 You will never be enough for the narcissist. You will never have the requirements to fully meet the narcissist demands, needs or expectations. You will never be sufficient. You will never be enough for them. But don't take this personally. It really has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. The narcissist cannot be satisfied with you or anyone else. Nothing could ever be enough for them but this has nothing to do with you even if there was a perfect person walking the earth. They wouldn't be enough for the narcissist because the narcissist isn't enough for themselves. For anyone or anything to be enough for you you must first be enough for yourself. You must first feel whole and complete on your own. Anything else should be the icing on the cake but the narcissist expects you to complete them. They expect you to meet their impossible expectations. Standards that they can't even adhere to and even if you do exactly what they want when they want that still won't be enough for them. The goalposts will move and they expect more and more from you. While they're giving you less and less in return you will never be enough for the narcissist because they are not enough for themselves. They would first need to go within and complete themselves for you to be enough for them but they're not going to do that instead they're going to point the finger at you and point out your faults and mistakes your flaws and imperfections. Everything you've done for them will be brushed aside as though it was nothing even if they were incapable of meeting that same standard for themselves because they're arrogant and entitled. They expect more from you but they expect from themselves which is the reason why you will never be enough for them because we must first be enough for ourselves before we can appreciate anyone else. You can give yourself the love and respect that you need focus on self-care and self-development become the best version of yourself you may never be enough for the narcissist but you could be enough for yourself. I hope this video resonated with you please like, comment, share and subscribe click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos if you're lighter than 8 my paypal link is in the video description coaching enquiries can be with me and ask for other coaching at duma.com thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon