 And I see an attractive girl and she looks at me and looks away and I look back. This is what you should do. Very few of us do. No, this is an invited approach, it's not a cold approach. So it's your job to walk over and shake her hand. It's your job to touch on the side of the arm. It's your job to meet her friend and make a good impression on her friend. There's no way knowing she's going near you if you don't get the friend's approval. It's your job to start a good conversation. It's your job to find out what her hobbies and interests are. It's your job to find out how they know each other, how did they get there. It's your job, this is absolute goal, please write this down and do it. Touch a woman on the small of the back like I showed you before. The women feel like they're being led and again there's a very, it's just this exchange of energy. A lot of times they don't even know that you're doing it if you do it correctly. It's your job to touch on the small of the back. It's your job to find out what her week looks like. Where does she live in relation to you? Is she drinking? Is her friend drinking? How's she getting home? What are her plans for tomorrow? Is this a girl who's likely to go home with a man tonight or is she going to the church tomorrow and you'll be lucky to nail her by the fifth date after meeting her parents. You're going to know all these things. It's your job to make a good enough impression on the friend that you can maybe angle the girl away, an angle a friend away so they're back to back so you can actually build some rapport with her without the friend looking over going what's happening with him, what's happening with him, what's happening with him. It's basically your job to get on a date and it's your job to plan the date as I'll talk about later and it's your job to do all these things and it's your job to play the chess game that is trying to get a woman into bed. Do you guys see that? If you can do an adequate job, thank you, of just some of these things and you're an English speaking guy and you've just got one or two things going for you, your life with women will just go crazy because most guys just don't do anything. So what do most English speaking men do? Back to my guy who went to primary school and was an excellent student and all this and became whatever he became an engineer or a doctor or something or business person. The guy we're talking about is now 30 and this really smoking hot girl comes into the office and she's stacked like this and she's like 10 years younger than him and man she's hot and he talks to her a bit when he's going out to lunch and then at the office Christmas party something happens and he sleeps with her and she's the hottest girl he's ever slept with and they keep dating and you know for the first two or three months it's good and then it sort of starts to go downhill she starts nagging him and annoying him but he's working really hard he's still finishing off his postgraduate studies so he just keeps dating her because you know she's hot and he wants to have someone to have sex with and this sort of drags on and on and on and on and their relationship deteriorates. I should say this in many cases isn't the girl's fault it's the guy's fault because he was never a man and went out and talked to lots of girls and met one that he really had a great rapport with. So they're dating and dating and dating and about three four years later she starts to nag him let's get married let's get married let's get married let's get married because remember when he met her she was 24 and smoking she's getting a little bit older now and most of her friends are getting married she's going I better go before I'm 30 otherwise so she's starting to nag and nag and nag and nag and he's so busy and he's so stressed and she's nagging so much and a couple of his mates are getting married and they're going to weddings all the time so he's like oh what the hell whatever so he gets married and that all goes well and they have a lovely honeymoon it gets a bit better and then as soon as he's married it just disintegrates you know the sex pretty much dries up she nags a lot more he just sort of hides in the corner and then lo and behold bloody kid pops out and he's sort of happy about that he's got a son yeah he's still working so hard and when he gets home from his 50 hour a week job his lovely wife comes up and nags him again it's often not the woman's fault it's because the man was never a man to begin with he thought if he got enough things enough degrees he'd just be attractive to women she's nagging and nagging and nagging then another kid pops out and she's like we need a bigger house so he goes and borrows another million dollars and now he's basically chained to his job and his computer for rest of his life and he's starting to get a bit down he's got these lovely young kids but he can barely enjoy him because he's stressed out by work then she comes home and nags him he's got no energy left so what does he do sorry some of them do and it costs them a lot of money in many cases some of them cheat and they also do this as well they they get a favorite drink in this part of the world I believe it's VB or crown lager and they pick a local football team Collingwood for instance and then they find a mate with lots of degrees who's in the same predicament and they sit together and they go yeah go the pies go the pies or if you're in Chicago shagga bulls or whatever or Manchester United whatever your team is and whatever your poison is I love this stuff by the way it's few things better than Belgium and German beer but it is poisoned by the way so anyway every Saturday the highlight of his week is turning on his big-screen TV with his buddy the girls out shopping or having coffee or something and he chews on the pies yeah man yeah man this is the happiest I've been since last time I cheered on the pies but they lost and that's the highlight of his life he's got so much debts and he works so hard he's just trapped and lost and he gets into his 40s and he's never seen the Eiffel Tower he's never fucked a French chick he's never seen the Grand Canyon he's never been to South America he's never had a threesome he's never whitewater after the scuba dived he's never he's got a hundred thousand dollar German carb he's never actually gone in a what you call it a go-kart which is a hell of a lot more fun he's really never done anything and he starts to get bald and fat and anyway his life's over so what you learn from that story you got to be a man and go out into the world and get your own women and this isn't disrespectful to women at all women and it's probably the most important thing I'll say to you tonight women don't respect men who can't go out and seduce other women of their caliber do you guys get that that's so important I'm a bit older than most of you guys and I've seen my mates who work in finance go through this if you can get a hot woman because you make good money or you're good looking or you've got social status it might be great for a while but in most cases she will destroy you and it's not it's not necessarily because she's bad although some of them are it's just because you weren't a man and you might have been the best offer she got and you just married the hottest girl that fate dropped in your path and I sincerely believe the work that James and Damien are doing is you know have a profoundly beautiful impact on the world particularly English-speaking world because go to what's it here Torak go to Torak or the upper east side or or you know the better parts of LA that's the story of so many men who are smart and you know successful anyway where were we got carried away with my story so next time a girl looks at you in a bar again this is an invited approach you know if a girl looks at you in a bar for more than like a second unless you got booger hanging out you know who's or something it's quite possibly because she's excited to you she wants to talk to you so next time that happens I want you to repeat this mantra it's a gentleman's job to try to fuck a woman it's a gentleman's job to try to fuck a woman and most women they just don't want to be responsible for sex they want a real man to sweep them off their feet in the moment watch pretty much every you know every romance movie except one starring Hugh Grant every romance novel it's all about some dashing guy possibly a guy slept with lots of other women who sweeps her off her feet so they don't want you know you've got to take action you better take action why the hell weren't we taught this stuff in school I hear you ask actually I'll quickly tell you why weren't taught in school do you think the corporations and the government society want us to go out and be really confident and successful with women I checked Wikipedia Thursday anyone gets the three richest countries in the world if you take out countries of populations under 10 million Australia logic is the mining boom Canada and and America and that's possibly because we're the most retarded with women you don't see Ukraine or Colombia or Venezuela up in the top few countries because they're meant to get laid and get hot girls regardless they don't actually need to work for it so from when we're little boys they put these victorious secret models in front of us and you know hot girls everywhere and they link it to a German car who had a picture of a Lamborghini or a Ferrari with a really hot girl on it growing up how's that for associate of conditioning genius absolute genius you get that car which possibly costs more on your parents house a few years back you'll get that girl or you see what's his name Donald Trump puff daddy obviously Hugh Hefner who's 80 or even the nice guy Richard Branson most times you see them photographed what do you see beside them