 Do this and the narcissist Will go insane That's what we're going to be talking about in this video, and I have done a few videos on this topic already And this what I want to talk more about it because I know usually I just say All you've got to do is go no contact and move on Then that will drive the narcissist insane Which is true. I mean that's normally enough to drive any narcissist insane because they have such a Obsessive need for power and control But there is More to it than that, which I would like to go into in this video Because What narcissists really can't stand is when you have something That they want and I don't mean You've Taken something from them, although I'm sure that would irritate a narcissist as well or anyone but this is more you Establishing something on your own something that they desire to have and Typically these will be your Possessions because they are more concerned with superficial things so you might move on and buy a new house one new car or You just become successful in something Maybe you start a new business or You start making more money start making new friends These are the types of things that they will be envious of Because these are the types of things that they decide to have another thing as well is if you move on and You meet someone new you start a new relationship I don't know it's funny because you might look back and think but when you were with them They never cared about you They neglected you They were never even there when you needed them. So it might come as quite a surprise for you to hear this Because you might be thinking Hold on a minute They neglected me the entire time. They were never there for me when I needed them They were always out doing their own thing and then they just contact you when they're bored To do so it might come as quite a surprise to hear Just how jealous narcissists can be Because they're actually very possessive and controlling They see you as an object that exists to serve them whenever they need you so That's typically how it goes as well because they don't really believe That you can move on on your own they don't think that you have the power to do that because You've already handed your power over to them You've let them define you and the relationship and who you're supposed to be for them So they look at it as though if you've moved on Then someone must have taken you away from them That's usually how they see it if they see that you're in a new relationship Again with the superficial things they see that you're with someone Who is physically attractive Something they see as attractive to them Maybe someone who is in good shape someone who's tall someone who is Powerful and successful And not only that but someone who cares about you Someone who takes care of you So it's pretty much someone who Does everything they didn't do for you Everything they should have done when they had the chance So it's quite funny when you think about it, but what really irritates them what really drives them insane It's when you move on and you find someone Who does everything? They didn't do for you and maybe everything that you were doing for them You find someone who's doing that for you. So look back or remember How much you cared about them? You did everything you could to make them happy it was never good enough, but you still tried If you move on and you find someone like that Someone who cares about you in the way that you cared about them Someone who Maybe even puts you for them Someone who loves you As much as you love them If you move on and you find someone like that That will really drive them insane because They want something like that too although They're not really concerned about If it's real or not so much But what they really want is this great a source of supply Who will be there for them whenever they need them The supply who will do whatever they want When they say jump the new supply says how high the new supply extends themselves as far as they need to go Please the narcissist the son-peaceful person They bend over backwards for them. They pretty much Give up their entire lives to try and make this miserable person happy That's what a narcissist wants and I'm sure many of you that's what you were to them This object that was just waiting around Whenever they needed you whatever they needed you to do No matter how Access of the demands or how unrealistic it was They expected you to do it So of course when you move on and you find someone who really cares about you And they don't just pretend to care about you the way that the narcissist did they actually show it Real emotions and you feel it you feel that it's real You feel that this person Actually cares about you and they have your best interest in minds And they don't just talk like the narcissist does when they're trying to manipulate you This new person is about it for real And they show it with their actions and when the narcissist has to see that They will go insane it will bother them they won't like it So I guess to summarize it What really drives a narcissist insane? More than anything else is when You move on and it's like for the first time in a very long time You're actually happy You're smiling you're laughing you're joking, you know, you're not taking things so seriously anymore You're actually having a good time. I don't know many of you you may have been in prison to these relationships 10 20 years But you can't remember the last time you smiled Can't remember the last time you were actually happy and I feel for you Those of you who had to go through that because that is no way to live As I've always said life is meant to be enjoyed not endured and I want you to enjoy every minute of your life after leaving the narcissist But I can also tell you That's what will drive them insane the most it's to see your happiness your satisfaction with life and If you're in a new relationship a new person that you are with but you've got to sit back and think Hold on a minute. Why does that drive them insane? Why does that bother them so much and it's actually quite simple Because let's say there's something that you Desire in life it may be a friend of yours It could be a co-worker It might even be a family member and Maybe they're any new relationship They're in love As you look at that and you think Wow, that's great. I'm happy for them and maybe that could happen for me The narcissist Does not feel that same way The reason why they go insane why it irritates them so much Because they already know it's never Going to happen for them The best they're ever going to get is This source of supply Just like you were to them, but in the end what happened They couldn't sustain it They ended up devaluing you turning against you making you miserable Driving you insane and then in the end I Know many of you you just Didn't want anything to do with them so They already know that's never going to happen for them. They're never going to have someone Look at them in that way with actual Desire and Love like they're the best thing that ever happened to them in their lives They're never Going to experience that feeling that sensation They're never going to have that and they know it They already know it And that's why it drives them so insane because a normal person if you see something that you desire something that you want and You know that you can get it. You know that you can make it happen if you really want to Narcissists they can't do any of that They can't They can't experience love That's not something That narcissists get to experience and I don't want to stand here and validate other people's feelings. I have to be honest. It is the truth They don't get to experience real love How can you experience real love? When you are self-absorbed and you lack empathy When you're constantly thinking about yourself your own feelings and needs you're constantly in survival mode survival mode They are never Trying to share someone else's Feelings or experience and you should know that already From your relationship with them When did they ever sit down and try to understand you I? Bet they never did that and you might have been with them for ten years. You couldn't remember a single time Where it seemed like they actually cared about you so Yeah, there's no way that they are going to move on and have something with anyone It's never going to happen and that is why it eats away at them so much Because they've been with you long enough to know that you do have empathy They know that and they've used it against you They played the victim they tried to make you feel bad for them in most cases. That's how they got in in the first place When they first met you They complained about the last person they were with They said they did all these things to them To make you feel bad for them then you give them a chance because they know that you are empathic and Pathic people they have the best relationships The most amazing Connections Something that narcissists Will never have they will never get to experience that and Yeah, it's like I said before Love always wins In the end it really does It's the truth But yeah, they will go insane For all of these things anything superficial Anything that you achieve or attain after they're gone And they'll feel like they're missing out. They'll wish that they could be a part of that Whether it's money power success Whatever it is a new business bought a new house a new car Because these things are very important to them They are ego driven they have this need to feel important especially after they after you're gone They're constantly Watching you and comparing themselves to you and Trying to be better than you trying to get one over on you Because they're using you as a tool to regulate their emotions They can't regulate their own emotions Which means that they can't Generate that feeling of love from within All they can do is pull people in And enslave them Domesticate them And just use them as a source of supply. I don't know some of you You may think about What if the narcissist moves on find someone else and they fall in love Well, you may have seen something on social media the posting of pictures They're looking happy with the new person That person's just a new source of supply And to know that you've only got to look back at how they treated you did they ever care about you? Did they can't ever care about what you were going through with them? Did they ever try to understand you? No, they didn't And that is how you know They're gonna experience the exact same thing with the next person and the next person after that And it's gonna be the same thing again and again until the day they die And many of them end up alone So it should be no surprise But this is the thing This is it This is what their envious of the most. This is what drives them insane When you move on And you find someone who loves you and cares for you especially if you meet another empath That will really drive them insane. Yeah, it will really drive them insane to see like And you found someone Who is giving you the love Poor they never gave to you, but they're looking at it like if they had another chance It's not so much that they were trying to establish a connection with you Because they already know that they can't they know it doesn't do anything for them They would just use those things to manipulate and control you That's all they've ever tried to do and that's how you should know that Even when they move on All they're going to do is try to manipulate and control someone else That is all they're going to do They're not going to do anything else, but for you You can have that for real you can experience that for real and that Is what they're so afraid of That is why They are so possessive and controlling over you Because they already know that What they have with you is not real They know that already They know that they've tricked you. They've manipulated you They've groomed you. Yes, they are fully aware of that And they are terrified that One day you'll figure them out You'll realize that it's all a lie They're not about anything for real. They're just future-faking you They're making False promises about your possible future with them to get what they want in the present And then of course when you realize that that's when you know it's time to go and Of course, they already know what you're going to be looking for Once you've left them behind because If there's one thing that we all have in common on here everyone who watches my videos We were all looking for something Before we met these narcissists we were looking for intimacy and connection we will Joy happiness Maybe marriage Children starting a family That's what we were looking for Before we met the narcissist But when we first got involved with them and they tricked us They made us believe that they were about that While knowing fully well That they weren't They just wanted to trick us contain us domesticate us And keep us stuck for as long as they could And maybe they were hoping to keep us there for life So that we'd never move on and we never realize that They're fake they're not about love They're not about anything Other than manipulation lies and tricks, but they know that you're about something for real They know that you're an empath They know that you want to share your love With someone and you want it to be real and they're afraid of that. They're very jealous They don't want to see you moving on and doing that. It will drive them insane But that's why I make these videos That's why I've been doing this now for nearly five years because that's my mission is for you to Leave this fake person behind Who doesn't even care about you and to find something real Find someone who actually Cares about you and loves you and gives you The same treatment that you gave to them to the narcissist Because all that time you were with them you cared about them. You did everything for them You invested all of your time energy and money You did everything you could to make them happy Sometimes you just got to look back and imagine What if you could meet someone who could do that for you someone who? Could care about you just like you cared about the narcissist Just imagine how amazing that would be and use that as your motivation To move on from them because that's What you need That needs to me um that needs to be your motivation your vision That should be what fuels you is to one day find this person Who cares about you for real And they're not just manipulating you. They're not just playing games They're not trying to keep you stuck so they can use you, but they're actually reciprocating back what you're giving to them and It's an equal exchange because I know many of you you have been Starved for such a long time. You've been starved of love and affection Things that you are deserving of and instead You were given this fake version of love Which kept you stuck and then they devalued you they put you down They locked you away. They hid you from the world because deep down. They knew that you deserved So much more you do deserve so much more and I want that for you, but it all starts for by taking responsibility for Where you find yourself now because of course you can't just go from this narcissistic relationship To be in with a person Like you desire And who gives you real love? It doesn't work that way First you must heal yourself You must practice self-love and self-care and become the best version of yourself Because there should always be an equal exchange So whatever Love you want someone to give to you You need to be able to give back to them because that will sustain the relationship And I know that you can have that for real It doesn't just have to be a dream a fantasy You can experience that in real life and you will and I can say that from my own experiences For much of my life. I Felt like I was locked away as I never got to experience real life But then over the last few years my life completely changed And I got to experience things that I never thought I would get to experience and It's been amazing I'm so thankful for it for how my life has changed and of course I could look back and Feel bitter and resentful for how I was treated and How my life was pretty much robbed from me as It was for many of you, but if I did that That would have kept me stuck. I Wouldn't have been able to have moved on what kept me going is this vision of the future and And What I hope to achieve and I don't just mean in my business with money or Things like that, but just having a Normal reciprocal relationship with someone was someone who loves and cares about me Just as much as I love and care about them because deep down I think that's all what we all want That's what we all wanted before we met the narcissist And we have to remember that Because many people after they get involved were they narcissists to become So paranoid and distrustful They just want to be alone for the rest of their lives And that's exactly What the narcissist wants for you They want you to be stuck They want you to be unable to move on unable to forget about the past Everything that you went through with them They want that to play on your mind for the rest of your life But of course, I don't want that for you I want you to be able to move on and I know that you will in time and If you ever need someone to talk to Just remember that I am available for one-on-one coaching And whatever you're going through we can talk about it And We can talk about moving on the things that you need to do I've been there. I've been through it Many times So I know where it's like And I believe that I can help you So yeah, if you're interested in my services, you can book a session with me Through my website. It is Narcseviver.co.uk That is it for this video That's what drives a narcissist Insane I'd just like to thank you all for your support. Thank you for joining me today Please give this video a thumbs up down below if you enjoyed it Share your thoughts in the comment section and read your comments every day And share the video subscribe And also check out my instagram as well It is Narcseviver youtube on instagram. I have new pictures and videos of my travels every day on there So check that out Okay, I'd just like to thank you all for joining me And you all have a great day I will talk to you in another video very soon