 Why do you want the narcissist to chase you? No, of course, I understand I've been there myself. I know what it's like There's this addiction This trauma bonds They leave you chasing their validation And you just want to give them a taste of their own medicine Of course, I completely understand And that is why I Decided to make this video to give you the answers To show you how you can make the narcissist chase you and I'm not saying that I advise For you to do this and I'm not saying that I advise for you not to do this. It just may be that At this stage, it's what you want to do You want the narcissist to chase you you think it might make you feel better and maybe it will I can't say that it won't Maybe in the moment You may feel better about dealing with them, but then it will fade away It's the same as when they do it, but if you want to make the narcissist chase you I'm going to give you the answers and it's really The same thing as what they do to us Remember all of those times you chased them you became obsessed with them You were addicted to them and you've got to think back and analyze How they got you to do that How they got you to chase after them Because it was intentional and deliberate They knew exactly what they were doing The end goal was to get you to chase after them so that they could get supply They could get attention and validation and then they could feel powerful special and important so what they do in the beginning when you Were first targeted by the narcissist They love bombed you they gave you this Image of what they thought you were looking for they gave you their attention The validation They were very agreeable They followed your lead Well, they led you when you wanted to be led They were just whatever you wanted them to be and And they told you Whatever they thought you wanted to hear but then things started to change didn't they because then They devalued you or They led you to believe that something was wrong Maybe they just stopped talking to you because sometimes they do jump right to the discard and It leaves you very confused It leaves you wondering why Why have they suddenly changed It was only the other day that They were saying everything was okay and They were still interested in continuing The relationship or whatever it was with you and then suddenly They jumped right to devaluing you Seeing something wrong with you or just cutting you off completely and It was like a pattern break Because they did something that was unusual Something that was unexpected Something that was contrary to social norms They just cut off their attention all of a sudden And then it left you to chase after it and you can learn from this if you want to make them chase you Just do what they did to you love bomb them Give them your attention in the beginning Tell them whatever they whatever you think they want to hear Do whatever they whatever you think they want you to do and Then just cut it off Stop doing it don't respond to them. Just go no contact and watch as they begin to flood your phone with text messages and phone calls as They begin to chase after you Because it's the same thing That they did to you And now you want to give them a taste of their own medicine You want to teach them a lesson And that is exactly how you do it By doing the same things that they did to you Because it worked on you. I wanted to finish this video outside But it was a bit stuck. It's really hard out here, but now it's Nighttime you can see this Clock tower in the background there built by The British where I'm from Britain Back when Britain was great Great Britain But it's not so great anymore hopefully King Charles the third will make Britain great again Because I am a supporter of King Charles I do Support everything that he stands for I completely agree with it and I just hope that we will see some change So yes, please That's really how you get a narcissist to chase you Give them exactly what they want And then just cut it off and then watch them chase after it It really is that simple and it worked with you But even if it doesn't work with them cut it off anyway go no contact because they're no good for you They're not serving you What did they ever do for you? All they did was just give you this illusion in the beginning. It was fake How do you know it was fake because if it was real where are they now? Where are they now if it was real That's how you know that it was fake and that's how you know that They're never gonna move on with anyone They're never gonna be happy They're never gonna have a good relationship nothing They're never gonna have any of that And you know that because They never cared about you So how are they gonna move on and care about anyone else if they couldn't care about you? When you were doing all of these things for them You did everything you could to make them happy And they didn't reciprocate they didn't give anything back to you and return And the relationship is the way in which two people connect So if they couldn't connect with someone who is doing all these things for them and trying to make them happy How are they gonna connect with anyone Because most people aren't gonna do even a fraction of what you did for them Most people aren't gonna treat them that good So you should already know just shut this door. It's very stiff. Hold on a minute. It's closed I don't know why it's so difficult to close that door. It's closed now Yeah, most people they're not going to Be as friendly as you were As an empathic person They're not gonna get that all the time and you should already know How someone is gonna end up in their life By how they have treated you That should tell you everything you need to know Because how a person treats someone It's a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves Let me repeat that How a person treats someone It's a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves So you should already know that they feel like shit They're very insecure. They have low self-esteem and that's gonna carry with them wherever they go and Nothing's just gonna work out for them because nothing works out from that mindset and you should recognize that by how things work When they were with you Because these insecurities this low self-esteem It has to come out in some way and It came out on you by them devaluing you Or discarding you ghosting you whatever they did That's the reason why they did that Because they were very insecure with themselves and They were seeking power and control. They wanted to feel special important desirable and attractive So that's why they treated you that way It had nothing to do with you. They just used you as a tool. They never even took the time to get to know you They never even asked any questions about you Because it had nothing to do with you they were just using you as this puppet to reflect back to themselves how they wanted to be seen and How they wanted to feel about themselves? so that's all that really is and To be honest if you do want to Make the narcissist chase you. It's not something that I do myself But people who do want to do that It's because you feel hurt by how they did it to you and Kind of going down the same path of as the narcissist there Because you want to feel special and important That's the only reason Why you would do it But then also if you want to get revenge But you'd only want to get revenge if you feel hurt So remember that But even if you do do it, it doesn't mean that you're going to become a narcissist Doesn't work that way If you are an empath You are going to stay an empath for the rest of your life no matter what no matter what anyone does to you It's not gonna make a difference Your heart is still gonna be there no matter what You're always going to care about other people animals everything and it's the same with a narcissist Once there are narcissists that is it There is no recovery That doesn't exist for a true narcissist they are Narcissists forever it never goes away and I know I have said Something different in my earlier videos, but I guess that was more from my own experience the things I've seen People who weren't true narcissists and Even myself I felt like I May have been narcissistic at one point because I had lashed out at people Following abuse that I went through which is actually just reactive abuse. That doesn't mean that I Am narcissistic So it's that simple If you know that you are an empath and throughout your life Ever since you were a child you always cared about other people you excessively Worried about what your parents were going through Because they taught you to be that way Then you're always going to be an empath That's never going to change and it's the same thing with narcissists if they have been Abusive a lot and their childhood throughout their lives manipulating people deceiving people Doing people wrong Again, that is never going to change They're going to be doing that until the day they die And I guess in some ways that is their karma Because when you're doing these things How can you ever be happy with anyone? And how can anyone ever be happy with you? Even if one day you do decide to treat someone right They're gonna look back at all of the damage you've caused to the people Who were around before they came into the picture So yeah, it's not really a bright future if you are a narcissist It's not something to be proud of It's just nothing good at all And Yeah, your life is pretty much over From the very beginning if you are a narcissist your entire life is just an illusion a fantasy a dream and Yeah So if you are a narcissist I do feel bad for you but there's really Nothing I can do to help you You made that choice and I made mine. I chose to care about people chose to care about animals They have been a vegan now for about three and a half years Coming up to four years now And I've never been happier Feels good to know that I am making a difference in the world And I do hope that I inspire Those of you who watch my videos You don't have to become a vegan I'm not trying to persuade you there, but even just Doing things to take care of the environment to look out for other people and To better our community and not just the community online, but the community In which you live as well because that's really what it's all about When I started putting out these videos It's not just about relationships It is about our communities our world We want to make this world Better safer More honest more authentic That's what we're trying to do As I've said before There are two types of people in this world One type of people choose to build And the other type choose to destroy And you should already know if you've been around a narcissist or they do is destroy everything They become a liability to you There's something that you owe They become a loss for you Because there's also Two types of people in the sense that there are winners and losers Some people Are there to help you win But other people Are just going to cause a loss for you Winners and losers And while they may Feel proud about it and boast about it At the end of the day They're still losers They cause a loss They cause a loss And They're going to continue to lose for the rest of their lives That's why they have to behave in that way Because they're just hanging on to you for dear life And it's as simple as that Winners strive forward independently Losers just cling on to you Out of desperation Narcissists, as I've said before Are very desperate people And I'm sure many of you have seen them In their moments of desperation And it really is a sight to see Sometimes you will see them begging Begging Because they're incapable of doing anything on their own They've got to have their supply They've got to have their enablers While you You can be independent And they don't like that They hate your independence Because it reflects back to them Where they have failed So they're going to want to take that down As soon as they can A normal healthy partner Or a normal healthy friend Or parents Co-workers, boss, whoever it is If there's one thing You really want to see And I know this from my own experience with people We want to see Your independence We want to see you stand in your own two feet And we will do whatever it takes to support you To get you to that point That is the difference Because with Narcissists They will go out of their way And do anything they possibly can To destroy your independence Well knowing fully well That it will have a knock on effect And that it's not just going to affect you It's going to affect everyone around you But guess what They don't give a shit Because they are Narcissists Narcissists do not care about you And they do not care about anyone else Especially anyone who is connected To you They especially hate anyone Like that But for me I can honestly say there is nothing More incredible For me Than knowing that I have given The belief to someone That they can make it on their own And that they can become independent Or independent again As they were before Before Narcissists got involved It's kind of like If you give a man a fish He can feed his family for a day I'm not sure how the quote goes Something like that But if you teach a man how to fish Then He can feed his family for the rest of his life I'm not sure exactly how the quote goes But I stand by that I live by that And that is how Our species made it this far It wasn't a coincidence We got this far Through Our independence As human beings And otherwise We would have ceased to exist a long time ago We made it this far by supporting each other Building each other up Supporting those Especially those who are strong We don't tear anyone down But Narcissists are backwards They do the opposite of that They're all about tearing you down Because they don't look at the bigger picture They don't even care about that They don't care about the community They don't care about the world They don't care about the future They don't care about their ancestors Their children, their grandchildren They don't care about any of that All they care about is their own Personal gratification From moment to moment As sick as that sounds Is how they think That is how they think They don't care about the past They don't care about the future They don't care about who or what comes after them None of that matters to a Narcissist Because what's more important Is how they feel about themselves How they see themselves And, yeah, you've got to think With the topic of this video This is the person you want to chase after you Just have a think about that Do you really want someone like that chasing after you? Someone who is a degenerate Someone who quite possibly has a reprobate mind They're already predestined, they're already doomed They don't even belong in our society I mean, if it was back in the day They would have been kicked out a long time ago And why? Because they're not helping to build They're not making things better They're causing problems, they're making things worse So they are no good to you And they are no good to anyone else But as for us We will continue to build We will continue to motivate, inspire and encourage each other To become the best version of ourselves And live our best lives Because we did not come to this world for nothing We came here to experience This physical realm Narcissists, they want to take that experience away from you They don't want you to experience real life As I've said it before They made a video on that With the same title, go and check it out It's a very powerful video The narcissist does not want you to experience real life And that is why I will continue to make these videos Because I will stop at nothing To make sure that you do experience real life Or continue to experience real life I will stop at nothing to make sure that that happens And it's not just about us We have to think about the future We have to think about our children, our grandchildren Because they are going to be coming into this world as well And that's what it means to be an empath A productive member of society A leader for us men and alpha male You have to be willing to sacrifice it all For your children, your grandchildren