we do have some responsibilities. It's not to go out there and be like some of these other guys. We want to be boastful. We want to brag later. And we all have insecurities, men and women. And I don't care if you get to be 75 years old as a man. You still have some insecurities, but they should be less and less and less realizing what's more important. Now, I don't understand this whole, this whole men's fear. I think it's full of people who like to overcompensate for their insecurities. Again, you can call me all sorts of names. I can be all those things. It really doesn't move me. I'll invite you in for a conversation. Tell me why. Tell me why I'm this. If I'm that bad, I'd like to fix it. But I'm not going to... You know what? You'll blankly blank yourself because you call me, okay, well, that's not what I'm going to do. And so we see that in this men's fear where we want to blame somebody else. Men do not exact blame on, especially if it's something that you can control. You all have seen athletes on a team where the team, all the players weren't performing up to task, but the star player decides that he's going to step it up a little bit and what he doesn't do is blame anyone else. A good leader takes the blame, takes responsibility. Well, Mr. Quarterback, how do you take blame when the guy misses blocking you get sacked? Well, I should have got rid of the ball quicker. I should have audible to another play. I should know better. I shouldn't have put us in that position in the first place. That's what a leader does. A leader does. You come back home and the wife might be struggling, so you do what you have to. Sometimes you've got to... Maybe your man in the family is not doing financially well as though you'd like to, and you go and get another job. You go do what you have to do to make sure that the burden is lessened on her and the family. But it's not... See, I'm the kind of person... My wife is a teacher. I would like for her to stop teaching, but there's some things that she wants to do. And it's not a big strain on us, our youngest daughter is still homeschooled. But if Bill's needed to get paid, she ain't getting no other job. Matter of fact, I want her to quit. I want you to be comfortable more than me. I'm fine. If I got a die at 60 and you lived at 90, amen. I'm good with that. I just want to make sure that you are taken care of. A man doesn't mind dying for his woman. That's imitating Christ. Doesn't mind dying for the one that he loves. That's me. I hope it's me. I hope it's me. I hope that I can show to my wife that this man is going to do what's necessary. That I've got a woman that will come to me and say what's bothering her. What's hurting her. What's scaring her. That she can talk to me and trust that I might not get it right. But I've got enough concern. I'm committed to at least find out what to do or at least try something. Again, I don't care. Now, when it comes to them, those who bear the name minor, I'm going to do my best. I'll kill myself to make sure that they are okay. That's what a man is supposed to do. He's not trying to go out and be somebody special for anybody. That's not his job. That's not... Men are to grow up. The Bible says, it says when I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child. But when I became a man, I did away with childish things. Now, can we apply that to women? Sure we can. The difference between men and boys is maturity. Men should not... a mature person should have greater control over their emotions. The things that bothered you as a little 5-year-old should not bother you as a 15-year-old the same way. And what bothered a 15-year-old should not bother a 25-year-old. And what bothers a 25-year-old should not bother a 45 or a 50-year-old. It just should not. That is maturity. It would be nice if some of the 50-year-old and 40-year-old and 30-year-old men can tell the 20-year-old and the 15-year-old and 10-year-olds how they ought to conduct themselves. That should be the case. But even if you don't have that example, you still have the Bible. And so what needs to happen is we need less boys and more men. You will find little joy in your command, but with luck you will find the strength to do what needs to be done. Let the boy, John Snow, kill the boy and let the man be born. Yeah, that's what we ought to do. It's an issue of doing the right thing and responsibility. Now, let me just do this. Matter of fact, I hadn't thought to do this, but let's just go ahead from this point on and let's just kind of make this little interactive. Let me just look at some of you all's comments and let's go from there because maybe you no, it's not a mic drop coming just now. No, no, no, no, no. I was up late. The old man, Sir Walter Jones, had me up till late. And I don't know why I've got a second gust of wind. But I want to just engage you all and look at your comments. It says, Tampa says, women initiate divorce most of the time. Okay. All right. But I'm trying to understand though, what would be the point though? What's the point in that statement though? Yes, women do. They might okay, fine. What if your wife whooping on you? What kind of, what is she bigger than you? Let me just ask this question. What is happening to where she thinks that? Because she ain't whooping on everybody else. She's whooping on you. Now, there are some dynamics and I'm not trying to to absolve her from doing that. I do also wonder what were you thinking when you got her in first place, but hey, now you're with her and the Bible says, you know how you know you married the right one when you say I do. When you said I do, that's the one. That's the one. So what are you doing when your wife is looking on you? Well, maybe if it's got to the point where you're in fear for your life, well then you might have to move around. Get some counseling. Maybe she's not a Christian. Maybe the first thing you should have been doing instead of trying to get your little swing on is to lead her, be a good priest of the house. And I'm not saying you, I'm just saying anyone. Do that. So you're going to let her beat you up to a pulp? No, well first of all, my wife couldn't beat me to a pulp. So if you're 5'1", and she's 6'7", okay, fine, fine. You're Spike Lee and you married Brittany Griner? Okay, maybe, maybe. But listen, you've got to have some discernment in who you're speaking. You saw her, she was cute, she had a nice behind all of these things, she said the nice, she said the things that kind of turned you on and you brought her home and married her. And now you're like, this girl is crazy. Okay. There's consequences for sin. Now, again, I said earlier, should you let her beat you up? No, I'm speaking about retaliation. You do not retaliate on your woman. And truth be told, I'm a man, but I do have, I'll be honest, I'll be honest, I have less of a tolerance when it comes to a man hitting a man. Man is another man and the man retaliates. Oh, all right. But a woman, I think it's a bit different. Matter of fact, the conversation we had earlier with another person was the size and strength matter. Yeah, it does. Size and strength absolutely does matter. She is 4'11", 4'5", and she didn't have very much, but she hit you. It didn't hurt you. But you're 6'7", 2'60", and you swing, yeah, got a problem. Got a problem. What else? Let me just go through the chats. I'm trying to see who's mad at me now. By the way, the folks that are the most bothered. This proves my point. Who's the most bothered? Who is the most bothered in the chat? Who's the one that's the most irate? Is it the women? Who has the... Moderate as y'all tell me. Where are most of the objections coming from? The men or the women? Where are... Listen, you getting mad? I don't care. You getting bothered? Listen. Get right. Where are most... Corey, would you slap Shaq if he slapped a woman? I'll have to die. Now, see, Shaq is older now. Shaq is older. Now, what I did do, am I going to be as aggressive? Am I going to listen? I'm going to go gung-ho at Shaq or this big mountain of a man as much as if the guy was my size or smaller. Listen, if you 5'4", and you hit a woman, I'm going to hit you back. I'm kidding. Again, if I have to sit and think about it, well, then certainly does that man also. Now, have I dealt with big angry men, men bigger and angrier? Yeah, I have. And so there's a way to do it. But what we're not going to do is keep letting you do this to her. That's... I'm still a man. And at some point in time, I've got to... Fine, fine. You're going to be with both of us there. You're going to be with both of us. Yeah. Yeah, Damon, because the question is going to be if women are pursuing divorces, why? Because also that same stat, I know women do cheat, but men still do cheat at a higher rate than women. And so is that why she's filed? Why are you leaving me? Well, because you slept with my sister, the babysitter and the neighbor. But baby, let's work it out. No, I'm filing for divorce. Okay, well... I know Susie Q. I know she's another woman, but I'm just saying, you know, just... She's the first tall person I could think of and, you know, she's been hard in that Russian prison for her. She's been hard in that Russian prison. But I just thought of the first short person and the first tall person that I could think of. So I want to see who are the ones that disagree with me? What if she choking me out? What if she choking me out? Does it there? Listen, if you're getting choked out, it's what you do. Hurry up and act like you're unconscious. Just fake it. Hurry up. They're choking you out. Go ahead and just go limp real quick. Make them think that you're through. So that way they'll stop. If she choking me out, that's what I'll do. If it's to the point where she's choking me out, yeah. I need to start taking some self-defense classes. I want to see who's upset with me. I need to see who's upset with me. Let's see what he says. My wife and I can disagree on a lot of things. But at the end of the day, we still have love and respect for each other. We work through our differences. You know what's happening? That's the kind of relation that you have to establish. The sooner the better. Don't let things deteriorate. If you're in a relationship, married, don't let it get to the point where you're at the bottom and now you want to start learning how to talk things out. You should have been talking things out all along. It makes it that much harder because now there's all this pent up frustration and resentment and years or weeks or months or however long it is of things that you've done to violate her and vice versa. You disagree, but listen, you disagree, but you're wrong. Listen, nothing wrong with you being wrong. Ain't nothing wrong with you being wrong. What do you disagree with? Can I ask you a question, Tampa? This just mean you. Nobody has to know our business, but it just mean you. You seem and sound like you are hurt. I've seen a lot of men take out their hurt and anger and frustration on the entire world of women. Because you keep bringing up stuff about well, they do this, they do that. Okay, we're not talking about them. How'd your mom and daddy say, if Larry jumped off a bridge, are you going to do it too? How would you, we are recall, we are required to respond a certain way. We are required to respond a certain way. And if you don't feel like you have the ability as a man, all of us, it's for all of us. The ability as a man to take responsibility will then just simply bow out and start to stop claiming to be this man that you want us to see that you are. Not you, but just all of us. This goes for all of us. I'm not going to put that coming up. As a boy growing up without a father, how can I be a better father for my son and let me give you all a tip. This is something that I do with the men. I want you all, all you men. Now, I don't care if you've got your act together or not, if you feel like you do or not. Every man do this. Take a piece of paper, not right now, but take a piece of paper and write down the ideal man. The man that you want to be or you want to be seen as. The little commercial that ran at the very beginning, the world's most interesting man. We can all like, yeah, that's me. I'd like to be thought of that man. So what kind of man would you like to see yourself as? Is it the John Wayne type, the Superman type? Is it the James Evans from Good Times type? Is it the Heathcliff-Huckstable type? Not the Bill Cosner type, but the Heathcliff-Huckstable type. But how do you see yourself? Write down the kind of man that you want to be. Then two, write down where do you think you are? Then three, if you're married or you've got a significant other or some people in your family ask them how close they see you. I'm talking about all the things whether you can get there or not. The characteristics, the traits that you want to have. Write those down. I want to be a stronger man physically. I want to be a man with some self-control. I want to be a man with some self-control. I want to be, and if you can think of a character, think of a character. What'd you say? I told him that, but he don't... No, you ain't... No, you ain't coming on. Um... No. No. Mr. Woods can kick some Seiko rocks. That's what he can do. No. No. I'm sorry, I hit the wrong button. No. Listen, first of all, there's a reason why you ain't coming on because you might make some sense and I don't want you to do that. No, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. Okay, you don't have one. So my question is, does that... You said you don't have one. Is that involved in your opinion? Does that formulate your opinion? There's something that's happened along the way that you don't have one. Is it that you had one and now you don't or you haven't gotten one? Because I've got a friend, a buddy, who is becoming bitter because he's not having success. And what is he doing? He's blaming the world. He's blaming women. Well, there ain't one... Listen, there's four or five billion women on the planet. It ain't them. It's not them. It can't be all of them. So let's just debunk this real quick. You seem like a younger man. You look younger if that's your picture. Let me help you out. You said some women act like dudes and will try to test the men's limit. Okay. What does that have to do with you? What does that have to do with you? Is that the one that you... Do you put yourself around those sort of women? See, I don't... You know what I haven't had? I have not had the pleasure or the occasion personally. Now, outwardly... If I'm single, that's not part of the pool that I'm after anyway. The kind of women that would interest me aren't those anyway. And guess what, guys? They ain't hard to see. These women that are really out of pocket that you say are acting like men anyway, they're easily spotted. Maybe you guys need to train your eyes and get your eyes off her behind and look at her and see what she's saying. Look at that, brother. It is not hard to tell a bad woman out there, an overly bad woman like that. That's acting like a man. That's usurping men's authority even before she gets married. That's not hard to see at all. It's just not. Hold on, wait a second. I mean, you have to understand the times we live in. There is an entire societal hatred towards men, boys, and fathers which is celebrated all throughout academia and media like how do you expect men to be? Let me just put it this way. All right, let me help you out with this one. I'm on a blood lesson. Hold on. Let me drink my beverage for a second. I'm getting ready to bless you. Just give me four and a half seconds. Here's the response to what you just said. So, so, so it's that way. First of all, this isn't new. You have had, especially if you are a believer, you have had a target on your back your entire life. So what? Yeah. Society is against you. Society is against Christians. What are you going to do? Is there a place where we can send our complaints to? Or do we do like the little rascals? Should we form some of y'all olden to know this in the little rascals they had at the He-Man Woman Haters Club? Y'all want to do that? All the guys get together. We can formulate the He-Man Woman Haters Club. We can do that if you want. But here's the point. All right. All right. I'm feeling temple today. I'm feeling... Let's test what you just said. You said, brother Corey, women don't want good men anymore. All right. Ladies, do you concur? Do you all think... Do you all... I just saw something funny. Do you all think that women don't want good men anymore? Because men are... Women are going to say that men don't want good women. So there are women who consider themselves to be good women who will say that there ain't no good men or the men don't want a good woman and vice versa. Do you all think... Little Ducky says no. I'll file for you. You got an eyesight. Some of y'all ain't olden to know that He-Man Woman Haters Club is eyesight. Thank you, Commander Productions. I appreciate that. I appreciate that. I'm 50. I know what you're thinking though. I know what you're thinking. You're thinking, Corey, you look 22. You look 22. I wish. Boy, listen, I go to the bathroom. You know how sometimes you think that you still look young and then you go to the bathroom and look and it's like somebody need to do something with these... Stop cleaning the mirror so good. Stop cleaning these mirrors so good because I'm starting to see myself too good. Suzy Q says good women want good men. Say it again. They do. I just told you how to get them. Tapping everybody else in a single whether you... Two things I want you to do if you're single. Men and women. I said earlier maybe you guys missed it. Let me say it again. There's two things that you got to do. You need to do to not to find you a husband or a wife. You ready? One, stop saying you're single. Stop telling. First of all, a man doesn't care to keep here. I'm a single woman and a woman don't care to keep here. I'm not the good ones. Okay, fine. One, stop telling everybody you're single. We know you're single. You buy yourself everywhere you go or with your girlfriend. So stop that. It becomes who you are. It becomes how you identify yourself and you lead with that. And what happens is the more you keep talking about being single the more you get what your insecurities pop out and you become frustrated. The more you become frustrated, you become desperate. And now you with Troy who got three other girls he trying to decide and you tripping because he's sleeping with all of y'all and he can't make a decision on you. Stop being the single you, the single Fred, single Martha, single Daisy, single Charlotte or whoever just be you. All right? That's number one. Number two, just be godly. Just, I promise you. I promise. If Paul says, of course, God says this way it's not good that man should be alone. God knows you're alone. And so here you are again. Stop going to the place where the bad guys are. Stop talking to the bad guy. Have a no bad guy or no bad girl policy. If you conduct yourself dress like a good person and you don't put a time limit on it. I got to be married by next week, by next month, by next year in three years. I've seen this little timeline that a high school classman had. This is like by this time she wanted to be married and what? What? Which clip coming to America? Which clip are you talking about? Oh, oh, oh, oh, are you talking about where the good girls are? Is that what you're talking about? She says, I'm a loyal woman. I'm a loyal woman. I can't find, they're out there. They are out there. But listen, this is not you. I'm not saying this to you. So I don't think I'm saying this directly at you. I'm saying I'm directing this at every woman and every man. Give them, present to them somebody that they want to be loyal to. If they see you, and maybe you've done it subconsciously, but if they see you as someone not like everybody else, they won't treat you like everybody else. They'll treat you like you're something special. You ain't got to go out with them the first time. Hey, you think I can take you out for coffee? No, but you can call me. We ain't going out, we're not going out immediately. I'm not, what kind of girl do you think I am? Can I ask you ladies a question? It was the last time y'all said that. What kind of girl do you think I am? Well, we don't hear it nowadays because you know I am. Look at the clothes I'm wearing. Can't you see my cleavage? That should tell you what kind of girl I am. Can't you see these behind cheeks? That should tell you what kind of girl I am. Can't you see? Can't you listen to the songs that I'm listening to? That has a whole lot to do with it, guys. That has a whole lot to do with it. I'm sorry, and somebody's going to get bothered, but you get bothered while you're singing and I'm sitting here giving it to you. Listen, you mean to tell me, all these women out here who are looking for a good man and all these men out here who are looking for a good woman and that's because the good men don't look like good men or the men who are good men who are trying. Y'all see, what's the girl's name? Lolo Jones. Poor young lady. She ain't young anymore. I think she's 40, 41 now. Pretty girl, she might be still a virgin and she's just trying hard. She went to the point they were just showing her, showing these pictures and so forth. If that's how you're going to present yourself, that's how it goes. Again, you go to the store and you see something that you want to buy and we buy stuff based on the wrapping. We just do. I want some cookies and let's look, I got it. It's a plain silver wrapping or these with a nice picture on it. Well, I'm thinking of the nice picture. So you got to figure out how you're presenting yourself. Present yourself to somebody special. That's something special. I'm sorry, that's what you do. And then wait. And then make him think that you're worth waiting. Make sure he knows it. You go and wait. Listen, if you get with me, this is a slow moving train. Yeah, this ain't the Midnight Express, buddy. This is a slow moving train. SoloTV84 says, I used to be part of the Manusphere, but left when one of the content creators who was a rainbow hit on me in person. Yeah. Yeah. And so listen, if you have standards, I promise you ladies, I promise you fellas, if you have standards, folks don't respect your standards or if they won't be around you. There will be people, there will be people that will relate to you. I promise you. And then if there's that important and pray about it, is there anything wrong about praying about your single-hoodness? Not because what we do is we tell everybody, everybody else but God. We tell God, fix it, and we go out to the club and try to fix it ourselves, just in case God didn't hear. It's always the man's fault. Women are flawless, and they will all get into heaven. Man, if you address anything, women are doing you are weak. You're weak, man up. Okay, all right. If she's doing wrong, it's your fault. If she's doing right, applaud her. Okay. Okay, I don't know. And I won't get mad at you. Call me. Call me. Call me. Call me. Call me. Call me. Call me. Call me. Call me. Call me. Call me. And I won't get mad at you. Cause, ZG, not gonna band you, not gonna block you, but help me out. Are you telling me that I'm weak and I need to man up? Again, we're not gonna ban you, not gonna block you, I'm not gonna get mad. But let me know so I can, you know, while some of that may be true, you're effectively ending marriage because there are already a few Christians No matter what happens. It's the man's fault Yeah, this guy's I Listen, you don't have to see me dating the world today. I don't have to date. I'm trying. I'm trying to give it to you I'm trying. Okay. This this is what I would do. I have the me that I am. This is the me that I would be this is the me that I would be and I'm because I Would not want The the mess of the prettiest shiniest thing and what have you who's just all into herself and so forth and she's got every Part of her body on display. I'm like, no, no, I wouldn't want that You shouldn't want that you should want somebody you can sit and talk to and have a conversation with But I need to have somebody who is godly, but it's what but but here's the point though Borges production. I'm not single. You're trying to be where I am. I used to be single So did I say hey look I would look look at what I'm trying to tell you Look at what I'm trying to tell you, brother. Oh He's oh, he's okay. What's that? He's capping court. I mean, he's he's he's calling me out. He's talking about me I'm not sure what that what that what that means Okay, but Rashaan quit speaking. Listen, I can't you losing me Where's the guy? What's the guy cause whatever his name is? Thank you era for super chat and time, but thank the super chat also. Where's the guy's name it cause whatever? I'm looking for your comment. See if I just want again. I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna shoot back at you I just want to know And listen if because I saw a comment before where someone You just saw not you but another person you just soft week you this you that or what have you How am I soft weaker? I'm telling you Now I said this to one guy I wouldn't be soft and weak with you Mr. No, I'm not single now. Where's it that picture? Let's see. Yeah, right there behind me right there behind my finger That's me and the Mrs. That's me and my baby mama my baby's mama my baby's mama I all all my kids were one lady. She is the mother of all my all my cheering Like the soap opera says Okay. Oh, so that means he was okay. So that means that he was saying that I need a man that I was weak Okay, I know Oh, okay, hold up hold up dog on it. Oh I got it right now chest chat. Let's go with 31st Okay, how's that that better? No, okay. No, you didn't have to do super chat for that again. No, but no listen. I'm not saying Okay, let all right guys. Let me let's all right ladies ladies y'all just y'all ladies put your pins down Put your typing fingers to the side for a second. Let me just talk to the guys for a sec. Let me let me let me give you all this How many of you men want men and women to look at you like your man How many men want you to be seen as a man? Okay. Yeah, thank you. Don't listen. I'm I'm slow with the lingo So I'm but how many you go want how many you mean want men and women to see you like the kind of man That you think you are that you want to be and I say men too because let's be honest Men care just as much about what other men think as they do what women think how many of you want that And if that's the case then here's what you can't do you can't enter in to the situation Looking for an excuse or an out Life listen life was tough before you got here So what we don't need is you to add more confusion more I Look for more sympathy we don't need we don't need more excuses Finding a good woman Is you want to be a match The match is if you're a good man and you're godly well then guess what you've done If you do things the right way then you will you will have naturally heaven entering in in the process for you Because you know what God wants God wants godly marriages to produce godly children So that there be more arrows for the quiver in the quiver to go against the enemy Because what would it be like if we had more godly people on the planet? Well more godly people necessarily have to come from godly children They were children. Well, not so they can you can become you could be a horrible adult and then place your faith in Christ and then become godly But what if the kids start off godly they were they were right born and raised in a godly household So heaven will work with you But sometimes we just got to take responsibility and it's like okay. I've been doing things the wrong way I've been going after quantity instead of quality that happens. I Know I'm gonna push the wrong button It's not that I don't want to hold women accountable It's just that I am fully convinced y'all. Yeah, listen y'all disagree. Y'all tell me from wrong I'm fully convinced that if men Would get their act together. I Just think that women will also do the same thing too. I don't think it's they get it right first and then we'll get right I Think if you get it right if men get it right then she will and the thing is you're not dating all four or five billion women When they're out there All the crate you're not dating them. You're not looking for them You're looking for the one for you and there's more than enough There's more than enough Now maybe also you you you get bothered by if you if one of her imperfections come out and then that's a problem And then you're like see see see she ain't what I'm looking for. Okay. We'll find me All right fine. You're looking for Miss America Vanessa Williams back in back in 83 And she's just as sweet. She's she's got a brain like Claire Huxer bull and she's just the sweetest woman you looking for that Okay, well keep looking Buddy mine is is 50 years old looking for looking for a woman and then hopefully she don't have any children all right Good good luck with that. And so yeah, I every time I want to hold women accountable it's not like women out there in the world by themselves and so They are women are reacting to men so if if if men What if what if the rap songs wasn't calling the women all kind of bees and hoes and it's not what if the The rap songs didn't degrade what if the shows that we see and the men that we see did didn't degrade Didn't go out and try to conquer as many as possible Then and women knew that a man is looking for a good woman What cuz she wants if she wants the same thing as you then why don't you? Again, I don't think it's that difficult. I don't Single mothers are difficult to deal with you. I agree with that Married mothers are difficult to deal with Pete everybody. Everybody's difficult to deal with But listen older you get you your options are gonna be slimming if you I hope you know you 50 years old and she 20 Don't know what kind of conversation you're gonna have Yes, she she's pretty in this net of water, but but y'all talking about veggie tails Uh the thing is all men will agree that if you plant the seed you get the fruit We disagree because you refuse to see the ground is poison. Well, then alright Well, then I would say to you guys who find it. Okay, I gotta do this now. I gotta do this now This what you gonna have to do then if you do not agree with me and You don't think it's up to you as this is to me not the ladies Because by the way, it's you guys are the one that's upset. I Didn't say anything false, but if you disagree with me Then you're only recourse. No, you got to you got two recourses. You have you got two things you can do Keep doing what you've been doing Or just be celibate go go go celibate go slow go single No more dating no more look just it's just me and God forever. That's what it is It's not like you got a lot of options Not like you've got a lot of options It's not like you got a lot of options and so fine It's not I don't have to change she gonna change first. All right. Good luck with that Go back and look at history and just see who's been following whose lead have men been following the lead of women Or have women been following the lead of men And so if and again, it's not all the women that you're looking for I don't I don't Fine if you want to be celibate for life, you don't want to be married and so forth You don't have any hey listen, then then you're good then you have no complaint. Anyway, didn't matter how women are but I again I Said what I said because God still hold. There's a reason why God holds men more accountable And I'm sorry Strong men or you know what? Let's say I've got a man who is a dog. He's not a good man at all But he sees this good woman all the dogs in the room. See this good woman She's gonna make all the dogs in her room do right Or what's what's more likely to happen? There's a good man in the room And then you got all these women maybe they've been hurt what have you and they see this good man Or well any of those good women change. I think it's more likely that the women would change than the men to change. I Think if she see if the woman sees a good version of a man I think I because sometimes women tend to be whatever they think the man wants So that's just me. I listen I could be wrong could be wrong Could be wrong Could be right though. What do you mean? What do you mean Robert? What have I first of all? It's impossible that I was wrong. All right So you so you disagree? No, I'm just kidding. I'm okay. Why where do you disagree with them and sir in all seriousness What do you think I'm and I don't and by the way Mona, I don't think that the pickings are slim either I don't think it's slim pickings between good men and good women. I Let's dispel them the misnomer that there are that there are billions of good women and five good men There's a whole bunch of bad women out there and so your competition that you're going up against is small also So it's not again It's not like you're competing against a whole the whole world is it all the women in the world are good and wonderful And no, no, no, there's not a lot of good women not a lot of good men. Okay fine If that's how we're gonna take it fine That means you'll it'll be easier for you to find yourself out for you to find your this this other person But the point is if my my take is if men Active and behave like men and men were held to that same center by other men A lot of the problem we would have not even with this whole dating stuff because the whole point This wasn't even about dating. It was just me how men are period and if men acted the right way Then you would see because of the issue of fatherlessness Men are the ones who are banning their kids more so than women Are there women who are who are neglecting their children more and more sure there are but women got a long way to go to catch up with men in terms of that and If men took care of their kids if men were present You would see a lot of a lot of this stuff is just because of it's a natural downward spiral because Men have advocated their responsibility You go to the prison and find out how many men were there in these boys these men's lives growing up Not a whole lot not a whole lot. And so what is happening is they get taught by the street It might be rap. It might be TV It might be whatever it is those are things that are teaching these men out there And so what is my definition of a man a definition of a man is first and foremost someone who has Christ in their heart You can't be a man if you're not the man that God wants you to be are you with me The cat is wanting to get in That's the first definition of the definition for the first definition of a real man is a man who a godly man The creator has determined what a man should be and he can't be what he's supposed to be if the spirit of God is not in him Are you with me? That's the first thing and then he begins to act in a court He begins to behave the way God that's the definition of a godly man Look at the paws of the world. Look at the Peters of the world. Look at the Jeep. Look at Jesus. Just with a spouse Robert says I agree with most everything, but it doesn't seem like you have been in the situation with very fucking moves thing with With a very broken woman The chat won't let me tighten my experience unfortunately because the character limit have I have I been in in? Okay, I Wasn't an angel my wife wasn't in terms of like we just we just we just popped out perfect and popped out perfect met each other perfect And so there was nothing going on in our in our lives And so I I I do know what it's like. I do I Understand that I do Understand that there are broken people out there and so whoever you're gonna be with whoever you want to marry or Or court or what have you is gonna be a broken person that's just that is what it is guys But isn't that what Jesus did? Didn't God didn't God marry to a bunch of broken people also and so we have an example What I debate just pearly She's the leader of them I don't know who just pearly is what I debate her Is she a Christian because if we're not if she's not a Christian be kind of hard to we'd be talking on two different planes Can't that's that's unfortunate. I'm sorry to hear that brother I'm sorry to hear that Hold on do what why do you think? God addresses the women first when addressing couples in the Bible every text that deals with husbands and wives Women are addressed first just wondering. Okay. Well, let's just with the first time that he dressed me dresses He dressed the man In terms of responsibility But let's go to Let's go to Ephesians wives Be subject to your own husbands as to the Lord for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is also the head of the church He himself being the savior of the body, but as the church is subject to Christ now what I say that that's necessarily God Focusing on the woman first. No, no, I think he's I think he's setting it up I think he's going kind of he's going in a hierarchy because then what does he do? He says he speaks to the man But then he also talks about in terms of being subject He talks about us ultimately being under subjection of the Lord and so I Wouldn't I would not read into that at all. I really wouldn't I don't think that that proves a point so But now for you all I would just say this I don't I didn't I didn't mean for this to turn into like a Dayton thing or whatever, but Let's stay there for a second for you all who disagreed with me who are single You've been doing what you've been doing for the longest it hadn't worked. I Got a suggestion Do what I just suggested it's not like I'm not I'm not prescribing or telling you to do something I'm telling you something what I think is godly. I'm not giving you ungodly advice I'm not saying you know again. I want you as men as men To be the man that you're supposed to be A man who has self-control look at the fruits of the spirit a man who has self-control a Man who is patient a man who is godly? I'm sorry. I just happened to notice when the cat went out the door is open now. I got dogs come in here Move Lucy get get Get I'm sorry and it's a girl dog. So I have to be patient with her. Okay. I gotta be patient with it So but a man should be again He should be he should have some bravery He should have some confidence not in the confidence where he has just kind of overcompensate and tell everybody about how much this is How this he's all of it. No, he's not being braggadocious. He's not boasting. He's confident in himself He's not worried about what other people are doing. He's focused on the task at hand Which might be if he's not if he's married obviously his family, but if he's single Because the video is also dealing with married men as well Because remember the guy that hit the woman then a white he's married. It wasn't about single singleness and so forth All right, it was about just men period, but but a godly man Exhibits a trait of Jesus Christ God and flesh and so that ought to be the point and I promise you guys I promise you guys if you behave and People see you first of all if you begin to start acting like a godly man I'm not saying that you all have it, but whoever this applies to if you if you begin to start acting like a godly man Well, then everybody's gonna notice it men and women the Jan the the the Bible is replete with examples look at the pick a man a godly man pick I don't know pick Elijah Pick by the way We don't know who was married of the Apostles The Bible doesn't the Bible doesn't talk about Bartholomew's wife or Thaddeus the Thompson's wife Were they married or not? We don't we simply do not know We know Peter was he's on he's the only of the Apostles who we know about his that he was married and Not because of his wife, but because his mother-in-law. Well, you don't have a mother-in-law, but she married We know what kind of man he was But his his heart his desire was for God and so I would imagine I don't know I would imagine that that made him a pretty good husband. I would imagine so, but I I do not know But I do know a good godly man will ultimately if he if he does things correctly He will have a good godly woman following him That's just it. It is what it is. Let me say this. Let me say this again Manusphere loves to quote Proverbs 31 if you ask them about fornication, they say it's okay because it's and yeah Fornication is not okay What do they say having options? No, it's not okay. That's not okay. You're you're a horrible man There's a horrible man. If if if that's your if that's your definition of conquering Well, then fine, you're not a man Because men have self-control Men know what they want And they aren't my like kids, but they got they they they have their goals that they meet their goals, and they don't complain The biggest problem that I have with with with men The biggest I'm what you say this what do you mean? It's crazy. Tell me what what do you mean? This is crazy. What's crazy what I'm saying what they're saying. I'm gonna assume what I'm saying, which is fine I I love to be corrected But the biggest problem that I do have with men and granted I told you all before I'm harder on men But the bigger problem I have with men is I just can't abide by a bunch of excuses Your life is your life is like it is you've had problems with women because it's them. It's the woman For all the men that complain and what what what have you done for all the men that are bothering upset complaining? What have you done? What have you done to contribute to your misery? It's got to be at least that you can't pick a good woman And at the very least it's that if all women you've ever interacted with there Just no good if you can't find any no good woman. Maybe you're no good at picking them Maybe you're no good at going where they are. Maybe you just don't know. Oh See the chat is weird the chat like well So at some point in time you gotta say what I'm I remember as a youth pastor talking to the young folks The teenagers and the and the the young adults those in college and I asked them a question. I said for all of you Who are out here dating first of all you're horrible at dating. Why do you say that gory? Well? Here's why because how many you have been dating. Well, I've been dating. We've all been dating How many you're married? Well, none of us. Well, that means all you've ever done was fail Try something different Try something different and maybe maybe Maybe you get different results I'm saying present yourself as a godly person not necessarily looking for a man or woman That'll take that'll happen on its own But if God is your focus and foremost first and foremost people are gonna see that you can't All right, let's let's let's figure this out guys. Let's let's figure this out If you are a godly person if you are Christian What are you necessarily going to be if you're a Christian? Aren't you going to be light and If you're light in a dark world Somebody help me out if I shine light in the darkness won't people see it Won't people see you Yeah, they will they'll see you they'll see you and They'll take notice, huh? There's something about her something about him He's not argumentative. He's not boastful. He ain't trying to he's not say he's not either sagging or got skinny jeans on Whatever they'll know they will notice that They just will notice that So my suggestion is be godly first Be godly first and then watch what happens Be godly first. How do we deal with? How do we deal with women in Authoritative positions like the government like judges and police officers, how do we permit them to not have a way? You know the the Bible doesn't really speak about the world in their positions with women The world the world is gonna do what the world is gonna do which is which is the same thing here We don't have to worry about worldly people first of all if first of all if you are single you look for somebody This also goes with this as well Your pool are Christian people Christian men Christian women that's your pool and So if you're looking out if you're out there looking that's that's who you that's who you'll be around and It's hard. It's not hard to see who's but at least behaving like a Christian. By the way, can I tell you a story me my wife? Let her tell it I was really I was a horrible Christian we first met but I probably was I probably was Because when I met her I was checking her out, but what she was doing when she was passing out Christian tracks She had this this I still remember the dress. It was maroon dress It was you know, it wasn't like tight or fit and it wasn't like that because that wasn't the time That we lived in wherever you know that there were some that you know where these little types of water But but the dress fit good enough where I like Right and so after saying I had a buddy. I didn't remember the guy's name Who was with me and he said like uh-huh and he was too. He was too afraid to go talk to her, but I wouldn't talk to her I Said hey mama Check me out. No, I didn't I didn't do that. I didn't do that. She thought I was some kind of jerk or what is she? She didn't really like me that much at first But like a fungus I grew on her I guess But Your pool of people that you're dealing with anyway, we're talking about the church So when it comes to the government the world well We're in the world without of the world and so yeah We're gonna have women who are gonna be bosses CEOs and so for a week Well, we can't impose that on them. They're not gonna listen anyway They're not gonna listen anyway. So so that's not really what he's talking about. Oh, Mitchell Don't go in Mitchell. You know what I'm doing. I'm gonna start a class I'm gonna start a class and get you guys to sign up matter of fact. I tell you what I'm gonna do I'm going to start a class on on on being godly men. I'm gonna charge you guys And they don't even be free Because if I give it to you free, you're gonna think less of it. I'm gonna charge you a thousand dollars per session That's what I'm gonna do. Mitchell you make sure you sign up. You just said a man can follow godly I'm playing guys But you see a man can follow godly standards and the women will still give you the old bait and switch They'll give you what they think they can give you man or woman The church or the secular society, they will treat you how they think they can treat you They will treat you how they think they can treat you what you allow. That's just it I've been listen. I've had occasions to be taught be stopped by police officers and they'll treat me a certain way Yes, sir officer, but at the same time they knew I wasn't you know, some you know Ultra weak or what have you and so people are gonna treat you the how they perceive you And even if you put it on airs like yeah, I'm missing that they people people can see through that by the way guys Well tamper just don't be too nice This listen, I do this too I do this too even now I want to make sure that I'm at least progressing I'll never be whatever the perfect guy that I want to be I'll never be that person Not while I'm here, but I still want to have those things before many do this I want to be the kind of man. It's this way. I want to be more caring I want to be more stern and tough. I want you know I pick all the greatest characteristics of a man. That's why I played the commercial first That's what I want to be. I'm never going to be there, but I'm a strive for that, right? And so there are there have been times where I've been a pushover. There's been times, you know when I was singing like I was too nice There was this one girl In college, I thought that man. She's just so she was just perfect. She was not like the other girl And I was so scared because she was just different And I waited to the day after she had started talking to some other guys. She's well, I listen I just gave another guy my phone number and I'm not the kind of girl to give my number to a bunch of guys I'm like, man, I've been sitting there debating about this for the last Month or two and she said I thought you were looking but you never said anything. So I went on like, oh man Now you made it worse Just just be confident in God the God in you Uh Godly entertainment says this is off topic, but I'm a baby Christian I'm not sure if I've seen other pastors mention this But in Genesis 18 verses 1 through 5, Abraham sees the trinity Just curious if you saw that yes in Genesis 18 that is he he he he is there with God in flesh He is there with God. It was off topic, but but still it's about God So yeah, that is that's one of the verses that we go to to prove that God has shown up We call it a theophania or christophany Good question though. Good question. I saw something else Please read Proverbs 21 9. Let's go to proverbs Proverbs between 1 9. It's been a good passage too By the way, I'm watching me move tonight Uh, I think I'm gonna make me and my youngest daughter. We're gonna watch glory Mm-hmm. We don't watch glory. She hadn't watched glory. So I'll make her watch Denzel and morden freeman It is better. Oh, you're gonna start a fight here. It is better to live in the corner of Of a roof than in the house shared with a contentious woman You know how you fix that though You hit her that listen quick quick quick ripening complaining What what we do sometimes and I'm guilty of it too I'm guilty of it too because oftentimes the woman is contentious or nagging because I'm not acquiesce. I'm not Addressing certain needs so it doesn't get to this point to where she's nagging, right? And so again, I take I take the stands that ultimately I'm at fault for example Here I am. I'm the pastor of this church Someone calls the church and the secretary is rude now It's not my fault. I'm not to blame But I'm responsible because the head the overseer are you with me the ceo? He is responsible. He's accountable Not the person So I've got to make sure that the folks as we as it gets all the way down to the to the assistant pastors to the To the to the people take care of the yard to the to the secretary that they have been trained and understood what we're after Right the ceo of AT&T is responsible for how the people on the phones Treat the customers are you with me? And everything you said was right maria to that last part right there go cowboys Yeah, I can't wait. That's all right. Don't listen February is coming and we know what happens to cowboys in february that same face they always have I can't wait all right guys, um, so I don't want y'all to think as we get ready. I don't want you guys to think that I don't think or see that women in the world are a problem Obviously women in the world are a problem How do I know because we're all a problem? We are all fallen people. We're just jacked up And god has placed it a responsibility on the shoulders of men to be leaders in society And we haven't Who do we blame for us not being leaders? Well, you can't blame women That's contributing to the problem We don't pick out communities To sit and gripe. We don't form the he-man-woman haters club We don't do that Blame all the women By the way If your grandfather Or your great-grandfather heard you fellas complaining They beat you They take you out to the back to the woodshed just beat you They probably ain't my son. You ain't my guy. I'm I'm ashamed of you I'm ashamed of you. Give me back my last name Um obey the okay, let's go to it. Uh obey the gospel Because this isn't something that we used to do Uh-oh, okay. Okay. Where is it? Oh, I did chest chant. Okay. Hold on. I just did Uh, proverbs 21-9 It is better to live in the corner of a roof than in the house of a of a contentious woman than share with a contentious woman And and if your point is uh, you don't want to be around all that griping. What about promises? You can fix that too Uh promise you can fix that Okay um Almost gave yeah, I gotta wouldn't give it away. Who said that? Yeah, it was it's a little rascals Little rascals is classic little But when when when when when my wife if I feel like my wife is tripping if I if we all do If I feel like my wife is nagging Uh, you know, I gotta do while I don't like it What what have I done? What have I done to to not address what it is? She's nagging about what you know, they're they're again It's my responsibility is my i'm accountable It's my job It's like jesus complaining about the the the disciples. He didn't do that And lord knows he had a reason to complain about them jokers same thing with us I'm not going to um lay at the feet of the people that i'm entrusted to um look out for And just blame it. No no Uh, if you don't want to be the man step back and let somebody else be the man That's what that's what that's I heard an old man say it now if you're married you you can't do that but but just Practice being a good man Yeah So all right guys, I'm getting ready to go in here My uh, my youngest daughter She decided she wanted to cook tonight She's cooking fish sticks So she really she's just heating it up, but it's okay. That's my that's my baby. That's my baby I would say she can do no wrong, but she can it's just what she does do wrong I want to get her mama mama is there. No, no That's all right, though What'd you say? um, anyway guys If I leave and what matter of fact did I say If you want to get an example Did oh, oh we we hit okay. We we did chest chant. Thank you, brother We did hit 50 likes I didn't know that. Okay. Good. Good. Go. Good. Go. Why is my question big? What dog want to say? I don't let me Hold on shake. Okay. Shay. I didn't know your question was being nor. I'm sorry. These things are moving quickly Let me go pull up your your um, let me go pull it up Hold on. Shay says Hold on. Wait a second. Hold on. Let me get this. Let me get this straight A man told me he takes a bullet for a lady but let a brazen, hoarse woman die Is that right? What do you mean? I'm trying he would He would let a brazen, hoarse woman. I don't think you should let any woman die I don't I don't think um You know what you do, you know, we you know what you do Some of you folks. Oh no, we need to go on and get the temptations up in here These were when the carol tell me these these ain't when the songs were good What they say treat it treat it like a lady. I'm sorry. I can't sing but yeah Like you said shay treat it if you treat like a lady You'd be surprised if she treats you When when when my wife Is if I'm in the doghouse so to speak I'm not saying I'm in the doghouse. So I want you guys tripping But if I treat my wife Like a lady if I treat her right well, guess what I get Guess what I get I get what I'm looking for That's how that works That's how that works So I can sit and complain about whatever but again, ultimately men whether it's in your marriage whether it's in Finances whether it's in society leadership of church. You are responsible Don't be that man that that that that can't handle it But then get mad because a woman or another man treats you like you can't handle it That's all and so we have god as we have jesus as our example And so, um, if we just do what he's done. Yeah, fish sticks. Yeah, yeah, right We don't listen. Don't be making fun of my baby. She she cooking fish sticks As a matter of fact, we're getting fish sticks and the end of end of the flight. I think it's the little Gordon's It's okay though that and she wanted to make macaroni and cheese Um, and I think some green beans and we're gonna sit and watch a a little movie Yep, daddy's gonna sit with with the family. We're gonna do that And so, um, germaine, what's going on brother? I was getting shot at by a lot of men earlier today But it's okay Real men you have all Real men give up all their converse and sheep out. What'd you say out? What's that last part say bright? I can't figure out the last what you said By the way, by the way, son of john, he said it's fish friday. Y'all do realize I don't know it just dawned on me too in prison. The uh, the national menu was fish on friday It was was fish on friday so Yeah, I get listen. It is happy husband. Happy life. Happy wife. Happy life both of that Okay, we'll promote that Um, listen, by the way, Sharon Woolis must be must be a godly woman You know how much you know how much it must take To be married to him She she she must be a good woman because to be married to this dude She must be I I don't know what whatever what it you know what ladies I need to figure out whatever she got and go bottle up because it didn't yeah I don't know what it Sharon. You have our prayers and our simple mom kids. I'm kidding I can say that What's that? He's typing something right now. He's typing something right now. He ain't gonna let he ain't gonna let it slide He ain't gonna let it slide. He's typing something right now. Let me just let me just wait and see what he says I might just I you know, I might just ban for the weekend. I might I might have a psycho free weekend Yeah, Sharon, you are the listen. You are the salt of the earth. I don't know what it is. I don't know what it is You probably lost a bet You probably lost a bet to marry him in first place, but whatever it is you got Every other woman needs it anyway before he goes in and and type something in y'all be blessed. I will see you all tomorrow