 So they make so many, they've done very big impact here. Inbalances, yeah. The only thing that is not hormonal is the IUD, which is also a risky business during Nahuza Inafanya. Mind you, this pill that has been identified, it is non-hormonal. So chances are it will not have an effect. Oh yeah, yeah. You see, that's what they come up with. So that is something. I mean, but why they say it is not. So that's a matter of consideration. What is my woman going through? Can I try this? Because we have tried as women. Can you not even just give it a thought? Because you say, you can't afford it. So you won't, but I don't understand. I don't understand. I don't understand. I don't understand. What is she pushing for? Let it, let it. You are watching Friends Vibe. All feelings are represented. What's up, good people and welcome to Friends Vibe right here on SPM Val. In case you haven't subscribed, please make sure you do because I mean, why not? The conversations here are top notch. You need to watch this. Now I am joined by your favorite people and we have a guest today, but they are blessing them to introduce themselves. Which guest? Giving people good titles. So some are just passing around here. You say you are a tall duck or whatever. See as an introduction, tall duck and handsome, butita tall duck and handsome. But that's your definition though. It's normal. Do you see your beauty? You for you is a tall duck. If I do an introduction for you and say, welcome to SPM Basen, I'm joined by the beautiful, the exciting And that's okay Then give me what you want Give me what I want What this man need a lot There, handsome And there, the cologne I'm paying pay So this is Antonio MC with all those titles It's okay And this is the great Eddie Buciccia Nice and Abdi Great Uminiti fashion She's nice Guys, I don't need to be extra Okay And my good name is Miski Teiji And today's topic of discussion is Contraceptives Now, American chemical society Has done a research And they have actually found out Is a contraceptive pill For men 90% That prevents 99% pregnancy So I don't know if men are ready To take this pill To release women from this burden To release women from which burden Or ask for the release of women In short, here is PTA Guys, what are you saying To be released from this burden Oh, by the way It's a brand No, it's called post pill Two Oh, I did It's supposed to tear into So there is A contraceptive specifically for Men That prevents pregnancy 99% And it's just 99% And as we are So if you want to know more Why contraceptive It's a brilliant idea Because personally I go with the evolution Science is a beautiful thing It's changing the world It's an amazing idea My problem is what does it stop What does it stop Just the same way No, I understand But does it stop ejaculation No, let's just say The science part of it Maybe it works on your What I understand It's too many, they become weak Personally I do not know But I will go for it The African culture What wengi sana They want to go for it In fact, nobody in Africa will take that Yeah, but it has already refused I am not refusing When you talk about Kondoms, Mipira Kwaname kwa nazibasa Is it not a contraceptive No, you see So that's a good reason This is it You know why it's not dangerous It's not dangerous Nowadays it used to be It used to be But now we are living in a world which is dangerous Uyo naizai pasua Naizai toa I am talking about the intent of You already as a man taking that initiative As already shown That you are a step when it comes To contraceptive Right now they have brought a pill And the case that we about to have here Atandewa, what one is, Zusha online Hey, it's time piawa na wume wa kwa Na mezaizu vitu We've also been taking initiative To control Isi vituza, preginati The fact that yao inakwa nga Pill Haima nishi piaw na zima piaw Piaw piaw piaw Una wana We have different types of contraceptives Not just the pill We have different Even using a condom What all the implants The IVs Una iqile Always root for It's like you always root for That style of contraceptive Like the scientists should come with a way That also men can have Let me tell you You're making it a agenda issue You're making it a agenda issue Listen, listen, listen Let me tell you You see the way Ni ni for men, the other than condoms, the only initiatives you guys could take to prevent, I mean, from getting women pregnant is taking, I mean, doing a vasectomy. Ya, but which is expensive and even reversing it in case you change, it's expensive. I feel like that, I've read that article, that was the idea. Since that is a bit expensive, now they have brought a better way. And a cheaper way for men, and ya. No, I mean, I understand, when it comes to family planning, so just a minute. The history of contraceptives. Okay, sir. Okay, it's true. Ya ni desi ni ki jaribu, ni ki getis, ni ki getis ka skola na jare se ma na tega. The history of contraceptives. So listen. The history of contraceptives. Why did they bring contraceptives in the past? The reason why, back in the 20s, people used to have family to family relationships. The past contraceptives were ram, ram intestines. Ya, matumbu ya. Because there were cases of, when you are trying to date someone you are dating, there are so many cases, ya. So over time you change. And then after the many years, contraceptives, the idea for contraceptives was to depopulate the world. Ya. And then after that, then it came to sexual things, you know. But my point is about this contraceptive. I think it's not the best for Africans. I'm just saying, let me just, let me open you to my opinion. And you know I'm saying that not because me I will refuse it, because the culture. It's like vasectomy, the other day Nick Ndenda did a vasectomy. Ya, he did it. When he did it, he trained it. Do you know why he trained it? Because our culture is not yet... People see it as a Western thing. In fact, it's a deeply rooted problem to the point that nowadays, mutu kuhu liza. I don't know if you guys are allowed to say... When you know me clearly. It's rated this show. You know what kuitas interrupters is? Yes, yes. We think him as if we know him. No, no, kuitas interrupters, the word interruption is sex, right? So kuitas interruption is when you pull off and you withdraw outside, okay? That's another method of contraceptive. You get one point. So many, many in this country are living in. First of all, it's like the corona vaccine. You will not mess with the... A kuna kitu manome protektiku maizia, kama yuki triaki. That needa region is very, very sensitive. So this contraceptive thing won't work as per now. It will take so long before me accept kuhu meza yuki. First of all, anything from the Western world. Ndara uku. Ah, I want to adapt to Spanish. Ndara mimi, the idea of family planning being a responsibility for both partners. I'm for that 100%. But now, one thing that mimi kukanda na tashwishi ni the mode of contraceptive. Thank you. Kuna ona? Yes. The mode, the mode. This many modes that are there, mingi yata zina bakfaya na waschana. Kuna waschana ona kakitu, wana nana bakona zina ina arigene. I don't believe in that. Ah, wait. Naturally. Those are hormonal contraceptives. Hang on. Hang on. They are a lot of contraceptives. And it is advised them, hang on here, in a mode here. That is compatible. Ya. Kuna dema na nga na katu mode ya, ina bakfaya na juli. Bata kutuna yo e, ali kuja kaba, na kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa. Konda kabi, kabi isa. But kumbe dema na fangakuji study. We had a client that was being, that thing, to literally take you through to the ambiwa. Kuna ni tiki ambiwa. So sangini na kwa kwa kwa kwa kujua. Which one works for you? You. Currently they are, they are many. Contraceptives ya. Na, at least utapata kuna eni na ku. Whatever. Why do we keep on reinventing the wheel? Now let me. Maybe it's the issue you've said. The population. The depopulating there? The world. Now, something that you ingest. Something that you, you na meza na ni ni. It's the scientist's word against. Yes. Ya me kwa mbiya ni contraceptive. Meza sa ila utaki. Ameja ribia yo kitu na panya. What if? Ya it was a mice. They used ya, they used a mice too. What if? What if? But we are comfortable. What if? What if? Because now you see we had vaccines came in, right? And we had issues of brain surgery, blood clots. Heart problems. Problems with the male production organs and stuff like that. Right now as we are looking at it. I don't think it's sufficient enough. Let's wait for them to generate more. Can I ask a question? I would like to. What is our agenda? You can't accept it. Since you're saying that. Since you're saying that. Why was there so much noise when like this? Am I so many questions like this about women's contraception? Contraceptives when they came out. Even now they have a lot of questions. There are men who don't allow their women to... Even now. There are women who can't do contraceptives. And there are women who don't do condoms because they say the latex... Ha, ila ila tuwa. Ha, ila nuchiratituwa. So many persons are here. They are contraceptives. I know, I know they are contraceptives as well. But you see, I'm really disappointed, especially in you Antonio speaking about culture, a tita culture thing. When we know very well, our grandmothers never used to use contraceptives, but they were introduced to this mode of, you know, prevention of pregnancy that people create in the world and they took it. You guys... Do you know the massage? Let me finish. You continue to finish. This is just a topic. Before you finish that statement, I want you to understand that the massage, they have their own way of contraceptive and it works perfectly. And it's okay. It's okay. Continue. Now what I was saying... No, Antonio, let me finish. I have to... I have to... I have to... I have to reply. Let me finish. You let me finish. I love to. I love to. But what I'm saying is, the reason as to why they are bringing out this pill, yawana ume, the contraceptive pill, is because the effect that women get during this taking these contraceptives. Mind you, most of these contraceptives... So it's about sharing the effect, not finding the solution. No, I don't think so. I don't think so. Let me finish. These women, most contraceptives, they have their hormonal. Hormonal? So they make so many... they've done very big impact. Inbalances, yeah. The only thing that is not hormonal is the IUD, which is also a risky business during Nahuza Inafana. Mind you, this pill that has been identified, it is non-hormonal. So chances are it will not have an effect. Oh no, yeah. You see, that's what they come up with. So that is something... I mean, but why they say it is not. You see, it's just a matter of consideration. What is my woman going through? Can I try this? Because we have tried as women. Can you not even just give it a thought? Because you say... So you won't... I don't understand. I don't understand. I don't understand. What are they pushing for? Let it. Let it. Let it. As a scholar. You said, you've given examples. Kuitas korikera. Kuitas imperatas. Kuitas imperatas. The issue of rubber. This is what I'm called. The issue of rubber. Yes. So you already have... You already have your ways of contraceptive that you feel they do work for. One and in others. If you've decided, these are the ones that you... Kuitas ema, you don't want your girlfriend to use the moral things because you can use these methods. Are you still not answering her problem? Thank you, bro. You're answering her problem. Now, if these things have problems, why can't we look for a better solution rather than now? See, I feel like they are looking for a better solution. But that's a better solution. That's a better solution. And Iza, out of all the contraceptives that we have, there is one that suits you without kukusumbua. So what are you pushing for me so much? Why would you not take a pill? Why would you not take a pill? That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. One day you'll wake up and hear... I will tell you why you take a pill. Why wouldn't you take a pill? You can't be in the same situation. What's the difference between you and your parents? I've heard that you're in the same situation. I've heard that. I've heard that. One day you'll wake up and hear me take a pill. What's the difference between you and your parents? I've heard that. So you have to take a pill to get a good solution. No, no, no. How does it have to be about men and women? You can't be in the same situation. No, no. I will tell you why you take a pill. No. I'll tell you why you're taking a pill. Why are you taking a pill? Kupil is nan hormonal for men Miki ya kenye beti ya me saya na So it's a better option So beti ya na taka, ana taka we suffer because they are suffering What's happening? What's happening? Kupil is nan hormonal for men What's happening? Open your ears Let me tell you beti something I am for beti Let me speak Let me speak Let me speak Let me speak Beti, you are the one who's making the gender thing No, you are making the gender thing Beti has made it a gender thing Let me tell you something What I mean is simple Beti, I agree with you No you don't See And I said it here I said I have no problem I have no problem With contraceptive You get my point This face we are inside their faces Is an experimentation face Trial face And when people like their Dispense for people What we have right now is an experimental face Which you have ruled out It's not Let me finish This is not the first time Let me finish So it's not still experimenting So my culture point was And I want you to understand Beti We are living No, no listen The reason why I'm saying culture Let me get Same approach Close to you The reason why I'm saying culture It's because statistically I want you to listen to me It's not my word It's statistics What do you want to say? Statistically What do you want to say? Statistically It's Kenrenia pungi Tuko kwa afrikan culture butita That's why Nikindenda and the trend Mimi naeza fa niwa I am fat of a sektor Naeza fa niwa sayi In fact naeza tamani sa naeza But Baba yangu Baba yangu Kazimian naeza naeza Awezi kubani It's statistics When uba came There was a lot of resistance There was a lot of resistance from the taxi world Because it's changed And it changes the process So I want you to understand When the female contraceptive came out in the 80s Africans Churches Catholic Church Was a genetic up to today So what is your point exactly? My point is My point is simple These things don't need to rush And that's what I'm saying Me personally It's not the right time We have to wait for the right time To improve zila ziko Wakati sjiya reli kuja I told my friends Sisi panda is sjiya It's an example I always point Sisi panda is sjiya Because I do not trust Yo, China Lazi ma niwa tuwaki panda For the next two years Anto, bifuata tu kuze kwa So we process Okay Culture You know one thing I support I want to say ma Your story So you're going back to culture Do you know westernization Is someone's culture Thank you You know that When you talk about culture You owe me $10,000 For that point $100 bro You just have to say $100 bucks Not dollars Westernization There are things Me am a genius When it comes to culture Like you know Back to culture Kuna vitu tulik Kuna primitivity Yeni likuwa Yeni pia lambda Wala niwa likuwa nai o kitambo History kamaza Kuri spekt ma dem ni ni You know that Kuna vitu Kila kitwa ina Kuna prosen Is union Yes, there is the The cons Let's do away in the cons But you can't tell me That I've been doing something As an African And it has been working for me Now I should stop Doing it Because it's better Because it's not time for culture But here He's putting on Uwo Sindio Yes Yes Nia uko sindio Anasa sana kwa dia Mambu ya culture ata Ata Mambu kwa nimnuna kamani me Vabi tulikitambo I have to say But when we western When we want to fight in a culture This is a month culture There is an African Yes Ata butita me pwambia Butita me pwambia It's okay, I understand But the thing is You can always pick the culture that works No That is what you guys think we are right now My point is very simple Let us not rule out culture completely You cannot rule out culture My say Kila kitwa kitwa kia But the reason why you We are not rule out culture We are not rule out culture We are not rule out culture On this specific topic The reason why you cannot go to your father's house With a miniskat Is because of culture Do you know this one You get my point So you cannot rule out culture I'm not rule out culture What is the biggest industry in the world As in We see on the edge of it is a website The biggest industry The biggest industry Pharmaceutical Medicine Medicine People come They go to the bush They take a tree They go and process it Transform it into a pill And import it as medicine Then you go home Shushu ya kwa na kwa mbia Ida mba Itu kisubu wa hapa Ugozi ya kwa na kwa fit Ha, itu za kitabu Oradaka we import It's the same thing When the day is African realize That they have rich methods They have great things And I want to challenge If there is any scientist in Africa Watching this Can we come with our own ways Of contraceptives That we can also sell to the world We see better right now If I take it to my grave Watcha ni manizia Watcha ni manizia for culture Snake bite You know when you are beaten With a snake You go to the hospital And you are here And you know antrivenom Is made from Venom That's why you ask the specific type of snake Snake, yes In baringo You say anu mwagana nyoka These people have studied Do they know When a snake removes the The fungus It paralyzes for a moment So akiyumu immediately And not after your snake Joana jua It cannot Ita ni me Side week To do what To harvest there And harvest in jine Eh And what do they do They go and spear Ngombe Lafua na changanya Damu ya ngombe Na Na venom Mitu ane kamali me umwa Then damu inanzaku Uzi na toka So it creates A strong snake To body manini That brings Start pulling back The venom From the body to To outside So someone not there And was like How come sikitwen yunifast Kushin na ine anu ya They had a smart to ni ikushika nyoka But ikitwen yunifast Iwa say waju kitwana Waju yata the process The science in it But it is working But we have overlooked such things And yet we can come with a more Sustainable solution For snake bites By starting this thing This thing And as much as your conversation Was very deep and very informative But ita There are still things I will not subscribe to Things that Dinafini liya binadamu When we have another option No problem That one I will not subscribe to Whether it is Whether it is culture I will not Agree, therefore we have the same page And I agree We should come up with solutions That after that we can Can work for us I mean as a woman I would want even a contraceptive That can work for me That does not have to worry at all Because my man is taking it Do you notice that But Betty you know right now But what are your scientists Doing in this country They are still looking up to the western Betty Is your grandma still alive? No no no Unfortunate But do you have any Mze tuwako 80 years Laki bukona wa tuwako relative Uko wacha Kenawa tuwa Mpa langu mwenye ni mtu kansha miwa Next time we kenda wacha Uliza mma munya anyatu 86 yaku ruko Mulize Mkum na fanya dikitamu Imagine utapata It was there But along the way Our story was A rest Let me say a point Go back to the village Even finding postinas And all those things It's very hard Of course So it's true So that will show Over years Years and years of expertise Anaji wakanyu utaya kia Taku wa sayi Sayi Na hatawa ishikami Batawa chana na iya 3 days 6 months hata shikami na So because it's culture But we are pressed to believe That the west has better stuff than us You're not really pressed We are pressed to believe We don't see our own We don't go to our own I don't go to our own What's up skin? It's not that we prefer the western Medicines are manini It's just that our own That are here Are manini We don't know them Nobody is teaching us about them You know why you don't know them You know why you don't know them It's not your mindset It's not because of my mindset Your mindset is If you right now want to find out about We are living in a world which is bombarded with information My idea If you want to find out about Hable remedies for contraceptives You will just google and find them African remedies for contraceptives You will find them But you might also be killed Na, but let me ask you Yes, in fact they will come for you So let me tell you something Let's agree madam boss And the other madam boss We have to accept that Where we are right now Sisi kama wa na ume Mimi na taka yo contraceptives But 70% ya wa na ume We will take contraceptives Bro, we will take contraceptives na na na na That's the only thing we have to accept You will be very hypocritical Because the most you should be doing If you are for it It's telling people to think about it Not ask people What's the problem of asking No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no You know And let me tell you guys Everyone This first of all This show Friends vibe All feelings are represented The hypocrites How am I hypocritical Because I'm saying that I don't want to To go with them That's the one we're running away from The world of kukakwa fensanto At now And now Kukakwa fensasembe Ok yo kitu Ok misi jikama I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna I'm a perna Thank you Nakamaman ziako Nakamaman ziako ayuko Comfortable Na nini Maybe she's not ready For a child right now And she's not sure You're going to be that cautious Because at the end of the day She's done getting pregnant Yes Would you consider At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the At the You are watching Friends Vile. 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