 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والذين هم للزكاة فاعلون والذين هم لفروجهم حافظون إلا على أزواجهم أو ما ملكت أيمانهم فإنهم غير ملومين فمن ابتغار وراء ذلك فأولئك هم العادون these three verses deal with marriage marriage is important we need to encourage our youth to get married people these days have this perception that first of all I need to graduate second find the job third by a house fourth by my car and then before I retire I'll marry someone insha'Allah by that time and then I'll that is not what Islam says Islam says if you find someone who is mature Mu'min his Akhlaq is good and get married if you see your son for example at the age of 18 the legal age if he has the potential for marriage he understands responsibility not that he is 18 years old and just playing games games games games games the whole day you know no but he's dedicated he puts in there he's mature he has some all your daughter she's mature she's responsible sit down with him sit down with her educate him or her about marriage the responsibilities and then find them a spouse and get them married I know a Mu'min a Mu'min he had his son young age 19 years old found him a spouse didn't have much space to give him so what he did is that son you take my master bedroom I will move out of the master bedroom you have it he had a three bedroom house that's it you come with me but at least I know his Iman is secured now he's not going to go to university and God forbid do something else they shape their lives together the boy and the girl they're young they're mature you educate them you find them really reliable worthy of marriage then get them married and let them study together work together in fact that might be even better they might do better in university because they can concentrate on their studies not on other things and later on Insha'Allah they'll have children who are pious متقين Mu'min their chances insha'Allah they're mature and they got married young and you explain to them the essence of marriage the chances of divorce insha'Allah will be reduced if they have the Iman تقوى and the أخلاق these are the two criteria two criteria إيمان and أخلاق anyone who comes to you as per the hadith and you accept his إيمان and you accept his أخلاق which means he showed the signs of maturity plus he's a good person you ask about then it's a wuju then get them married don't say what is your degree how much will you pay Dawali I want $20,000 because my friend here got married for $15,000 Dawali I want to be higher because I want to call her and say you got 15 I got 20 that's all you have to bring a house for our daughter bring a car for our daughter these things are not in the أحكام in the شريعة try to facilitate the marriage encourage marriage so this is something important try to encourage it