 Just been looking out at these amazing views here from my apartment balcony You can see a lot more in the day But I do enjoy the lights from the city there. It's really nice It's Nala in the tallest building in the city Just living my life Making the most of it and In this video, we are going to be talking about What is not? a narcissist And if you had many people talk about this If you had people make mistakes where they think that someone is a narcissist because of certain characteristics That is not the case a person Could be very hands very beautiful They may take really good care of themselves. They may spend a lot of time in their appearance But that does not a luxury car a big house They may wear designer clothes But again That does not make them a narcissist Of course a narcissist Can be very handsome or beautiful They can have a lot of money and expensive things But that doesn't always mean that They're a narcissist just because they have those things Or just because of how they look That is not always the case Sometimes people who Look good physically And they have money and expensive things Sometimes they can be very nice people They can be very friendly and caring not always But sometimes they can I guess you've got to look at it like this A narcissist is someone who Sometimes they may have some level of success in their lives But they don't don't deserve be where And we all know they don't deserve it because of how they treat people They lie they cheat they exploit people So they don't deserve to be there and why don't they deserve to be there? Because they didn't put the work in but maybe One might think that someone is a narcissist just because they're very attractive and They have a luxury car. They have a big house They wear fancy designer clothes But you don't know maybe that person Went through a lot of suffering Maybe they've worked really hard So does that make me narcissist? if they They spent all this time Climbing the mountain could have taken them hours And then they finally get to the top and they're like yeah And then someone comes along and they're like Narcissist Is that fair of course not but if it's a narcissist for real Well, my idea of that would be someone who jumps in a helicopter and the helicopter drops them off on the top of the mountain And then everyone's looking around that's just standing there like yeah, I climbed now that's a narcissist Because they've just lied they've cheated they don't deserve any praise any compliments any acknowledgment Because they cheated But if someone has done the work They've suffered they've been through the trials and tribulations And then they want to have that moment of praise They want to have The sport lights or that's fine and for someone like that. I would gladly congratulate them They deserve it and they deserve everything that comes along with their success Of course, they do because they did the work And they did it fairly and honestly so there is a difference and of course someone who Who achieved their success in that way? that means that While they may have their moments of enjoying their success They're not self-absorbed And they do have empathy for other people They helped a lot of people along the way We need more people like that in this world, but narcissists they cheat their way And they deserve it That is the difference So I hope this video will help to understand The difference of someone who is just Attractive successful someone who enjoys their life And someone who is actually a narcissist who doesn't care about anyone and is only in it for themselves Let me know if you agree or disagree with this in the comments down below. I'd love to hear from you And if this video vibes with you, please give it a thumbs up Thank you all and I will talk to you in another one very soon