 Hi everyone, in this video I'm going to be talking about how will the narcissist remember you. Some people think that after they've moved on they don't really care about you or think about you that much. Maybe they just move on and forget. Some people think that since they've devalued you and they've seen a worth in you so they've just discarded you and just forgot about you. But it's actually not that simple. They will remember you and it's actually very difficult for them to just forget about you. But how they will remember you depends on you. It largely depends on how you want them to remember you. Do you want them to remember you as someone who suffered at their hands, someone who struggled after they left you, or do you want them to remember you as someone who never gave up, someone who they failed to defeat? Because if you've managed to get out of that pit that they left you in and you've managed to move on with your life that's not something they're just going to forget. It's definitely something that they're going to remember. Because most people that they deal with don't usually progress once they've left them. Because you have to remember that they leave you once they've really done their work on you. Once they've left you in a pit of misery it gets to a point where you've lost so much confidence in yourself that you're doing most of the work for them. You look in the mirror and you don't even recognise the person you've become. You don't even know who you are anymore and you just give up on life. You just think what's the point in trying? But if you manage to get back up and you manage to take back your life they will remember that. If you manage to move on and do better without them and they can clearly see that you are doing better without them they will remember that. How they re-election and the type of an artist you're dealing with in some situations they will come back but they will only come back to use you for whatever you've developed while they've been away. And in most of those cases they will only use you up for whatever it is that you've managed to establish. And then they'll just leave you again once you've got nothing left. Narcissists only get involved with you to use you. They don't come back to help you and that's why when you're at the worst point when you're really going through it. That's usually when they do leave you because that's when you've got nothing but of course there are plenty of situations when even though you've moved on and you've progressed they won't come back but that doesn't mean that they don't remember you. That doesn't mean that they've just forgotten about you. They will never just forget about you and they will remember everything you did for them. They will remember how you made them feel, but just because they remember you that doesn't mean that they're going to hoover you and that's something that I think a lot of you need to understand. Just because they're not contacting you it doesn't mean they're not thinking about you every morning when they wake up and every night before they go to sleep and every minute throughout the day while they're working or whatever they're doing. Just because you don't see them, just because you don't hear from them that doesn't mean they're not constantly thinking about you. These type of personalities can be very obsessive and depending on how it ends if you're doing better without them they know they can't just come back because they're going to be thinking about they made you out to be the problem, so you weren't good enough for them, but if you weren't good enough then why would they come back to you? That's how they're thinking and also it's likely they enforce flying monkeys and start this campaign against you and they will be wondering how it looks to them if they were to come back. These individuals have so much pride and arrogance, their main focus, they basically have to make a choice between you and their false self and no narcissist, almost no narcissist is going to choose someone other than their false self it's just not going to happen. So just remember that just because you don't see them, just because you don't hear from them that doesn't mean that they're not still thinking about you. They will remember you, they're like like they just moved on and they're not even thinking about you anymore, but as I said they can be very obsessive and it is likely that first thing in the morning they will be thinking about you, last thing at night, throughout the day when they're working or whatever they're doing these personalities are very obsessive. 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