 I was a crappy person at 175K so in my mind I'm like dude if I make a million dollars a year I'm gonna be a really bad person on everybody welcome to a very special life coach episode of Fung Rose food we have a delicious spread right here and we are with a very very very special guest kevion yo thank you so much for being here man thank you guys man let's go between the street where the skate world the real estate world and now the life coaching world man you're touching on everything thank you guys man at the end of the day for me it's just about helping people move period right like one of the slogans is inspired to move so I'm just inspired to help people get to the next level in life life coaching is something that we've kind of been curious about I think that this is kind of a new term my first person who ever I told that person I was a life coach to was my best friend Jonas who started LRG I can't introduce me to Kanye as his life coach and now Kanye probably got a life get out of me Kanye this is also your friend Ross's spot right Ross's spot he's an amazing Filipino chef you're also half Filipino I am my mom's in the Philippines all right so let's get life coached let's go now a lot of you may not know who kevion is but you're about to find out he's somebody that us and Richie have actually been following for years now starting from his humble beginnings in the skate and streetwear world like LRG to now being successful in real estate and life coaching you see a lot of gurus out there but when you meet somebody cool and relatable you end up taking their words with a little bit more weight so watch us as we get some badly needed life coaching eat some delicious food and hopefully after this you feel like you got life coach to this morning was a day 139 of starting every single day doing something positive for my mind body and soul hey I did 200 a challenges last year the first one I ran a 5k every day and then I came up with a thousand mile challenge on a bike let's have chef Ross come in here and explain to us so here we have our hamachi puffed rice a panzu jelly this is our fried rice pork cheek adobo our albacore tostadas one of our signature dishes it's seared with a Korean chili pepper then we got our muscles our muscles it has a Filipino long anise sausage soft egg raviola fresh ricotta cheese crispy guanciale so we have our mushrooms and it has a an oyster sauce and free for a cocky on top a lot of different flavors a lot of different influences yeah what is it about challenges because I see my friends who are like really motivational challenges I'm not gonna lie okay I do it for me I don't think it was in my natural DNA to be successful truly like if I look at my upbringing you know my father went to prison at a very early age I moved out of my house when I was 13 years old and it's funny I asked my mom like were you not tripping like how did you let me move out she's like I don't know you just went to your friend's house and you kind of just stayed there so I got to do whatever I wanted waking up and working out and being disciplined is not a natural part of life it's just that you reach a point and you realize that we all want freedom we want financial freedom we want the freedom to do what we want when we want the funny paradox though is that discipline is what creates freedom to me I just know that if I really want something it's gonna take discipline and I always remember that if I always do what I've always done I'm always gonna get what I've always got so the key to really growth in my opinion is getting uncomfortable you breaking through that is what's gonna get you to the next level how we are in one area is how we are everywhere so I'll try to implement a discipline in an area outside of business knowing that it's gonna impact my business and so that's where the hundred-day challenges came in but on the path to doing something for a hundred days straight you're about you are you are guaranteed to hit some situations where it's like this dude I'm not doing it I mean my grandfather passed away in my first hundred a 5k challenge and I had been up for two days I was wearing the same clothes and I get home at 11 o'clock at night and my wife was like look I just feel like I have to tell you this but it is day 80 I was so mad dude I was so mad I went to Tony Barvin this and I've literally crying because in my running I go through this process of acceptance and gratitude and in mile to the physical being kicked in of what I'm used to feeling which is gratitude and if I did not push myself like that and that was the best run of all that's why I do the challenges it's all about saying this to yourself no yes I will anything you want to do from this high as you want to take this show in our minds we'll be like I don't know you know and so the two words that I try to to battle are well why not success is just a game of beating and overcoming that negative belief system saying like I don't know dude I don't know so the more you break through these walls improve yourself like I can do you got to beat the doubt you got to beat the doubt a lot of Asian parents they tell their kids don't do this don't do that stay safe blah blah blah there's so much fear right instilled in us how do you get people to take risks and not be afraid like I think about my wife you know my wife is Filipino both of her parents are Filipino and she had a major passion for art and makeup it was very common for her dad to be like okay well when that fails make sure you get back to medical school right when it's almost assuming that it's a real belief in her whatsoever that she was going to do that but I just come from a different cloth of like if you want to do that you can absolutely do it and so sure enough she started to build her blog you know within like two years she's getting paid 1500 bucks a day to do weddings and it became this whole thing I think it's a battle of knowing like what your heart is telling you and what the world is telling you whether that's your parents or your boss or your teacher if your heart is telling you like I got to do this thing it is a battle it's a battle of listening to but I do believe that like we're all incredible blessed creatures of God and I believe absolutely that we're all every single one of us are meant to be extraordinary but we have to be able to listen to that thing because if we get caught up listening to the world we'll get lost everybody has such a different meaning of success and a different definition when you're coaching people I guess are you coaching people in a conventional way to become like a conventional superstar or you're like nah man like that's all good if you want to be like as a UPS driver right but then you got a your life poppin outside of that yeah that's like that's a superstar life too and it's in a not as obviously ballerific you know right there is the number one thing that I work with people on is helping them see that not only are they the most extraordinary human being ever right now and that they have every single thing that they need to break through the next level right now but today I don't care if you got your car refueled I don't care if you got fired get over the make believe story that you're not a legend and today is not the greatest day ever the whole goal is to reach this next level always but the challenges many times when we think about the goal it causes us to feel like we don't have it in order to reach the goal we have to match the energy of who you will be when you're at the goal you want to you want to reach this level until you become that person at that level you're always gonna be operating like you don't have and as soon as you realize you you are the thing you are that person you now match the energy of the person who has a Grammy who has the car like dude hip hop is the ultimate example of the law of attraction and goal setting it's somebody who is playing the ultimate game of these three words and it's be do when you realize that you are the person without the diploma that you are the person without the record do you're now able to do things at a higher level which is gonna cause you to operate and actually have those things you're thinking about versus have to be like when I have 2 million subscribers when I have the car well then I'll be that person like no man you're that person like right now what do you think of the guys like yo success to me is not having all that you know the trappings one of my cousins swears that if you make more than 75,000 year you know they say that people who make about 75,000 are unhappy or something there's some weird thing that you're right it's her belief system that causes her to not make more than 75,000 a year there's nothing wrong with somebody who stays at 50k a year and they are totally they're totally happy at that but I would say that at some point I think they're going to feel like something's missing because I think that our purpose of living is to experience joy and to grow and so where should we be growing I think we should always be growing mentally always be growing physically always be growing spiritually always be growing within our family in our core relationships always be growing within our circle of friends and always be growing within business and why would I only be rich in these five areas but when I get to money and like I'm just gonna chill right here why would I do that well I think people view where they think the second they start chasing that sick thing to be rich in it's gonna compromise the other things and I'll tell you it did for me so I made my first six figures when I was 19 I never went above 200k for a decade and what happened was is my personal belief system about money was in effect my dad taught me that when you get money you need to get rid of it as fast as possible before it gets taken away okay so I had earned like close to a million dollars by the time I was 26 27 years old with nothing to show for it I didn't own a home I had a watch and a seven series with some 22s and that's about it which later got repossessed the way I related to money was not in a way that taught me how to make it grow because I didn't have the right belief system about it I was a crappy person at 175k so in my mind I'm like dude if I make a million dollars a year you'll be a horrific one be a really bad person when my dad passed away in 2012 a lot of things really shifted for me and I really started to pay attention to how I related to money and how my relationship to money was ineffective and it was a story and I started to change my conversation about money and what money meant to me from it's just this thing to celebrate and buy stuff to it's an opportunity to improve the lives around me in three years I went from never elevating above 200,000 in income and as soon as I change that in a three year period I made a million dollars in three years and year four I made a million dollars in one year people who view money as security tend to they don't they tend to think of ways to spend less and not make more yeah when you make that statement like I want to make money to make the lives around me better it's it's the less selfish motivation of I want to ball out and now I got to make it for these people that I love and it's essentially a family I mean I say that's 50% of it the other 50% of it was my personal beliefs of why I deserve to make a million dollars a year change the story that you tell yourself money you take a look at the and maybe maybe you don't have the story that I did but take a look at how do you view your relationship with money sorry guys please please tell us what we're looking at garlic fried rice housemaid Filipino longanisa is our housemaid and your Ladi spicy tomato sauce on the bottom ricotta cheese salmon belly good you got a dashi soba noodles and then our New York steak cream corn I have a lot of family members who for some reason they have like a negative feeling about what money is you hear these things like money is the root of all evil month you know the love of money is the root of all that's the actual code in the Bible yeah I truly didn't really think I was somebody worthy of maintaining my money I had a lot of like deep-rooted issues about myself and my personal self identity when I was five years old this thing happened when I told myself I labeled myself I'm worthless dude and I kept that thing going even till this day things happen and this five-year-old Kev and I have to check myself like no dude you are you are worth many people something happens when you're a kid and you spend your whole life trying to cover up this thing that happen mm-hmm did you ever do therapy I've done dude I've had so many therapists and I even funny so do you recommend therapy because that's something I've been thinking about there every now I get a lot of like immigrant communities that's just like you go to the therapist you're like you're pretty cool it's taboo we don't want to talk oh therapy something's wrong I call it coaching so my wife and I have a therapist and we call it our marriage coaching or our financial advisor that's our money coach you know our church groups that's our spiritual coaching all about having people around you who are at a higher level or or or they haven't they have a extra set of eyes that maybe you don't have that can look at the problem because they're a specialist in that thing but I'm not a therapist you know so I call myself a coach a real estate coach and a life coach if we could go through and you could give us some very quick I don't know if the coaching works this way some quick on-the-fly micro coaching for fun rows so I started coaching Jonas when I was 17 18 and it went from coaching Jonas and then next you know Jonas brought the LRG company at that time was literally like four people because he didn't have written down bulls before we met right but why did he have LRG then why did he have this thing going because in his core of who he was I've gone back and looked at his school papers when I visit his parents he has a school book the school report that he did and he wanted to start a clothing company do the whole vibe the whole energy of this clothing company that he wanted to create it looked like LRG it just wasn't called LRG when you know where you're going the universe is like how about this so the universe just connected him and I because I had these things that could help him solidify his vision he was gonna get there regardless is my personal belief because I thought I wasn't the one that the universe connected with him with something would have been somebody else so goal setting is about getting clear on the direction that you want your life to go because without goals you're a ship in the middle of the ocean without a rudder and so goal settings all about saying what do I want and the seven equities is a way to take that a whole level further there's all kinds of ways of writing goals I think the magic behind taking what you want to do and just freaking putting that shit on paper is so powerful should they write down number one I say go to a time you don't put a goal a deadline on your your goal it's not really a goal right okay yeah when are these goals going down all right look I'm gonna do it right now live December 31st 2019 and what I want you to do is I want you to actually not go from where you're at today to there I want you to go there and work backwards you know there's a reason why your your front windshield is so big and your rear view mirror is so small it's about looking as big as possible forward in terms of mindset do you want to read a certain amount of books is there something you want to learn right your mindset is it is your mind what you think about yourself your education so what you can do to improve your mindset I guess for me being a little bit of the new school I can't it's hard for me to sit down and read sometimes the same way dude so you do the you more listen to podcast like what do you do audio books my mindset goals one of the things are I'll put disciplines in mind so one of my mindset goals is to read my affirmations three times a day affirmations are what so an affirmation is whatever you tell yourself about yourself you say I know without a shout over doubt that I'm absolutely going to crush this today that's an affirmation dude the homie drama reads a book a week I don't know how he does that I read like a book every other month so for me one of my goals are to to complete complete one book a month that's one of my mindset goals your ego is gonna say that's why it's hard to do this right good and this is why people don't write goals is because when you're doing this you're all right I'm gonna do it your brains like no no no no you can't do it it's gonna be uncomfortable that's gonna be breaking for the routine oh that's gonna take a lot of time you don't you know to me and so your ego is not your amigo you got to be like hi ego thank you for stopping by like that shit down anyways dude that's what keeps us small the three letter word how how am I gonna run a marathon how am I gonna become a millionaire how am I gonna buy a dream now you guys remember my mentors do you do ancient Vietnamese proverb pH UK HAU how when you're writing your goals don't trip on the house don't worry about the house just write it down okay we're streaming right now we're just coming up with our life's dream because we're just saying yo that'd be tight right that's what you're saying you're you're you're you're this is the script for your movie dude we don't have the producers yet right actors yet we don't have the financing yet we don't have the cameras yet it's all good I'm just trying to create Star Wars right now but my boy Charlie was to change manager he told to change you know I'm gonna be a athlete to change I'm sure like a come on bro but that was his dream it's what he believed he was was possible to do in a year he lost 120 pounds he biked across America he did a freaking iron man in New Zealand or something and he landed on a Nike commercial nobody would bet on this guy no but he bet on himself you know and I think when you when you know that just as being here on this planet we're incredible creatures dude like I have the things that I want to do and God's like that's it so I know that if my goals and my heart's in the right place God's like I got your back yeah but that's it that's all okay don't compare yours to mine or to his these are your goals and this is your breakthrough you know so then you do the same thing and you go to family what would be the dream experience with your family remember here's how you want to operate with each of these areas what would make this the best year in my life oh I wanted to take a life-changing trip back to Asia here's the magic question who do I have to be to fly first class okay you know to me because that's a difference of a $900 ticket and a $3,000 ticket when you are saying Joe just write it down it's gonna be cool like that's what you want to do no no no no no no no no play smaller be smaller don't go that big you gotta remember I mean everybody's watching us do this so now it's almost like pressures on it feels like that's how you want to picture that insta you want to take this clip when you guys are talking about this you want to picture the insta with mom and pops feet kicked up in the little in the little cubby thing where you get it when you get to lean back yeah sick then you go into social what do you want to do socially what's that experience you want to throw some big event you want to do some crazy party you want to find your dream girl do 2004 I got out of a relationship on my birthday 2004 and I was April 23rd five days later my mom was like how come you're so detailed with all of your other goals your money goals what kind of car you want to drive what kind of shoes you want to how come you're not like that in your relationships and I was like why don't you start being as detailed as you are with your money in your business why don't you start being like that with your relationship April the 28th I write down my dream qualities in a girl I wrote down trustworthy I wrote down passionate about something I wrote down strong family values and then I wrote down the names of these two kind of famous people I won't say on camera if you take those two names and you mesh them together my wife is like an improved version of both of them put together in between April the 28th and Cinco de Mayo I'm in the skate shop and I see this magazine and on the cover of it I see this girl and her name is Alana when I looked at that magazine and I was like dang she totally looks like these two names that I wrote down I got the magazine I took a home and I put her face next to these five things that I wrote down I go to a party on Cinco de Mayo I didn't want to leave my house was like all being weird and emo my buddy said dude come on just come on whatever I drive to this party and I'm leaving the party on Cinco de Mayo 2004 and I love she texts me I drove home that night I shouldn't driven home that night she texts me in the morning and it said a lot I was like oh my gosh you text me hey did you get home okay and you know I did a good I did this is my trick at that time I text her who is this you know I mean yeah five dates later took me five dates just to even like get a kiss man shows I got denied five times in a row took it at like really nice date she wasn't having it and now we're married 14 years in now no when someone hears that story they're like is that is that magic is that God is it laws of attraction how do you explain it to someone who's just like I could I could tell you ten other examples just like that from my house to cars to vacations it's all I got this belief system that we become what we think about this belief system that we become what we think about is truly all I got it's what I based my whole life on the waves of your your your mind go out three feet the waves that you we're all energy but the waves of your heart go out seven feet so when something is really in your heart in your your radiated over and over and over and over and over you're sending out signals if you're always attracting jerks in your life usually just kind of look at what kind of energy you're putting out it's the same way I attract the perfect parking spot everywhere I go all goal-setting is is getting your mind in your heart to think about what you want you will get it you're getting it already if you break down your whole life everything you've had is because of every single thing every single thing you have what you don't have the trials of tribulations the breakdowns the breakthroughs you've gone through is because in your mind and in your heart you felt a certain way and you brought that into your experience and if you want to live higher than change your mind and change your heart if you want to live the same don't do anything if you want to attract a whole bunch of breakdown and trials and tribulations and drama watch the news and hang out with negative people and that'll happen you absolutely ruin it but it's not none of it is by accident you know like I have my I have I own my two dream companies my freaking children how incredible my children are from our house I'm not saying there's not challenges I deal with breakdowns and challenges but when I really look at like how the hell did this happen it's unreal and it is only because I took the time to say what do I want and I overcome that bullshit thing in my head that said no you can't have that and I'm like yes I can that's why I do these challenges to me and battle my ego if you can learn to train your mind that you can do anything you put your mind to well then cool let me see how big I can play then let me see how big I can concoct this this dream light in my mind but where's it start starts right there by putting what's in your mind on paper for money did you encourage people to have just like income goal passive income goal is it just a total gross so the net amount at the end of year so I go business then money business is your career it's what you do to make money money is what you actually do with me one of my goals this year is to sell a hundred homes right well what do I actually earn from selling a hundred homes that's like you know three million dollars something like that that is only in my business goals so so business goals for me are you know reach a hundred thousand views and listen to plays on each podcast sell a hundred homes and then remember go big as you possibly can I guess would be all the crap is like 20 million views of them I'm scared to put it down should I put it down I should I could be like here's the thing it's whatever you feel it you don't want to be able to know a hundred percent that you could do it also you want to be able to like do it you know but it should be a stretch because this is just the first layer you want to go further layers into this but this is layer number one all right okay this is just the first layer whoo this is just the skeleton script so that's on that's on business so that's on business money is different money is what you want to earn and how you want to make that money grow I guess I would say start to have some real footing in I guess like a business world outside of like just but my career so for business you're saying you want to begin making you know start making some moves in other industries is what you're saying yeah I will say that the more specific you are the better and usually the only thing that's stopping you from being specific is those two things fear and doubt I would like to own something that creates some residual income yeah that's not related to YouTube too that's amazing that's a great goal own something that creates residual income outside of YouTube that sounds like an income property to me spirituality yep so spirituality and so also what the way I write my goals is the first three are mental physical and spiritual can we get I get back to it I will tell you this is spiritual was the one that I honestly don't feel like I tapped into until 2016 and that happened right after I relapsed actually why did I do that you know and I went back to the seven equities and it was like okay mindset check killing it physical I'm running check killing it spiritual I'll just skip that one family killing it social killing it business killing it money killing it that area I always just avoided I never really dove into like who is my creator and since I started doing that and spending time in the word and in these practices like my sobriety's been easy I'm more at peace and so I definitely encourage people to like explore that whatever that might mean for you why do you think that is the one because you know it's funny that you just because I just skipped it I should be and so the weird part for me why would I risk everything and I went deep I mean it was a Wednesday night it was four in the morning I'm by myself I'm DJing I'm not taking my aunt my wife's falls I got all this stuff next to me that I should not be doing why was it what was I trying to fill up well what I was trying to when I had everything how I just bought my dream house well the reality is all that shit didn't make me happy what really makes us happy is when we're in tune with ourselves and that doesn't happen automatically you know to mean and so since then April 29 2016 I really been working on my relationship with God spiritually and obviously my sobriety this April for me is three years straight so after you do this you got your goals turn them in the affirmations and just put I boom and now you got your affirmation just put an eye in front of your phone in front of it dude that's all it is every time you say it your ego's like now you're not gonna do it and then you say it again and before you know it you start to believe it and as soon as you start to believe it guess what I call it manifest prime when you know your goals are coming dude get out of the way like it's on its way just like Amazon Prime but it's manifest prime whatever you write down if it's not coming it's only because you don't believe it what's gonna happen dude if you believe it I can't believe it you have right I believe it truly you don't have to necessarily have a plan for it right now I would recommend having the plan definitely here's the thing about the plan when you plan it what it does is it gives you conviction and confidence that it's coming but it might come a different way it might not come how I plan totally plan gives you the conviction to set everything in motion and if you said it you just said it you did you did I'm done done dude all right we're done so you could take these goals you could turn them in that you know that you now know how to turn them into affirmations for all the viewers I think an important thing to reference to people is that like we don't have all the answers I don't have all the answers I just believe that whatever you tell yourself over and over is gonna happen and the code of the year last year is a dream written down with the date becomes a goal a goal broken down into steps becomes a plan and a plan backed by action becomes reality that's it and that's how to make your dreams happen that's it that sounds simple I think it is simple I think it is simple with my upbringing my education I'm the last person that should have the life that I have but somebody hooked me up with these gems and they work and I believe in them and that's why I do all the stuff that I do for free I got hooked up from my mom from my mentor that's from all these books so I'm trying to bottle all this stuff up and give it to our community I really do feel it is the secret to living an incredible life I got that I got chills on my back between the between other man the inspiring words the encouragement don't trip about the how when it comes to writing down your goals like trying to make a movie without even writing the script one year break your one-year goals down into quarters which is 90 days then take your quarterly goals and break it down into months then take your monthly goal and break it down into weeks and take your weekly goal and break it down into days you're gonna see you're gonna look at this thing and be like oh shit I can do that today like that one thing today and then you do it today and then again and again and next you know you look back you're like damn I came a long way I think that the biggest takeaway for me for you today you drop so much knowledge so many gents is to work your way backwards added up in the work your way backwards I think for the longest time I was goal-setting like dude I gotta listen to him one every day and you miss a couple days and you're like yeah so you operate from the future to today and then from this place of today just look at what do I got to do to kill it in the next hour how do I kill it in this hour because anxiety comes from tripping on the past and tripping on the future so you want to have the big picture in mind and be inspired about it but now that you're inspired in the present all right what do I gotta do in the next hour um where where can people find your stuff my insta is probably one of the best ways at kebion kev i o n a lot of good bits on the insta a life coach to me is somebody who truly just sets a great example of how to live we're all life coaches we're all teachers the question is what are we teaching people hey I got life coached in my first yeah great session great session got life coached thank you everybody for watching that video definitely check out kebion stuff we'll leave all the links down below I'll pop it 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