 Why does the narcissist devalue you another video for you? Please give it a like Click the subscribe button in the bottom right corner of the video or underneath the video if you haven't subscribed yet share your thoughts on the comment section and Share the video with anyone who you believe it may help the narcissist has to devalue you Because your value is too high in their eyes If that wasn't true Why would they ever need to do to devalue you? Narciss only devalue those who they believe to have a higher value than they do They want you to believe that you are not good enough for anything or anyone Why do they want you to believe this? They want you to believe it because deep down that's exactly how they feel about themselves They feel that they are not good enough for anything or anyone But narcissists do not self-reflect They do not look within themselves. It's too painful for them. They can't deal with their negative emotions And they can only hold them in for so long At some point it has to come out of them Since they do not look within themselves to deal with that It has to come out on you They end up projecting all of their flaws faults and insecurities all of their negative emotions onto you This is projection And they actually believe the exact opposite of you But when you present yourself to them and you're looking good You're happy and you have all of these good qualities It triggers the inferiority complex It triggers them to reflect on themselves At least for a short time It triggers them to feel intense hatred and anger towards themselves Which is then projected onto you They also feel intense envy and jealousy You may have high self-esteem self-worth and self-belief Again, this triggers them to reflect on themselves It triggers them to feel intense hatred anger envy and jealousy And at that point they just want to tear you down Because they believe that you have made them feel that way You are the cause of their negative emotions Of course, this is not true, but that's how they think They don't accept responsibility for how they feel It's your fault They are like emotionally immature toddlers And I have done a video on that too, so please check that out So this is why the narcissist has to devalue you Because they feel inferior to you They are full of self-hatred and anger Which then becomes hatred and anger towards you Pathological envy and jealousy It makes them want to destroy all of your amazing qualities just because they don't have them Or they don't believe that their qualities are as good as yours Narcissus has low self-esteem low self-worth low self-belief and low self-assurance They don't think very highly of themselves. In fact, they hate themselves The grandiosity and fake self-love is just to compensate for how much they hate themselves The truth is they believe that they they are inferior to everyone else They are more flawed than anyone else And that's why they have to create this fake personality of being grandiose and better than everyone They take it to extremes where they won't accept even a single flaw or mistake Because then that would open the floodgates to all of that other flaws or mistakes And that's just too painful for the narcissist to deal with Codependence also have low self-worth low self-esteem and low self-belief They are not self-assured people This makes it easy for the narcissist to define them however they would like Which is never going to be in a positive way If you are a codependent You need to rebuild your self-worth and self-esteem You need to start believing in yourself You need to start trusting your own intuition You need to become self-assured No one should allow an abuser to define their value How is an abuser qualified in any way to define what you are worth? You are far more credible at defining your value as you've spent more time with yourself than anyone else has You know yourself better than the abuser Although they will make you believe they know you better than you know yourself It's time to start seeing these sadistic and mostly abusive predators for what they really are Anyone who even attempts to devalue or manipulate you should lose their credibility there and then As soon as they try to abuse you You should realize that this is not a credible person A person who is credible should not define your worth either We define ourselves we validate ourselves That's why these qualities have self at the beginning You define your worth you define your belief in yourself no one else People can give you constructive criticism But even then you decide what you do with that When someone is trying to force their perception onto you Something is very wrong They are most likely envious or jealous of you And of your good qualities your self-worth self-esteem self-belief and self-assurance They don't have those qualities So they they don't want you to have them either bitter envious jealous people Stay the hell away from them They will alter your self-perception They will destroy all of your good qualities Because they want you to be miserable and insecure just like they are Leave them alone with their inferiority complex and get the hell out of there Now that we have this awareness It should seem ridiculous that we ever allowed an abusive narcissist to define our value Of all people how is a narcissist credible to define our value? Just look at their distorted perceptions of themselves They act the exact opposite of what they are They never put the work into develop their self-worth self-esteem self-belief or self-assurance They just pretend they have it already Their distorted perceptions of themselves are just as distorted as their perception of you If the narcissist had value They wouldn't spend their lives doing everything they can to steal ours The narcissist has no value Nothing to offer but words and an illusion How someone treats or talks about another person should say more about them than it does about anyone else Do not give these insecure Inferiority complex people the power to devalue you You have all of these good qualities You are everything they wish they were they like it in the beginning But when they realize that they can't partake and possess the good qualities which you possess They get hateful and angry They will obsessively stoke and force themselves upon you for years Trying to take away your good qualities trying to destroy you Because they can't have those good qualities They can't achieve or obtain what you are capable of achieving or obtaining So why should you that's why they have to do everything they can to stop you They have to devalue you They have to make you believe that you are not good enough for anything or anyone Because really they know the opposite is true If they really believe that you are not good enough for anything or anyone There would be no problem There would be no purpose to devalue in you They just don't get it In their warped arrogant minds They really believe they have something that we want In reality They have everything we don't want But in the narcissist mind It doesn't matter what you think Or how you feel about it Your thoughts and feelings are insignificant and invalid The reason for this is because the narcissist has no self-worth Self-esteem self-belief or self-assurance They try to obtain all of these qualities from external sources So they believe that they have the right to define you To be your source of defining your worth Because that's how they operate in the world Their worth their belief in themselves Their assurance is all from external sources That's why their self-worth self-esteem self-belief and self-assurance are so low It's all based on what other people think of them And everything they display to other people is constructed or staged in a way So that they will be approved of They tell people whatever they want to hear They show people whatever they want to see They create illusions and make up stories They exaggerate their accomplishments and minimize their faults or mistakes And they base their worth from all of these fake illusions and stories Narcissists are some of the most inauthentic and dishonest people you will ever meet They are living a lie And now they are trying to get you to be the same way By devaluing you and having you accustomed To having your worth defined by external sources The reason why your thoughts and feelings are invalid to the narcissist and theirs are so significant It's because deep down they believe the exact opposite Narcissists believe that their thoughts and feelings have no value or credibility They cover it with a false display that everything they say or do is significant and whatever you think or believe doesn't matter The narcissist has no self-worth and they are full of self-hate Yet everything they say or do is an attempt to prove that they have value or that they love themselves They are walking contradictions They have cognitive dissonance Two conflicting beliefs And you trust these people? You give them the power to devalue you and define your worth Bad idea Define your worth Rebuild your self-worth self-esteem and self-belief Assure yourself validate yourself Don't let anyone else do that They are not credible or qualified in any way to define you They don't want you to be you They hate you People who are full of hate, anger, envy and jealousy are always going to have distorted perceptions They entertain these dysfunctional thoughts and base their perceptions off of their weak and immature emotions Perceptions based off of emotions are always going to be distorted and inaccurate Thank you for watching I hope you enjoyed the video Please remember to like and share your thoughts in the comments Subscribe if you haven't subscribed yet And share the video with anyone who you believe may help. I will talk to you soon