 Hello everyone, welcome to another NARC Survivor Live video coming to you live From my penthouse suite 42 floors up, so yeah In this one I'd like to talk about How the narcissist is jealous of you now they're very good at disguising their jealousy but one thing we know is that Narcissists hate on us They always put us down They always make us feel small but people Don't hate on homeless people. They don't hate on people Who are disabled People who are completely down So the narcissist is not hating because of something you don't have They're hating you because of something you do have Which shows that they are jealous of you because if you didn't have something There would be no reason for them to hate But yes, they are jealous Which is ironic really because They're always out Flirting with other people They're always trying to get other people's attention and it's very inappropriate It's very disrespectful But if you go and do the same thing or even if you're just talking to someone and You don't mean anything by it. You're just having a conversation. They will get very angry They will get very jealous Because in their minds you belong to them You are this object that exists to meet their needs You are but their possession So they hate it when you get attention They see it as though you're taking the spotlight away from them They just don't like anyone seeing you noticing you It really bothers them and they don't like you having anything Especially if you have more than them They hate to see you having money They hate it if you're more attractive than they are It makes them really jealous And it compels them to want to put you down Beneath them because that's all they're really doing when they're insulting you when they're putting you down It's because they feel like you're above them And they're trying to put you beneath them and yeah, they can be very bitter and resentful Of the things that you have achieved the things that you possess Because they wish they had those things And that's why they won't see anything wrong in cheating you out with those things stealing from you They're not gonna feel bad for doing that because they think it's unfair They think it's unfair that you have those things in the first place and they don't They think they're more deserving of it and that's why they feel entitled to it. That's why they will steal from you They really believe that you owe them a living But they will act arrogant grandiose And it may catch you off guard You may Not think that it's jealousy because they think that they have it all They think they have everything So you would think there's no reason for them to be jealous of you You'd think there would be no reason for them to want Anything that you have but they lack confidence in themselves They're very insecure people. They have no innocence of value They get it from external things from other people They get it from you We're putting you down By stealing your stuff because they're very jealous of you, but there's nothing you can tell them You can't just go and ask them. Are you jealous of me? Because they're never gonna tell you that they're gonna deny it Instead they will just minimize everything you have And it's because they're insecure They feel threatened by you and that's why you've probably noticed Anytime you achieve something in your life anytime you Maybe got a promotion at work Or your business started doing better Maybe you bought a new phone or a new car They didn't praise or congratulate you They didn't give you compliments. They weren't happy for you No, they were really jealous They were really angry about it And they probably minimized it Compared you to other people Or they tried to compete with you Because they can't stand it They hate it when good things happen for you. They're jealous And they will especially hate it if they don't have anything good going on in their lives They're never gonna accept it. You may think Maybe one day if I make more money If I work on myself I look better I get a better job I go to the gym. I exercise more Maybe one day they will accept me Maybe one day I will be good enough and then they will congratulate me They'll give me the praise and acknowledgement that I deserve But no, it doesn't work that way with narcissists If anything that will just make them more angry Because they weren't hating on you because of something you didn't have It's because of everything you do have That's why they're hating. That's why they're jealous All they really care about is winning And when they're around you, they don't feel like they're winning But if they can make you think that you're losing It reflects this illusion back to them that maybe they are winning But deep down they know in reality they are not and that's why they have to keep doing it Yeah, when they first met you They saw everything good about you That's why they got involved with you in the first place They liked everything that you had to offer But they wanted to take it all for themselves They wanted it They wanted to take it from you But they knew they weren't deserving of it They knew they went on your level So they had to trick you Because they were jealous of everything you had They were jealous of your money Your job Everything And they were even jealous of the things that you were giving to them Your love and affection Your empathy and kindness They were jealous of those things too And that's why they would often try to deprive you Of the opportunity to give them that love and affection Maybe they would have held sex from you Because they were jealous of those qualities They knew they didn't have that They know they're nothing like you They don't go to people and give love and affection and kindness No, they don't do that They have to trick people They have to manipulate them They have to go in and just take everything for themselves They have to use people up They have to destroy They have to steal from you But they've seen how you move They've seen that you don't have to do that You don't have to put anyone down You don't have to trick anyone You don't have to steal from anyone Yeah, they've seen how you move They've seen how you look after yourself They've seen how you treat other people And they're very jealous of that They want to destroy it And they will try to destroy it Once they got what they want out of you Because they don't want you to move on And give all of that stuff that they're jealous of To someone else Someone who can appreciate it Because they never could How can you appreciate anything about someone When you're jealous of them You can't That's why As soon as they see you it's just Take, steal Get it all for themselves That's why they had to keep you apart from other people They had to isolate you That's why they turned people against you Or they turned you against other people That's why they made you feel small They put you down Because They saw all of these good things about you But they weren't there to care for those things Or to nurture them They were there to put them down To destroy them Because they're jealous They don't have what you have And they lack confidence in themselves They're very insecure And that's why they had to trick you That's why they had to manipulate you That's why they had such a strong desire To destroy you And discard you But when you go into contact When you leave the narcissist And you start getting stronger Maybe you get a better job You exercise more You make more money That's when you will really see their jealousy That's when they will get really mad And they may even try to hoover you They may try to come back Even if they already have a new supply Even if they already were someone else Because nothing's ever good enough for them They're never satisfied with anything No matter what they have They always want more They're always looking for the bigger, better deal The next shiny new toy And they always think the grass is greener on the other side So whoever they're with They will just abandon them Just like they did to you They abandoned you for someone else And when they move on If you start doing better They may just abandon that person for you Because they're never happy with what they have It doesn't matter what it is And you've only got to look back For your own relationship with them To realize that Just think back for a minute Was there an ever a time When you were with the narcissist All of those months and years That you spent with them Was there ever a time where they could honestly say Yes, in this moment I'm happy I'm satisfied with what you're doing for me I'm in a good place I'm enjoying myself Was there ever a time where they could say that to you No They could never do it And why Because they were too preoccupied With looking at other people's lives With people's situations They were too busy looking at what everyone else is doing Because they're never happy They're never satisfied Even if they had the perfect life They still wouldn't be happy You could buy them a house And then if maybe they see That the person next door Has Two more bedrooms than the one that you got for them They're not going to be happy with it Maybe they'll want to sell it and get a bigger house Because they are jealous They think they deserve the best The very arrogant and entitled And it's the same thing with you So if you buy a new house A new car, a new phone, whatever it is They're not going to compliment you for that too Because again They are jealous They're competing with you They think they deserve better than you But there's nothing you can tell them You can't talk to them about their jealousy Sometimes it may even be unconscious So they will just deny it But trust and believe that they are very uncomfortable With your success Your achievements Because they always have to be better than you Narcissists are always on social media They're always scrolling through their news feed Looking at what everyone else is doing Looking at what everyone else has got And they're always trying to find ways to get those things But they don't try to get it the right way Instead, they have to trick people They have to rob you They have to steal They're always looking at people on social media Seeing what car they drive What clothes they're wearing What phone they've got And they will do whatever it takes To get that same lifestyle It doesn't matter If they have to hurt people If they have to tear people down If they have to destroy them It doesn't matter, they don't care It's like a habit for them Where they just go from person to person They're looking to intimidate them Harm them And force them into doing what they want So that they can get what they want They're just very jealous people And there's nothing you can do about that You can't change them You can't make them right No matter what you do Because as I said, a lot of it is unconscious And it's like they see Their faults, mistakes, flaws and imperfections In you or other people Because they're so full of shame And doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on that shame That it just gets passed on to you You become the dumping ground for their shame How many times in the relationship Have you felt like the dumping ground For the narcissist's shame Let me know now in the comment section I want to read it and hear it from you Because I know many times in my life I felt like I was the dumping ground For the narcissist's shame And it's not a nice feeling Because deep down you know That doesn't belong to you But we carry it We carry the burdens and the baggages Of these narcissists We take it on like it's our own But it doesn't belong to us We don't have to accept it You don't have to deal with a narcissist's Pathological envy and jealousy anymore Narcissists Are very jealous They're jealous of people who have Something that they want People don't go around Being jealous and hating of homeless people Or people who are disabled They don't do that Because there's Really nothing to hate on There's nothing to be jealous of But when you have something That the narcissist wants Of course they're going to hate on you Of course they're going to be jealous Because they want it And they can't get it Don't know all I hear Yeah, narcissists are jealous But whatever you do Don't take it personally It really has nothing to do with you As I've said before Hear people, hear people And what the narcissist Says about you These negative things They're a direct reflection Of how the narcissist feels about themselves They're just projecting Their own insecurities onto you And that's all you really need to know about it Don't look too much into it Don't think about it The things that they're saying Don't own it It's like they're giving you this gift And you have a choice Whether or not you want to accept it Do you want to accept Their harmful and unpleasant toxicity The stuff that is no good for you Do you want to accept that Because they already know it's no good That's why they're giving it to you You just have to realise that it's no good It's not constructive or productive And focus on things that are good for you Things that are going to build you up Instead of breaking you down As I've said before There are two types of people in this world There's one type of person Who will build you up But narcissists are destroyers They will only break you down They will only destroy you And that's all I've got to say for this one So me and Nala would like to thank you For joining us here today And I hope you enjoyed the view here as well As always thank you all Hit that like button Share your thoughts in the comment section And I will speak to you in another live video very soon