 Alina says, question, is it appropriate to ask where you get your funds and how much? I think what you're asking is, how do you make a living and how much do you make in a living? I think that's the question you're asking. So I think through the normal course of conversation you can find out how somebody does. First off by asking what they do for a living just go, tell me what you're passionate about in your professional life. That would be a great way to start the conversation about what you do and how you figure out what they make. Kind of look at the car they drive, the clothes they wear, where they live. You get a little sense of how much they make. Certainly if you're having regular sex together I think having a conversation about money is critically important to determine if you're gonna be in a regular committed relationship together.