 My name is Sandani. I'm the author of Malignan self-love, Narcissism Revisited. I chose a few sentences from my book Malignan self-love, Narcissism Revisited, which I thought may resonate with you. You can convert them into fridge magnets, for instance. Let's go. Quote number one. To forgive is never to forget, but to remember is not necessarily to re-experience. Quote number two. But the logical narcissism is a lifelong pattern of traits and behaviors which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self, to the exclusion of all others, and also the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition. Number three. Narcissus is not in love with himself. He is in love with his own reflection. Number four. The narcissist is an actor in a monodrama, yet he is forced to remain behind the scenes. The scenes take center stage instead. Number five. The narcissist ages without mercy and without grace. His withered body and his overwrote mind betray him all at once. Six. Children to the narcissist are both mirrors and competitors. Children reflect authentically the narcissist's constant need for adulation and attention. Their grandiose fantasies of omnipotence and omniscience are craft's caricatures of his own internal world. Seven. In the narcissist's surrealistic world, even language is pathologized. It mutates into a weapon of self-defense, a verbal fortification, a medium without a message, replacing words with duplicitous and ambiguous vocables. Number eight. The narcissist's lies are not goal-oriented. This is what makes his constant dishonesty both disconcerting and incomprehensible. The narcissist lies at the drop of a hat, needlessly and almost ceaselessly. Nine. The narcissist holds his psychophantic acolytes in contempt. He finds his fans, admirers and followers repulsive. He holds them to be inferior precisely because they are his fans, followers and admirers. Number ten. The narcissist is never home without an adoring, submissive, available, self-denigrating partner. His very sense of superiority, indeed his false self, his grandiosity, depend on such a partner. Number eleven. The narcissist identifies being loved with being possessed and crushed upon, shattered, transformed, reduced, exploited, weakened, engulfed, digested and excreted. Number twelve. Psychopathic and narcissistic abusers hate it when other people are happy. Deceived by knowing inadequacy, the narcissistic abuser does his best to destroy everybody else's celebratory mood. Number thirteen. Raging narcissists usually perceive their reaction to have been triggered by an intentional provocation with a hostile purpose. Number fourteen. Deep inside, the narcissist hates himself. He doubts his own worth. He deplores his desperate addiction to narcissistic supply. He judges his actions and intentions harshly and sadistically. And number fifteen. When narcissism fails as a defense mechanism, the narcissist develops paranoid narratives, self-directed confabulations which place him at the center of others' allegedly malign intention and conspiracies. Magnet freeges. Remember.