 Welcome back. This is still why in the morning and we just into our second conversation from that amazing one that we've had with Ramaguka on youth and politics. Now we are talking about today's question of discussion which is about you know habits of the successful and we are asking you what is the first thing Yanikitu ya konza you do in the morning when you wake up in the morning what is the first thing that you do when you wake up. Now talk to us the hashtag is why in the morning at 254 channel on Facebook and Twitter. Talk to us and tell us what is this thing especially being a Monday Monday nile sekuyan you have the morning blues and everything. So take your time close your eyes for a minute or two don't sleep and then think about what you do in the morning or what you do today morning when you when you woke up. So we have been joined by amazing guest here in studio we have Klaxon Okach at my father's right. We also have Ian Sisanga right? Yes we have Ian Sisanga and Klaxon Okach help us with this conversation. Start one then and then Ian tell us what you do kwanza before to to engage into this matter. Ok for me actually when I wake up in the morning first I must spread my bed. I think our most most tend to think that that's not a routine for boy child which I tend to prove wrong. Because kamii mi lazimani spread I think ni habichu unto you spread your bed then brush your teeth. Wash your face if not shower or so then do some exercise and take the day on. Ok so we are getting back to you spreading your bed. Klaxon tell us what you do. I as Klaxon being brought from Christian religious family background. The first thing that I have to do I have to give benediction to God. I have some kind of prayer which will carry me through the day. That is the first thing that I normally do and it is also making me to have the connection with God. That is the first thing. Then others will now proceed from there after. So with Ian to kwanza waking up you spread your bed first then before you go wash your face and everything. Klaxon umesama the first thing you do is have a benediction your time with God. So is that prayer or is that reading the Bible? What does that involve? Actually it is just like a short kind of prayer where I do normally pray for my family, my family man. I also have to pray for other things so that my daily activity can now go. That is the first thing. Ok so what other things are you praying for? Generally when you are praying you have to pray for the well-being of the family. You have to pray for the well-being of you as a person. You have also to pray for the well-being of all the activities that you have planned. So you may be able to plan your things as per the human being perspective point of view. But if all of them are not dedicated to the Almighty then probably they might not. So we assume and we hope that everything when we commit it to God it will be successful. That is the first priority. Ok and I know there is a verse where you are told commit your plan to the Lord. So you are going to check and that works for you. It has been working for you. It has been working for you. Yes. So Ian umesamukyamka you make your bed. How does that work for you? Being the first thing that you do? Actually I tend to think it is habitual because I just found myself spreading the bed. Then after upon you you take a shower or so. So having my discussion with Rami in the morning, the discussion you had with Rami, ali sama there is a famous person who said that when the people who make their bed as the first thing they do when they wake up, they usually have that day organized. That day will highly tend to be more productive than others because there is one thing that you have already accomplished. So Ian umesamukyamka you make sense to your routine. So how do you do that? Actually you know early in the morning is when you start your day. That is the basis. And then like any other thing, when you start even like cooking, you start with the taste will depend on the first move in your cooking. So move because you are putting cooking oil. And ingredients. So that will make the taste of the food. That's the first move. So it's just the same way in life. The first move will depend on how you are doing. It's just like the sauce. It has set mood. It has set secret kwaaji. Because when you wake up, it's sad. It's very hard to do what you don't know. Like you just wake up, you don't have any agenda, you just wake up. It will be hard. It will be hard. So what's the claxon? I think it depends on also individual personality. Because one, when you wake up, you know that you should have the priorities of sets of activities which are supposed to be taken out for the day. And this one will be determined on the first footstep that you take. So the first action that you will be taking early in the morning will determine. From where I'm coming from, there is a saying. Which goes that how you wake up in the morning will determine how your day will be. A good morning starts in the morning. A good day starts in the morning. It is upon the person or individual to determine on how the activities of the day will be. Will be. Yes. So that's why the first thing that you do matters a lot. The first interactions, the first activity that you do will carry. It is a series of activities which will be chained one after the other. For example, after having benedictions, I go texture that is an obvious thing. Then have a cup of tea. Then is when I live. You're getting it. So as immediate I live, I know as soon as I step in my office, I know these are the things that I need to do. You're getting it. So it has been back grounded on what I did in the morning. What you did in the morning. So your morning started well, your day is going on. Yes. If you started day on a long foot. The rest of the day. The rest of the day will be. It's great. Yes. Okay. What do you think about, you agree with this? Yes, I agree with him. Especially that point when you start your day with a bad foot. In Aribikayani. Yes. So people, you might wake up in the morning and you brush shoulders with someone. Of course. So niharali unyamaze, how Ram was saying, you prefer your silence, some people prefer their silence. Let me give you another example. I'm a married man. I assume that as soon as you wake up, then you have a couple of misunderstanding or quarrel with your partner. Then obviously you will have a bad day when you get into the office for those of us who are holding the offices. The first person who will come in your office, at least you will try to pour out the anger. You're getting it. Yes. That is obvious. You are from your house. You had a bad omen in the beginning. It's a bad omen. Yes. Okay. So automatically anybody who comes across on your way through the day will either in one or the other experience a dose of your anger. All right. So Ian, turn back to you. Could you say that niharali basumutu anze money nyaike in silence bila kusumbuliwa so that you make sure you keep it intact? Yes. Upa tima kaseriko somewhere? Yes. Physically, I have experienced because klaxon is a teacher. You know when I was back in high school, teachers would just wake up one day, they are moodless. So they come to pour out their stress on you. You don't know. Nini umefanya makwasa. Una shanga ehe. So I think that way waking up to bad bad bad day starts in the morning. It starts in the morning. So klaxon, what do you say about this? You know being a teacher. Yes. Umetoka umetoka maybe you have had a quarrel with your wife. You are meeting your pupils. You know teachers are not isolated cases of personalities and they are all human being. In one way or the other we do have our side falls. But now what matters is how you carry out. You may get yourself in such circumstances but how do you carry yourself? Because one, the person that you are pouring the anger to did not commit any crime. Had no any effect over what happened. That is unfortunate. It is unfortunate. So you shouldn't pour out. So now the question I'm asking you guys. Do you think people who wake up in silence. Otaki kelele, is it okay? Should that be a morning routine for someone? Is that a healthy morning routine? We are social human beings. And I don't subscribe to such kind of thought. Because one, you can't just wake up. Then you just decided that you are just isolating yourself. But you don't want to interact with anyone. That is not good. Because we have to socialize. We have to interact. As much as we are interacting, there must be bounds. Okay. But it's not like this person is not a social person. It's just I'm not a morning person. Some people say I'm not a morning person. They want their space. They want to meditate. They just want their space. So it's that bad really. What do you think of this? I tend not to believe people who wake up in silence. Because actually burning inside in silence is probably the worst day of all. I am still disagreeing because you're not burning in silence. It's just you. It's just how you want to be. And then after maybe you're ready. You're prepared. After maybe two hours in, uko saha umneza cheka chekana. So what do you think of your space? You know, such people are there within our society. We do normally interact with them. Maybe you go to these public offices. You get all your bang in an office. And someone is moodless. You have gone there to get service. It is morning eight in the morning. And someone has just flown. You had nothing to what is happening to her or him. You're getting it. But this thing is now coming on your way. How do you do? Yes, because one, the person is committing something which should not be there. Because as much as you are froning, you want to have your own space. Yes, you can go ahead and have your space. But it should not deter. Or it should not create a boundary between you and others. So if you are in a social space you say that you learn to interact with people. You know how to balance yourself. But kama kwa kwa in the morning you can choose to have your silent time. Okay, that is also because I've also seen some kind of families that you get into their houses. They are just quiet. They are quiet in the morning. They are quiet. In fact, they are much comfortable. They don't see something is wrong. Someone has come in their house. It is okay with them. But it is a scene it is something which is not morally acceptable. Because how come? I come in your house you just say hi, hi, okay, where are you? Okay, I'm from this and this. Blab, blab, all those. Then the end of the story. It is not a good scene. Jan, you want to say something about that before I go to the comment? I want to disagree with the klaxon. Because you know actually that this group of people who tend to come to your house early in the morning very early in the morning. Even before you plan your day, check your emails, plan your to-do list or so. They just woken up, come to sit on your house. Why? Actually mostly you find them back at home rural areas because they come just to idle maybe to chill. They want at the end of the day. But the breakfast, you come, you know. So people should stop such habits. But anyway, the bottom line is as much as you are entitled to your right, that is yours. And as much as you are doing it, if you will not create a conflict between you and others, you get in it. That is the bottom line. So we get your point. So let's check what the guys are saying in the socials. We have Elisa Steve saying yawning, sit-ups, thanksgiving. Ii to Leona, alia in the morning. Ii o ikosawa pia. We have Fazili. Atumani say we always pray when we wake up we give glory to God. We anagri with the klaxon, of course. Waking up with God and setting your day. King Superman Simba nasama, thank God. Okay. Just okay, he says immediately na pe ga blanketi na kutoka kwa kitanda. Puna wala wana ruka kwa kutoka bed, wumisumu na making a bed. Puna wala wana kutoka bed. Yo bedi taji paga later on. Ghazma na nasama backup. In the morning. Okay. We have Antonio music head nasama na washa wufa. Yasayona volume yote na tiza mangoma zikona joto na masama jirani masaya zakute seka imefika. Aoni wala kusumbawa. Antonio kwa mpole. Kijana mamama nasama to switch on my data to see what is new on social media. Okay, so to what Kijana is saying punatu na mkaga na social media in the morning. Is it a healthy habit to have, you know, in relation to habits of the successful? No, actually I tend to think not. Because when you just wake up turn on your data or your wifi start checking WhatsApp messages actually that will waste most of your time in the morning. Because I tend to think you should wake up maybe check your emails what you are supposed to do during that day. Than just waking up to you know, when you log into WhatsApp you will not spend some few minutes or so messages will start streaming in. Is it a idea? Is it a idea? No, then you just even when you had an appointment maybe at 8 am you find out that it has reached 8 am you are not yet planned. Then you just be confused actually. Yes, we actually had someone you know, put us in your comments he says I think coming or getting into social media in the morning hours depends on how you have program yourself. For example in my case as soon as I wake up in the morning after having that benediction prayer with your almighty God then I rush to bathroom to make sure after which I come and take the breakfast then I live immediately. So I don't have that time then if I will have to do it at the work place. At the work place. So social media you don't wake up with it. It only depends on the kind of the schedule of activities that you have. You know you have people who are reporting at 10 so it depends. So if you are reporting for example in my case by 7 I have to be early. Yes, I am in work place at 7. So you have limited time. Okay, so do you think kwa wale wa namkana There are a lot of important emails that you want to carry out in social media? Yes no problem. In such a circumstance that is what he does but it will now force him the social media will determine what because of action is going to take the first activity because there is a certain item which is there he needs to work on it Who is into social media a lot? Is this a bad habit for a person who wants to attain success? Actually it will hinder you from attaining your success because when you get in, you will start now procrastinating your daily routine, you procrastinate your issues and actually you know procrastination is a thief of success so actually you will not be successful obvious because you will start procrastinating because you want to see more on your social media you want to stream more, you watch more Let me ask you another question so you have talked about setting goals so should one set goals that morning or should one set their goals for the next day the previous night so that I wake up I leave my morning stress free I know what I already want to do so like that night, your evening na andika vitunatak wachiv I have to do this, I have to do this so I have my to-do list so which way is better? So it depends on the jurisdictions of one who is each person of area of specialization one we have in my case we have what to achieve on a weekly basis on a daily basis so as soon as I wake up I know okay this week this is what I have to do it has been subdivided into daily activities so I simply know today this is what is going to happen so that's why I'm saying it depends on what you are doing it will determine on how you are going to set up your goals but before let's say you wake up first you must have considered that probably you should have enough rest the previous night so that when you wake up