 This is Mike with the 21 report in Orlando, Florida behind the scenes with Ryan Stone. Ryan You just gave your first-ever speech at the 21 convention First of all welcome. It's great. Thank you very much Before we get into some questions, can you give the guys listening and watching at home a brief overview of your talk? And why is you chose to talk about these particular topics? Sure? So it's really hard to put together an hour. I The whole point of it is I'm not really anything special. I'm just an average guy like anybody else The big problem we were noticing is guys They like to feel good. They like to say you got your news resolutions, but then they end up not doing anything So the purpose of the speech was to put action before words And then the idea is we have a concept in the married red pill called dread Which it's got a nice little controversial name so everybody likes it, but it's essentially just a like a male branch swinging you Moving forward so that way You have options you can pick up another girl if the one you have right now doesn't like you So you don't have to settle for like a dead bedroom or a wife that won't respect you or anything like that And then the real purpose of it was to show people That there's like a sound strategy to it That's the one thing I find people really lack like everybody likes to hear about the the theory behind things Evolutionary what do cave men do when the cave women do I like to keep it fairly practical now go lift a weight Go value your time and energy go dress like you give a shit that kind of thing So it is the real point of it was to make something practical that people can leave and actually apply in their lives Awesome. So you mentioned that you're moderate on the red pill Yeah, the married red pills I've read it. Yeah, can you explain exactly what that is That's where people lash out at you When you don't tell them what they want to hear. Yeah, no, it's I Honestly, don't know how I got it at the time. I was just going through my little struggles. Everybody's got their story I don't like the pity party thing. So I try not to talk about it, but The big point was just you writing things down that you're going through and then other guys would break down what they're going through You kind of swap your nose between the two of you guys and then eventually I'd written enough and been there enough that the guys are like We need to kind of step up because it's starting to grow in popularity. We need another moderator so they picked me up on it and then It's not really there's it's not really much to it It's mostly making sure people stay on point and they don't delve too far into Color mental masturbation Naval gazing jerking each other off over how you feel like a man kind of like if you remember the movie fight club Yeah, yes, Cornelius you can cry now. Yeah, and I'm just like fuck So I kind of had a thing and that's my shtick there is um I'm big on calling other guys faggots. I don't mean it like homosexual I mean it like on Xbox or wherever we call somebody there just guys who are they're larking masculinity It's not a larking thing. You just lift a weight go talk to a girl stop putting up with your wife's bullshit So the moderating is for the most part just keeping people focused Hurting cats. Yeah. Yeah, so in your talk you mentioned that you joined the Navy when you were 23 Yeah, I wanted to ask what was your biggest kind of lesson the takeaway you you know took from the Navy. Oh, geez It's hard so when I came in I had the idea of Queen and country Meritocracy work hard play hard and I still kept a lot of that because that's still there but it kind of introduces you to I Guess human nature you get to a certain point where you realize that may not be the case Maybe the guy who went golfing with the boss got promoted ahead of you. So but you were the one they were the studious workers, so I Guess and I don't want to make it sound more than it is but it's kind of a more Machiavellian nature of people So it gives you a more realistic outlook. You don't really have a choice It's at the point where somebody can pull this stuff and if they outrank you you have to put up with it It's got a very strict power structure and it taught me The value and having your own value your own mission in life Because you can latch on to somebody else's but at the same time that Message is going to be for them. Mm-hmm. They have a thing. They call it like the green machine Basically once you're not they say if you're not deployable, you're not employable. So if you get Medical problems in your back and that they don't care if you've been in for 18 years Which is two years away from your pension the process to kick you out is there They kick you out a day before your pension kicks in there's no Loyalty there where all just one more day and then you can have your pension like you deserve because you worked hard for it No paperwork says out and you're out So it's kind of nice. It makes not so much jaded but more realistic overview like nobody's really entitled to anything Yeah, awesome. So in your talk you mentioned about Becoming being this high-value man. Yeah Can you Kind of paint a picture. What does that look like in real life? I like I use the four F's You're fit. You're fun. You're financially successful and you fuck That's really it. I mean if you boil it down to it, that's it essentially as far as high value it's From a red pill perspective if you're actually talking to a girl and she wants to fuck you that's pretty much high value I mean, there's a biological stuff where yes cave women pick cave men So they define who gets to breathe and who doesn't all that stuff doesn't really matter Essentially if you can walk into a room and get the things that you want from the people that are there, that's high value it's kind of another theme where a Women have intrinsic value over the historical Timelines it's because you know women can have babies and babies make empires, but for guys you're pretty much disposable Women and children first on boats. However you want to put it so The only value you have as a man is the value you provide to others And then your goal is to just make sure you command market value for that So say if you Want to become this high value man, but you don't feel that you are do you believe in the idea of you know Fake it till till you make it or is the better yet? Stop fucking thinking about it. Yeah I hate that there's so many guys and they step on their own dick all the time. It's just They blame everything well, I don't have the face structure. I'm this nationality. I'm Whatever reason you got they always have some reason that they don't even want to start and it's just this big ego defense Even if you're like a two out of ten, you're the ugliest guy on the planet If you're the ugliest guy on the planet with a six pack, you're better off than you were So your high value more high value than you were and you can't bitch and moan that you may not be Chad thundercock six foot three plays on the football team Just Be enough and then if you don't treat it like a value thing like I am a high value male You just treat it like a strategy. Yeah, I want X. I do y a b c d whatever to get there Don't even think about it. Don't overthink it. Most guys are huge problem is they overthink everything Mm-hmm, and they think well, why does she do this? Why does she do that? You even saw it in some of the questions? Well, what do I do if I The one guy was asking what do I do if I don't? If I don't have a vision, how do I build these role models? How do I do the right of passage? What do I do if I have requests? It's you're overthinking it. Mm-hmm We'll pick up a weight. We'll put it down put down the fork We'll talk to a girl a hundred times make conversation You're gonna make progress and you don't have to worry if you're a good man or if you're not a good man It's your choice anyway. You might as well assume you are You're your own judge. Yeah, and you're working your ass off. So you're gonna start to believe it Awesome. So if people want to find out a bit more about you your your work Where's the best place that they can go? The best place I have my blog, but it's not as helpful as the married red pill. My blog was a Ryan stone at blog spot DCA. It's mostly where I just collect my thoughts It's as if I'm speaking to myself But the big one for guys who want value if you're not in a relationship. You're single There's the red pill which is on Reddit. You type it into a search bar. It's easy enough The married red pill same thing. It's also on Reddit And the best way to learn isn't to go there and post and lurk There's a curated sidebar that's got a whole lot of guys like Ian Ironwood, Manuel Smith Robert Glover, Athol K, and they have a lot of background somewhere marriage counselors somewhere Psychologists and they kind of get all those things that you do already to sabotage yourself And it's the best way to build a framework. Oh and Rolo Yep, read Rolo So before it gives you that framework and then from there you're able to see and build your own mission So I mentioned that the talk as well the be a high value male. That's not that's not a core mission That's a stopgap measure. Mm-hmm. So because when you have a mission you can want anything in the world But if nobody gives a shit, you're not gonna make it. So at least if you're high value and You have options then you can actually start pursuing what you want to pursue So Ryan and this was your first time speaking at the 21 convention Yeah, gotta ask how how is your experience been so far? It's been fun It's uh, I actually was worried when I first got here. I have a saying like don't meet your heroes Yeah, so I figured I'm like off I find out Rolo's like a 300 pound fat man It's gonna fucking kill me or if like hunters making this stuff and his wife's fucking a Prostitute in Vegas, but it's nice then you meet these guys Do you realize like they are who they say they are their personas that they have on reddit on Twitter on Instagram on their own Little things so it's nice seeing guys. They're doing their thing and they're sharing the knowledge And it's it's essentially what it is at the end of the day It's guys swapping notes like Tanner's not joking around. He knows how to dress He knows what he's doing hunter knows how to how to get his things done how to make his mission So when you meet them then it's nice you kind of you take a bit of it for yourself It's like I said before the only value of man is the value that's for others and there's a lot of value here Awesome, so Ryan thanks once again for being here. It's been great having you man Yeah, cheers glad to have you. Yeah, so glad to be here So with that and you can see Ryan's talk free first on 21 University comm You can also check out the link been up below this video With that, this has been Mike with the 21 report with Ryan stone. Thank you