 How long does it take to get good at dating? It really depends on the person, whoever I'm talking to, but in reality I'd say that most people when you're going to change your habits and go from point A to point B, in this case level up a bit, you're probably going to take you at least three months. The reason why is because it takes us three months to form new habits to really get things to sink into our brain. So I'd say three to six months is a good period of time for you to start seeing some improvements in your dating life with consistent effort. Don't look for it after a day or two because if you only look at that you're probably going to be disappointed with the results.