 What happens if you propose to your partner and they are not ready? Or what happens if you propose to and you're not ready? Ok, okisha propose ya demivi, she says no. You're not gonna go and then umulize. We'll find out why are you saying no, what's happening. We've been together for all this love. Why are you saying no? We are dating. Since you've been dating. Why are you saying no? Why are you expecting? First of all, because of you, we've been dating for 6 months. We've been dating for 6 months. We've been dating for 6 months. We've been dating for 6 months. What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? You are watching Friends Vibes. All feelings are represented. Friends Vibes. Good people welcome to Spm bars. This is Friends Vibes. And as always I'm joined by very great people. I'm gonna let them introduce themselves before we continue. Next is Chacunya Chahi. This is good for your health. Shaha, please talk to her. No need to speak to her. This is good for your health. How do you introduce me? Back to the offer. Be controversial. Be controversial. The viral. This is Khalondu Mosimu. What's your first name? My first name that is a no-go zone. Yes. Can you give me a name please? Zote. In the grave in the hospital. So let's get into the topic of discussion for today. The question is what happens if you propose to your partner and they are not ready or what happens if you're proposed to and you're not ready. So can you just be direct? Man, what happens when you propose and a lady is not ready? Uuh, kwa ni? Kwa ni ulu kun na propose dacha umpendii ama... A aa, beti. Umetie kwa umpira daka 90. Umetua penalti daka 90. Usipo funga game i naisu wenda jumbani. So kwa ui vo una manisha wuna tokat? Uu, nisa po an Arsenal, una left Arsenal, wuna enda maniu. Banda na kwanbo, kuna aga club uko inje. Sina manisha wenda aga opportunity. So aki kataa. By. Perfect example. Kido is a national fan. He's been disappointed over the years. Decade after decade, he has never left us and said, what are you talking about? What are you talking about? So, when she proposed to me, she says no. You're not going to go and then we'll find out why are you saying no, what's happening, we've been together for all this love. We are dating. Since you've been dating. That's why you're saying no. Yeah. What are you expecting? First of all, because you're not going to make a date for six months, you're not going to let her ring. What's wrong with you? When are you going to get a wedding? Yes, there's no time to let her ring. There's no way you're going to let her ring when she's not going to let her ring. I don't know. So, you're not going to tell her that you're going to get a wedding, I'm going to tell her that I'm going to get a wedding. That's why I'm going to tell her that I'm going to get a wedding when she's not going to let her ring. Oh, I'm going to be a rikisha. I'm going to be a rikisha. You need to be on the same page with someone you'll get a wedding. Yes! If you are not on the same page, that's why you're saying yes. You will still have problems. Proposal is me opening my page. You come and enter this page with you on the same page. What are you saying? No opinion. What are you saying? We propose by the kifika. It is yes or no. We leave to a turn. What kind of a proposition? Like no means we are not continuing with this. Apana, you can continue dating but we are not ready for marriage. Yes! That is what we can do. Yes! How long does someone need to take your proposal? You need to take as long as possible. Apana, do you believe you can't date for one weekend? No, I cannot date you for one weekend. Proposal. Apana, we you? No, but you honestly that would be so toki Aless. How can we say yes to someone you've known for one week? Kata umjui? Ati love happen? To marriage. Ta karam t'u one day you one week realize that the woman who can't do that. Mamboya kei kotusa wa nani kolo. fifty. wana maombi wana kyesha tu usipu naomba iwi upama kwa iwi asubu kama niye esa wana kata daya wana mi sema ni ni jana alisha ma ni ni aliyo nazare kuna mailo naenda siyande moa you have to pray lazima you give it time for God to answer your prayers for God to scrutinize your partner akupe jibu you can't iwi wu ko inahari wu nambia God leo kyesha subu ii God na taka answer iso ni gani wana penda when the right time comes what is the right time? the right time ni time me ni me kuchunguza like are you still here or not what do you like so the right time is when I have money nooo so when I propose when I am poor I am not ready you are unwell I need to know you are selling you guys are dramatic family I need to study you guys I am not going to dramatic family you need to find out what is the right time to be in the mask I am not in the mask conditions are quawani nooo don't make it a financial issue although financial is a aspect it is a factor no way you are going to propose to me you are broke so you are going to propose to me you are broke so you are going to propose to me so you are going to propose to me it is always a transaction but now you can't tell me where I am going to be when I am poor if you are ready you are going to be in the mask let me ask you butita what is one reason give me three reasons why you would propose to a girl because it is my time to get married it is my time your time not her time you see it is like a bus he is free so you are going to propose come on you should get married in 39 30 you should be done 30 you should get married in 39 this is the signal so if you get married you are going to be a kumari you are going to be in the mask so I am going to propose to you ah ah udem kwebu nnezao amtu yo yote yo manas yo yote nawa specific gun uyo specific what are the qualities amba zota muahuyu nndo mananam proposiya leo qualities to me when it comes to marriage it's not things that you can single out at yo na panyangai na panyangai nimi me katu na nika angali ya nika ona kitabia, kimienendo, kuelewana, gieshma nama eni ambu webu naki, naki future kuhu ya nneza kuwa god mother oh my kid nao piyamini niki angali ya panyangu nisa buzangu zaki dunia panyangu ya kuwa imefika alafu na pige magotiyangu na jaribu na jaribu na jaribu na dependi yaka machini masila zi mamagoti na kupropozi nikiya na aji na tuwa pete hangu pusemi nimi pige magoti tuwa pete na momia na maze matiyo nani mi isha panya background nami mazutia naka wé wu meangali ya behavior moenendo wu ni mama ya mchoto vizuri lakini sisi tu kise ma finances family ya ya weko saransi te I allow you to say that because the reason I allow you to say that is because I also want you are not to mean this thing cannot go anywhere the reason why you are telling me no that is waiting for you no alakini magotiyangu magotiyangu na mazutia mazutia mazutia nani mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia mazutia Kikiisiki amonadara waza ziwaitu. Muha tato mera kuwa na huwa tata waz ya ziwa kitambo. Bro! We waran ya we, ya keki waka tama wo aza, na kini sini waka tambo? Bukati waa tawa akwa na social media, sayu na tafta teinda, una pata mu to anako mo. But let agree, you know marriage deserves level of tolerance. So, what you're looking at is we are in a position to understand each other. If things go wrong, this is how we can align things. Like that is what matters. So, if you say that it means what you want to take, that man will take to be the man you want. So, that you say? Yes. Yes, if me I'm looking for A, B and C, then Kalondo will take this A, B and C. So that, so that, so that what I mean is what you want to take, you propose. So my point is, if you have a point that you want to propose, you take down your same wangi and dani. I'm a muachane. But also there are mistakes we make during proposing, you know. First of all, you have to talk to this person, who you want to take ready for marriage. It's not like that kiddo. When you have your piloto, conversations, nini, nini, iso zote, pimiya, pimiya, onawu de mako ready kuolewa ama. You get, and that is how you will avoid getting a nod during a proposal. Sure. We have a simple thing to do. We have a simple thing to do. We go, we get engaged, we give it a small price, she gives it a small price, she gives it a small price. We sit like this all day, sit for a while, I can't even propose her. I'll say to her, if she wants me to give her a proposal I only ask her to?! She gave her proposal, I can't even propose her to anyone, I'm so tired. Why do people propose? Get married To get married To get married We propose to get an answer Let me give you what you're looking for Get an answer whether they can get married Or not Not whether they can get married or wait But when you're ready When that woman is ready That's wana cheki Mademwengi wako like Anakuja chelya na kuja After a week neskiya Alivunja propose o dem Anakuja embaras Uko chinia maja Uko chinia maja I want a celebrity couple Unyu uyo dem Kenya hi kenya tu moja Uyo dem aku sema yes Lakin niya li pote na nioka social media Mi postiwa she said yes She's my fiance Good example Ume kana Umi kana na mimi na mimi na last nine years Una ngoja ni propose Misha na mimi ni propose Ute na henda Just they propose I'm just asking Misha na mimi na nine years Nani me ugoja wewa u propose Nani misha na mimi Na uko sawa na kuka vizuri Uko redi silio Uko redi na mimi na here for the last nine years Inama nisha uko redi We make it like official Because we're not happy Uko na mimi na nine years Even me Because women nowadays propose I will not propose to you when I know you're not ready Ita kuja nukulize kido mabituza harusi Mabituza propose Miki sema na ukiu na na sema Stop propose Misha na mimi na propose Misha na mimi na There is There is I can't even tell you I don't even propose I do propose You propose me Nani aupon I don't propose because I'm the prize I don't propose We have a conversation To joke we are ready for marriage I have never been in any marakasana It's not even a joke Marriage is not something you just get into it And you talk a kesho So, the moment we have a format, that's why we are going wrong, you see, to you, someone has made you, and now you are moving too big a tattoo mebaniwa as a movie show, you know, funny how me live, at the proposal, one of the same, no, un kwa jem kwa jem kwa kwe, at the un kwa jem kwe ready, you know, jema kama propote, like, see how selfish you are. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, just, you see, you're supposed to say, if kama onat kiri, oni baga kumpatia chance, kwa beta, say my yes. Then you work on it. Okay. Magi. Say my yes. You are not against the idea of you being together, together. Then when you sit down, like, now that we've decided to be together, please, are they doing, they're not. Beti, wajakuna wala uskia. Abadone zafik, hiyondokusuna kwan bia. Beti, wajakuna wala uskia, when popoziwa na bida na ma doshi, waka kata, sayo kukukuma beta kita wa nandia. Kino nisha kwan bia, awa tia na kipika. Ya, ina shida. Mika, iikimtani iilegeo shi penya, kuna kijana maskini. Mani tewa na iikimpliketi kuna kusila, unapa. Aa, jasu, you know, wala kijana maskini, mwanyali fanya rusia 100, sialisha fanya, na kaulewa. But let me tell you, butita, as much as there are women who may seem oh, I don't want to be proposed to me, I can just give birth and have babies. There is no woman who would not be interested to be, to feel taken care of by a man. You know me, I did a small research. Like I like researching about different things. So I was idle, I decided to talk about love. Now, any time, them, and I am in a relationship, ana kwangasha decide nende na yumba karmusho. Unless it is short term beneficial. So there is no yuta kwan na them for one year, three years. Na unia mbeye, atlaki mwa ni. Nini muna investi kiki kibisa kabisa kabisa kabisa na dani. Nini kama empendi mtu. Na yonda kondition ni make. Amu ntingi taim na hei. Kama ham daki kwen na mali na mtu. Atasinda kwa dien, ata kula ma bluti, ata pania ni. Yani atasinda, na mtu muna taka, hamu nanga kondition. Ata in two weeks uta olewa. That is so true. I agree with that statement. That is a lady who is in a relationship with you. Then she says no, she is in a relationship with me for three years. The moment she was with me for three years. So you know what is three years? Yes. What is three years? When you start doing some options, you can't do that. You may be at a treat venue and do three more. There are options. You can't point to anyone. There are many options. So we can't point to anyone. So that's why we decided to do this. operating entry When you're told no, would you feel the need to take at you know ah, an opportunity to just try and understand why this lady said nofeeding original point Finansali, kwa teva, mentali, fizikali Ya na bati, nuko jeniku rinemu wana So her feelings don't matter according to you If the material things are provided her feelings don't matter Your feelings is to say no Your feelings matter now when you say no We keep saying no Oni chi ki kumunzo kisha send ma yes Kona we tijizu na kuja wa kua kini Marwa wanzi ku cidiyu, kwanza kujiwa na cidiyu Na ma inloz, wanzi cidiyu kujwa Cidiyu kaltya yao So kuna taj maybe, mi personali nime send ma When will we send? If you propose to me before 3rd Na So after 30 do na kaiwi na miko Apo yon do time neza kwa na time ya Ya kujwa awa say wa ne shingi aje No no no no So when you are 30 now you realize time is good No it's not about time It's not about time It's not about time Andi wei wei do to king ya kwa relationship Na wei kwanza unafopu na jokin Propos ya in my 20s Isano, misano, misano And that's on high you know So it depends with how you want to Kamal you're not ready Please don't say mimi akwa dintu mi If you're not ready don't say yes Because marriage is not something you get into And get out tomorrow Akwa dintu mi no means Taku taku tumungine Siola jima propos Siola jima Well for me If you're not ready Say no No shame Ono me muavoid kupropozi hawa tu inpablik No just in case it's a no You don't get embarrassed inpablik But anyway guys this was friends vibe Kupropozi you're in private una pichua Afadali waliwa na pichu kukuliko kwa ibisha inpablik But anyway guys this was friends vibe Thank you for watching Make sure you subscribe until next time Goodbye Friends vibe All feelings are represented