 وأقول في القرآن ما جاءت به آياته فهو الكاريم المنزال وأقول قال الله جل جلاله والمصطف الهدي ولا أتأواله الحمد لله الذي هدم بالموت مشيدة الأعمار وحكم بالفناء على أهل هذه الدار وجعلهم فيها أعراضاً لسهام الأقضية والأقدار وأجر عليهم أمراضاً تزعجهم عن القرار أحمده سبحانه وتعالى وحلاوة محمد تزداد بالتكرار وأشكره وفضله على شاكره مدرار واشد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له الملك العظيم القهار شهادة الدخلها اليوم تدهل فيه العقول وتشخص الأبصار وأؤمل بها من كرمه جنات تجري من تحتها الأنهار اللهم صل وسلم على عبدك ورسولك محمد وعلى آله وأصحابه البرانات الأطار ما تعاقب الليل والنهار وسلم تسليما أما بعد إخواني في الله ما ب love it brothers and sisters إن أحبكم في الله I love you all for the sake of Allah لقد أصبح كثير مننا يشكوا قصوة قلبه من يبس are complaining about the darkness of our hearts and how hard our hearts have become and we also are complaining about how our Eman has decreased وما ذاك إلا سبب من أسباب الغفلتي and the reason to that my beloved brothers and sisters is because of the heedlessness and how we've become heedless of a reality that awaits us and so that's why I find it necessary that I speak about and that I talk about that which will bring light to the heart again and soften our hearts and that will allow our Eman to increase بي الله تبارك وتعالى increase our Eman for us and forgive us and from the greatest things my beloved brothers and sisters and from one of the greatest things in which softens the hearts and also increases your Eman is the remembrance of death death is one of those things that can remind you and wake you up as some of the salaf they said شياني قطع عني لدت الدنيا two things have disconnected the joy of this dunya from me some of the salaf they said شياني two things قطع عني these two things they have disconnected from me what لدت الدنيا the sweetness and the joy of this dunya it's disconnected from me these two things have become the reasons for me not to taste the dunya don't feel the dunya is ذكر الموتي the remembrance of death والوقوف and knowing that I'm one day going to stand in front of Allah سبحانه وتعالى the poetry he said how can he enjoy this world and this dunya the one who knows he's going to stand in front of Allah سبحانه وتعالى how can a person enjoy this dunya and have fun and laugh and enjoy himself and he knows that death can come to him suddenly وكيف يلذل عيش من كان موقينة وكيف يلذل عيش من كان موقينة how can he enjoy the joy of this dunya the one who is certain about what بأن إله الخلق لا بدسائله بأن إله الخلق لا بدسائله that Allah is the one that's going to question you سبحانه وتعالى and interrogate you always remember that line of two lines of poetry وكيف يلذل عيش من كان موقينة بأن المناية بغتة ستعاجله وكيف يلذل عيش من كان موقينة وكيف يلذل عيش من كان موقينة وكيف يلذل عيش من كان موقينة بأن إله الخلق لا بدسائله how can you enjoy this dunya and find joy in it when death can come to you suddenly you can die anytime any minute any second how can you enjoy this dunya when you're certain that one day you're going to stand in front of Allah and He's going to interrogate you and ask you questions أبو الدرداء رضي الله تعالى عنه He said كفى بالموت وعيضا death is enough as a reminder وكفى بالدهري مفرقا اليوم في الدورة وغدا في القبورة and time is the one thing that's going to separate us all death is the best reminder to stand over a grave and look at it and remind yourself that one day you're going to be from the inhabitants of this grave one day you're going to be living there one day that's your house today you're in this world and tomorrow you're in your grave the poet he said اذكر الموت وداوم ذكره إن في الموت لذي اللب عبر وكفى بالموت فعل مواعظا لمن الموت عليه قد قدر the poet he said remember death and be consistent in the remembrance of death وذكر الموت رمب death وداوم ذكره and increase in its remembrance don't stop it be consistently remembering death إن في الموت verily in death there is a what لذي اللب عبر the one who's smart and the one who's clever inside death there is a reminder وكفى بالموت enough inside death what's enough for you in death is what that it's the best reminder وكفى بالموت فعل مواعظا death is the best reminder for a person لمن الموت عليه قد قدر it's been written for you you have no choice no one's going to consult you do you want to die do you want to live no one's going to ask you that question and the time that you're going to be killed your life is going to be taken no one's going to interrogate no one's going to ask you that and take your opinion on it the angel of death will come اينما تقولوا يدرككم الموت ولكنتوا في بروج المشيئة you can be in cemented house you can be in the strongest fortress you want you can live on top of a penthouse and lock yourself and place the biggest security you want when the time comes your life will be taken from you we don't know where we're going to die والله we don't we know that our life is going to be taken from us but we don't know where we don't know when so since it can be anywhere and any place and it can be in any situation we should always be on our feet we should always be يعني exerting effort and hard work ولذلك ابن القيب رحمة الله and other great scholars have powerful statements on it the poet he said death is a cup that everybody will sip death is a cup and everybody is going to sip from that cup but the poet he said where am I going to be like after I die am I going to be in the house of paradise am I going to be in paradise or am I going to be in hellfire the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم he advised that the prophet who narrated him that the prophet who authenticated him that the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم from the prophet who narrated him that increase in the remembrance of death when you remember death you hasten to the obedience صلى الله عليه وسلم when you remember death you run away from sins ولذلك عمر ابن عبد العزيز رحمه الله he wrote to some of the people of his family only some of the people of his house his family members he wrote a letter to them and then he said to them after he said to proceed فإنك إن استشعرت ذكر الموت في ليلك أو نهارك بعض أليك كل فانن وحبب أليك كل باق والسلام إذا الأما بعد he said to proceed فإنك إن استشعرت ذكر الموت if you feel the remembrance of death في ليلك in your night time أو نهارك or your day time إذا أتذكرت أني تحصل على موضوع الوقت لأسفلها في يوم و night لا تهتف بغضة إليك كل فانين ستبدأ نحاول كل شيء that's gonna perish ميشة العالم كل شيء في العالم إذا أتذكرت أني تحصل على موضوع الوقت كل شيء that you know that's gonna come to an end one day you're not gonna like it ستكون لكي Why? ستتتت تتحرك Anyway I'm gonna go to die I'm gonna leave this world anyways بغضة إليك كل فانين everything that's gonna perish you're gonna start hating it وحبب إليك كل باكن and you start to love everything that's gonna remain forever which is خرا إخواني في الله my beloved brother and sisters كفى بالموت مقارحا للقلوبي death is enough for us for our hearts to wake up it's the one thing that can open our hearts and our chests ومبكى للعيوني and it's the one thing that can really make our eyes water ومفرق للجماعات and the death of brothers and sisters is the one thing that can disunite us our wife and husband the husband passed away the wife she's got no husband death my beloved brothers and sisters is وهاديما للذات it destroys the pleasure it's the destroyer of pleasure وقاطع للأمنيات and it disconnects people from their wishes you're wishing to become an engineer a doctor and his there is you died before you can get فهل تفكرت يا بن آدم have you really thought about في يوم مصراعك the day when you're gonna drop dead وانتقالك من موضعك and you leave this place and you go to another place have you thought about it have you also thought about وإذا نقلت من ساعة إلى ضيق when you're taken from this big vast world that you can see and how big it is to a small grave have you thought about it وخانك الصاحب والرافق and the people your friends going to deceive you and your companions and everybody they're all gonna leave you abandon you like that they're all gonna boycott you no one's gonna go with you in the grave and say this is my best friend I want to be in the grave with him no one's gonna do that have you also thought about have you pondered over your children and your family your wife your wealth your clothes all of it will be taken from you your wife would be a wife for somebody else after your death your children will be taken care of taken care of by another man after you or another woman after you this world will carry on things won't come to an end because of your death الله says in the Quran كل نفسين دائقة الموت وإنما توفون أجوركم يوم القيامة فمن زحزح عن النار وأدخل الجنة فقد فاز وما الحياة الدنيا إلا متاع الغرور كل صول سيشهده and everybody will be taken based on the hard work and the effort that they exerted فمن زحزح عن النار وأدخل الجنة فقد فاز anyone who is distanced from the hellfire and is placed into jannah he has found success وما الحياة الدنيا إلا متاع الغرور and the joy of this دنيا is for a very short period of time you're not going to be there forever العلمة عبد الرحمن نصر السعوديه he said وهذه الآية الكريمة السعوديه he said this آية this blessed آية فيها تزهيد في الدنيا بفنائها وعدامة وعدم بقائها and that this dunya will not remain this آية يظهر to us that this dunya that we're in is going to come to an end it's not going to last forever وانا متاع الغرور and that the joy that we even take from this dunya is all delusional تفتن بزخرفها it will fall us with its glitters and its glamours وتخدع بغرورها and it will deceive us وتغرر بما حاسبها وتغرر بما حاسبها and it will deceive you in its يعني beauty that you see in it ثم هي منتقلة but in reality it's going it's leaving it's turning it's back on you رحمه الله رحمة واسعة and this journey starts with your life or your soul departing from your life from your body this journey starts with your soul leaving your body قال الله تعالى الله سيس قولية وفاكم لكل موت الذي وكلا بكم ثم إلى ربكم ترجعون the angel of death has been assigned go take that person's soul and that's it that's where the journey starts from and then after that your إما إلى الجنة أو النار الله سيس وجاءت سكرت الموت بالحق ذلك ما كنت منه تعيد you used to try to avoid it here it is now the agony of death has come your way حتى إذا بلغت التراقي وقيل مراق يعني the soul has reached your collar bone and the people around you are like وقيل مراق where's the doctor where's the doctor وقيل مراق where's the doctor who can help him where's the medicine وظن أنه الفراق ولتفت الساق بالساق إلى ربك يوم إذن المساق فلا صدق ولا صلع حن الولكة never gave صدق I never prayed where are you heading where's the direction you're going إلى ربك يوم إذن المساق that's where you're going that's where you're heading you're going to الله تبارك وتعالى ولي ذلك العلمة لبنو القيب and great scholars have pointed out where is the mother he says حين الوالدون وما ولدون where are the parents where are they now they're children passed away what can they do for them اين الجبارون where are the tyrant people وين ما قصدوا اين أرباب المعاصي على ما دا وردوا where are the arrogant stubborn where are the sinners and the criminals today what can they do now no one can do anything brothers and sisters المسين صلى الله عليه وسلم he urged us to go and visit the graves so we can remember death so we can ponder on our situation and where we're heading ولي ذلك ابنو ما جنريتين in his sunan وشيخ محمد ناصر الدينة العلباني authenticated it that the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم he said on the authority وابو هريرا زولوا القبورة فإنها تذكرواك ملاخرا go and visit the graves for it verily it will remind you of the hereafter go to the graves it will remind you of what the hereafter عثمان رضي الله تعالى عنه it was said إذا وقف على قبر يبكي حتى يابل لحيته عثمان was said that if he went to a grave and he stood over it he will cry until his bed will become full with tears فقيل له they said to him تذكروا الجنة والنارة تبكي وتبكي من هذا the jannah is spoken about the nahr is spoken about okay and you don't cry but you cry when you come to the grave and then he said I heard the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم I say إن القبر أول منازل الآخرة that the grave is the first stage of the hereafter فإن نجع منه if the person makes it through the grave فما بعده أي سر منه everything that comes after is easier وإن لم ينجم منه and if the person doesn't make it in the grave فما بعده أشد منه everything after is going to be hard he also said that the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم I said ما رأيتم منظر قطه إلا والقبر أفضع منه the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم he said I haven't seen a scene whatsoever except that the grave was the worst of it the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم the Prophet he said هو الموتما منه ملاد ولا مهرب متاح الطدا عن نعش ذاك يركب death brothers and sisters there's no running away from it do you think you can run away from it there isn't there's no way to go and there's nothing to result to this is it this is the final stage this is the and when you're taken from that the shoulders of the people the place you're going to is a grave that's it قال يزيد الرقاشي يزيد الرقاشي رحمه الله he mentions he says I entered upon a worshipper from the worshippers who was known in Basra for his worship وإذا أهل بيتي حوله his family were around him فإذا هو مدخود قد أجهد الاجتهاد this man was he was on the moment of death struggling going through a lot of hardship so his father cried the worshipper was on his death but he's dying and his father cried so he looked at his father and he said أيها الشيخو father من لبيوكيك what is making you cry قال he said يابنية أبكي فقدكة وما أرى من جهدك I'm crying because I'm going to lose you and I'm also crying because of the hardship I can see you going through فبكت أمه his mother started to cry فقاله he said أيتها الواليدة الشفيقة he said my kind soft hearted mother who's concerned for me الرفيقة من لبيوكيك what's making you cry فقالت she said يابنية my son أبكي فراقك I'm crying because I'm going to lose you we're going to be separated وما أتعجل من الوحشة بعدك and also the loneliness I'm going to feel after your death قال فبك أهله وصبيانه his family started to cry his wife and his children فنظر إليهم he looked at them and he said okay what are you guys crying for my children why are you guys crying for يا معشرة اليتامة بعد قليل من الذي يبكيكم my children who are going to be orphans after me very soon why are you guys crying for قالوا they said يا أبانة our father نبكي فراقك we're crying because we're going to lose you we're going to be separated from you وما نتعجل من الوحشة بعدك and the fact that we're all going to be orphans after you then he said أقعدوني أقعدوني sit me up and they sat him up and then he said ألا أرا كلكم why is it that I find all of you يبكي لدنيا all of you are crying for my worldly you're crying because of you want to have a relationship in this دنيا you're crying because you want to have a relationship with me you also you're all crying for my دنيا أما فيكم is there not amongst you من يبكي لآخرتي someone who's crying for my آخرة أما فيكم is there not amongst you من يبكي لما يلقاه فترابي وشي is there not amongst you when that's crying when the dirt is thrown at my face أما فيكم is there not amongst you من يبكي لمساءلة منكرين ونكيرين is there not from amongst you someone who's crying and scared about my meeting of منكرين نكير the angels when they question me in the grave أما فيكم is there not amongst you من يبكي لما يلقاه فترابي when I stand in front of my Lord the way my situation is going to be ثم صارق صرخة تنفمت and then he made a noise he cried and then he died but the sisters let's benefit from our last and only chance that we have in this world this is the only chance that we have to make it if we don't make it in this دنيا they won't know what the chance will be given let's benefit from brothers and sisters الدقائق والساعات the minutes and the seconds في فعلي الخيرات in doing good and let's stay away from departing from this دنيا let's be prepared for it when we leave this دنيا that we make sure we don't leave this دنيا and we only have little deeds good deeds والله السعيد من وفق لصالح الأعمال the happy person will be the one who is given righteous actions والشقي من فرض وضيع العمرة والله the destructed individual is the one the destroyed individual the wretched individual is the one who الله تعالى doesn't allow him to come with righteous deeds while he lives in this world حتى إذا جاء أحدهم الموت one of them when death comes to them قال رب يرجعوني he says oh my lord take me back to the dunya why does he want to go back to the dunya لعلي أعمل صالحة فيما تركت I want to do righteous actions when I go back to the dunya but then look what comes to him يأتيه التوبيخ والزجر الله is going to be كلا إنها كلمة الهواقائلها it's just mere words that you're saying on your mouth ومن ورائهم برزخون إلى يوم يبعثون ينغني بيجمن that بردن صيصة تفهم the reality of this dunya وحذر and stay away from أن تفتنك that deceives you and lies to you بشهواتها with its glamours and its glitters كل من عليها فال ويبقى وجو رب كذو الجلال والإكرام عبد الله بن عمال رضي الله تعالى عنهما he said أخذ رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم بالمانكيبي but the prophet grabbed my shoulder فقال عبد الله بن عمال he said that the prophet said to me كن في الدنيا كأنك غريب أو عابل سبيل be in this world like you're a stranger or a person who's crossing a road عبد الله بن عمال from that minute on what he used to say إذا أمسيت فلا تنتظر الصباحة وإذا أصبحت فلا تنتظر المساء واخد مصيحاتك لمرضك ومن حياتك لبوتك if the evening comes do not wait from the morning and if the morning comes do not wait for the evening benefit from your health while you have it before you become sick and benefit from your life in this world before death comes to you أخي الحبيب my beloved brother and sister and my beloved يعني family members take death as a lesson I ask Allah Almighty to give us a soft heart and that Allah gives us righteous action إنه وليه ذلك والقادر عليه سبحانك اللهم وبحمده أشدو الله إله إلا الله أستغفرك واتوب إليه السلام 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