 Hi, it's Fritid. Welcome to About Life Channel. The purpose here is to inspire your spirit and to fill you with hope today. We're gonna talk with Freddie Mercury from the Afterlife. A crowd favorite. Yes, Freddie Mercury is. We're gonna talk about love. We've talked to Freddie many times about love. And so today, we'll have to see if there's any new insights about this. Maybe you could talk to us about relationships. Does anybody need some relationship advice? Let's see what he has to say. All right, my name's Freddie. Okay, so he's wearing a red, like a red almost tuxedo-like, that's what I see. So, okay, so it looks fancy like Valentine's Day. Although by the time you guys see this, it'll be well past Valentine's Day for sure. I just did a group, a small group and also some small private channeling sessions to connect with you from the people who were in the group. So thank you for that. That's really sweet that you show up like that. In that group, we talked about soulful love. So can you give us some advice or information about relationships? Let's ask him about that, shall we? He's like, I'm not quite the one to maybe to, I'm not an expert on that, he says I'm not an expert. But you had a love for Mary and yet you also know that you were gay and you had many loves and settled down with, I think it was Jim, right? Wine for my conversation with Mary Monroe. I have a little bit left. I have to pace myself. I don't need to get intoxicated in our conversation. So can you explain that? So like you were gay, but did you know you were gay when you were with Mary or how did you kind of figure that out? That's a good question, right you guys? Like aren't you kind of curious about that a little bit? I mean, I get that it's kind of private and personal, but there might be kids out there or people out there that are not sure about that or misunderstanding or don't have a clue about that. So can you explain that? He says it's not something that you choose. It's who you are darling, it's who you are. So he says, I loved Mary very much, very much. I would have given her a family if I could. I would have had children with her if I could. And you know, many people are upset about what I have left to her. All of my things, all of my life, all of my, some would say legacy. And don't understand that, quite understand that. And it's more than a platonic love. So are you like bisexual or what's that? Like that's kind of confusing. Like can you talk to us about that? No, no, no, he says, I loved Mary, but in a different way. She's a very much an important part of my life. And before I recognized that I was homosexual, I spent a great deal of time with her and considering a life with her and wanting that until I realized that my life would take quite a different path and I knew that I was rather open. I don't know how to explain this to you guys. He's kind of saying wild, but wild promiscuous, inquisitive, that kind of a thing. He says, not like you've seen like exhibited in the movies or the flamboyant kind of expressive pictures or stories and things about me. He says, prior to that, long time before that, he says she was a part of my life and in relationship with her, he says I have a lot of respect for her as a person and would never have wanted to hurt her at all. And he says, it hurts me that other people judge her and are cold and rude to her when I would give her my life in anything. And he says, I hurt her deeply and I loved her. And he says, it wasn't on purpose. It's no one's fault. He says, I recognized my attraction to men. He says early on and thought as maybe something that was just a passing interest, just maybe a curiosity, but it didn't go away. You see, it didn't go away. And you have to remember the timing. So back then it was considered very, it was bad or vulgar, not accepted as it is now a days. And there were places where yes, it was accepted. More so than what is depicted in movie and film and things. There were pockets of acceptance, you can say. And yet it was still rather private or the worst kept secret. And with that, I would say it was something that was very frowned upon. And although my, and he says he's saying all going or flamboyant, he's using the word flamboyant nature, could be considered part of the show or showmanship. There was a very real part of me that needed to be expressed, he says. And so in relationship with Mary, I showed up in the best ways that I could and I knew it was not fair to her at all, to ask her to love me and to be in love in a traditional marriage or marital, he says marital relationship with me when I could not be a faithful husband because I knew that I had these longings to be different than that. And he says, okay, so he's being very careful and cautious not to talk about being gay as bad or stereotypical or anything like that. But he's saying, you need to understand, he's telling us, we need to understand that from his perspective, that time was so different than it is now. He says there's no excuse for anyone to have to feel as though they need to hide themselves, but yet many do it all the time now. And relationship is something that is more widely accepted in a diverse way. And at the same time, there are still pockets now of anti-acceptance or anti, what would you call it? He's basically saying discrimination and where people are not safe to be gay, to love how they choose to love, whether that, and he says it truly is a rainbow. There's such a wide variety of what that means, bisexual, pansexual, and then as far as orientation, sexual orientation versus gender identity and like fluidity and binary, not binary, and all that. There's so much of a range now that there's different ways and places that you can kind of fit into to feel a sense of belonging. He says, whereas back when he was alive, it wasn't not like that, that wasn't the case, he said. So he's saying Mary tolerated quite a bit and she shouldn't have. And so because of that, I gift her with the beautiful garden lawn and many other things to make sure she is comfortable in her life because she deserves that. He says, I put her through a lot of pain and people don't account that, but I did. And so can you talk about your relationship with Jim a bit? Yes, it was much more comfortable and accepting in quite like a married couple would be. He says, kind of settled down more and just comfortable, quite comfortable with one another. But he is also giving the feeling of being not faithful. So I feel kind of like it might have been hard for Freddie Mercury to be a monogamous a little bit, maybe is that the right way to say that? Oh, I don't want to upset people. He says, a few twists, yes. And some interesting experiences, yes, some different experiences, yes. And he says, Jim was quite supportive and not, Jim was not one to judge really. I was quite tired. And at the point in my life when I was, what you might consider settling down or getting, like someone get married or become part of a long-term relationship was a time when it wasn't that I felt old, but I felt a, I need to be more steady. That's what I would say. And I think that's different for everyone. I think you go through times in your lives where when you're young and rebellious and you can experience life and everything is the world is your oyster and you can experience things. I think it's natural to want to do that and one should do that. I would highly encourage that recommended very much. And then there are other times when it feels more appropriate to have more of a consistent situation and understanding. So he says, but I cannot speak for everyone. I certainly am not the voice of the gay community. I'm certainly not one to explain homosexuality. This is the word he uses. I would not necessarily use this word, but that's what he is using homosexuality. And he says, and in the context of also monogamy, he says it does, in talking about it, you have to be careful. He says in talking about it because it's not, it like assumes that people who are gay lack commitment or don't want that or are, it just seems that like gayness is some sort of risky permission to not be in a longstanding relationship or committed partnership or anything like that. And he says, that is not the case. That has never really been the case. That has not ever been really the truth. That is only what the propaganda or the persona or what has been delivered to people through tabloids or press or the media. And he's really like tisk-tisk on the media, like shaming the media for amplifying the propaganda like nature of homosexuality and gayness and how making it something that was adverse to the social experience or the human experience, whether or versus being just a natural or organic part of it and which is what it is. So that's what he's saying. So, okay, very good. Very good, all right. Okay, so wow, okay, that was deep. Don't you think that was deep? That was a deep conversation with Mr. Freddie Mercury from the afterlife. It's always interesting to have conversation with you Freddie Mercury, talking to us about relationship or love as well, specifically related to his life and the two major relationships that he had had that we all know about those two major ones, okay. So this is Bridget, thanks so much for being here to both live channel on YouTube. I look forward to connecting with you every week on Mondays when I share a new channeling video from an afterlife celebrity guest. You can also check me out on fairy grasshopper, my other YouTube channel where I talk about intuitive top topics. You can also join us here on Sundays and listen to Sunday morning coffee with Bridget where I take a topic and go deeper with it and have conversation about it with from my work as an intuitive life coach. I hope I've inspired your spirit today and filled you with some hope and encouraged to live your life because after all, this is your life. That's what this boils down to, that's your life. And you get to love it, just love it. Thanks for being here.