 What's going on you guys? So today I have a question and it measures pretty nicely with the Program that I'm gonna be releasing soon the approaching system product He says hey Lloyd. I know you get a lot of emails, but I had a question for you I see women around me that I would like to talk to all the time, but whenever I do I get really scared Not so much what she will think Not so much what she will think about me, but what are the people around me are going to think about me I approached a girl one time and felt very embarrassed thinking everyone around me was looking at me and judging me How can I stop feeling this way? Thanks Okay, cool. So yeah This is a pretty common issue that I see a lot of guys comes to me with my students and people will view my channel And yeah, it's something that I'm gonna be going over Extensively in the approaching system which is going to be released probably in about the next month or so So if you want to get notified about that, I highly recommend you click the link That's gives you access to all the lowest prices. It helps you create it with me because I'm gonna I want to get feedback from you Guys so very important click on that link and you'll be notified. Okay, cool So let's answer this guy's question Let's give you a little sneak peek of well what the the full answer is going to be so getting embarrassed Before you walk up and talk to somebody or getting embarrassed while you're talking to somebody It means you feel like you're doing something wrong it means you feel like you're doing something creepy or something unethical and You shouldn't because you're not doing anything unethical. You're not doing anything bad You're just literally walking up and talking to a stranger somebody that you don't know and seeing if they want to talk back to it If they don't it's okay What I think is going on with you, dude Is that you have you maybe you're thinking too far ahead and you're starting to think about oh I got to walk up to this girl get her phone number or get her out on a date make her like me Don't make her anything. Okay. See if she's open to talking with you See if you like her See if you guys click and if you guys click great get her phone number or maybe she's down to hang out Right then you can go on a little instant date and hang out a little longer. There's nothing to be afraid of There's nothing to be embarrassed about so stop thinking about it You know five steps in advance and just think about hey I want to walk up say hi to this person and see if they're cool. See if we click okay, and also too, you know inevitably Inevitably when you're talking to strangers or when you're talking to people that you don't know There's gonna be awkward situations even if you're talking to people you do know those awkward situations There's embarrassing situations being able to deal with these awkward and embarrassing Situations is a sign of a high value guy, you know a guy who's very confident is a guy who's Who can be comfortable in these situations people will look to you for that? And if you're fidgeting if if you're scared or if it if it throws you off or whatever Then the girl is gonna feel more uncomfortable as well, too So what you want to do is get comfortable with being uncomfortable I know it sounds kind of tough, but put yourself in tough situations And I don't want you to think about it as oh these are embarrassing feelings that I need to get rid of how can I stop feeling embarrassed? I want you to show courage and learn how to deal with things when they do get uncomfortable, okay? You know just because something's uncomfortable Doesn't mean it's bad, you know I think most of the growth that you're ever gonna have in your life comes from uncomfortable It's potentially embarrassing situations So if you're uncomfortable with that it's gonna be very difficult for you to be successful in life in general You know for me when I'm walking up and talking to somebody and I just did this over the weekend at Venice Beach and stuff Like there was some people who didn't want to talk to me There were some people who you know like six feet away actually there was only one girl who did that I'd like the 50 that I talked to But there was a lot of people who were friendly to me You know if I hadn't pushed through that little bit of discomfort. I never would have met those people Okay So if if it does come down to it where you can kind of like where you're looking at her And you see that she's trying to leave or if she doesn't want to talk right now Then that's okay. It's fine. Usually what I'll do is I'll maybe give him a compliment and be like you're awesome Just give him a high five and then you know leave him on their way and Most of the time they leave with a smile I leave people better than the way I found them and that's what I want you to do So why would you why on earth would you feel embarrassed if you just want to walk up and give somebody some positive energy? And see if they give that positive energy back to you There's nothing wrong with it. You're bright. You're literally just brightening up people's day And if it's not going well or if it gets like, you know, she can tell you she's trying to leave then let her go There's nothing wrong with what you're doing and if you think about it as something that's wrong Then obviously you're going to feel embarrassed You're going to feel really embarrassed about it and look man There's like I said, there's a little bit of discomfort that comes with talking to people introducing yourself But in the end if you want to have a good dating life You have to be willing to go through a little bit of discomfort go through a little bit of uncomfortable Situations because then that's how you're going to meet that person That's how you're going to meet that special person that you go out with our special people You know if you want to date around a little bit, that's fine, too Okay, but you can't live in fear and you can't always think that oh these situations I wish I could just not get embarrassed. I wish I could just not experience discomfort you're going to and there's ways that you can go through a conversation, you know In the approaching system I'm going to tell you guys step by step exactly what to say and do when you first meet Somebody but just for right now, you know start by talking about the things they'd like to do where they're from You know figure out if this is the kind of person that you want to be spending time with you know and you know Put yourself as the decider as well, too You know if you're constantly seeking approval if you're constantly trying to prove yourself You're constantly worried about what the other people around you are going to think that's not a very high value position to be in Okay, so yeah go in think of think of yourself as seeing if this person is cool seeing if you guys click And if anybody around you hears what you're saying good, you know, you're spreading positivity to people I like it when the people around me can hear sometimes I'll talk to a girl and then you know if it goes well if it doesn't go well I'll end up talking to the people around me some of them were hearing what I was saying and that's fine, too I'm friendly to everybody So if you think of yourself like that I guarantee you you're not going to be having very many problems and guys if you want the full answer or a Step-by-step process about how to do this again. 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