 The result should be obvious You need to improve yourself. This is where self-improvement comes in You need to be better than you are you need to be better than what you're satisfying for for mediocrity You need to be better than average. Okay. It is too painful not to too costly not to The nice thing about this and this is awesome You know what those skills are We can identify them today. They're mainstream. They're absolutely out there not only the out there and available They're simple to use Study after study has shown literally 30 minutes Okay, over a course of a week over six weeks will cut your divorce rate by 50% Targeting the most at-risk groups less than 10 hours of social skill behavioral empathetic communication training simple shit Saves marriages Saves marriages Saves relationships Saves families. That's powerful stuff And we're not talking about it not nearly to the degree. We are You want to see a vampire? Who's attacking that? Who's attacking this? Call out a vampire when you see one All right Lastly, I want to sit down and say something else If you're looking at your marriage potential and you're trying to be better than average I'm gonna tell you you're gonna be aiming for the human ideal. Okay. I'm gonna tell you don't be satisfied with cultural expectations of marrying down Okay Seek a partner better than yourself Seek a partner that you can learn and grow with okay. That's represented here. Take a guy that's here increase your range Now graphically take a look at this This quality here is dramatically different than the quality this guy is gonna have and this is a change of perception a Guy who's not asking more for himself is gonna be marrying down This guy is gonna open himself up to alternative potentials and the quality of his life I guarantee you is gonna be superior than the same guy who doesn't and that's just a matter of perspective You control that right here That is probably the most costly bit of real estate you already own your mind You don't own that you've don't know and shit Think about that one. I will also sit down and say this This is what we strive for. Okay when we talk about here in the human ideal the difference between this and this right here Isn't skill set It's not a skill set All right, it's tricky. I'll tell you what it is It's purpose It's purpose. It is knowing your purpose and when your purposes Parallel with somebody else's going to the same objective or striving for the same objective and you're willing to commit to that You get that Now for this happy couple This isn't the end of the story They have a whole lifetime to work on this Greg Swan sits down and says marriage should be an endless story and an endless conversation that Conversation should be pointed to this direction That conversation should be looking for those ideals Okay, you should be committing daily to that. That is a life well lived and it is a process All right, and it has to be earned. This isn't a given. This isn't achieved in one day This isn't a moment. This is a lifetime of commitment. If you're gonna do this You better man up smart come on the stage my man Awesome Introducing you and I can't wait to watch what you got My name is Socrates and I am here to champion a cause It is a cause and also a pathway that has been terribly degraded and demised in recent times It is also a pathway and a Destination that I hope Changes in our society, but at this time in life in where we live It is immensely a dangerous environment, and I don't mean it facetiously. I mean it is terribly a risky endeavor I'm not talking about a we know somebody who's out of control. Okay, we know somebody who's just not Physically a specimen of the human species. We want to put forward. They know it Okay, not only that on a on a social level. They don't have the social skills available as well They are not projecting those elements of worth and value and standing within our society That's true. Not quite true. This is a hot or not scale All right, and this is why I know that hot or not isn't the only criteria All right We have four different individuals lined up here and their sole response for getting a relationship for finding what they want marriage in this case They apply what skills? If your only game you have is how hot are you are you're gonna be pushing this vector? Right here That's awesome. They're gonna be hotter. They're more desirable everything else Problem is only these individuals are actually relationship potentials. This is when you're getting tempted to date these people These people here Nobody wants to be in a relationship with them and they're not All right, there's a harsh reality here in the markets that the markets are responding if you're not in relationship And you're just focused on it on beauty and attraction You're not gonna get here You can't get there by doing this You're gonna be highly amplify your physical presence All right, think about that for a second. You're gonna highly amplify your physical being Then you're gonna act in a hyper dominant way Traditionally this is the traditional form not only that You're gonna get aggressive sexually Let's put all that together really quick Over-amplify your physical presence getting socially dominant and aggressive and sexually domineering With people that are not dialed in socially Anybody see a problem happening here? Anybody see a train wreck? Our shares held it All right, it's not just a train wreck. Let's talk about their clientele What are you going through cuz that's the only thing you guys really care about you really don't care about what ends up happening there You actually care about your experience. What are you gonna go through? You're gonna go through initially a very creepy phase You put in a little bit of effort. You're gonna be a creepy fucking dude You only put in a small amount of effort. You are gonna be creepier than fuck Okay Just being honest now nice there's a there's a degree of reprieve here see that enjoy it That is beautiful You're good enough the way you are you just need to be more beautiful remember that sliding bar You just need to be more beautiful not virtuous more beautiful. What are the women magazines push? Beauty or virtue Product that's right. They're not pushing virtue This sucks if you're a woman in your average it sucks to be you talking to you All right, what do you do? You better woman to fuck up Really you need to focus on virtue and learn those skills and apply those skills otherwise You're here. Let's take it a step further. Let's talk about the guys now average guy