 Hi y'all, she was seven. Okay. So Lately I've been getting a lot of guys commenting on my videos and they're mad at me because I'm kind of Putting them down because they don't want to pay for dates anymore. I'm like, what the heck so ladies I got a solution for you Next time a guy approaches you and he asks you out on a date But he doesn't want to pay and he suggests that y'all meet somewhere and it's you know You're paying for your own food if if he lets you know that before the date even starts Go ahead and make the date go ahead and make the date and Tell him you'll meet him there and get him all excited and stuff like talk him up on the phone And get him extra excited, you know, it's like, oh, we're gonna have some time You'll love this place that it act like you're gonna pay and everything girl like yeah And don't show up. I have them waiting there pissed off All excited from the whole week of talking on the phone about this date that they were just Waiting for the whole week and don't show up. Don't show up And then when they get mad and call you and page you was like, you know what I didn't have any money I had to spend my last money on You know, I I just didn't I I didn't go to the ATM Something's wrong with my account. So I'm just you know, I can't go because you know Wanna pay I don't want to waste, you know, my money because I don't know what's gonna happen and But you go ahead and enjoy, you know, the menu is really good Make sure you get the name some kind of dish or whatever Make sure you get the data to die because I heard it was like really good and last time I went I had this such and such such, you know, keep talking on the phone I'm just like but you enjoy yourself. Okay, I'll see you. I'll see you another time. Maybe We'll see and then hang up leave them hanging because Obviously, he doesn't understand a woman's time is very very very valuable And if he's not going to even pay for your meal, he doesn't even deserve your company he deserves to sit there by himself looking like a fool and If y'all have never stood up a guy try it, it's very fun because It teaches people lessons, you know First of all, you know, if you have already been told that you're paying for your own meal And you want to get even to go ahead and do that because it will teach them a lesson. It will teach them a lesson. Okay Okay Everybody else's up gonna be on their date. He's gonna be stood up So You know, it's it's time to it's it's time to show them, you know Your work if you're gonna sit there and Pay for your own meal After they asked you out Whatever comes after that you can't complain about because that first impression Is how the rest of the tone of that relationship if you do get into a relationship is gonna end up You're always gonna be paying for half of everything and if you don't want that type of relationship Don't even go on that first date Just stand up And I suggest that because these guys need to learn they need to learn the value of company, you know They need to learn that, you know sometimes It is nice to pay for a woman's date and not expect anything in return as I saw in the comments Some guy said well, why should I pay for a woman's date and drinks and meal if I'm not guaranteed anything I said because first of all you shouldn't be expecting anything, but they're company You know, if you want a prostitute or a hooker You can go and pay the same amount as it costs to take a woman out on a date and get some sex Don't say it's dating if you're expecting something in return because it's not You're just looking for sex. So go for a hooker She'll tell you everything you want to hear. She won't even expect to get fed and You know, you can save your little money and give it to her and she'll give you what you want in return And it's just no big deal But when you ask a woman out on a date and you expect her to pay Why should she pay when she can order a pizza at home or order Chinese food or take out at home and relax or Go out with her friends and meet a man who can't pay, you know, that doesn't make any sense so a lot of these guys are going to find themselves alone or Especially, you know, when you get past 40 when you get past 40 as a man and you don't have your stuff together and you're still Playing women. It looks pretty pathetic. Actually, it looks like oh my god. He doesn't have his stuff together He's he's a loser, you know Mm-hmm And of course any man can look like they have something when they're living in a one-bedroom apartment not paying for Anything and just live in the bachelor life, of course, they look like they have something but Can do they have anything to offer you, you know, do they have anything to offer as a future partner and A lot a lot of guys are gonna be like, well, what do you have to offer? We have a legacy to offer we have the we have the capacity to you know Bring life into the world, you know, we have the capacity to make a home to decorate a home to make a beautiful home To cook to do all this stuff, you know, if we choose to work We have that capacity to to bring more into the household if we choose, but it shouldn't be Expected and it shouldn't be demanded, you know, especially in this day and age Because if if if it is demanded for a woman to work and bring money into the house Then it should be her choice whether to sleep with you whenever you feel like it or not She should be like, you know what? I don't feel like having sex this month This month y'all get I don't feel like having sex this month. So You know, I'm bringing money in the household. I have half say I have everything I don't feel like having sex this month or next month or the next month because I'm gonna be too tired because I'm gonna be working a Lot plus coming home taking care of these kids plus clicking. So I'm just not in the mood ever. So good luck Yeah, so if you can make your wife work and she's like Never in the mood Don't don't be mad because women are supposed to be out doing your job Okay, they're not and if you expect that of them, then they're not going to be the type of wife that you expected of them So don't be mad y'all And a lot of guys are trolling on my videos, but that's just how women feel You can't blame us for having high standards. You can't blame us for that We can blame you for having low standards and standards and not wanting to raise your standards I thought we thought you were men. We thought you like rising up to challenges You know, you act like this this isn't that in front of other guys But when it comes to a woman you'd rather buy a man a drink or your friend a drink than a woman a drink I mean, that's kind of suspect to me. I don't know, you know If you if you brag and like you you're all this and that And you're treating women like trash You're not very much at all because that that's that's your character Uh any man that hates women Or doesn't want to treat them right It's not even worth your time. So ladies don't even bother with those. Those those are the kind of guys Who I've seen and Die alone because I used to be a mortician y'all and a lot those those type of guys. They're always in the nursing home alone with Bed source nobody came to visit. Nobody wants to take care of them Their own kids won't even have anything to do with them because they weren't around No woman had ties with him because he was a dog So he dies alone in the county nursing home if that Or you know, they end up With no one when they die And that's that's how it is and they learn that too late in life They think it's all good now, but they learn that late in life. They'd be like, oh my god. What did I do? My kids won't even come visit me Uh Those are the kind of guys that usually die alone and like They're gonna try to say oh I was born alone. Yeah And they're the ones that be crying in the nursing home at night calling out somebody's name Can't get to the bathroom, you know, those are the kind of men that die alone in nursing homes because nobody they were never good to anybody They were never good to a woman. They weren't ever good to their own kids They weren't good to themselves. And that's where they end up and the sad thing is They won't see it until it's too late just like men They never realized that they've lost something good until it's too too too late and Once once they realize what happened Once they realize what happened That's What they have to live with, you know by themselves. They don't have anybody to take care of them They're being abused in those homes If they can afford to be in a home, you know, sometimes Someone will just you know, uh They'll be in a homeless shelter or something or in the county hospital just to die and nobody will care nobody So y'all y'all men have to remember that and y'all put a woman down We all treat a woman like trash when y'all abandon y'all's kids and stuff like that Y'all are really doing that to y'all selves later on in life Because everybody knows that there's that that old man That's in the back of somebody old lady's house who um Is paid to take care of them or uh, just that old family member That has at least one person. Imagine if you don't have anybody I have nobody. Where are you going to be? Think about that y'all because a lot of men They no one will even You know come to their need when it's when it's time because of how they were been treated by them and Men forgot to be many men forgot to be men. They forgot what it was To be a man. So when they realize What they should have and could have Been doing it's too late and it's just over You know moms women they got their children and their grandchildren and their nieces and nephews to take care of that when they get all But who's god got Nobody And i'm just trying to be real with y'all. I have i've seen countless men Die alone found Weeks later decayed Nobody came to their home because didn't You know didn't have anybody And you know no one came to the funeral. Maybe the kids but they weren't into it. They're like, okay. Well, let's get this over with You know or whatever They didn't want to pay for it. So imagine that y'all. I mean imagine that like I mean y'all got to get yourself together because once you realize That you didn't messed up with women And no women will you know, you're not dateable. You're not suitable and no women want you You're gonna you're gonna be like, oh my god And you're gonna turn into the total opposite of what you what you are now you're gonna be like Under some woman's thumb because you're gonna be at that point when you get older You're gonna be so lonely and so desperate You're gonna you're just gonna do whatever some woman tells you And it's still in the end either you're gonna be alone or you're gonna be with a woman That's just how it goes. You know, either you're gonna die alone or you can be under someone It's just gonna take all your social security check Anyway, I'm just being funny y'all but um If y'all didn't know, yeah, I used to work for the funeral home and I've seen so many crazy Cases like that. So Just let y'all know it's not something to play with Uh, especially after a certain age, it's not something to play with, you know, don't play with women That's the one thing that people should know. You should never play with women's emotions You should never treat them bad because it comes back to bite you in the butt years later. Okay, so y'all can talk all that trash y'all want in the comments Yes, men talk all the trash you want, but No, you're not gonna be able to get The type of life you want without a woman Especially not when you're old, you know, you're not gonna be invited to any type of family events You're gonna be all the third wheel and everything You're just not gonna be you're not gonna be part of a family because You don't think it's important You don't think a woman And a child And a family and a relationship And courting a woman the proper way is important So your priorities are all screwed up now anyway, so You know, maybe Just maybe you can get it together before it's too late All right. I'll see y'all later. Bye