 Number two, don't force the relationship. I'm here to say, I want you to think of a relationship like a ping pong game. You're mutually making effort to one another. You're driving down a two lane street side by side. It's not you pulling him along. If you have to pull a man along, in other words, if you have to constantly send text message to say, hey, I'm here, you know, then it's probably not the right relationship for you. It's probably not the right man for you if you have to force or push the relationship along. It should be a nice gradual giving and receiving.