 So unaza pata kuna tu profokiyana Nia Musisi in violet lakini mtu Vani piga, ni piga, ni piga Let go Mi usi usi wezi ni tan di kata kama ni kofi Adama kuni tuna Papana Mi na paka Ya nukweli dema kini reiziya sa uti mi na henda Thank you so much for joining us In case you have not subscribed to SPM Buzz Kindly make sure you do so Because we are heading to 200k subscribers Kwae vo yo subscriptioni ako ita kwae Mi make a difference Thank you so much guys for joining us On the set I am joined by The great Eddie Putita Afsa mi there'll be no more Hey, Shuali, kwa niata You're not creating generations and living a legacy behind Putita They'll be there but they'll be greater maybe Okay Rich girl is Jackson Alright guys and they call me Super host Miss Kevenge Sayama Rich girl You have used in my lifestyle on Instagram Anyway, carry on My tips na kukununa yuhu Kuna dwa waafod lakini But guys Our topic of discussion today is Lining on the side of gender based violence But the question is Is one incident of violence Probably going to make you live your marriage Or a relationship Is it worth one incident of violence What do you guys think? Mi I think it's worth even raising your voice Tuki agi agi uwi elaftenu na inua sauti Mi na pa Ehe One in one way Nitu way Nitu way You see one incident of violence Na jwa violence is something that can go and become extreme Just that one can be extreme Yes That one No, maybe an incident Maybe you say mawan Okay, your question Kuna mta agi uwi elaftenu na inua sauti And I give all basis of nikofitu Ya But nizakwa yuhu waan nimbaya So taking chances For me violence I do not I'm not for any form of violence Whether it's against men or women Na relationship Atoms chana aki pigachali ake kofi Yuhu na violence Na weosimutu nizakanya nizakua It's the thought that counts So basically let's say for example This couple that is on social media Your brand is based on couple basis Umeza butu kofi moja Kofitu Yuhu niku anikama ina pita Ta hijapu umiza sana So you let go of everything you have built together Look at the scenario What led to that Have that conversation And set lines But be wise to know If that first encounter violence Kuna vi neneza kuja ni extreme baka wone Intentionium say In bedeli kwa ni mimiku ni umiza Nona So yes uneneza se ma kachi ni monge But let me guarantee you If you've built everything together Over and over again You have a good life that's going on Then trust me yuki trayezi hapen Ukiwone na hapen nivo Kuna vituzi na hapen ingi Because fight escalates when Arguments have been there Again ina kwa But it's rare asana itoketu Iki toketu one, see 40 Agu di one Jaya agu alafu kofi Then moja weni ni nasisist Nga kwa ni nasisist ama So Liz do you let go of everything That you guys have built together? E mi a let go Mi usi usi wezin it And di kata kama ni kofi Adama kuni chuna Because Me ni have grown up in An environment ya kios I was living Okay Story for another day Story for another day Nili kwa na isu shago But point blanki li kwa Angko e toa li kwa na akuja Tuki kata ni anyana Sema tumpiki e chahi Tuki sema ango je Tuki asitu ana chukwas furiana Rusha kwa shamba So mi, mi Uki inuata mukono evi Mi am gone And personally I've been in an environment Where sejai yona Mza ziwangwa ziwangwa kishautiana Sejai yona Ma zia kami ni bana Mi mi ata kami yana Ni furiana shamba Ya ni mi mi Mi muna Stable relationship Ya Anle suwa lukona furiana kisiri Kisiri kama ujuwi So mi sejai yona And then also Our dad Never used to beat us Like mi sejai wei chapa na babangwa Jai ni shautia And he's a teacher He's a tough man You know We respected him a lot But sejai yona Ami shautia Mtu ame mpige So mi mi Mi ata wuki shaut But normally for what we made him Ya Puna pa nishiwangasa na na mama Mama But for boy na pa nishiwangasa na both Boy mama na dil na e baba na dil na Ya There is just that soft spot of Imaginati Ok, Anle sukiwam dogo But imagineati sa sa Wewe tu ni Demu kwa fom one fom Kwa ma ukwa primary Ushakwa tu de manaji elewa Muda kwa na kupiga Ok, normally It's bad image So Muna patanga mada ndiwa Labdani kori primandiwa tu Labdaku zushi e mi So nadani ikitu ya fight kwanza Idea should be Don't solve it lightly Even if you're proceeding Mekuwa na ka act of violence Siya tiya ok sa wapole Inikitu muna fom muka e na Nya sasa mubudrola E, e, e, ikitu siya pentena I, war Niki tu mba Nya Because inanzaga na iwona Just say nge uba ea violence ni ba Muna na kuchapakofi Alafu in that moment tu na retalii etu na rusha Ka glass ka na pasukia Anha mwa ga damu Jamama moja fariki bada Zasata na Bata ojigata idea zia wakili Kueli ya Kido gote na miss Kithin Jitana umefo mba tu le tungu ua Bala nga cha Kuku rufa na kila Tuna kuwa tani Tuna kuwa tani Ima jani E, sheza matara Imaji E, amata boy labda Kama mimi na jambiaga Mimi sija ipega dem Niki nimi na kwa situations Mimi sana eni wana pata Kiku kueli eni Mutua na taka anakwami Nipige, nipige, nipige Na chekisa situation E So wana za pata Kuna watu profokiana Nya Musisi ima violent, lakini mutu Wani pige, nipige, nipige Mina imbona watu nasemanga Kwa mimi usini Usi jaribu kuni piga Una nipiga mbona Misi wezi amga umchuwa nipige Why? Namdua keku piga kwa under the influence Basa sa you see Basically, umtu wa tani Anize mdeli wa kuku Under the influence Over the time So you cannot even justify Jina manisha umu Change the control Akiwa nani Ya, niku manisha every time You're going to be under influence Ania sana wacha pombi Basa sa tani Bata kia nile E, ama aroodi Na kuna panguzu wa E And also let's talk about the early signs Of where you can tell that someone Might be violent in the future You sometimes Akunanga iso vituata wuja shahutiwa Wuja rushua Lakini 5 yas on Uwe umtu anata Na utuku kwa violent What are some of those signs That we can look on You know what I know? From the movies I've watched Ya That's right Was a student of you, sa you? Ya, a student A cinematography student Filma directing Film Production and directing Concentrating cinematographies Uwe sa you anata Whipea influence Ya, one thing I realize is that The most Violent people Most of the time People who portray and Kuna kitiretu wa too good to be true Like to you or to the in public To you or to private To you or even Wushu onam se Nimzurim paka onaji Ya kwa niya na makosa Akunwa doon de jaras kawa Akunwa ulemsi tuwa Wuja wa nimtihaji Usule na nimtihaji Tutuna jo tu nimtihaji Unabili sule na go tu nimtihaji Nama samora Ulemsi tuwa nimtihaji Uni samora tu namju Tu namju Namju wa Ui ni danya tu Naka danya Danya na zapigam tu Ehania na nga Na esi kwa bole iwi Una na sasa Okay, that's according to my observation So niya kwa likuwa How do you know How do you know Signs, me I think sign number one Is too good Ya Too good Too good paka Kumali siya kuna kitua na hide Probably Especially Before relationship Kuna sam level Of goodness paka onaji Naka mawe nimzuri iwi Bo na unangam tu Ya Have you watched a series called Uhum It should watch you Uhum You too should watch you Okay, I will watch it Ta watch It should watch you Ya This is a story of this guy who was Deeply in love Nika maa aki kupenda na kwa Obsessed Bakam seote na kwa close na wea na muwa Eh? Uhum Ani aki kupenda iwi ataliz Uni obsession Uni obsession Ya imagine baka ki metu de Ude maa nikuwa na chali Na jwe chali nikuwa mtoksik Na ude maa takiku muwa Aka wewa wewa chali No ude maa muwa Eh? Uhum Unaji aali endap kuwa ude What? In the end In the end Ya, but ni inendele anenda ga kipatawase kwa life But na aalizum se The guy is so nice Vila ni metu de baka ude maa nikuwa na fil Baka ude maa nikuwa nikuwa na fil Baka ude maa nikuwa nikuwa nikuwa nikuwa Umse nikuwa na kuma kuma kuna Epson flan nikuwa bele Umse na nikuwa bia Kudaji maa nikuwa bia Ati Vila uda nikuwa ni kali ampua hivi Is a reason enough miku believe kuna kituna ficha Ya Because you are trying so hard to cover What is this? Is it that you are covering? So one sign that someone might end up violent Or bad Is that they are too good Too good Too good to be true Too good to be true Like How na Any How na realness How na any science Ok kawa kuna fold su kuna azo Nikuwa na kuna weneza kana Umse ukuwa dubi tenya miyapa na kwa kana Na hini Umse na nikuwa na kama yote Mi Miya na nikuwa na tu Dem kuna bile She is over good Uya na nikuwa na kwa ula Now where Liz? Ono na kama zgini Kama have a friend called Trudili That I have a conversation with He once posted na mechapwa Nia Severa Nia Na atoki Because unachekial kwa na se mais for the family Uya na atui na baka na threaten kumiza atui So Siwezi Moacha So na baki na kako yo violence But me I think no reason justifies staying But ikuna virus Nia Liz Hey, for me I feel first of all To notice how we handle disagreements Or how you handle Arguments Like naeza tell Ukisha nishtuwa Uki inuwa sauti sauti witu kiagiu Me ni I am done Nia So for me apu how dispute is handled Definitely apu Awezi ko sasaino yote But you should know there are different types of fight There is a physical fight And verbal Nia Kuna piya verbal Fights Insulting each other Sauti Nia Nia Nia Nia Imocha na labius Because that's how people release Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia Nia We'll gain money invirals because you can't say Indian women pay for their activities, do you think they might ik'u je obsession or whatever it may be? Also when you look for people who know these persons, wa muna nn able to any of queen to do things? Actually I experience interviews with girl-like husbands where they are GPU Daily специangi isnt just, those girls was in just Prison Gov creamy and seems tense as opposed to other lawlessness If they momentary being they will become awe-feed and will be in Depois-bar No, mucha wi owo to. What? Uhu SiUSyamudamo? Niwaa che? Niwaa che? Usini gize? Batu SiUSyamudamo? Isawa usirushyamudamo. It is not. Bartu siUSyamurusie. Eh, it not a justification. We were not provoked? Also don't provoc. Kununa kamaiwa tini pige nini pige, sesa una se majiwe wa piku na wipigwa. Na wipigwa. Na wepigwa. Kwa wepigwa tini uku yatamuenda wa zimoa kilis juifanye ni na wepu edisibut. Na wepigwa. Don't provoke someone, for sure. niwe Miki wa Lionel Sito Miki wa Lionel Mua wima na uswe... Zatika. Mua wima na dosya... Hiiii! Mua wima magyu. Kirasiko. Mua wama magyu. Marka. Mua wima magyu. Mua wima magyu.