 Talking about how you ruin things with men, destroy your relationships, sabotage your dates. Men don't like you or something about you and men only want sex with you, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, right? If you go out on dates and women do this all the time, right, because a lot of women, they feel like they need to kind of like continue connecting with a man, especially if he's not talking and a lot of times guys won't talk and so she'll just start talking about stuff and then she'll start like airing all of her baggage, like this happens on dates. If you've never gone out on a date with a girl before, she'd try going out on dates with women because it's really interesting. And so a lot of times what women will do is they'll just start talking about like things that are going on in their relationships, other relationships they've had, what's going on in their dating life and a lot of times they'll start talking about how they destroy their relationships and how they ruin everything with men and if you find that you think this way or that you believe this or this is the truth of your situation, what you need to do is fix that. You need to fix that before you start going out and sabotaging more relationships because it's a pattern that you have to break and get through instead of just continuing on. So basically what it does when you do this and when you start telling guys this, if a guy's young or immature or really not thinking about things, he might put up with it, especially if he thinks that you're really pretty, he might put up with it. But if a guy's kind of figured things out and he's been on some dates and he's dated a few people in his life, what it ends up being is just this giant red flag to him where he's like, oh, she sabotages all of her dates. She destroys all of her relationships. She does all that. She's gonna do the same thing with me, right? Because most people live in patterns, right? Which is why I was talking about that guy. If a guy's, you're exclusive with a guy and he starts seeing other people and you catch him, he's gonna continue doing that because it's a pattern. It's a pattern with him. He wouldn't do it if it wasn't a pattern. And so these are also patterns that men will see.