 Okay, so I'm in my bathroom today because I'm getting ready, hold on, let me clean up this lens. I don't even know how dirty it is until you start filming, okay. So I really want more people to come on before I start because y'all, some men are trying to do the right thing, but some of these women, I know I'm an advocate for women, but some of these women are making a lot of money. For example, being too emotional will not help a lot of people. Hang on, don't. Happy Friday the 13th, y'all. But so I hope that when women talk to their men or have a potential relationship going, that they don't ruin it by suggesting something stupid that doesn't make sense because of their emotions. And what I mean by that is if you're trying to keep your man from being successful because A, he works too much, B, he doesn't spend enough time with you, C, you know, he's always in school and you can't deal with this because he's not putting you as a priority, but he's trying to get his life together and, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah, and you just need more attention and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. First of all, he's trying to get his self together so he can get paid, okay. Second of all, a busy man is a, you know, is a paid man and a man who can take care of you later on in life, okay. If you're upset that your man is busy because he can't spend time with you or do some, you know, some of the things with you that you want him to do because he's working or going to school to earn this money, you know, you can't be mad at that, you know. And a lot of women do this. A lot of women, you know, and they're not thinking the future. They don't think about today. They don't think about because you don't have somebody to go to the movies with or somebody to, you know, sit on the couch with or whatever, you know, all the time. That's not how it's supposed to be. Your man is supposed to be busy. He's not supposed to be home all the time. He's not supposed to be a bum, okay. So a lot of women see, you know, their pygmy friends and relationships and they who's been always home and, you know, with them and booed up. And so they get upset because they don't have that same, you know, companionship or time, quality time, but they have the life, you know. So, you know, all the bills are taken care of or, you know, the person when they finish school or when they work and get this high promotion, they're going to be making a lot of money. So they don't think about the future. They're just thinking about now. So a real man will not let a woman change his mind or deter him from his master plan. Okay. This is real masculinity, no matter how much she threatens to leave or cries or says, I just need you to be with me. I just need you to hold me. I need you to be home. That's emotional and temporary and not well thought out. This is how a lot of women think. That's why I'm saying, you know, women should think more logically. You know, if I let him go to work, if I let him finish school, get his master's and doctorate, I'm going to be living well, you know. Yeah, there is that chance that he could leave, blah, blah, blah, blah, but there is that also, you know, there is also that chance that he's going to start making a lot of money and you're going to benefit from it, at least a little bit. You know, but if he's sitting at home in the couch with you and he's not doing, he's supposed to be doing, then y'all are never going to get it, you know. So some women, they don't think about the future. And these are the type of women that take men off their path. If the men is weak. And I'm doing this video for guys today, you know. Okay. I don't want to say his name and put all his business out there. Okay. I thought the consultation was going to be, you know, like all his fault, of course, because I'm biased. But as I listen to him, because I do listen, as I listen to him, and I, and when his father was the girl that he was with wanting him to drop out of school or quit school because he's getting his master's degree and he's going to be done what in two months, two months, like two months and she want him to move where she is and go get a job and help take care of her or whatever. And I'm like, okay, you know, and then she dumped him saying, I gotta find a way to pay these bills because I don't have business with that. You know, she has a child, not by him. And so she was like, I can't be with you because you can't help me. I'm going to go and see what I can do. So basically, probably she went to go find a sugar daddy or something. You know. And so I explained to him, I said, well, she had to do what she had to do. But you did right by not quitting and doing what she wanted you to do because that would have just set you way back. And I said, she'll be back because she'll be back because first of all, y'all have years together. You know, they're in love. They have years together. And when he finishes his master's degree and gets, you know, a good job, she'll probably still be single because you know, let's face it. She won't be satisfied in what she's trying to find where she is. You know, and if she does find something, it's probably not going to be something permanent. So I told him, I said, just go finish your stuff. Get your money, finish your degree, go get a job. And if you then call her up and tell her, look, I finished everything. I got this great job. I'm getting ready to move down there. If you want to get back together, if you want to be with me, fine. If you don't, whatever, but I'm finished. And now he can go pick any woman. Okay. Now you can go pick the woman he wants because now he has the tools and the education and all the things that he needs to become a successful man under his belt. Okay. So that's what I'm saying. Make sure you keep your own mind when dating, even as a woman. Okay. This can go either way. If a man wants to convince you to do something and you already made up in your mind that you're doing this, don't break it. Stay. Okay. Because, you know, decisions are permanent people. They not. Okay. So what I'm saying is don't base your life on a person, base it on a goal. And no matter what, you're going to always have that, you know, accomplishment in your life. Those people coming up. Okay. So for example, if she doesn't want him back or if he don't want her back, because he might not, he still has, you know, everything he needs to get a, you know, a woman and a good job. And now, you know, he can basically choose what he wants. And so you all put on makeup at the same time. You don't have to bear with me. So I said men, you know, if you're, I know a lot of, is this the right call? I know a lot of men are in relationships that watch this video. My channel, not the trolls, but, you know, the guys that like my videos. Don't be weak behind a woman, you know. And women don't ask men to sacrifice their well-being and their money and their ability to provide for, you know, for some temporary satisfaction. You know, it's not worth it. You know, I talked to this, you know, for ladies, don't let men talk you into making silly decisions financially either. Okay. Because men, you know, a lot of men see a woman and they see good credit, co-signer, down payment on a new car. Okay. A lot of men see this when they see you. Okay. They don't see a woman. They see good credit, down payment, new car. Okay. Oh, so many women have been tricked into doing this for men. And then the men stop paying on the car note. So then they start calling the co-signer, which is the woman. And she ends up either having to pay for it or her credit goes back to, you know what I'm saying? Because she fell for it, you know. Don't ever let a man take you down financially. If they ask you to do something that grand, a red light should go off on your head. You know, like, you know, this is not right. You're a man. I shouldn't have to help you. Go find someone else. I thought you liked me for me. Obviously I was wrong. But, you know, it was nice to know you. Thanks for everything. Bye. See, a lot of women are afraid to lose men, especially if the man is attractive or, you know, because they've probably never had someone that attracted before. But then you got to think, why is someone this attractive, like, super interested in me? You know, perhaps they see, like I said, good credit and car payment. And the woman is so afraid to lose the man, she'll go ahead and do it. She's not thinking about, oh, what if he lied? What if he abandons me? What if he leaves me with this car note? What if my credit goes back from this? What if he doesn't pay his car note? She's not thinking about that. She's thinking about, if I do this, he won't leave me and he'll love me even more and he'll think that I'm a ride or die. Don't ever do that. Tell him to go ask his mom on a co-sign. Okay? And if she got bad credit, it's probably because he missed it, or they got bad credit and bad financial problems in their family. And it's probably not going to stop with him. So, never put your name on any documents or co-sign for anything for any man, ladies. And then, you know, y'all can do that if y'all have the money and if y'all know that that is a risk. You know what I'm saying? So, usually, if a man starts paying a woman's car note, she's more likely to stick around. You know what I'm saying? Because she knows she can get more. And things like that. A guy just has one goal in mind, get in and get out. You know what I'm saying? So, you gotta kind of think about this. And I like men who stay firm in their decision. Like, I would tell my husband, look, I want you to do this. I want you to do that. You should do this. You should do that, you know, out of emotion. And he'll say, well, if I do that, you won't be living in this nice house. You won't be able to do this and you won't be able to do that. So, do you want me to? I'll say, no, go back to work, bye. You know? So, you have to understand. Sometimes you're not going to be able to do what pick-me-chicks and their boyfriends do, okay? Because your man is too busy. Like, your man is not going to be on YouTube in the middle of daytime trolling because he's at work in a business meeting or making moves, you know what I'm saying? So, you gotta make sure that your goal is both in the same direction. Success, right? For me, I'm like, you know what? Go to work. I see you get home, whatever. You know, you gotta have stuff to do. You know, you gotta have a lot of stuff to do. Don't sit there and just focus on what you don't have. Focus on what you do have. What can you be doing with your time, ladies? You know, what can you be doing with your time? Can you be going, you know, can you go to the gym? Could you go, you know, walk around the wall or something? Could you go out and have lunch with your girlfriends? Could you go, you know, to the spa? Could you, you know, are you working? Find something to do with your time because if you don't, that's all you're going to focus on is what you don't have, you know what I'm saying? And I like how men who make these choices and decisions are weak, you're not going to get them to bend because they're successful for a reason because they don't bend and they don't give up and they don't sacrifice the greater good for something temporary, okay? So that is my advice. And I know it's hard when you first get into a relationship and you want to get to spend time with a person, another person and they're super busy. That's why a lot of these rich men just get, what, sugar babies because they're too busy. They're too busy and they want to go have a nice dinner and they don't have to argue about, oh, you don't spend enough time with me. You know, have fun, go on a date, you know, if there's intimacy involved at one point, whatever, but they don't have the nagging wife or the person that's always disappointing them because they can't, you know, spend too much time. So they just, you know, depend on finding nice ladies who when they do have the time to go out, they go hit them up and they don't have to spend time in a relationship and they know at this time their focus is not, and, you know, in their time it's not available enough to have a real functioning relationship, okay? So, I mean, that's why you'll see like a lot of power couples who they don't look close at all, like politicians and their wives, they don't look close at all because they probably don't spend a lot of time together because, you know, the guy is super busy. So you got to keep that in mind, okay? Don't try to take away someone's education and ability to improve upon themselves just because you feel lonely, because you needy, okay? Mm-hmm. And, you know, the girl, it's understandable, but, you know, she got herself in that predicament and that was not his duty or his job to go out, to go over there and do that, you know what I'm saying? Of course, he was a nice guy. He wanted to help her. He still wants her after she dumped him and, you know, said she was moving on, and he still wants her. He like truly loves her, you know? And he's going to school so he can take care of her and her child. That's not even his. And he's going to get his, you know, master's degree and get a really good job and go back and get her. That's what I totally mean. So he said he was anyway, but he was just trying to figure out if there was a chance that, you know, she would come back to him and I said, oh, yeah, she's coming back. After she plays the field and sees that there's nothing else better out there than you come out with your master's and got, you know, you got a good job and you can do all the things that she needs you to do, of course she's going to take you back. She's just frustrated right now because she doesn't have any other options because she made bad decisions and got herself in that predicament. So she didn't see any other way out. You couldn't help her because you're doing what you need to do. And of course that's frustrating, but always keep your mind on the prize. Okay? Because people come and they go and then they come back and then they go and then they come back, you know. But think about this. If he had dropped out, only having two months left, moved down there, got some job to help her out. She'd be cussing him out six months later. Why didn't you stay in school and finish working? We could be making way more money now, you know. You know, finish school and get a better job because, you know, we could be making way more money now. I don't know why you dropped out. You could have waited. I could have waited two months. You could have been strong. She's just going to tell him that anyway. And then she's going to be looking at other men who got money and degrees and corporate jobs and owning their own business, but he's still stuck because he's two months shy of a degree, you know. So she's going to get them either way. I say, you buy this one, go finish the degree. She's going to take it back. Holidays are rolling around. She's going to be lonely. And you're going to be good to go. Okay. And then you'll be done. Okay. You'll be done. So, yeah, I'm in my bathroom. Is it? Oh, I'm sorry. It's too loud. It's too echoey. Okay. I'm going to go in my living room because I'm done with my makeup now. Um, yeah. Someone says it's too echoey. I'm sorry. It's a big bathroom. Yeah. So let your man go to work. Let your man finish school. Let your man get in the areas in life where he's supposed to be. You know what I'm saying? Don't keep making him sacrifice what he's supposed to be doing for some cuddle time on a damn couch or something. That's dumb, you know. Or trying to pay your little apartment rent because you got bad credit or something and you don't make enough money at your job. Make sure that y'all are doing the right thing for the future. Hold on. Stupid. No. Shut up. You got to turn off the music. Turn off this TV. Bye. Okay. Yeah. So you got to make sure men stick to your decisions that make sense logically. Women will, women will realize it was the best thing in the long run. And a lot of times they're just acting out of emotion. Okay. And we're all guilty of it. I used to do it when I was young. And I learned, you know what? If you always hear, you ain't making no money. Okay. I'm sorry about that echo. I didn't even think about that. I'm so sorry. Thank you. I usually get ready upstairs, but I was, I have makeup in both upstairs and downstairs, so I got ready downstairs. But yeah, you got to make sure you stick to your decisions. You got to make sure you don't have a masculine trait when you stick to your original plans and don't deter. You know, that's also in, you know, one of the, that's also one of the 17 laws of, in that book, the 17 laws to success. You don't let people deter you from, you know, what you're trying to do, no matter what. Okay. But, and then he also said, though, that there's always a lady or some type of manager and lust behind a man's drive to be, you know, successful. So he, she's his reason for doing what he needs to do, but she didn't realize that, you know what I'm saying? And she wanted to get married and hurry up and, you know, seal the deal. And I told her, I told him, she wants to get married because she wants to lock you in and so nobody else can get you because she knows that you're successful, but she's insecure because you live six hours away and she needs help and this is like a bunch of problems piled on top of each other. I said, but that's not your problem. That's her problem. And once you finish, you can go help her, but you can't help her if you're not done. You can't help her if you haven't finished what you need to finish, you know. So he understood. He says, thank you. And he wanted to, you know, do more consultations in the future because I helped him understand what was going on from a female side and he had no clue what she meant by when she said, well, I'm going to go have to do what I have to do and I have to break up with you to do that. He had no idea what that meant. I told him, I said, well, that means she's trying to go find a sugar daddy or somebody that's going to pay her bills and that's what that meant. I said, but think about it. Those types of relationships aren't real and they don't last. And she has history with you. You know her son, she loves you. Y'all been together years. You're getting ready to get a math degree. She's going to take you right back after she sees what's out there and get her little rent paid or whatever and whatever she's got to do. Those type of situations aren't permanent or emotionally fulfilling to women for the most part. Most women just do that to get the money. So that's what I'm saying. She had to go out and do what she needed to do to get her rent paid. Girls, we got to do what we got to do and that's understandable. I had to explain it to him. That's all she can do. At least she's not rushing off to do something else to get into a relationship with an ex or somebody that she actually cares about. You know? At least it's just about the money. He's young. He's young. Like young. How can you expect this young guy to pull off the role of someone that is probably twice his age? So let the boy get out of school first. Let him get a job. This is why I say date older ladies. If you're in financial predicaments or you need money, date older. Don't try to get somebody still in school because no matter how much they love you they're not going to be able to help you. That's kind of silly to even expect it. So make sure you are thinking logically and not emotionally in two people's lives. How do you motivate your man to get a better job or to make more money? I do my way. Start looking at nicer houses. Start looking at nice things. You know watch videos and things like that together on how to be successful. How to level up to the next level. That's what I do. Me and my husband used to land a bit with a computer and we would watch motivational videos that would give you keys to success and stuff like that. And we were both learning. I wouldn't tell him oh you need a better job. I would just say come on let's watch this. This is good. It's interesting. You're not nagging him about it. You're not saying I'm not satisfied with what you have. You're just giving him the tools he needs and then it's his decision. You know what I mean? So you know if he starts using those tools and that knowledge he's automatically going to level up get a promotion, get a raise get better job offers if he's not that type of person and he's just lazy and full of excuses then you have a different type of man. You have a man who thinks that he doesn't have to go out and prove himself. You have a man that does not know how to show what he has in order to you know be successful because most people that want something will go get it. They don't wait for it to be headed to and they just go get it. If he doesn't want a better lifestyle if he doesn't want to do better then he has no motivation. You know what I'm saying? If he's not motivated on his own and he's not doing it already for you then you're not his motivation. So think about this. If he had another woman who was very high maintenance and wanted a lot of things she was really you know you need to do better I like to find things in life and he didn't want to lose her he would go and find a way. You know what I'm saying? You're not his motivation. You've got to become his motivation. If he's not motivated by you wanting nicer things or he doesn't fear losing you that's also a problem. If you already accepted him as he is with his current job and you're okay with it then he thinks it's okay. You might need to slip a few words in there here and there and say oh you know you could be earning so much more money if you just apply to another place. I know people who didn't even have experience or education and they applied for certain jobs and got it and they train you anyway. Just give them that confidence don't nag them but give them the confidence and put the idea in their mind and let them think it's up to them and a smart man will go and do it a lazy man will stay where he's at because it's comfortable. So it just depends on what kind of man you have. Okay Thank you Someone says my mug is so cute. What if you're dating a drug dealer? I knew a lot of women who dated drug dealers A. Most of those drug dealers are dead. B. They're working right now, the girls they have to have a job because those type of relationships don't last. They get caught, busted or killed. I would say find a plan B with a real job or education because those don't last very long and they're silly to get into because if you ever want to leave, it's a problem and you know all their business so it's not very smart or wise on your part you should just be a friend with benefits to those type of people that do that so you're not associated with it yeah okay I'm putting on my air because we have two air conditioners one downstairs when I come up and it turns off automatically after a few hours so you have to turn it back on I think of energy saving or something okay so you don't want to get serious with a drug dealer because it's not something long term you're not going to benefit from it in the long run you know unless he's a pharmacist so y'all don't don't make silly decisions like why some girls think that they can't do any better but you can I have seen women of all shapes, sizes, colors ethnicities get a good man okay so don't worry about it you can do it anyways make sure you're sticking to your goals and not letting romantic partners girlfriends, husbands, wives mess you up from your plan and your goals because after you have accomplished them they will be yours forever there will be your accomplishments forever but those people they can leave anytime together first and do what's best for you in the long run and not what some emotional person wants from you because it's not worth it ever y'all I'm back in my spot okay sorry about the beginning of the videos the bathroom is all echoey get this lighting there we go it's still off a little bit y'all I had to get dressed to get up this is Laura Rihanna is releasing her galaxy collection y'all gotta go get that mic up okay I'm a makeup fanatic I'm just trying to read what they said okay so guys if you're on a good path don't get off for no woman that woman is gonna be there if she wants you to do that she's not smart anyway okay if she wants you to give up a master's degree that you have 2 months left to get to come down there and pay her rent okay that's not smart so don't care I know it's not a good decision because women and men are guilty of making silly decisions you know what I mean and sometimes you gotta think for the future not the present because the future is the present you know what I'm saying tomorrow you're gonna be in a predicament which will be your present that you won't like if you make stupid decisions so always make smart decisions don't care if you the person is threatening you or saying I'm gonna go I'm gonna leave you okay bye you know I I'm gonna have my pick if I was a man I would be I would be bad I would be just oh my god if I was a man y'all better be glad I was born a woman cause I would be a mess I'll be like um bye bye look I'm finished with my stuff you figure that yourself okay uh you want me to sacrifice my whole future for you and some uh rent money oh no you gotta go sell your jewelry or something I don't know so I'll probably be the one to tell her to go get a sugar daddy you better go find the old man to pay your rent shoot I'm only 21 I look like you know I'm not 21 but the man okay 23 sorry thank you y'all want to know about my wig yesterday y'all my red wig here it is here she has um here she is so y'all I got a bunch of wigs over here but I love my wigs I know like I have I have nice hair I could wear my real hair but you know it's like it's humid and I feel like dealing with frizz I don't feel like pulling out my flat iron I don't feel like doing her that everyday I just throw this on I'm lazy besides I have more time for makeup if I just throw on a weed so what kind of eyeliner do I use oh my god I use a cheap eyeliner y'all I use wet and wild liquid eyeliner because I've tried all the expensive brands and wet and wild is the best as far as the how pigmented it is and how long it stays on um I've bought Stella I bought Kat Von D I bought all the good eyeliners and this one last the longest and it's like three dollars so when I find a product that I like I don't care how cheap it is if it works the way I want it to work I'm gonna buy it because I had like I wasted so much money I was so mad that Stella dried out in like two days and the stupid Kat Von D wasn't even dark I'm like this look great and um I did try makeup forever that was a good one too but it they don't give you enough product for the price you know it's 25 dollars for less than you get with wet and wild I'm like 25 dollars and it's the same exact same it's a little bit more um matte it's like but it's not you can't even tell the difference I would just you know yeah so let's see I'm gonna read some of these questions so yeah I do consultations with men and I'm I'm not mean and evil to them I'm like I will tell them the truth I will get them inside of their woman's head and I will let them know what exactly she's probably thinking and if she's being emotional if she really meant what she said you know because I'm a woman and I understand certain things that a man just can't understand about a woman you know and he told he said that you know she might think he's weak because he couldn't help her and I was like no you would be weak if you quit and rush down there to you know go get some regular old job so you can pay her rent versus finishing your master's degree that's more important you know um so she you know I'm usually on the woman's side about this type of stuff but she was asking him to do it was terrible what if that was your son in college like if you ladies have sons what if that was your son in college if some little girl you know was telling him oh you need to quit school and come down here and go get a regular job so you can help me you know wouldn't you be pissed you don't spend all that money for him to go to school he's two months from his degree and he gonna rush down for some little girl because she can't handle her business um you know I would tell my son look baby that girl is gonna be there and you need to finish on up the school then you'll be able to choose anyone but you won't and I guarantee you she's still gonna be single when you done in two months okay so there is somewhere where I draw lines sometimes women are not the smart smartest okay and they're not seeing what they're doing they just want to control the person or demand something of the person when it's not even logical you know what I'm saying and you know there's more options there are so many old people where she is she could just go she didn't even have to tell him what she was doing you know what I'm saying she didn't have to tell him what she was trying to do she should just went and did it okay that's what I'm saying just go get you a sugar daddy for the weekend get your bills paid keep your man in two months everything gonna be fine you know what I'm saying I should do couples counseling and they gonna be mad but because I'm unorthodox I was like look you can't pay her rent she need her rent paid girl go get you a sugar daddy don't sleep with him when he's done in two months he'll be there okay gotta understand all you want to do is be seen in public with some good looking and the idea that she might give him some that's it okay that's it that's all so yeah I'm getting ready to go to Sephora and I gotta get my niece a gift card because it's her 18th birthday and I'm going to a dinner party tonight at her at my sister's house and it's like a surprise party for my niece I'm gonna go get this gift card and get some this new makeup mm-hmm is a man who is 28 mature I know I keep trying to tell y'all men are 10 years behind women so 28 means 18 and how he's thinking okay unless he's an old soul and like a grandpa mindset you know or he has a lot of mentors in his life you know and if you're young okay some of these young girls are talking about ooh I'm dating a 36 year old he's old I'm like dang oh I'm 38 okay I still think like I'm 25 I still I still think I'm 25 so in their mind they're probably still thinking they're 20 so it's not the same you know and a 30 something year old guy dating an 18 year old that's like Scott Disick and what's her name Richie for that her name like the other Lionel Richie daughter okay he's like 30 something and she's like 19 you know there's not much of a difference the only thing he can do that she can't is drink and he got a bunch kids okay it's not that much of a difference and you know especially if the person is attracted it's just that they can better manipulate you and you don't know as much as they do and they can they can take more advantage of you and you'll listen to them versus you know somebody your own age like his ex like his ex what's her name the Kardashian sister I keep forgetting her name I keep forgetting her name anyway his ex is always telling him what to do and how he's not good enough and so yeah Courtney and so he goes with this little 18 19 year old and she thinks he's everything oh you're so good you're so smart I didn't know that you know that's what men like and so that's why usually they go for the younger women but it's not because they're mature it's just because they can be seen in a better light they can be seen with someone their own age you know what I'm saying so if you're thinking like if you're dating someone a little bit older than you it's just that they want to seem and feel important because people their own age are not even accepting them okay that's why you gotta be careful ladies because if you're if the person is still fairly young but they're way older than you they're not there for the correct reason you know what I mean if you're 30 something 25 and you're dating like 45 50 year old okay their intentions are probably a little bit better you know but when you're 20 and you're dating like a 30 something year old it's just because they want to be seen in a higher position in life and only young women will see that in them okay so they might give you a little something here and there but the main reason they're with you is because their ex probably told them what to do didn't appreciate them probably you know emasculated them a lot like Courtney did to Scott and now he has this little you know young thing looking up at him like he's you know God's gift to the world and he likes that feeling like he feels like a man he feels like he can you know leave the relationship for once ever so that's how you gotta think about these relationships with young guys that's not super old but old enough you know old enough to get you know there's pictures of him like taking her shopping at Gucci and stuff like all over the internet and hold on let me plug it on and hold it in her hand and stuff like that like you hardly ever saw him doing stuff like that for his you know his baby mama Courtney because you know she's always trying to control everything and like I like to use their example for like a control freak type woman is Courtney she wanted everything her way nothing he did was satisfactory and he's you know he might not have been the best person but her nagging and negative negativity didn't help him improve either just drove him to drink and wanted to escape so and then she kept laying all these kids on him which is probably like he did proud he probably never wanted that many kids but she just like oh well we're having more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and you know he's he was probably like you know what if this I still look good I'm gonna get me somebody young that's gonna let me be the man you know so bye and like through her he got his fame and that was that you know he's he's like he's like the you know he stuck around a long time she don't surprise I would have been gone way way way way back someone says I thought you said it was good to be bitchy didn't there there's bitchy and then there's controlling emasculation okay bitchy is Kim okay Kim is a bitch Courtney is controlling and crazy okay that's a difference so there's a difference bitchy don't mean controlling and crazy it means look I know my worth I know who I am if you can't meet my standards by okay no I don't I don't do that no I'm not going there you have to do this oh that's so low class no that's being bitchy you know being crazy emasculating and controlling is a totally different thing so someone says how to be bitchy have high standards that's it that's all you gotta do have high standards and then when they those standards don't meet when they can't meet your standards and just then just like I'm sorry I can't do that you know that's considered being bitchy when you say oh I'm sorry I can't do that you know no I don't do that no I don't go there no no no no I can't do that okay no we got a valley park because I might I won't walk in in these heels you know no we gotta do this because I don't like that side of town you know that's having high standards which is considered being bitchy and when they ask you something and you know expect you to lower your standards just for once you still don't do it you know you say I'm sorry you know you know what it was when you got here it's just keeping your standards without being too nice and trying too hard to convince them that you know it's okay to not have standards I don't know it's just basically saying these are my standards meet them if you can if not I'm a bitch okay it's like if you don't get something that you've expected on your birthday or Christmas then you don't accept whatever they try to hand you that's being a bitch okay it's not being crazy it's just saying no I don't accept this you know you have to do better it's keeping their standards high as well when you're a bitch you keep your man's standards high as well because he has to go backwards with you he has to move forward otherwise he'll never be able to please you you know what I'm saying so for example the lady in the story that I'm talking about who wanted the guy to quit school and come live with her and help her pay yeah that's being bitchy but it's also being silly at the same time like forcing someone to make a decision that is going to ultimately you know make them a failure with your bitchiness okay it's a whole game okay what are your thoughts on being in a relationship and having the sugar daddy a lot of women do it I think it's if your man can't give you the things that you want in life and you want them and you know somebody else is willing to give them to you and you might not have to sleep with them just go out to dinner with them or something you know why not every day and do stuff they don't want to do they don't sleep with their boss but they come home with a paycheck it's the same thing you know so it's just up to you I don't think anything wrong with it because this is your life not you know you don't share a life with someone this is your life you know so you do what you need to do because if the tables were turned he's going to do what he needs to do you know what I'm saying you're staying true to yourself if you want something and you see a way to get it then go get it that's all I say it's not morally correct it's not something that people who have trust issues would appreciate but you're going to have what you want at the end of the day you know what I'm saying so it's kind of up to you what do you want and ladies keep your mind logical and men keep your mind made up don't be wishy-washy stay in your original plans complete your goals complete your missions because women ain't going to want you if you broke anyway so you might as well go get paid and then come back and have your pick you know what I'm saying if I was a man I would not let anybody deter me from getting paid I don't care look you gotta have to wait I would be just as crazy as a man as I am a woman I'm a grown man okay you got yourself in that predicament let me get into the position where I can get you out that makes more sense what if a guy calls you a boogie all the time I don't know what that means a boogie what does that mean just someone who you have who they sleep with oh bougie girl you spelled that wrong it means you have high standards it's a good thing it's a compliment because it's a nice way of saying you're high maintenance it's like yes I know I am so bougie right I can't help it you know what's bougie to you is normal to me and see a man likes a bougie woman because it's going to make him better it's going to make him level up it's better than a woman who don't have any class or expect anything they don't want to brag oh my woman is too bougie for that we can't go there oh no and that sounds like when you say you have a bougie woman as a man it sounds like she's smart she has high standards she probably look good so it's a compliment to them someone says bougie I'm sorry that's what it said bougie or bougie I should have okay y'all most women do date and have that little sugar daddy not most women I'm sick a lot of them do and their man don't even know it because they keep it so discreet and the man is not demanding at all because he's probably married to and that's just how it is you don't have to tell your man all this information he doesn't care you know are you asking him to buy you a $2,000 purse but you walk in with one because you got it from some old dude that has plenty money to spare and just want to go out to dinner with you be seen in public with you and talk to you online sometimes you know to me that's good you didn't have to do nothing with them so why not but some people think this is immoral this is not right but you only live once if you want something you want a nicer house, nicer clothes, nicer things and that's what you want personally that's what makes you feel good you shouldn't sit there without it you shouldn't sit there and be upset because you don't have something the world is a place of opportunity go get it if you think risking your relationship is not a big deal to go get these things then go get it if you got caught and your man didn't understand would you be okay with that you got to ask yourself these type of questions I don't care he stays if he wants he can't buy me stuff that I need then it doesn't matter but if you want to save that relationship and you don't want him to find out about it and stuff like that you need to think twice before you do it because if he does find out and you lose the person that you really want over some material stuff then you know don't be mad because that's the risk you took I don't think I would take that risk because my husband does so much that a sugar daddy might give you a few dollars here and there a purse, some perfume pay your rent, maybe put a down payment on the car but he's not going to give you a house 401k he's not going to give you all that stuff so if that's what you're getting from the person you're with or your husband or your boyfriend then you need to really double think that think that over because it's what you have worth losing financially worth a couple dollars okay thank you your main dude has money but doesn't please you sexually, emotionally but you want a side do I say for women like this this is immature and why I say it's immature is because if you're this is just my opinion this is not this is my opinion if you're still in that phase in your life where sex is very important relationship lovey-dovey stuff whatever and it's not about the lifestyle then you probably settled down too early you should have still been single and dating you know because to risk all that financial stuff for a couple of minutes of pleasure it's a bad decision and it's because you lack self love because you need someone else to touch you and to make you feel good about yourself through sex physically because the person that you're with is not satisfying your neediness ok most women who are this needy and seek sexual attention and this, this, and that don't truly love themselves and you know within because you need other people telling you ooh you look sexy ooh I desire you ooh you know I want I want to please you in every way I want to make you scream to you that feels like you know pleasure and stuff like that but it also gives you that attention that you lack and I feel like it's because you don't have enough attention from the person that you're with and I don't know you're probably still young because most people after a certain age they're just like you know what my life is good I got everything I need they're not going to go get with a man who can't do more for them than the man that they're currently with that's going backwards so for example if you got caught with your side dude who broke what can please you and your man leaves and now you're stuck I don't know if you are financially stable but your man leaves and you're stuck with broke side dude you back at square one so it's just not smart you know what I mean it's just not smart it's kind of like moving backwards it's kind of like becoming a pick me chick all over again in reverse so get you some toys from the store and figure it out or teach them how to please you or something because going backwards and risking all of that it's silly for me I couldn't do it I'm not even into guys broke men don't even turn me on so I couldn't do it you're going to have to be way more financially abundant than my husband for me to cheat at all I won't even be turned on so it's just what turns you on are you into looks or lifestyle and money and power if your man is not chasing you in bed go get a toy but if you're going to risk it all for the broke dude over here that can please you then that is your choice I wouldn't do it I couldn't even do it because I would be sitting there oh yeah this feels good but I'm not going to respect you I'm not going to respect that man at the end of the day I'm going to regret it because he's broke and what if I get caught you know I couldn't do it I'm just not that motivated sexually you know what I mean to me I'm motivated more with success and power and intelligence the stuff that really counts you know sex is like a lower nature yeah it's good yeah it has its place but that's not the most important thing okay the most important thing is your well-being your future your lifestyle your stability your savings account all that stuff that's what really matters the stuff that you're talking about in bed for about 10-20 minutes that don't matter it's not even worth it for me if you're going to cheat go cheat with someone and keep it a super secret if that's just what you need I don't need that but if you're a very highly sexual woman there's something mentally probably different about you than it is about other women you know what I mean because we don't want to give stuff away free even if the guy is cute we still want something from it and you know there's a attention that you lack sexually you know what I mean so you have to figure out what that is and a lot of women can channel this energy into something more productive like if you desire men to Google over you and go put on a bunch of makeup and go get on Instagram and get all your likes and people saying that might help you you might need the attention online versus in real life because if you if you have that attention it might fill the void that you probably have sexually because sometimes it's not even sexual it's just the attention that you want mm-hmm what if you never feel like having sex with him and you don't drink or smoke then you're probably with the wrong person so that's what I think yes I think women who are highly sexual are just used to men wanting sex from them and they got addicted to it a little bit and that's not something that a woman is supposed to really be so forward about because it is a gift and she is in control of it if you're sitting here looking for people to give it away to for free you're not in control of it mm-hmm in fact it's a weakness just like that's why men do women say they're weak they're weak to sex you don't want to be like that you'll be manipulated that's why these guys getting women to buy them cars and stuff because they're weak sexually you want to be strong sexually you don't want to be looking for side to get your kicks for free and end up in a bad situation every time you have sex with somebody who's not fulfilling you should be getting something out of it if your man wants to have sex with you and it sucks you better be like if you take me to a nice dinner I might give you some if you buy me some earrings I might give you some because if you're not getting anything out of it physically get something out of it materially and that's going to help you too I don't care no more look if you're trying to give yourself away for you there's a problem there mm-hmm I think the men want attention sometimes more than sex how do you know I think they just want the sex they're weak to it it's human nature a man's primal drive is to sleep and have sex and procreate and spread their seed that's natural that's their instinct so of course they just want to hit it and quit it most of the time and if they get into a relationship with somebody that's too sometimes men are selfish in the bed and women just accept it but there are little things you can do to get them to improve you can be like you know what just lay there a zombie don't fake it to save their ego and they'll be like well what's wrong I never have orgasms when I have sex with you and that's an insult to their male ego and they'll be like trying to figure out how to give you one and they'll be like well how do I give you one I don't know then you can teach them if they don't ask them they don't care and they're just a selfish person or they don't want to give it to you or they just think that since they're doing everything they don't have to please you but if you start doing stuff afterwards like pleasing yourself right in front of them after they'll be like they'll feel stupid you know you just sat there and they pounded on you and thought they was doing something but they didn't do nothing you know it's going to make them feel like they need to figure it out they'll be like hey 20 minutes and she's still doing this and I didn't do nothing no wonder she never wants to have sex with me because I don't do nothing you know so he's going to wish that you would have the same type of passion and wanting him to seduce you and have sex with you and please you so he's going to go figure it out he's going to go watch some videos ask somebody, ask you so you just have to be bold with it you're like okay bye I'm going to finish myself off since you couldn't do nothing that's why I like having sex because you all know how to please me okay what do you think about snuggling then do you agree to do it when dating snuggling I mean if you want to I don't really want to snuggle but okay if you want to I don't think there's anything wrong with snuggling that's a silly question in my opinion it doesn't have to do with dating how to high value how to high value while having sex that's an incomplete sentence any tips on a widower who is well off a colleague of mine and I don't chase you're going to have to remind him of his ex or you're going to have to I don't know a widower they're lonely they're sad so you're going to have to appeal to their emotional side more so maybe do the things nice things that his wife would have done write him a card bring him a cup of coffee just the little things just thinking about you when I was getting coffee so here's yours hope you like it just do the little things because that's what widowers miss the most about their wives the little things that they used to do so you don't have to cook you don't have to clean, you don't have to do none of that just do the little caring things that wives do and it's going to remind him of what he lost he ain't got a chance and that could help here's a cup of coffee I'm going to the store on my lunch break do you need anything stuff his old wife would do you know it's not really being a picnic if you're using the strategy to land someone if they're a mental and emotional state you're just feeling in the spots of someone or something that they need and don't have to anyone else that's one of the parts of the that's one of the things in that book about the law of seduction but fulfilling a void you know what I mean no one else can feel so that's how you do that I know a girl who got a widower and his wife had died of cancer he was older and the girl married him because she was fulfilling his void of company she would just talk to him you know help him fix like help him pick out clothes and stuff oh you know we need to go shop new clothes you need to eat you need to eat more because you need to keep your energy up like stuff a wife would do and he missed that I guess about having a wife so he married her moved her into their old house where his wife probably passed away and she stayed there for maybe a couple of months and then got him to sell that house and buy a new house you can't expect like sudden quick change you know if that person is still mourning the wife but you can't give them what they need missing about that person okay what about threesome what that mean I know what a threesome is but what about it did I miss something okay so somebody asked me about threesome I don't think it's a smart idea unless you want it more than the man okay I don't think it's a good idea I broke up with somebody because they asked me for threesome I was like I don't get down like that okay bye I was like no I can go get somebody who just want me and I wasn't afraid to lose either because I was just so my head was so big y'all I was like that was one of the NBA players we used to date back in the old days we were dating and he was like I want you to I want to talk to you about something I'm like what what you know I think he's gonna say something serious I want to have a threesome with I'm like huh I want to have a threesome with you know such and such let me show you her picture and now I was like oh she's cute and he's like so would you be down for I'm like no I'm sorry but you know I don't care if you go do that with someone else but you ain't doing it I'm not doing it you know he's like are you sure I think she would really like you I showed her your picture and she said she was down I'm like you show her my picture and she been over here and he was like well you know blah blah blah blah and I was like okay well tell her thank you but I don't do threesome and he was like oh I was like well that's fine you know I'm pretty sure you'll find someone else to do a threesome with because I'm out of here yeah you know I was like I was insulted but I kept my cool you gotta keep your cool you don't get mad and explode you up okay well you know good luck with that and the fact that I could just walk away from that just walk away with no problem killed him you know it was hilarious and um so because you know I was working at that time I didn't really need him so I was working at that time so I was like I don't really need you I lived like five to ten minutes away from him so we lived on the same side of town I was like I wouldn't miss a nothing um so was six months later I had uh seen him out me and James had met and everything we started dating and he had seen me out with James and he saw me and I saw James and he told James like you got a good one so I think he respected the fact that I did not stray from my morals or what I believed in personally or that I didn't do whatever he wanted me to do I think he respected that in the long run and you know he tried to call me back later on but I was already with James and you know trying to you know get him to marry me and so I don't have to work ever again and so I secured that and a lot of people were like well why would you stop dating these guys you know these athletes and marry like you know a corporate IT you know type person versus like a six figure versus a seven figure because the six figure ain't gonna ask me to have no threesome he's gonna put me on a pedestal and he's gonna pay all my bills and he's gonna give me the life that I want and he has potential to grow into a millionaire you know what I'm saying so that is the difference a lot of people say well you don't even date a millionaire why are you telling people how to because I know how to some people want to date millionaires and if I did marry a millionaire or you know a NBA player or an NFL player or whatever like my sister did I would probably be divorced by now but I'm still married and I'm still not working but you know so that's why I did it I have in my mind my future goals I looked into the future you know what I'm saying so that is why I made that decision because a lot of people ask me that well why aren't you married to a millionaire because at the time I didn't like the person that I was with who was a millionaire and I didn't like the things that came with it you know what I'm saying I didn't like all of that but I was like you know what I can have a nice lifestyle I don't have to do any of this still be taken care of still be a housewife still look good if I get someone who's more down to earth and that's what I did of course I would use guys with money and get what I wanted because I knew that they weren't going to stay around too long because when you have a certain amount of money it changes your mindset you want with it and you're just used to having it versus when you have new money it's different so for them they want to experience all this stuff that the world has to offer and they want you to be able to be okay with it and if you're not okay with it emotionally or mentally then you either suffer or you look at yourself saying why am I here this is silly I say if you find you a man that makes a good six figures and he can fully take care of you and give you the lifestyle that you desire then go for it no one has to marry a millionaire in fact a lot of women who were married to guys like that or millionaires they usually end up divorced but they get their money but that's not what I wanted I wanted my kids to have they were living in the home I wanted to be taken care of I wanted to be a housewife I wanted to do whatever I needed to do and I knew in order to secure that type of thing it would have to be with someone who was not rich enough to ask their woman and mother of their children four or three some with no problem so that's why I don't compromise my standards sometimes you can't get this glamorous lifestyle and still be happy you know what I'm saying yeah it's temporary it was cool to date him he upped my auntie because James was like after he saw that that guy talked to James first you know the NBA player James was like and all like that ooh I got a good one so that upped my auntie so I'm like yeah that's why he's like afraid to lose because he knows that's what I used to date before I dated you you were the lucky one James so if I get back out on the market I might go get me an ex-bob player that still got some money in the bank or something like that or an old rapper mogul something like that yes I'm that confident so he knows if I leave him I'm gonna I told him I said if I leave you or whatever I'm gonna go do better than you like I'm not going to do worse I will not stop until I find somebody that makes way more money than you and he believes me because he knows how determined I am and so you don't mess up somebody like somebody is somebody keeps calling me I'm like ugh I have a consultation but they're probably in the wrong time zone like you don't call me I call you okay the nerve okay I'm trying to turn my computer on there it goes so consultation how do you get a consultation if you go to my channel page and click on my I mean my facebook icon you can message me through there don't try to frame me because it's like filled up and it won't let me so you can just message me through facebook you know go to my channel page and like on the cover art there's a little icon I think this is facebook yeah and like the other thing about dating someone like that's super rich they don't have them don't feel like the traditional rules or values of marriage or relationships apply to them because they have money you know and they know that they have options and that they don't really need you and they don't care if you leave because they can just replace you and it's just how it is if you're emotionally equipped to deal with that type of thing temporarily like a lot of women do a lot of women who date millionaires they will get money they will date them they will get what they need to get out of them and go start their own business learn from them um and you probably end up dating someone either on their same level or you know just you know not as rich who will value them and who will think you know you're they're the prize because you used to date you know such and such so that's why a lot of women do that because they become the prize to someone who still makes money but just not as much and is not able to ask or demand the things that a multi-millionaire would would do you know what I mean so that's another reason like this one girl she was like she asked me well should I date this movie star um he's in some like very popular show and but I know he's gonna do this and get that he's not gonna have time he's probably gonna cheat but should I date him still I'm like yeah go date him because it's gonna up your auntie with other men like you'll be easy to get a doctor or if you say you dated such and such from that show you know it's gonna up your auntie of anything so go ahead and date him I don't care don't worry about how it ends or whatever just get some pictures and you know stuff like that to up your auntie like oh yeah I'm dating such and such as X that's like something to brag on for men you know even people even though guys don't think it is it is because they don't brag oh you know she used to date this guy yeah oh really the one in the movie what that you got his X wow she must be you know this is that so that's why if you ever get a chance to date a celebrity an athlete and you know it's still it's probably not gonna end well just do it anyway it's gonna up your auntie you know the same with guys if you have an opportunity to date someone very beautiful um take a bunch of pictures with her go do it because it's gonna up your auntie as well um that's you know this is my X you know you can show some your current interest oh well this is my X they're gonna feel like see this is a mind trick it's not right but it's a mind trick they'll say oh dang his X was almost perfect and you know dang I gotta take some of his BS because this is what he can go out and get if he wanted and so it kind of puts the person you know in a different mind state about you according to who you used to date you know so keep that in mind too who is this person trying to text me what they called me through Facebook on my phone what you won't hi forgot to give you my number what oh no if you hadn't given me your number and confirmed all that stuff and I don't have you on schedule I can't I can't do you today okay I might say uh we're gonna have to resume one day y'all can't call me at the last minute I did not schedule you due to lack of information so the purse can't come after the rent okay what I'm trying to read in here okay I'm trying to read these comments a lot of people are talking about side dudes if you're gonna have a side dude or a plan B make sure that they make more money than the guy you're with so and that they can also take care of you if the current situation ends because you don't want to be stuck with the broke dude who's married and your man who pays all the bills just left you because you know you wanted a side dude don't don't risk it you know be smart about it if you don't get a side dude get a side dude with some money okay don't risk that that's not smart that's like that's like it's risking it's too risky it's not worth it it's like driving your cheap car it's like um I'm trying to think of a good analogy it's like driving an expensive car with no insurance okay that's what it's like you're driving an expensive car which is your main dude but you don't have insurance that's your side dude you know and if you get in a wreck if you get caught you lose but you know you didn't have to pay that insurance you know but you lost still so don't do it if your side dude don't have more money than your real dude you done or just as much that's not smart I've already done I did I'm not going on the other channel today because I did that yesterday if you want a new video I did one yesterday on the other channel when a man makes signals want to marry you or marry another woman like boring traditional woman take care of his kids and you for pleasure or religious marriage or secret mister I'm not getting married unless it's for financial reasons I'm not marrying for religious reasons I'm not marrying you know just to be married if you ain't got no money I'm not getting married you know that should be your only motivation to get married not for no religious reasons because your age if the man has money yes proceed if he don't don't proceed that's it there's no discussion thank you so yeah go for what you want in life not for what people try to give you okay if you want a good lifestyle go for a good lifestyle go for a partner with a good lifestyle you know if they try to convince you to want something else and you truly don't want it don't do it you know men as well if a woman is trying to convince you to do a bunch of stuff you don't want to do and if you do it your life is going to be miserable and you'll never be happy then don't do it you know don't be weak sexually I know it's harder for men than it is for women but if you have a solid plan in place and that's your well-being and livelihood and going to push you to the next level of life you know keep those standards high just like I tell women to keep their standards high people with high standards go high places people with low standards end up in low places and they always looking at the people in the high places mad and hating but you know all we had was just high standards that's the only difference we had to drive the passion to stick to our high standards but you didn't that's the only thing that separates passion you want and stick into it so the people who are usually full of problems and issues they never knew what they wanted they followed someone else who was making bad decisions and they never stuck to their original plans or goals but sacrificed stuff for other people who were not permanent people in their lives stick to your goals stick to your plans forget them other people they're going to be more people better people or those people will try to come back once you're successful so keep that in mind don't bend for anyone unless it's worth it and not emotionally but financially so the moral of the video is men do what's best for the greater good for the long run, for yourself, for your future and keep your standards high you don't have to tell your man everything do what you need to do but don't risk losing something good because you lack attention okay two working people can build a nice keyword, nice life together the word nice means ignorant if you look it up that's what it translates to in etymology yes, you can have an ignorant life if you got two people working to build something that the man was supposed to build you know what I'm saying I don't believe in that 50-50 love I don't believe in that because I mean it can work but it's something that I will never do and I don't want to do it and I know some women have to do it I know some men have to do it but I will never agree that it's a smart idea you know what I'm saying it's convenient it's modern but in the long run there's lots of sacrifices you're going to have to make there's lots of things you're going to have to give up and if you have kids they're going to suffer for it you know what I mean so that's what I think about I'm not thinking about oh you got to give me half the rent because you live here too okay so what happens when I'm pregnant what happens when I need to take off work how are you going to pay the bills that's how I'm thinking I'm not thinking of oh I'm lazy and I don't want to work I'm thinking of what if I can't work you the man you supposed to secure this I'm not helping you build nothing I'm not a construction worker and if you want me to help build this home then you can't be head of home you can't be head of home you're going to have to come through me any of this money that I'm helping you build then I become more masculine and then I can't feel feminine around you and therefore you don't turn me on because you're not powerful to me you know I don't see you as someone to look up to and respect I see you as a a partner co-worker slash roommate after that point who's going to make me go to work nine months pregnant and throw my kid in daycare I can't do 50-50 you know what I mean um because that's how I'm going to think about you and it's not going to be good and I'm going to be mad all the time and I'm going to be mad all the time so it's better to get someone who doesn't think too far into the future if you want a 50-50 Sunday I don't so that's why I don't go 50-50 it's not because I just want to be greedy and a go digger it's because I look into the future what I'm not going to do and I have these high standards and I can't comply with you know some man letting me work while I'm nine months pregnant and letting me throw my baby in daycare to go back to work because he can't handle it okay so no I can't do it I will just discuss me and I will probably be plotting your death for the insurance so far um I'm sorry chef it's just I can't do it you know but if you find a woman with those type of values who would be happy doing it and don't mind doing it and don't mind throwing your children in daycare and wobbling around at nine months working for some other dude then I hope that you treat her right because that's a lot to ask of somebody especially a woman yeah you got to think about that in the future guys men if you're serious and you want a relationship and you want the 50-50 woman that you can build with you have to think about when she gets pregnant what then she's not going to be able to work as much what about when she has the baby you know she want to stay home with that baby and raise it you gonna throw your baby in daycare for 12 hours a day you know they're going to be closer to the daycare workers than their own parents and who knows what goes on in those daycares so really sit there and think about that what are you gonna do when she has a baby you know are you going to be able to say look you can stay home until you ready to go back to work whenever that is don't care can you pull this can you cover all the expenses if your wife wants to stay home if you can do that great if not you need to find a higher paying job before you get married my husband already knew before we even got married that I wasn't going to work we discussed this look I didn't work while we were even together you know as soon as I met him I didn't work I went back to school and I had to do like a like a two week internship at a restaurant for to get my degree in culinary arts but that was his friends restaurant that he owned you know what I'm saying so it's like I never really worked and after I met after I met James so it was already you know expected for me never to go to work I basically just made my own work you know after the kids are old and in school all day and I have nothing else to do I worked from home I do I do consultations I make videos I run a group I do stuff online like social media stuff to get money you know but it's my money and I don't have to do anything with it but save it and it's probably just gonna go to my kids so there's like everything I'm doing it's probably gonna eventually go to my kids because I don't spend any of this money unless I buy and stuff but that's like this much compared to what you know what's coming in so imagine having a high you know a good salary without having to pay any bills you can save it all and spend like what 10% or less of it so that's a good deal for me if I'm gonna work I work for myself and I get to keep all the money I ain't got to pay nobody bills and it was a personal choice that I chose to do like no no one pushed me to it you know so if I didn't want to work anymore if I wanted to quit everything quit the channel quit doing readings quit doing consultations quit all this kind of stuff and just go watch TV I could do that with no problems but after binge watching Netflix and all that kind of stuff you get ideas and when you have an active mind and ideas you want to execute them in some sort of way and if they can make you money hey all the better but it's a choice and I don't have to work for anyone it's just something that drives me and makes money at the same time so why not you know if you can get paid for doing something that you like then you never work a day in your life right yeah and a mother of two two little girls so anyway I got to get to Sephora y'all so I'm going to go thanks for tuning in and men like y'all think I don't hate y'all I'm just trying to help y'all in a long run y'all are welcome on this channel anytime you know to get inside information I don't mind most of you guys are not the targets that a lot of the women who watch my videos are going after anyway so it's not really going to disrupt anything so if you can get what you need here great I don't hate y'all but you know if you come in to troll me I'm going to troll you back so just make sure that you take what you want and leave what you don't want but you know the information is you know going to help you and yes I do consultations with men if you want to find me go onto my channel page click the facebook button and message me through facebook I'm always on facebook or I'll check there and I'll check my emails and stuff like that so that's how you find me also if you're embarrassed of what you did or you don't want to tell me the whole story I'm going to figure it out anyway but you might as well just say what you need to say during the consultation okay so I'll see y'all later happy weekend happy Friday the 13th to some people it's unlucky it's good luck to me I don't know so I'm going to go get this new Rihanna makeup and some gift cards for my niece and I will be out and I'll see y'all next week sometime alright I'll see y'all later bye