 Monica says question. So how long should I wait for him to come back and make me his priority? He has just been an uncle and he's totally committed to helping his twin brothers loom after his baby nieces. Well, it kind of depends, right? It depends on how long you've you're in this relationship with him. How long you've been seeing each other. Are you in a committed relationship? Are you not in a committed relationship? All that kind of stuff determines what you should be doing right now. If you're not in a committed relationship, then you should be using my forever woman formula and you should take what I talk about in there in terms of abundance of connection and abundance of options and start building your life in a way that you're not waiting for him. If you are in a committed relationship, then you should be communicating with him and talking to him and figuring out what's going on with him, how long asking him, how long it's going to take, and things like that. Because if you're just sitting around waiting for him and you don't know what's going on and, you know, like I said, the most important thing is communication. And it's one of those things you can ask how long you should wait, but he probably has a pretty good idea in his head how long this is going to take. And so if you don't have that conversation with him, you're never going to know. And if you do have that conversation with him, then all of a sudden you can learn about what he thinks and then make a decision based on that and then decide, okay, he's going to take forever with this. I don't think he's coming back. I can move on with my life or create something else or it's going to take months and I don't want to wait that long or it's going to take weeks or a couple months and I am willing to take that long and wait that long. And he's committed to doing something more so that we can actually feel connected with each other again. So it really depends on how deep and committed your relationship is and how much it's not.