 I just want to clarify this stuff because a lot of people go One day it's gonna and it's like now this one day overnight thing and this shift could take like half a decade Oh, it took a very very long time. And I mean, I would say that Hey, I'm very aspirational. So I always feel like the person I'm trying to become is off in the distance. Sure So it's still ongoing. I had my first real epiphany about Ten years in where it was like, okay, that epiphany just changed my life What type of epiphany are we talking where I realized it mattered what I built myself esteem around and that I had been building myself around being right and being smart and That meant I was putting myself in smaller and smaller rooms with smaller and smaller people and the most dangerous thing That actually made me feel better about myself. And this is where people get lost like from the outside Oh, like you never want to do that. But it's like yes You do because it feels awesome. And so that's how people get in trouble So even though I was limiting my prospects in life. I truly was feeling better about myself