 I'm an everyday woman, woman, woman In every way, yeah, yeah I'm living my life, life, life Living day by day Major changes happening in the talk show world Live from Los Angeles, here's Every Way Woman Every Way Woman, so I want to continue the dialogue on the expectations of women, especially women who are middle age Amber, you and I were talking about that And I told you, what is middle age? I don't know That's what I'm wondering How are we even classifying middle aged? Now if 30 is the new 20, is middle aged 60? Wisdom When you got that wisdom Well I got the wisdom, I'm not middle aged I'm not ashamed of my age though, but I did turn 34 So I don't know if that middle age You're on the brink of it, you're not middle aged No, no, no You don't hit middle aged until you're about 25 Cheryl, are you middle aged? No, I'm right here with Amber You're not middle aged But I am looking into the rim You're looking over the edge I will tell you, it is 45 It is the forgotten stage of a woman's life 45 What do you mean it's forgotten? Because our roles have changed so much Our roles have changed Our mothers used to be younger How old are your moms? My mom is still in her 60s Do you know how many moms I know In their 60s that have teenage kids? Middle aged has changed Well because we had our forgotten years Before the family, then they had a family later in life And now middle aged has happened And we're in a whole other place of our lives It's changed because of technology Everybody's trying to say yeah And it depends on what culture you grew up in And what technology you live with Cheryl, I wonder, do you have any sense of the expectations That you're, you know, basing You just got a new house That's a huge responsibility Well, I know, I think I'm not middle aged But I think that moment when your responsibilities Increase exponentially For example, my mom is also in her 60s Fortunately, the later half of the 60s I said fortunately because my dad passed away When he was 66 So to even just surpass that I think it's a good thing But then I look at her and it's like She's independent now But I can, you know, I can see the You know, the aging starting to set in And you know, I know that Like my sister and I live nearby And we're trying to get her to move closer to us So you can look in after that So we can look in on her I mean she's already been a cardiac patient So we've already had to look after her In that response And fortunately, you know, she's You know, she's healed from that But we always worry Do you have a fear of taking care of your mom? You know what, no Because I'm fortunate that we have enough Family resources that we can get her the care She needs now But Anna's been looking after several members Of your family I take care of my mom She's young And the whole Latina Hispanic community I don't know But I just feel like the necessity That no matter what Even if I had my own family I still got to take care of her I don't know Yeah, she's just a mom You know, recently, you know, I found out My father was a stat And in that, I got fearful Because I was like, oh my goodness I have to take care of this man What if I have to take care of him? Okay What if he's dead? What if I have to bury him, you know How can you handle all of that? You know, he doesn't have any resources That I know of That would be able to take care of him So that was that fear of like What do I do when I have to go find him? Or, you know, I don't know I mean, what do you do? What kind of expectations do you have? I really don't have any expectations of him So I just kind of feel like It's kind of like me going to search For someone who I don't know But you have that But it's just You feel you got to Right, but I feel as a child And this is my family I have to go out and go And try and find him, you know So it's our obligation then As children to become parents To our parents at some point Yeah, I just go way back To when we were in When we were younger In the Asian culture That's kind of built in That usually it's the first The oldest child Preferably the oldest son That is going to take care of him It's built in It's built in in that culture So unfortunately I'm the oldest So right now I'm the eldest And the oldest son Which is my brother Okay, so then I have a question What if it's almost Like an indirect parenting relationship Like for example What if you had to take care Of your husband's parents? How does that affect you? Because I know I just They're on their own The relationship I just got out of The relationship I just got out of You know, my ex-boyfriend He was the oldest son of eight But his parents were largely Depended upon him And I just looked at my future That's huge I looked at my future You know, especially You know, taking care of his mom And she has daughters But quite frankly I felt like the burden of her care Was going to fall to me And the prospect of that was Well I think the whole prospect Of those obligations and expectations Is terrifying I can hardly handle my life As it is in my 20s But to be expected To care for my own family My husband And my parents And I mean And they're My husband's parents My god, it sounds like hell I don't know how any woman Could balance those expectations I really don't But you know, I think sometimes What people forget is Men go through a big life crisis And we all acknowledge it We're not alone in this But women go through one too And we ignore it Okay, well Ladies, I definitely want to Continue this conversation When we get back from this break Coming up next More every way woman You and everyone woman If you've been wanting to Turn that 12 pack into a 6 pack The doctors from Finesse Plastic Surgery Are going to talk to us About the tummy tuck Everyone wants a flatter stomach But for some doing crunches Just isn't enough Dr. Gown and Dr. West are here From Finesse Plastic Surgery To share some options On how to get a flatter stomach Now I understand that there's Some really innovative And also some extremely Invasive ways to get that Appearance of a flat tummy What would be some of the most Invasive ways to start? The most invasive? Well, I'd like to start just by Telling you about why this happens So certainly in women It's babies In men, it's Budweiser So to go back to the women With pregnancies Not only does the skin stretch But that 6 pack that you see in athletes Also stretches and goes out to the sides So you get a little bit of a Loosening of the tissue And less of a firm tone To the midsection So any combination of Liposuction and surgery Can refine that trunk to get That better, tighter look So you would do both Liposuction and surgery? Oftentimes both are done Sometimes one, sometimes another And when we combine them together It's called a marriage abdominoplasty Okay So the least invasive Or the less invasive It's going to be something Using technology Like a cool sculptor What is a cool sculptor? So a cool sculptor is a device That's been around for several years now Essentially what it does Is it exposes the fat That you're having a hard time Getting rid of It exposes it to cold So it's a suction device It's attached to Pulls the skin and fat away from you And exposes your body To a cold temperature Your fat is actually more Sensitive to cold Than the skin is So you can hurt the fat cells And make them go away Without hurting your skin It takes about two months To see the results The best candidate For that's going to be Somebody who's in Otherwise pretty good shape You know, somebody who's Maybe going to the gym But no matter what they do Once they hit a certain age They just can't get rid Of their flanks Or maybe it's the lower part Of their belly Or for some people The fat along the bra line So people can come in And do a non-invasive procedure In the comfort of our office While they're watching a movie And have some of that Fat melted So that's probably the easiest Thing that you can do Now can they just target A certain area? Absolutely We have different Handles or different Applicators for the different Areas So inner thigh Outer thigh Lower abdomen Upper abdomen Back We fine tune it to every patient Okay So that's the non-invasive That's the cool sculpting Now Fast forward into the next stage Which is liposuction Liposuction alone is good for Women who are younger Who still have that nice tone But have a little bit of Those excess areas That they want to get rid of And those are the regions Where no matter how much Working out how many hours Of the gym They still have these Collections of fat They're stubborn And won't go away How long is the recovery Time for liposuction? Liposuction in people It depends on what you're Asking Part of the question Is when can you go back So it really depends on How much do you do For really targeted Low volume liposuction You might be able to do the surgery On a Thursday And go back Monday If you're doing multiple Areas and you're taking out A lot more fat The person might need A week or 12 or It also of course depends On what you do Do you work behind a desk Or do you have a really Active type job In general, Liposuction is a relatively Short recovery Where you have discomfort But we don't put Many limitations on you Because we haven't Sown the tissue We haven't put Muscle back together That we have to worry About healing Now I have a couple Of mommy circles And that's kind of An issue for a lot Of a smother Is even though We can get fit And back into shape That we seem to have This excess skin That hangs And it's not necessarily Fat What would you do For a mommy like that That's exactly the next step Is going forward To what's called A mini tummy tuck Or a full tummy tuck And the difference Between the two Is in the mini Tummy tuck It's a smaller incision It's mostly targeted Take care of that Lower pooch Of extra tissue Okay Versus a full tummy tuck When there's more excess And loose skin All throughout The entire The anterior abdomen And that requires Repositioning the belly button And a little bit longer Incision to get more That skin To create that nice Tight contour So you actually move The belly button When you do a tummy tuck When you do a full tummy tuck Yes You make an incision All the way around it You pull the skin down Over it And then you make A new opening For the belly button To come out So it actually stays In the same position It allows us to get out All the extra skin out That you need to have removed And you'll never notice the incision Because it's hidden inside The belly button Now, is that something A man would go through? I mean, with women We tend to, you know But what about a man? Do men go through tummy tucks? They certainly do And in most cases A lot of men store fat Different than women And so it's more Central fat But they still do benefit From that same procedure That we do with our tummy tuck Which is bringing That central Musculature together With women They have babies That stretches out That six-pack, if you will And so they get What's called a diastasis repair It's really creating An internal corset If you remember How the corsets are made They have the tight straps With the strings And pulling real tight But it also brings in The midsection And that's what we're doing Internally On top of lifting And then stretching And removing the excess skin To give the overall hourglass Shape To get that final Nice, refined result If you want a couple C-C's of liposuction Then you have The absolute full package So if you don't have A natural hourglass shape You could actually create one You can certainly Get somebody closer To that shape I mean, it depends on What the person is starting with But somebody who is An otherwise good shape That you go ahead And put the muscle back together You remove the excess skin You can absolutely accentuate Their natural hourglass shape That they have Thank you gentlemen That was extremely informative If you would like To find out more information About tummy tuck And less invasive procedures On that flatter tummy Please check out their website At finesseplasticsurgery.com Dr. West, I'm interested In finding out I want to do just a little bit Not too much I'm conservative So what would you recommend I don't want to be out here But I want to just keep That liveliness to it What would you recommend For me? Well, the key with all these things Is it really starts with A thorough evaluation So what I would recommend Is make an appointment with us Come in and we'll assess you And we'll figure out What are your goals And we can show you photos Of a range of patients What surgeries they have chosen What implants they have chosen So that you can start To get an idea of it If you're talking about implants We'll show you a range of implants There's a huge range There's hundreds of choices We'll show you anything From a very small implant To a more moderate To a large implant And we'll let you try them on And you'll get a sense Very quickly What makes sense for you It's like the porridge You're going to find out What's too small What's too big And what's just right All right And then Dr. Gown The question my husband Will want to know He's going to like that But the cost Because I just want to do A little something What can I do that Will be cost effective For my pocketbook With procedures That's what he must know So certainly The breast augmentation Is not going to break the bank But when you add more procedures Such as lifts And otherwise It's going to cost more Because it takes more time I can't really give you A good assessment Until we choose Which procedure would work Best for you And then we can work out Financing options That we have Available through our office That can make it available To any person Every day kitchen Is next with Every way woman Are you in every way woman Represado and Nieho What's this all about We're texting Tequila We're bringing the bar home We are here with Mandi From ADA Tequila And joining us as Cheryl To let us know the difference About Tequila Which I'm so excited Because we get to play with Tequila I don't even know There was a difference Tell us So many differences Our Tequilas Are actually Ultra premium Sipping style Tequilas So they're made 100% blue agave It's not your Typical low grade Tequilas Are a little higher end So the budget A little bit higher But it's very comparable To some of the other higher ends What blue agave Blue agave Is the type of plant That Tequila is made from There's hundreds of different Types of agave plants And they all taste And smell so different And blue agave Is the top It's the premium So it has a taste What kind of taste It's hard to explain It's a little hard to explain Because for some It all depends on your taste buds For some people It could be sweet For some people It could be a little tangy For other people It could be a little sour So it just It all depends on your mouth And what you like What you feel What is it that you have We have a Blanco Which is rested For about three months Most Blancos Aren't rested at all So ours is actually rested It soaks in that Agave flavor Which gives you That very smooth feeling And flavor When it's going down Your throat So rested means That it's stayed out longer Right? I mean I don't know nothing About the Tequila Yeah, because once it's distilled It's kept in these stainless Steel tanks That's rested Usually from there They bottle it right away So the Blancos Rested three months Our second one Is the Repulsado This is the Blanco That is the Blanco That's the last one The middle one Is Repulsado And that one is aged Ours is aged Eight to twelve months The Mexican government Only requires about two months So ours is Aged a lot longer And it's aged In these bourbon oak barrels I can smell it already Which is what gives it the color Yes, in the smell In the taste It's amazing Then the last one here Is Añejo This is the top of the top And this one is aged for Anywhere from twenty to twenty-four months Typically it's about twelve months Most other brands and stuff Would do it for But ours is twenty-four Twenty to twenty-four months So you get a lot more flavor A lot more smell A lot more smoothness And it's just so much more Enjoyable I can actually smell it All the way over here That's why I was, you know Smell it What is the difference Between smells though Like which one's stronger I wouldn't even know It's not so much that it's stronger But you get different smells Out of the different ones So like the Blanco For instance Since it's rested In stainless steel You smell a lot more Of the agave So you get citrus notes You get herbal notes You get floral notes Out of the Blanco When you move over to I can smell it all right But I can't drink down We tip the I'm gonna leave that to you Or taste her There you go Try that one out It's not It is extreme Yeah Smooth So is that the way It's supposed to be smooth Okay But yeah Exactly It comes to the darker ones You get more Of the walnut flavor The hazelnut Walnuts Caramel You get vanilla You get a lot of different Oh I smell the vanilla Yes On that one You still get Some of the citrus You get some of the floral But it's all just kind of Is this one much harder though No Do you get that A lot of people A lot of people assume That the darker ones Are harsher Than the lighter ones Darker ones are actually A lot smoother Cause they've been aged A lot longer Okay Now you talked about Well before Go ahead and taste it Go ahead and taste it I do want to talk about The plants though You said that they were Made out of different plants So Well there's different types Of plants But ours is just 100% blue agave So ours is only The blue agave Yeah that's That gave me the Only for today So then they have All of them were By blue agave Yes All of ours are 100% so One Which one's the one That gives you That full flavor Because the middle One's not here So I can't taste it You get a lot of flavor Out of all of them But the enyejo Is the one you get The most different Types of flavors Out of it Because there's so many Different mixtures And the resting Gives it a lot more Time to soak in All those flavors Which one is the strongest That you would say I know every taste But it's different Yeah everyone's A lot of people Assume that the Darker ones are stronger But to me The darker ones Are so much smoother Really? Yeah And the What do you say? I would agree with it Yeah And usually we go Blanco for shah Reposado for mixing And enyejo For sipping on That's kind of My theory But everybody Has their own way Of doing it Okay so can you Bake with it Can you I know we're Going to do Some cocktails today But You can make Desserts with it You can make Popsicles with it You can do Margaritas Martinis And all kinds of cool stuff Awesome I am so I'm so excited Well girls I think we should Cheer to the end Of the week I want to hear that Cheers No tequila faces And we'll be right Back with Every Way Woman Stay with us For tomorrow's Stars You and everyone Woman Celebrates tomorrow's Stars And today I'd like To introduce Kenelia Welcome Kenelia To the show So glad to see you Here in Los Angeles We've seen you All over town You can also Find her On afterbuzz Today you're On our stage Take it away Thank you How's everybody Doing? How's everybody Doing? Like she said I'm originally From Michigan Flint, Michigan I was like I'm not going to lose Your job I don't know If you ever knew You knew that You get off the plane You're like I just lose My gig Yeah, that's my job You're broke You lost everything I also have a crazy mom Anybody Have crazy moms? Yes What I'd like to say Is if you don't Know Or have a crazy mom You're usually The crazy mom So just keep that in mind My mom Is a crazy I caught her Watching fatal Attraction In the 80s I was raising The 80s My mom had a Jerry curl So that explains That she had Jerry curl And a drawer full Of shoulder pads So I don't know As a child Whenever we Would go places She would Like girl That outfit Would look good With some shoulder pads And we'd have to Go in the room And get the Shoulder pads And I'm like Mom, I'm six What am I Going to do With shoulder pads I'm six Boys in the hood Mid-movie Boys in the hood Ricky Who is the star football player Gets shot in the chest And he dies Unfortunately But during that time In the movie My mom looked at me And my sister was like You see That's what happens Well you don't do the dishes And clean up the bathroom Like I told you You see that Get in there And do what I told you to do It's ridiculous I just wasn't raised Right guys That's the point I wasn't raised Right My dad took me And my sister He was like You know what Houdini was on last week And I'm gonna miss Boy George next time Get your stuff Let's go forever And I could not Never went back I think it was because He wanted to be A soul train dancer secretly Because he would Make us move All the furniture Out of the living room And he'd be like Come on kids We gonna kill them This week Yeah But he was The only person Who got to dance Me and my sister Would be sitting there Waiting to get in All the time Which is crazy Thank you I appreciate that Thank you I appreciate that My aunt Wouldn't babysit us Right She used to Give us special Pop With our spaghetti For dinner Okay When I got to college I realized Special Pop Was Seagram's Fuzzy Naval wine cooler That's what it was It was wine cooler It was like Yo Is this Special Pop This is delicious What you did there They're like The corner store Okay I guess But That's just how I was raised It was You know It was a different time And it was a different era Um I'm also Uh You know what On that note I'm just gonna Wrap it up Thanks guys It's been amazing Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Yeah, I'm living my life, life, life, living day by day Yeah, you in every way won't...