 Yeah, I'm just out here at the gardens. It's nice and sunny. What's everyone been doing during this quarantine? Anyone been out exercising or been to any parks? Thanks for the donation plum, Duff. I appreciate it. Yeah, that's off to what happens, Joe. They re-idealize you and they think they want you back. But as soon as you go back to them, they get bored very quickly. They just can't be satisfied with anyone or anything. And also, it's just about the game. As soon as they start to realize that you're interested in them, they're automatically no longer attracted to you. Because it's like, you know, why would you be interested in them? Deep down, they hate themselves. They don't think they're worth anything. So it's just crazy to them. And their minds, if you're interested in them, there must be something seriously wrong with you. The fountains are on. I don't think they're on last time. Good to see you too, Scandinavian Narcisfiver. Welcome to the life. Yeah, a lot of people have noticed that. It's like wherever they are in the world, they all have the same thought process. They all experience the same kind of feelings. They all act the exact same way pretty much. There's only slight differences. And they all do the same kind of things like things that we could never even imagine doing. They all just happen to do the same things. And I think that's why so many people think that it's like demonic possession or something. Yeah, they do love social media, Joe. They're always on there taking new pictures for attention and admiration. Because deep down, they don't really believe that they're worth anything. You know, they're just hoping that by going on social media, someone can make them believe that maybe they are something which can make them very gullible, actually. Because when they're looking for that kind of person, they often run into another narc who's just trying to feed their ego. And deep down, all that other narc really cares about is just getting what they want anyway. Yeah, I like it here. It's really relaxing. I'd recommend for anyone just to go out in nature, be around the trees and the flowers and the animals. And it's very healing for you. It's a very high vibrational activity. When these narcissists make you feel down, you know, they want to make you feel miserable. Just go out in nature. You'll soon be feeling like your old self again. It's still closed here, but it'll be great when I can take you guys in here, show you around the glass house. This is just a general chat. We can talk about whatever you like. How do you get past the anger you feel from all the abuse you endured from your ex-partner? I think it's good to feel anger in the beginning. You have every right to feel anger. You may have been conditioned to you may have been conditioned to feel as though you have no right to feel that way. But you just imagine someone treated your child in the way that they treated you. You just imagine it was your brother or sister, your mother or father. You imagine someone was doing all of that to them. How would you feel about that? Would you feel angry? Of course you would. And that can help, you know, when you see it as though you're someone outside of this situation. It makes you realize that you are justified in having those emotions. Anyone would be angry. Some people, they even go as far as killing their abusers because they put them in like a survival mode and people will do anything to survive, literally anything. When people are just getting by, there's really nothing they won't do. But how do you get past the anger? Just got to focus on relaxing yourself, your mind, processing those emotions, practicing mindfulness, meditation. And then at some point you should be able to feel compassion. And I know that might sound crazy. I mean, you might be thinking, what is he talking about compassion? How can you feel any compassion for these people after what they've done? But what you have to understand is they are doing the best that they can from where they're at. If they could do any better, you know, if they were at a higher level of awareness, where they felt that they didn't have to behave in this way, then they wouldn't. They wouldn't need to. But they do because they're at a very low level of consciousness. And they're doing all of these abusive and manipulative acts because they're just trying to get by. They're just trying to survive. And when you realize that, you can have some compassion for them. I'm not saying that you should still get involved with them. That's definitely not a good idea, because they will stay in that state probably forever, you know, for the rest of their lives. They're never going to change. And they will continue treating you in the same way. But when you realize that that's the best that they can do from where they're at, you can have some compassion for them. And that will also release your anger. I'm at the National Botanic Garden in Wales. Come to Sydney. You've got fans here. Oh, thanks, Joe. I really appreciate it. You know, I've had a few people who have said to me, you know, if I'm ever in their country or city, I can stay with them, you know, when I'm traveling or whatever. And, you know, it's just really kind. I really appreciate it, you know, how welcoming everyone's been with me on YouTube. I know everyone's going through a difficult time. But that's what it's all about. That's why I created this community is for like-minded people to help each other. Together we can grow. Together we can succeed. We are more powerful when we are together. That's very true, authentic Max. Nothing is permanent in life. Everything you see now, the people, the places, the world, the entire universe, at some point, it's all going to fade away. The stars are going to explode. The galaxies are going to drift apart until we're left with nothingness. And there won't be anything anymore. So make the most of what you've got now. Yes, take time to process the emotions. Take time to get over the narcissist and forgive them so you can move on with your life. But then recognize that we only have a limited amount of time on this earth. So don't spend too much time focusing on the narcissist. Always remember to put the focus back onto yourself before you know it. This life will be over. And once this life is over, it's only a matter of time until everything fades away. So make the most of it now while you can. Don't let the narcissist control you. Don't let them tell you what you can and can't do. This is your life. Don't let anyone tell you how to live it. You're the one who has to deal with the consequences of the actions you make. So don't make actions for anyone else. It's easy for them to tell you what to do. They're not the ones who have to live your life. S, you get past the feeling of wanting revenge by just acknowledging that he is human. Not much of one maybe, but he is still human. And as humans, we all make mistakes. We all do things wrong. None of us are perfect. I can guarantee that everyone in this chat right now has done something that they're not proud of. So who are we to go and take revenge on people? As Gandhi once said, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. And just look at their actions, their behaviors. You can see what kind of emotions are producing those behaviors. Remember, narcissists are shame-based individuals, doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on their shame. And that shame comes from all of the things that they are ashamed of that they did. Do you really want to get revenge on them? Do you really want to behave in the way that they do? And then have to carry that shame with you for the rest of your life? I don't know about you, but I don't think I could live with myself. I'd rather be free. Shame is the lowest vibrational frequency. I wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life at that level. So just remember that next time you think of taking revenge. And not just that, but remember what about your friends and family? What would they think about you? What about your ancestors? What about your future children or grandchildren? What would they think about you taking revenge and acting the way that they do? Is that really a good example to set for your children and grandchildren? But if someone does you wrong, you just go and attack them? Or try and ruin things for them? We're better than that. And I know that you're better than that. That's why you're watching my videos. Daniel, what if they keep popping up after you blog them? I'm going to be talking more about that in tomorrow's video. You know, when you really can't get rid of them, are they keep coming after you? They keep stalking and harassing you. They keep watching everything you're doing. The trick is to not resist them. Let them do it. Let them dig their own graves, because that's all they're really doing. They're not building anything great out of doing those kinds of acts, are they? Nothing good comes out of doing bad things. If you want to produce good things, your actions must be good too. That's right, Authentic Max. The more you focus on them, the more sad you become. So focus on something that makes you happy. Just forget about the narcissist and focus on yourself. Thanks Caroline. I do try to be peaceful now. It took a lot of work to get to this point. I don't know if you watched my earlier videos, but in the beginning, you know, I was very different. I was angry back then. I was like, how can people do this kind of stuff? How can people like treat me in this way? I just couldn't get my head around it. And then I realized because I'm not like them. And they're not like me. We're not alike, us and them. We are very different people. And that's why we gravitate towards these kinds of channels and videos because we want a resolution. We want to change things and improve our lives. That's not what they want to do though. They just want to target people, take them for whatever they've got and destroy them. That's the difference. I think we can all reach a point where we feel our peace with ourselves. The only reason you don't feel peace is because you are around narcissists. And that wasn't you. That was just what they turned you into. It was never you though, but you can find yourself. After you leave them, spend some time to yourself, focus on your own journey, and you will begin to heal. You will begin to feel that peace, love and joy again. Better than ever before because then you develop an awareness of the difference, another contrast between negative and positive. By experiencing this extreme negativity, now you know what's positive. You know the difference now. You didn't realize the contrast between them before as much as you do now. So be grateful for those experiences. There's no positive without the negative. Life isn't meant to be perfect. You're not just supposed to experience good things all day every day. It was never supposed to be like that. To get the fullest experience of life, maybe you do have to meet a few narcissists. And that's what life is all about. It's about experience. Experience in everything good and bad. So don't hate the bad things that you've experienced in your life. Don't push them away. Just accept that they are there. Be grateful that you've got to experience that. And then be responsible. Respond to the best of your ability and do the best you can to change the situation so that you can experience the positivity that you want. Anyway, I'm leaving you now. I'm very grateful that you're here to share this moment with me, but I am going now. And I hope you can join me in the premiere later today. It starts in about three and a half hours. And then there will be another two premieres tomorrow starting from the same time. So thanks again for joining us. And I will talk to you later.