 Welcome to Psychic Medium Tony Green. I am the Psychic Medium Tony Green. I will be doing an hour of answering questions live on the air via phone calls and YouTube chat. If you would like to watch the show and you're on one of the podcasts, yeah, podcasts, you can watch live every Monday or Wednesday at Monday at noon and Wednesday at 7 p.m. Both of those types are essential. So let's get to it. Please don't get scammed. Don't fall for anybody reaching out to you telling you you need something or pretending to be me. The only way that you can connect with me is on my website tonig.info or my business number. If you did call in or if you would like to call in, the call in number is 845-277-9131 and please don't forget to hit the 1 on your number pad if you have a question. So that's what I have for you. Now I'm gonna get started with answering questions. Hey, J.A., how are you? Amy's here, Rebecca's here, we have some callers here. It's gonna be a good show everybody. I'm gonna right away start with songs because I'm hearing songs. Now the song can be a song you know they know or you knew they knew or the answer to a question that you may have. So the first song I'm hearing is... Taya yellow ribbon around the old oak tree. If you still want me, oh my gosh, how old? Seriously, how old of a song is that? If you guys think, and let me just say this, if you guys think I'm just like... I would never think of that song. Okay, the next song is... and remember this can answer a question. See here I go. They're here, the energies, I'm good, I'm going. These songs could be a song you love, they love, you listen together and when I say they I mean your loved ones on the other side. It could be a song that answers a question that you have about life, love, career, finances, any and or all of the above. The next song is... It's raining men, hallelujah, it's raining men. Okay that's all I'm gonna sing of that one and yes please I know I can't sing. If you're new to the show, everybody knows I can't sing. You are not making an amazing astounding revelation by telling us that. We all know this girl can't sing. No need to allow, announce it. Okay, okay we cover that. The next song is... That's all I can sing of it because that's all I'm getting but if you know that song you know it's for you. The next song that I am getting is Purple Rain. The next song that I'm getting is... And I'm laughing because sometimes they just jump in and they start singing it and I don't know what's coming out of my mouth when that happens. And the last song, the very last song for right now is they're actually arguing over who's gonna ascend the song through so I'm just giving them a second not arguing like they're... I guess yeah I have a full house here folks so yeah. The next song is... Okay I am just hearing Tina Turner. Tina Turner and then somebody is showing me Donnie and Marie. So I hear Tina Turner and then I... They're showing me Donnie and Marie. So those are the songs. Now I'm going to go into names. Now this could be your name, a loved one's name or a loved one on the other side's name. If it's your name is your name. And if I say a name it could be more like if I say the name Robert or Roberta which I'm hearing. If there are five people that know Robert or Roberta it could be for all of them. So I'm going to just do names and I'm going to try to do it very quickly because there's so many people on the call log and in the chat. And yes you can put questions in the chat. I will get to them as soon as I can. And then I'm going to also be getting to the callers. And again if you would like to call in and talk 845-277-9131 is the call in number. The next name I'm hearing is Brent and then Brett. And then I'm seeing the name C-A-I-R-O. Now I'm also hearing Chiara but that is those are two different names because the way that is well those are two different names. Then I'm hearing the name Jocelyn and Peppermint. And it again you know once I heard Cinnamon and then it was somebody's father's racing horse or horse was named that. So from now on you know if I hear something I just say it because it's going to mean something to somebody. And that might might have been the name of a puppy or a turtle or I don't know what. But if I hear it I say it. And I'm going to do just a couple more names and then they all they come at me. Okay Betty Betsy, Mary, Mary Ann, Lorenzo, Lorenzo, Chaco, Mitzi, Minnie, L-O-C-H-I-T-A, Lochita. I have no idea. I'm gonna do the next name I'm hearing is Doug and then I'm just Penny and then Miss... No I can't say it. Mr. White, whatever that is. Okay I'm done with names. I am done with songs. I'm gonna do a little channeling throughout the show. I'm gonna try to channel the answers as much as I can tonight. I'm gonna let them come in and speak it for you. Because I've known for a very long time that I am supposed to like channel channel like straight-up channel and so I'm just trying to integrate it more in for everybody. Okay okay okay. I'm gonna bring this back to here right there. I think that's where everybody begins. Hey let me rise. Hey Laura, J-A, Cavita, Jess. Thank you all so much for being here today. Thank you everybody who has called in 845-277-9131 is the call-in number. Please call in if you have a question. If you don't, if you don't want to call in and you want to post it on YouTube while we are live for an hour, please post it. Please remember this show does air on TV stations. That's why we're limited to that hour time. So just be aware of that. When I call your area code please tell me your first name and where you're calling from and then have one exact question available for me and or if you want to connect with a loved one on the other side, I just need the first name of your loved one, their relationship to you, whether it's a friend, father, aunt, whomever it is and then if you have a direct question for them give me the question right away. Okay here we go. 1-1-1 what's your name and where you call him from? Calling Hey Trish, how can I help you today? Thank you for calling in. I was wondering if you were picking up anything about a change in finances. Yes. Now okay so here's again where I'm going to say you know sometimes spirit can be a smarty pants and when I say you know ask an exact question what do you really want to know. Let me know what you really want to know because if you just want to know is there going to be a change in your finance they're saying yes and they're not going to give me more because what you ask is kind of what you get but here's what I'm going to say because if you're being elusive or secretive they're figuring you don't want that information out they're not figuring you're trying to make me figure everything out and give you the answers. So Trish I'm going to say yes there is a change in finance and I'm going to give you one opportunity to change that question if there was more to that answer that you wanted. A positive increase in finances. Okay thank you for asking that and putting it in a more exact way because I'm going to tell you you know it's not me it is not me it is them and whatever you ask them they're going to give you that direct answer and they don't they're not always like the most. I have callers that have been listening for years and they'll say when I need the truth when I need it blunt I I know to come to you because they don't they don't play with you guys they're not gonna mess with your lives they're gonna give you the truth. Okay Trish the answer is it's gonna be up and down yes there's going to be a bump in your finances but you there they're saying they're saying a lot but I'm I'm not gonna put it all the way they're saying it is a couple of different ways first and foremost yes you're gonna have money come in it is more it's a little more it's not as much as you want it to be but there is something coming in. Now what they are saying if you want to have more money spend less I think they're talking to both of us Trish. I think they're talking to both of us you stop it you just hush now you know you just don't understand spirit. So what I'm gonna say to you is yes but be they're saying be conscious of your spending choices and don't like if you if you're expecting or you get a little bump in income let's say it's a one-time thing don't find a way to make it to stretch it out but if it's a like let's say a bump or an increase in work it's it's it's just not gonna equal out to as much as you thought it was going to whatever this is it's not gonna be quite as much as you thought it was so manage it appropriately okay are you I need to ask you a question Trish are you expecting I I know this is weird are you expecting a lump sum and is it from an inheritance okay I feel like and I'm just going to say this if this is not for you I apologize and I hope it's not for you because that means you would have had to lose somebody but somebody if it's not you somebody is going to be receiving an inheritance I just keep hearing something about an inheritance something I just keep hearing the word inheritance the lump sum you're gonna get Trish is a good amount but it's not gonna be quite as much as you expect it to be or you're hoping it's going to be but they're saying manage it and and or make it make it they're so funny they're saying like spread it out and they're showing me like spreading Nutella on a piece of bread like you're gonna make you're gonna have to spread this out like don't don't go hog wild with it but the other thing I'm hearing Trish if there is an inheritance coming in I'm so sorry for your loss but that might be something that comes a little bit down the line also but again I hope not because that would mean that you've lost somebody you care about okay love right okay thank you so much you are so very welcome have an amazing rest of the day you are welcome okay I am going to go to okay again so you guys if you want to Laura can you give me a person you want to connect with and I'll be happy to do that again for you let me rise may I please have a message from my mom Sonia yes let me rise Sonia your mom the first thing I'm seeing water like a shore a shore and water and then near what looks like it would it's not mountains but like a cavern or something like that it's not like a long sandy beach so if you're familiar I'm gonna actually scroll down from where I am right now and I would like you let me rise to confirm if you're familiar with that for your mom and then okay so the next thing that I'm getting is okay the next thing Sonia would want to say or your mom your mom would want to show you or have have me say I because I'm seeing something I said show you but there are big birds like they're not they're not seagulls maybe they are seagulls there's big birds flying in the sky over this seashore type of place okay then okay so that's what I have but for that vision she's showing me that should be some sort of confirmation for you if you're not familiar with that ask family members they might know about this this might even be from her childhood or from her younger years or your younger years whatever it is okay the next the first thing that she would want to say to you is you she's singing a song you so beautiful so that is message and then the next thing is that there is going to be something coming into your life within a month is it within March no within a month and it's going to be something that uplifts you and whatever this is I see I think if you're working on your abilities it's gonna be something with that I feel like what I'm seeing is that oh let me rise said okay so let me let me rise said sounds like something I painted thank you for the confirmation so she's watching you she's watching you and she's there with it you have something coming in thank you let me rise for for also for confirming you have something coming in within a month it's it's going to surprise you I don't know if you're working on your gifts I don't know if you're working on and your gifts could be your paintings but it's going to up level it's going to up level for you there's going to be a huge up level for you in that and whether that means if you sell your paintings or your abilities of painting whatever it is there's going to be something really very nice for you coming in I hope that was good for you I hope that helped you let me rise so please and I and of course she loves you and of course she loves you okay I'm going to go to the next caller if you'd like to call in the call in numbers a 45 277 9131 if you'd like to put your question in you can join us live on YouTube and put your question in the chat and here we go 610 610 what's your name and where are you calling from I'm doing good thank you so much Sonya I'm sorry Sonya how can I help you today well back conscious decision based on that but I don't know if you remember but I had calling about my partner eight years that she did on me mm-hmm in September mm-hmm and you know I was dealing with it at the moment and I know she has I guess she reached out for my birthday she sent me a letter a little package and then some text the last text was like you know you're not talking to me and I hate that and it does not like you and I'm not responding so it's just like that but in that process I've been doing things and I am in the process of lifting my home or selling and my goal is to move down to Florida you look at that go ahead yeah I'm doing boxes as we speak to get rid of some of her stuff with that I'm going to be cutting it to a storage and then contact her to come and collect it because that's really bothering me that she stuff up here but anyways my question is how do you see all that whole process going because I'm kind of prepping my home and target sometime in June to listed how you see me I should just go in with a whole sale process and again the price I want and what do you anything you're picking up a little that would be very very helpful for me okay so a couple things the first thing about the home it's gonna list it's gonna sell it's gonna go very quickly it may even it's gonna do very well on the market I'm gonna leave it at that you're going to find a place make sure make sure you know the biggest the bigger thing the listing the property and the selling it it's it's it's gonna do well but the bigger thing I'm hearing for you is make sure you know exactly where you want to be in Florida and make sure you know the like what the housing market is there if you plan on buying and or renting so I'm gonna be very close to family I'm gonna rent for maybe six months or so take my time not rush it and then buy I'm not rushing any purchase I want to read the smallest place as possible okay and I feel like here's what I feel like for you and I'm gonna skip ahead and I'm gonna tell you once you get to Florida it's gonna be a game a changer for you you're gonna do really well in Florida and it's almost like I want to say you get a do-over or you get to read you know read restart is the word they're using and you're gonna have a lot of fun there you're gonna have a lot of fun but you know keep it keep it sensible is what I mean I don't know why you don't seem like the person who goes off the heavy end but but sometimes when we get around certain family members we can be a little cha cha cha but anyway what I'm hearing is you're gonna you're gonna do well you're gonna enjoy it you're gonna have a lot of fun and when you get there make sure you hit the ground running also and if you do see something you like be a little bit aggressive but don't go over budget on it okay that's what I'm hearing for that as far as your ex and putting things in storage I would see if there's a better how can I say this I understand you're a very good person and that's the way that you want to do it and that's a really good way to do it without having communication I love that you need to make sure it's for one month and one month only and you don't incur any other cost than that and it's not your responsibility after a month and don't feel badly about anything after that okay sweetie yeah that was my plan I was gonna do two months but I'm like why should I have to pay administrative fee all the labor to pack it in to make the trips and move it and then I have to buy a catalog so I'm paying all that I don't want any money back from her I don't even want to talk to her yeah just leave me alone yeah absolutely keep it like that because it's going to be very anything you know anything that you give or do is a hook that will she all think is an opportunity to come back so keep it no communication you're doing all the right things I love that you're making the move it's gonna bring it's gonna like what I see is it's gonna center you and empower you this move is okay love right do you see me getting a bit above my asking press because the house is a top notch state shape and I spent a lot of money in upgrades yeah what I'm getting is it's gonna do very well on the market meaning I don't know what your asking price is gonna be but I'm hearing it's going to do very well on the market okay sweetie okay hopefully I'll get my asking price or a little above I think I'll let you know my asking prices is 425 that's my I think you're gonna get more but the the more you want the I think you're gonna get a little more than what you're asking that's what I'm hearing right now okay love okay thank you so much you are so welcome have an amazing rest of the day and thank you so much for calling in I'm gonna go to a question on on YouTube and here we go J.A. I'm wondering if there's any messages for me or advice J.A. can you do me a favor and again just make it an exact question about an exact thing because people don't always love it when I just you out advice for them I know sometimes people say oh just tell me anything they want to say and then you know people get a little bit offended by that so while I'm on the show for it to be the most efficient for the callers and to answer the most questions for everybody just an exact question about life love career finances whatever it is and or a loved one on the other side and that's the best way and I know not everybody likes that but that's just the way spirit works with me while I'm doing the show okay I am who was the next caller 610 I think it's 610 610 what's your name and where are you calling from okay thank you Sonya okay I'm now I'm gonna go to the next caller who is sorry about that Sonya 352 352 what's your name and where are you calling from Matthew how are you today I'm doing good Matthew how can I help you tonight yes I want to talk about free will yeah you know animals so humans have free will which means we can make choices animals to a certain extent their free will comes in this is what I'm getting I've never I love this question animals also have free will so domesticated animals or animals that we keep in our homes it would seem like they don't have as free of will but prior to coming in they we and they have made an agreement to pick each other and what's going to happen and so when they come in and they are in our lives they've already made that choice their free will choice to be in our homes and in our lives and oh my gosh I have the most goosebumps right here and then they also can have free will while they're with you of you know how they behave just like a child does and that's and how much they learn or progress just like kind of like a child so yes animals also have free will not animals out in the wild they have what we would think is more free will because they're out there and like they can go any place and do anything but it's much like humans where animals follow their flocks or their groups and they most of the time wherever they start is kind of the area they stay and they stay within their like animal tribes also like a cyclical family unit and they have those choices so if you look at like a lion family or a gorilla family in the wild how they kind of interact is the same way in some sense don't come after me folks I'm doing the best I can with the visions I'm getting and the way it's coming through is kind of like a family dynamic for humans where they may go through situations but it's not like an animal in the wild like a lion is gonna leave and head off to Italy let's just say or a different part without its tribe it'll stay within that tribe and have its free will within that family tribe unit so Matthew I always love and the same thing like they're showing me like for for dolphins like and ocean creatures again you know you have your schools of fish and they all have their they can have free will to go off but they probably wouldn't because they want to stay where there's groups of numbers and it's such a crazy great question Matthew thank you so much for that I love that I love oh of course anytime Matthew anytime absolutely absolutely anytime okay thank you bye bye you have a great day Matthew thank you so much for calling in I'm I'm gonna go to I'm gonna go to the next question scrolling down a little bit thank you just wondering if there is any messages for me okay so we have a lot of people in the chat just wanting any messages again I love giving messages it's a little easier if you guys would just give me an exact question because it that question when I asked that question it also gives me permission to get into your energy so I know Kavita and J.A. both are asking can you just give me a general message so I'm gonna ask you guys to please put it in the form like an exact question just so at least I have something to start with and go from there hi Tony do you see Katie coming back to me and agreeing to work together to host my classes even though they are a bit controversial is Katie gonna go back and work with her on the classes no I feel like if you okay so I'm gonna put the the question on the screen for everybody I feel like if you want her to come back you're going to have to change a few things but she's also going through something personally she has something personal going on in her life and that is part of it but I feel like she feels like she she's also the statement that I would get and this isn't a good or bad descriptor for her she's a bit particular and she likes things to be in the way she likes them to be I'm not gonna say she's very controlling but if she can't do certain things in her way for the program classes events whatever it is then she feels like maybe she doesn't want to be a part of it so I would say start looking for someone else who is more in alignment with your vision and with your goals and is in agreement with your classes feels like yeah this is really needed let's do this and that will be a better fit because they'll be more excited about working with you and getting everything put together okay that is what I have for you first name last name I hope that is helpful okay thank you Jess for that compliment I think the next person is going to be I am gonna go to I can't remember what the last number was but I'm gonna hope I'm gonna go to five there we go five one six I think that's five one six what's your name and where you're calling from hey Kavita how are you I'm good how are you excellent hey Vita how can I help you today okay um I was wondering I'm working on some projects I just started and I'm doing books like photography books and a cookbook what do you see happening with these projects I want to sell them on Amazon yeah I feel like you know the first thing I hear is good and better I don't know which one is good and which one is better but I feel like they're both going to go over I do feel like you're going to have to do a ton of promoting of them I do feel like though it's gonna be so worth it it's gonna be really worth it just personally for yourself it's gonna be worth it so I'm hearing full steam ahead get this project going get it up and running those are the statements that we would give you for this project and we do feel like that don't be be unabashedly unabashedly like shameless in it meaning really I think what that means is really put it out there Kavita don't be okay just like talk about it talk about it talk about it okay love okay great thank you you are so welcome sweetie I hope that was helpful for you yes thanks you are welcome okay I'm going to go to the next question in the chat and hey Heather how are you happy Wednesday so awesome to see you sorry I'm only repeating because the chat moves from my guides okay J.A. listen I'm going to do the best I can that's not an exact question I don't like answering like if you can give me anything questions because you don't always get what you like I like to answer on a specific topic that's the way Spirit asks me to work that's what I try to do is so but since you posted this again I will try instead of skipping over you again so the first thing they're saying is don't take things personally the next thing that they're saying is you have to you have to work more to move in the direction you want don't settle for what is in front of you put yourself into a challenge mode and don't accept peanuts or smaller make sure that you are like putting they're using the statement of the pedal to the metal like they're showing me a runner in a race with the hands on the ground and the one foot back getting ready to kick off and they're saying to make sure like again hit the ground like hit the ground running get it going don't put it off so you know I want to ask you a question J.A. is there some venture or something you're thinking of whether it's your own business or a project or something with whomever you're with that you're something you're promoting I hear the word promoting or you're wanting to promote so what I'm hearing is whatever it is for you freaking take off with it I mean if it if it's if it's a new business or whatever you know make sure you're financially stable don't quit your day job and balance them make them work I would never give that advice to anybody because real world real bills but whatever it is once you put your energy into it and you go whatever it is if you've been thinking about this or you've just started it put put your energy into it and have the knowing it's going to go where you want it to go J.A. I hope that is so helpful for you and that that did answer the message for you and I hope it makes that most most of all I hope it it makes sense for you I really really hope it makes sense for you okay um 203 203 what's your name and where are you calling from hi this is Michelle calling from Georgia hey Michelle how can I help you today hey um I guess always the top priority is I you know I'm still looking for a job and I'm just like getting anywhere um Michelle what this what area of work are you wanting to get I'm an engineer so I love that you know what's crazy um oh I have to think of where it was Delta okay seriously I just saw this today Delta Airlines is hiring like they have if you go to Delta hire dot com or high careers at Delta dot com whatever it is they are hiring for all different engineers I mean and it's all remote it's it's all remote it's not show up but Delta has gates everywhere so I would seriously look into that I would seriously look into that um that's so crazy because I wasn't even gonna watch watch this thing and then it went in and it was saying engineer engineer engineer and there were different kinds of engineers all different types of engineers but they were like engineer engineer engineer engineer and the pay was a good so I would say look into that but I'm hearing in in a month's time you are going to have something in front of you whatever that means for you in a month's time you are going to have something in front of you okay look okay love excellent excellent thank you so much thank you you are so welcome thank you so much for calling in J.A. please let me know if that answer helped you let's see who's this and what do they want um Holly may I have a message from my mom Lindsay please and thank you absolutely Holly the first thing that she's saying is the struggle is over the struggle is over well at least for her she felt in life a lot like she was the vision that I am seeing is like her climbing a mountain and when she would think she was close to the top like she would only be halfway like the mountain would get bigger like through life it wasn't always the easiest life for her or there was something in life that she struggled with throughout a lot of her life and she's saying the struggle is over the other thing that she is saying is that she I hear the words happy and grateful happy and grateful whatever that means happy and grateful and that there are some things coming in for you and I see gold coins I see some gold coins and I see them you know usually I see them above a person coming down but they're off a little bit from you like you would really have to hold out your hand to catch them but they're meant for you but they're right now they're sitting they're coming in here but they're going to come to you I don't know if you understand what that means or why they're coming in here and then coming to you but that's the way I'm seeing them I feel like these gold coins are meant for you and they're going to come to you this could be and I'm just giving examples this doesn't mean this is the way it is like money's coming in and it's sitting someplace else and then somebody's going to disperse it to you or that perhaps you have a job like where you get for example you get commissions and they sit and then they get released to you after everything is finalized so I'm also here like when it comes like this and then comes to you it's not like a direct so whatever that means for you that's where it is and then also that you are going to have some fun oh my gosh June and July should be so much fun for you you should be out and about and like I see like a lot of possibly dancing I sing like I dance and I dance like I sing leave me alone like like what is this little corny dance I'm doing I think it's supposed to be like some kind of Latin dance which I cannot do any sort of Latin dance oh my gosh okay so that is what I'm getting for you Holly I hope even if it's not a Latin dance it's like you're gonna be June and July as long as you're out and about accepted accept invitations and to have fun with it and that's what I'm getting for you love that is what I'm getting for you I think I think 415 is the next caller let's let's see 415 what's your name and where are you calling from Jessica I'm calling from Pennsylvania I can can you yes how can I help you love thank you I'm a couple days ago and she was talking to me to me about coming into this group to speak to them and she wasn't sure if they were gonna be open to me coming in or not but I'm wondering if you're picking up anything about that like are these people gonna be interested in having me come in to speak yes they will what I'm hearing for you I'm just hearing absolutely they're going to be interested the topic will be intriguing don't doubt yourself don't doubt your don't doubt your content just go in like you own it okay don't like what I love that cuz yeah I was yeah what I'm really hearing is don't second guess yourself and don't second guess your content okay yeah you're so right with that cuz that's exactly what came up because she was talking to me about a certain topic and I was like getting a little bit nervous and doing the doubt thing it's an old pattern and also they'll pay me for it because I told her I wanted to get paid for it I mean obviously I'm not gonna go do that for free right so they're gonna be open to paying yes they will okay just wait just you know what just no if they approach if they if they're talking to you about it they want you and it will turn out well and people respect what they pay for they don't always respect what's free so it's good that you're gonna get paid for it okay love oh thank you oh please I hope this really does work keep it stay positive about it okay me excellent thank you so much I hope this was helpful yes thank you Tony I always appreciate your your responses thank you you are so welcome I have an amazingness of the night you know what you guys I just like scroll down to see some to see if J.A. responded and J.A. did thank you so much and said it all made sense and I love that thank you J.A. and there are so many questions it overwhelmed me for a second I can't even scroll to see how many colors there are but I'm gonna get through as many as I can so please be patient I I know I don't always get to get to I don't always get to get to every question but or caller but I am gonna try remember the call-in numbers 845-277-9131 and if you do have a question you must push the one button on your keypad so that I know you have you would have that you have a question otherwise I think you're just listening in okay would love a message from my Aunt Joe if you if drawn to me okay I take the questions in order as I can I might lose my place and forgive me if I do okay Aunt Joe for Jennifer Jennifer Jennifer sorry the first thing she says is you were one of her favorites she actually says you were you were her favorite you two were quite similar I'm getting there were some similarities beef between the two of you and I'm actually hearing she doesn't mean this in a negative way but you could have been her daughter not actually but she's just saying you could have been hurt like she I don't know if she means like the way the two of you acted was so similar or your characteristics were so similar but she definitely loved you enough that you could have been her daughter she's also saying don't she's singing that song don't cry for me Argentina or that song don't she's not singing it but that song is coming in and she I get the feeling she was her energy is so light and verbose or by vivacious as she could have at times like she liked to joke and like be really larger than life or I just get that essence from her and I get that she really wanted you to stand I'm gonna say this two different ways stand on your own or stand on what you wanted in life and not back down to go for what you wanted I feel like she wanted you to be very strong willed and not cave to what other people might have wanted if this makes felt sense Jennifer Jennifer I'm sorry I'm saying that I can be such a little goofball sometimes please let me know I hope that message and of course and of course she loves you and of course of course she loves you okay I'm gonna go to I hope I did not do nine five four nine five four what's your name and where are you calling from Mary calling from Florida here you again yeah go ahead having a lot of in a domestic situation and I'm just wondering if you see any resolution or things straightening out in any way you know I you know Mary I'm hearing a song and I'm gonna I'm gonna try to do the song quickly I think it's I want to say Fleetwood Mac but I could be wrong lover players only love you when they're playing thunder only happens oh that was horrible when it's raining players only love you when they're playing for some reason that song will summarize your situation what I'm hearing is it's a standoff and either someone's got a cave but it doesn't get both of you are not in a put that if there's not I don't know if it's both but there's not a position for a for someone to cave I think there's like a some stubbornness going on but also a financial situation that will not let this whatever this is like a excuse my my voice this is almost like a damned if I do damned if I don't damned if I will damned if I won't situation where it seems as though you don't have choices and your boat you you're just you're waiting for the other to cave does that make sense Mary the other person to like cave or go or something like that is that is that somewhat accurate there's a financial issue involves because whoever leaves or if both leaves there's okay neither one has an answer to if they if they decide to take the high road okay it sounds good but where are you gonna go right and so I think I is having mental problems and he refuses to get help and it seems to be escalating critical issues where right now I can't make a move either way okay Mary Mary kind of Mary I'm gonna I I only have like a minute left in the show and I really want to answer your question so I'm gonna do my best but I have to first of all it seems like your partner could be I wasn't lying Mary I was not lying it seems like your partner what I'm sensing could be some sundowners or dementia or whatever coming in that's not an excuse one of the things I would do well there's so much and it's so difficult is even though you can't move just be out of the home walking around doing what you can as much as you can I don't feel like what I feel like and it's it's really difficult to rush this message but I feel like if one of you leave it's going to either be to like assisted living or something like that so be patient hold on tight spend as much time out of the home as possible and allow yourself to call in help if he will not go someplace to get checked you can call in social workers or home health care workers or call his doctor and see if somebody can't come and in the evening when he's probably more you know and have them check on that and everybody I'm sick oh my gosh that just gives me so much anxiety I'm so sorry if I did not get to your call or your question I will for sure be back Monday at noon but I'm gonna try to do a show this weekend I love you all so much have a very amazing day